Catfish is the new term for getting fooled online by someone pretending to be someone they are not, thanks to the popular TV show “Catfish”. Basically, someone hijacks random photos of a good-looking individual and pretends to be that person. Guys generally grab a shirtless six-pack model and girls use attractive, but yet believable females. The photo is just the beginning. People create an entire life story for these fake profiles. They strike up fake friendships online, create multiple accounts (nairanland,twitter, facebook,bbm,badoo etc.) for their false identity, and some go as far as getting into relationships for years with people.[b][/b]
With more and more people socializing and connecting online the greater the risk of getting Catfished. Lucky for you I have put together a fool-proof plan on how not to get Catfished.

1. If It Sounds Too Good To be True, It Probably Is :-

Most normal guys do not use shirtless photos showing off their six-pack for their profile photo. Let’s be honest, not many guys have six-pack abs. It is a little tougher for guys to pick up on the photo clues since girls do tend to post more “cute n nude” self-photos.

2. Video Chat :-

If the other person isn’t willing to video chat it should be a huge red flag. Anyone can find a batch of photos of the same person, but if they aren’t willing to hop on a program like Skype and video chat in real time, you have a reason to be suspicious.

3. Become a Stalker :-

Yees o google search has an awesome feature that will search the entire internet looking for any and all matches of the photo you upload. Chances are if you’re getting Catfished, your Catfisher has stolen the photos from someone else on the internet..e.g treysongz,jason momoh (drogo in game of thrones)

4. Don’t Wait to Meet

Some of these relationships have lasted years before the truth is uncovered. Do not waste years talking with someone who isn’t real. Insist that you meet early on in the relationship. If the other person fumbles around and comes up with every excuse in the book, your red flag should be raising.[b][/b]

5. Scope Out Their Activity Online :-

Do they ever post new photos online? Pictures with family? Friends? On Vacation? Or do they just stick to their same photo album filled with shirtless six-pack photos or model-like headshots? Run baby run ! Pay attention to their updates and how they interact with others. You can generally get a good feel of how genuine someone is by their interactions with others.

6. . Profiles with low amounts of friends/followers :-

While some people don’t have thousands of twitter followers, most people have more than 10. If their profile or profiles on various social media accounts have very low friends and followers, this is a red flag. It doesn’t take much to connect your e-mail account with Twitter or Facebook and find 100+ people to connect with. These people can’t do that because they need to make fake friends or else their cover will be blown...

7. LOVE Is Not In The Air.:-

If the person you are conversing with starts to tell you how much they love you, that they can’t live without you, or that you two are soul mates AND they have never met you in person, RUN for the hills.

8. 10. Don’t Get Involved With Random People On The Internet :-

Save yourself the trouble and just don’t get involved with random people on the internet. If you don’t have any mutual friends, any sort of group that connects the two of you (work, church, school, local organization), or some sort of event you both were at but didn’t meet, be very cautious....!!!!

You welcome cutie

yme1: what else am i suppose to say than thank him for making me a woman

*lowers shade* brov, it doesn't work dat way..u gaz give,c'mon don't be greedy naija ladies love fucking for money and material objects. Sex gets her things in life that make her feel important- malaysian weave and Jimmy Choo heels. She's the fraternal twin of the Pay My Bills Hoe....so give her the money ! Why ? Cos its a back pass to dat sexy ass...

Lmaoooo bros I hail ooo

youmour: cant stand girls with aliases e.g barbie,nawti,creamy,bish

cant stand girls that call their fellow GF's B1tches or ho's etc

not into girls that crush on male celebs

not into girls that listen to crappy naija songs or listens to Nsync,westlife,celine dion

not into religious heads

not into girls that dont have a mind of her own

hate self conscious girls

hate girls that love home videos

hate a girl without a sense of humor

take the celibate girls far away from me (85% of dem are giving it to the next brother on a lowkey"

"takes a deep breathe"

sucks being single tho

Bite :- Excitement is good, buh when u bite during sex haba babe thats not cool so pls stop..Some ladies just do not know how to keep their teeth off certain sensitive areas..

Stop talking :- Conversations are good. But if she brings work or school conversation to bed, God save you.

Is it in :- Can anything be more humiliating than your woman asking you, "is it in"? I mean who does dat...? This definitely beats 'I Love You' on the list of three words men dread to hear from their ladies

Soo uhh naija ladies abeg take note n pls help a brother out stop doing this things its not cool...[color=#990000][/color]

[color=#990000][/color]And please I beg you never ever lie about your about ur income if you broke you broke she"ll either stay with you or flee...

Relationship Tips: Never Lie About These 9 Things!

Ladies, do you really think telling your significant other a little white lie can't hurt? Wrong! Here are the tall tales that could cost you true love. Are you dating responsibly? Relationship Tips: Never Lie About These 9 Things!

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Keeping It Real Counts! When interacting with the opposite sex, communication is everything. Simply put, authenticity is everything. It's not always easy to be transparent when you're getting to know each other, but it's 100 percent necessary. Keeping things honest will help you avoid leading Mr. Wrong or turning Mr. Right off. Be yourself and be real. Little white lies will get you nowhere, especially in these 10 categories.

Your Birthday. Normally, the rule is: You never ask a woman her age. However, when it comes to dating, this rule must be broken. Don't lie about your age. If he's turned off, at least you will know where you both stand immediately. Lying about your age will instantly make you seem insecure, especially if you're older. Keep it real, ladies!

Your Number. Discussing your sexual history is always tricky, but it's unavoidable if things between you are becoming serious. Not all women will be in agreement here, but, when it does come up, try to be open and honest about it. If he asks how many people you've slept with before him, don't give him the "safe" number. Give him the real one. If he can't handle your answer, that's on him — not you. He should've taken heed when his mother told him to never ask a woman a question you don't want the answer to.

Your Cooking Abilities. Nothing's more disappointing for a man than to be promised a "life changing" home-cooked meal only to be served a plate full of watery rice. So you don't know your way around a kitchen, that's fine. It doesn't make you less of a woman. Tell the truth and give him the chance to impress you with his skills.

Your Marriage Goals. Most women assume that talking about marriage will scare a man off, but that's false. The man that's right for you will want to know where you really stand — especially if he's on a different path. There is a way to be open about where you desire to be in the future in terms of your relationship without putting too much pressure on the present situation. Saying you don't want to be married when you clearly do will send him running for the hills.

Your Real Thoughts On His Inner Circle. If you're not "cool" with his inner circle, you shouldn't pretend to be. While you should keep an open mind when getting to know them, it's imperative that you find a way to be open with him about your reservations instead of forcing yourself to hang out with people you just don't care for.

How Cool You Are With Him Having "Female Friends". Not every woman will be comfortable with her man's best friend forever being a female. This is something you must be honest with yourself and him about up front. The issues you overlook in the beginning can potentially become romantic barriers later on down the line. Don't tell him you're "cool with it" when you're not. He'll see right through this one fast.

The Ex-Factor. If your ex is still in the picture, say so. It's just as important not to hide a connection to an ex, as it is for him to reveal any women in his life. As long as you both keep it real in this department, there will be no unwanted surprises.

Your Bedroom Activities. Don't ever tell a man he's the best you've ever had unless it's the actual truth. You may want to feed his ego, but it won't work that way if you're lying. If you tell him he's the best then he has no room to improve. Compliment him, but don't overdo it. He'll appreciate it the realness.

The "Real" You. Additions and enhancements are cool, but at some point the man you're dating should be able to meet the real you. Certain outfits may require some "help". Don't let padded bras, body shapers and hair weaves mask the real you. That's who he is most interested in!

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Assssin this babe show me pepper I nearly change location....

CoachDX:
LOL. This one got me cracked up. You scared of a lady's bite?

N Ladies please don't seek revenge !

Hello ! I'm tefo n I'm new here on nairaland I"ll love to make new friends male or female...it doesn't matter feel free hit me up 26DC1EA0

[color=#990000][/color]I think he has been friendzoned n being in the friend zone is like being in the front row at an awesome concert.

Except you're deaf.

Why is it that most men can't seem to get what they want with women? How come so many men can't get a girl ? This is why.

1.You give up on a girl after a single rejection.

2.You never push or pursue the things you wanted.

3.You never go out on a limb and ask for stuff in fear of you being turn down.
Brov if shez not into you disappear I mean no phone calls, no bbm just do something meaning ful with yyour time...hangout with friends n meet new girls, [color=#990000][/color]real life girls not online girls n yeah u good to go !

[color=#990000][/color]Fam the longer a man takes to move things forward with a woman, the less she's going to tell herself she likes him.so pls follow this step

Drop her, as in cut her off almost completely. Be gracious about it, and don't tell her you're dropping her, just… disappear meaning no bbm, no phone calls, no emails just chase other girls act like she doesn't exist... You may find she becomes so intrigued that she begins chasing after you, or you may find that she falls off your radar altogether. Either way, it's good for you.,because it's not a worthwhile use of ur time.

Yours sincerely
Mr Tefo

Fam ! You sound very insecure n needy...you need to step up your game n be the man in this relationship be in control..stop being mr nice guy talk to her n let her know how u feel ! Lool to be real with you I think its a great thing shez gettin lots of attention that should make you feel proud not scared !


Mr Bitches

[color=#990000][/color] uuh thank God for this thread cos every slim (mal nourished) lady in naija now thinks shez a model ! Buh to be sincere I"ll go with a chubby lady all day erryday although I'm skinny buh I love my ladies big I need to feel that sh*t n be like O lord have mercy ! So uhh if yuh know you are plump n chubby hit me up 26DC1EA0

I think she grew up in a home where such tthings happen growing up its like a normal thing ! Buh now I think its a requirement if you can't beat her she won't marry you ! *close eyes* pls let's pray for this pshycologically deraged lady !

Lool exactly I'm curious cos beating pass beating !

ShirelleBaby: YOU PEOPLE SHOULD ASK THE KIND OF BEAT FIRST!!