austin55:
This is a nice piece, but you sound like the female receptionist in a place I worked years back. She gave me a long list of what a man should look like, I asked her can you please give me five responsibility of a woman, she couldn't name one. It shocks me that some women know the responsibility of a man but do not know their responsibility.

Not ever woman is like the female receptionist you met. Not every woman is dumb.. Women too have lots responsibilities in every aspect.

Sierusvirus:

Like I said, grow up.

Probably if you start by doing that first... Mr growth

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I laugh with thunder, it will fire you and your whole generation to come

carter009:
But I was only trying to tell you to take it easy dear, Repling everyone's post will make you angry they more,, thanks for they insult.

Lol... Carter 009, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have come at you like that... I'll be cautious next time, thanks for talking politely.

lukui:


very good opinion I am not taking this with anger in fact I am very happy you just reacted like this. that is because that is how you women think, you think with emotion while men think with logic, one and zero, true or false, on and off.
But lemme tell you as a guy what we guys face from women on the streets of everyday life are what we usually share or post with each other everyday right here on Nairaland. I as a person have a great deal and the utmost respect for women. but nowadays there are problems for a guy to easily approach a woman on the street, toast her truly with your heart and mind that you want to marry her and she will truly agree and consent and say yes. Instead she will manipulate you. demand for money, demand for luxury, buy me Gucci, buy me Ferrari, that is what the guys are facing now, that is the new devil in town.
That is the new order of the day and it is very bad. some authors call it the pvssy cartel and I don't blame them. so that is a very big problem in our society.
If we can go back to olden days where our fore fathers and parents love one another without list or demanding for money to the extent of "do you want to kill me?" extent
They had true love, but nowadays, it is becoming more and impossible to marry women anymore and that is why prostitution and oloshoism is now viral and widespread
Because to an average guy, he will think it is cheaper for him to pay a prostitute 3k or 4k for a night and be pleased whereas his girlfriend will be demanding 50k or or 100k from him for just plaiting her hair not to talk of fixing her nails.
So that is what the guys are facing so next time before you start to pour your emotions, have some sympathy or compassion for we the guys too on the streets
That is the reality of modern day. that is what we are passing through
Note I don't hate women. I am not close minded person, you can correct me if I am wrong. I have loved once before and she has broken my heart, its still didn't mean I won't love again.
But we are just saying the reality of our modern society. it is the truth whether we like it or not
I like your write up, you are dope! Keep it up!
One love Nairaland!
I love you guys!!
Happy Sunday!

Thanks dear.. I appreciate you

People don't outrightly have to be cynical, rude or negative. You read, scroll away, comment politely so I understand my errors and correct them.. But then some people just started to say odd things, that was why I replied in the same manner. It's really boring so boring..

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I hope you use your brain too.. Because for your small mind now, you sounded like you just did something sensible.. That was y I first ignored you.. I don't want to waste my data any further

bigmic111:
temmywrites,

you read my earlier mention, why didn't you reply it.

you insulted me on a public forum for no good reason, just because I pointed out some errors.

hope you understand now that I read your post correctly and I'm not attacking you personally.

Plus I didn't reply coz I got tired and bored.

ImaIma1:


That's why it's good to mix up with people, interact and be informed and know what's up. Some would just keep to themselves.

I remember one babe during youth service that got caught up with one very notorious corper and she was raped. He was a known dog and she was a naive introvert. I used to think then that if only she mixed up with people, she would have been warned.

Thank you dear... More grease to your elbows, your thoughts are very reasonable.. It's really good to mix and understand right from left

bigmic111:
temmywrites,

you read my earlier mention, why didn't you reply it.

you insulted me on a public forum for no good reason, just because I pointed out some errors.

hope you understand now that I read your post correctly and I'm not attacking you personally.

Thank you sir.

It is so frustrating and annoying when you give your all in all to someone who keeps hurting you repeatedly, treating you like you don't exist, treating you like you are not worth a dime.

Most times I tell people, get to know this person well before you start catching feelings. After some days or months of the spree of romantic emotions, it seems that person doesn't care again, the person becomes bored and less interested in anything that concerns you.

And because of the way you carry this emotion, you are blinded to see the truth. That's when we start giving ourselves fake reasons in our head, when we truly know what they actual truth is.

"she's not replying my messages again, this is the sixth time, I sent her tfare to come see me, and I really love this girl, maybe she's busy".

Or " he slapped me yesterday and pushed me away like a dirty ball" but I didn't do anything, probably he was in a bad mood"

"will you believe that she stole my money yesterday?" maybe she forgot to tell me.

"I was with him yesterday, while my head was on his chest, he called another lady and was begging her profusely to come meet him and he's sorry for acting stupid" I'm sure she's just a friend.

Please and please, when a woman loves and respects you, she will never do anything out of disrespect.
When a man respects you, he will always be willing to make you know you are the only one, he will never give you a benefit of doubt.

I'm just tired of you collecting slap and beating before marriage and you use your two legs and enter into marriage and you think you won't be beaten everytime for no absolute reason.

She constantly cheats on you but because she's always apologetic and she comes back to you, you think she will change?

The first way of being in charge of your life is to be very very stingy with your feelings. When you notice someone hurting you repeatedly just leave. You are not an emotional handbag.. I know it's hard but when you do that... Remove yourself from a toxic relationship.

Everyone has a story to say but you can change your story. It's better to be lonely and single ,than to be with someone that keeps trampling on your feelings everytime.

To read more articles about relationships click on this link http://www.temmywrites..com/

lukui:


slaymama, hoes, oloshos, nude girls, smelling pvssies, lazy tiny asses everywhere!!!

Lukui, I don't think you have a sister or any female in your family.. I don't think so

carter009:
This early morning.....

Fimile oh... You're just an hypocrite.. How would you not notice the harsh words said to me and just reason my reply alone.. Please oh... Just free me... Free me.. Free me... Ah ahnnn is this your post? I don't think I was talking to you oh... All these people feeling so important.. I never even knew they existed. Mchewwwe

Babacele:
it takes an irresponsible father to raise an irresponsible lady ,OP ....don't you think?

Thanks oh... Thank you oh

Mr virus... I come here again to attack you, so you can write about irresponsible women.. What ehnnn... Chai.. Hmmmm... Inside life. Can you see how everyone is throwing tomatoes and eggs at you, I still have two or three people that agrees with mine... But yours everyone is against you.. I laugh in a virus way... He he he he... I came to mock you oh... I came to mock you.. So don't even think I came to pity you.. I came to mock you

Sierusvirus:
Just wasted my time reading this rubbish.
OPs, you need to grow up.

Virus, Mr maturity... Please don't bring your virus into my post.. I can see you have a senseless personality...all of the guys here that actually sounded so rude and aggressive.. All of you have big issues and you all are misogynists... Come and beat me or report me.. Because I will continue to attack any fool that keeps acting like a simpleton.. Even virus had something to say... I guess, I was talking to you personally..

Obodo999:


Are you having your period? The manner you are barking like a dog on heat is so scary, chill!!!

Uncle obodo 419 oh sorry 999..
I'm sorry jare... When people act like scum especially someone like you I find it very irritating like your personality.. I wouldn't want to Bleep off my post... Because it's my post... Spongebob dumb pants. Humpty dumpty..

chinchonglee:

Haq haq haq haq!

U knw ntn at all! Y dont u ignore my post nd move on wit ur miserable life If u re aving family issues, nairaland is nt nd ever d best place to showcase it...

Fvck off dis cow!

I can see you're pained. It's my pleasure... Thanks so much..

bigmic111:
op I want to point out an error you made in your post.

please a MAN is a MAN by biology and nothing else.

terms like he isn't a MAN cause he isn't responsible or he is not a REAL MAN are all wrong.

the right term is BAD Man/Men or IRRESPONSIBLE Man/Men.

you are not questioning a man's biology are you?
I believe you are questioning his decision making and choices right?

same applies to woman/women. a woman doesn't need to prove a point to be a woman, as long as she is by biology.

Please take note and correct it in your write up

Only if I said man... I said "some" men... Dude... How many times do I have to repeat the same things over and over again... I didn't generalize things.. I said "some" men... Please please please... Go and read it again.. Click on the to continue reading and understand.. I wasn't talking to you.. I don't even know you and I didn't say I'm God. All I said is "some" men... Damn!

MariaLavina:
Thank you Temmy . You look good @ dp

Awww. That's the most beautiful thing I've heard today on this platform.. Thanks dear.. I really appreciate

ubunja:


Im telling you what men are biologically and you're trying to reason with it.

Next time press "Qoute" under my melssage.

Ah ahnnn. Uncle it's QUOTE not "Qoute"
I'm sure u were trying to make a point... Nonsense and ingredient.. I won't say more...

Marialavina
You are lovely

carter009:
Dogs, fool, irresponsible, one goat, alpha male, you said all this and you expect them to see you as someone that is serious,, continue.

I won't take back my words... Take it or leave it or think about anything u want to think about.. It's none of my business.

ImaIma1:


That's why a lady has to guard herself in case a guy is not who he appears to be. You can't completely let your guards down and later cry foul. Because even a seemingly responsible guy can turn irresponsible.

Sincerely speaking this is what I expected from peeps here, but u know its not all ladies that even falls into this trap.. But then the weaker ones or the ones that have not seen life, might not even understand what responsibility means or how to identify it... That's y we read books, move out and interact, watch movies to widen our thoughts and horizons to understand more about life.. It's simple as that..

MariaLavina:
Sometimes irresponsibility isn't written on the face, most times responsibility is proved by unforeseen circumstances. A person's ability to accept and overcome an unprepared for difficulty shows how responsible he or she is. Now how do one rightly judge another's responsibility? Only a man (human) knows himself (weakness and strength) deeply and he should tread accordingly.

I really like your sense of reasoning.. Well said

chinchonglee:

U shuld personally mentor the OP on how to reason.

She has a biased way of reasoning.

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Your name sounds like a Chinese fast food joint... Mchewwwwwwwww... Uncle chinko, sebi you were the one that went to report me,... You are so petty, i specifically said "some men", can't you read... I understand that you're cynical in nature, you can read, comment and move away but you decided to act like a child.. Did I mention your name in that article ehnnn. I'm still waiting for the punishment oh.. Can u imagine this guy? Who are you You have your account, I have mine... I'll read scroll away. Simple!! Please don't bring your negativity to any of my posts again. Nonsense and ingredient

skywalker240:
Your post reeks with one sidedness.

its two immature adults having unprotected sex, but your feministic sentiments wont let you view it that way.

cheers

If u have a good sense of reasoning you'll see that I'm not talking to all men... I said "some" men.. But how will u know, when your blood is hot.. When you're too quick to cast the stone.. I'm not even talking about pregnancy alone.. That's just a part. .if u clicked on the you'll see where everything ended... So please I don't think I made any mistakes because I didn't generalize things... I have a man and he's not irresponsible.. But we still have "some" in every culture of the world that's always running away from responsibilities...let me now explain something to you.. Some guys will look responsible, sound responsible and still not be responsible... I'm sure you have friends that you wouldn't want your sister to date and the one you'll want your sister to marry. .im not talking to all guys here.. Please let's be guided

Wow... I'm very very impressed by everyone's comments.. I'm appalled at some people's comments at the same I'm not surprised, I'm not going to prove any point because even if I should some dogs will still bark.. Irresponsibility starts with maturity.. None of you actually clicked on the to see where It ended, you all just started bringing out points from a myopic level, ranting about women and everything. Is that the point. Then one fool had the guts to report me that was why I didn't respond since yesterday.. But then I was just writing an article.. Innocent article for mature minds, not for anyone here, I don't know any of you personally, I don't know what you're facing or what you've gone through. All I'm just saying is as a man responsibility is very important Simple! Some people now took it personal to the extent of blocking me, what nonsense? One goat too was asking me if I'm responsible, can an irresponsible person own a blog?, can an irresponsible person stand up against some men that act like alpha male with nothing up in their brain.. Please look into details.. Read well... Digest.. That's when I'll understand.. Plus I wasn't talking to all men.. I said some men.. If u feel like I'm talking to you then u have a heck of a big problem.. I'm waiting for u to report me again.. Or better still argue with your key pads or come meet me in my house and beat me.. Crap heads

Truthsayer009
I respect you a lot, and I will.. If u check my posts one of them is for women. It's titled what men want in women. I'm not one sided, I'm just there saying the basic truth like your ID here.. Chop knuckle jare

Ubunja
So you don't care about being protective about it? Till u catch herpes or HIV ehnn

Charlesz
You are a rare gem.