Relationships are bound to have issues, it is very normal. You are not a robot, most definitely your partner is not a robot too.


Arguments would set in, and to me it is healthy, because if it doesn't set in how would you guys know your differences or even know what irritates or gladdens your partners mind.

When you have started noticing these signs I am about to list then there's something wrong.

1. THEY ONLY REACH OUT TO YOU WHEN IT IS BENEFICIAL:- Like it or not, your current bf or gf might be using you. No gender is pacified we are human and we can be tricky.. When you notice she calls you only for financial purposes know that you are her ATM. And if he calls you for sexual purposes then you're an appetizer to him.

Note that when they do that every time it is a red flag.

2. MANIPULATION:- I seriously think of how some manipulators sleep at night. For example your gf will cheat on you, you'll find out, react about it, then this babe will twist your brain and finger it to the extent that you'll start begging her, person wey cheat o.. Please when someone does a wrong thing, never apologize, it is a TOXIC trait stop it

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bobbybrown007:
There is a part in the bible,that says you can marry from a 5th generation, dnt cum here and mock me, just browse it out to confirm.

Hmmmm... The thing now is, this girl in question has already changed her mind.. U know I told her to stop but I didn't want to force her until she started telling me biblical stuffs like this.. I felt lemme just ask here because peeps make some mistakes they don't know is a sin and they do it repeatedly

Celestial777:




I think they can marry once itd past five generation's. Come to think of it ..if you start tracing uour family tree down down you wil see that yiu are somehow related to the people around u. I mean your friends...may be 130 generations ago.

Hmmmmm... Seriously? I never saw it that way o... I believe family is family, friends are friends

Meteng:
You bad gan o!

Skmoda360:

She should stop....capiche!!!

I'm telling u oh... People even go through this. There's this lady that kept sleeping with her brother from another father. Hmm... People didn't know until she got pregnant.. So embarrassing

SimDan95:
wen u are through lieing on ur innocent friend you'll come out straight and confess u are d one.



Anyway don't let anyone judge u being with ur cousin ain't bad though Nigeria tradition frowns on it.

Uncle I'm married.. I'm talking about a friend. And I write articles so if you at least went through the comment section or my profile you'll see what I'm talking about.. You already made your point that's all I asked instead of pointing accusing fingers, Some Nigerians ehn. They can conclude and just think odd.

kestine:
How time flies... Back den in bible incest was nothing it was even encourage and God was not angry with it... But now it's a sin and taboo...

Anyway there are some cultures in Nigeria who give out their wives or daughters to long time visitors e.g cousins,friends, relations etc to warm their bed all true their stay.

Abi, you understand?

goooze:
Are we not all from Adam and Eve? So we are all related after all. This will guide your friend in taking a decision it now depends if his/her conscience allows.

Hmmmmmm..

Xtopherprince:


Actually his step cousin is not related to him by blood...... So it's quite different from what your friend wants to indulge in.

Oh... Okay... But the ties though, it's made it twisted and wrong

Obakoolex:


Beautiful tall ebony with great smiles...we met for the first time last year and since then developed a bond... we're both single parents so we have lot to chat about, now the chemistry is getting stronger btw us but am just so scared cos it will be hard to stop once we started

Exactly why you should stop it

Okay.. I dont want to close down this comment section or insult anyone. It's a matter of yes and no.. And leave.. Don't point accusing fingers.. Chai.. Nigerians ehnn, any small question like this they will be directing it and be concluding and be insultive. I thought we've grown past this stage. Some people are doing far worse things they think it's normal because they don't know if it's right or wrong, why some people know but they don't care.. I'm not going to reply any dumb person, ill just report your comment and move on.. Sho ti ye.. Let's be guided

jasman1:
You’re obviously looking for approval here, nothing can change your evil mind. I noticed your reaction from some comments that seem to support you. Go ahead and good luck

.. So I should not ask questions that will help as a review and research about.. I'm not a hater, everyone has a mind of their own, you say your mind then Bleep off to where it's comfortable for you. So because some people are supporting it, I should kill them and set them ablaze. Please everyone has the freedom to say their minds.. Why don't u go meet the people that said their minds and argue with them. You don't agree, simple. I dont agree too.. But I have the know the percent of the people that agrees and know their reasons behind it. I can't be asking a question and insulting my commentators for no absolute reason, I asked the question, I'm helping a friend and ignorant people out there that don't know who to ask or voice out to.. But once they read they understand more. Please let people speak and say thier mind.

PabloAndreas:

yeah right

I write a lot of articles with topics worse than this and I go to all platforms I get traffic from to do a little research before I say my mind. Please don't tag me a bad person because I write and ask questions.

Obakoolex:


I actually have a distant cousin I can't get out of my head too

Wow... Tell me about it

Pearl05:



Hunty no vex,that's my honest answer. Tell your friend to ask his or her parents approval, once given then it's fine.

Daz all

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2rez:
Now it is called incest or whatever whereas products of incest yapa for bible like kilode. Smh!

Hmmmmm

Pearl05:



You looking for people to back you up to commit incest. Just ask your mum & dad if they give their approval then go ahead.

If you're not blind you'll see I wrote incest, I just asked a question for a friend abeg.. Please..

[quote author=Obakoolex post=82156937]

OP is a girl but I actually believe she wants to bleep that her handsome cousin[/jquote]

Chai... Please I just asked a question

Thinkdiffway:
Your friend is addicted of having sex with wrong people because that act is an addiction and such wrong secrete relationship is always interesting, distance your guy from such friends.

Hmmmmmm... True

Commander008:
as a Muslim u have every right to get married even to your 1st cousin

Really?? Is that how it works

PabloAndreas:
OP wants to Bleep his cousin so he wants to know if its okay or normal...my broda IT IS NOT

Lol... I'm a girl. And it's a friend not me.. �

Jay5mie:
I did that, though with my step cousin...even Abraham married Sarah his sister

Wow.. That's really loud... Thanks for being real

Cashmanbreeze:


People with traceable lineage marry all the time.
I think once it has passed three or four generations, the coast is clear

Hmmmm...

izzou:


Must they have sex?

I tire o

WizBLANCE:
Really really really far

If you like stretch the far till it reaches Adam and Eve

Just remember you are not from kenya.

�.. I dig

I forgot nairaland still has people with empty brain box, I just asked a question for a friend, no insults. This forum is here to ask and talk about things as odd as it seems just say yes or no. Stop insulting. Like if u don't insult will God cease your breath.. Abeg carry your seriousness to your family gathering.

Nooneonline:
These people above me keep making urselves look good on nairaland. Demon lurking and living inside him indeed. Me don do am

Chai... Really? I'm just asking for a friend.. Peeps no insults please

I don't really understand but a friend of mine is really attracted to her cousin but their ties are really distant. I need to know if she should stop or continue giving him attention. To me I feel it's incest, but they're not that close now.. It's really really distant. What do you all think to be sincere