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Why would you have unprotected sex with a woman that you are not married to? When you throw stones make sure you don't live in a glass house

Obodo 999
Next time before you comment on something you know absolutely nothing about, read it well.. I specifically said "some" not all. And my post is not stupid, you should learn how to talk to women and practice what u preach, why would you sound like that, you didn't even click on the link to see the whole article to know where it ended.. You just swallowed me before chewing me. So please before you do stupid things, think well. I shouldn't have replied you because it's a waste of data

You are a man, accept your responsibilities

Having so much experiences about men starting from my father, shows that not all men are emotionally mature, calling them a "man", is just a title.

Because some men do not know how to own up to their responsibilities.

While some are basic misogynists, they are always trying to prove a point about the female gender, forgetting that the person that gave birth to them, nursed them and raised them is their mother, a "woman".


You are fully aware of your actions, you walk up to a lady on the pretence that you love her because of your freaky fantasies, have your way with her and get her pregnant.


You now put all the blame on the lady, some will even deny the pregnancy, some will accept it but make sure they frustrate the living light out of that woman, turning her into an empty basket with big holes.


My question is why couldn't you use protection, when you had the chance, why put a woman in the family way, when you are not emotionally mature to handle life.


Some men too, falls into the category of not paying the children's school fees, not paying the house rent not even leaving a dime at home to cater for the family.

Yet, you call yourself the head of the family. As you read this article if you fall into this category ask yourself "what are the things that qualifies you to be a man? "


To be responsible means you have to deal with issues properly, you have to be accountable for the decisions you made, you have to sacrifice some things and handle your life with dexterity, it also means to be independent, to be able to stand up and defend your actions which automatically makes you a man.


So you cannot be living in your parents house and still impregnate a woman, how would you deal with that, you're not even mature enough to decide what you really want for yourself.


You cannot be stingy and think marriage is for you, that trait will not make you responsible to the family you are making.

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Being lied to, cheated on, played with is not something to joke about. This happens everyday in people's lives making them think of doing so many evil things. This feeling could also make a person suicidal and depressed.

Every relationship has its good and bad days. But if your relationship is more bad than good, then the person in the two of you that is still trying to make the relationship work is in for an heart break if you suddenly do not see the future with them again.

Now, I want to beg and implore you, NEVER, I repeat NEVER go into another relationship or move on immediately after an heart break because you feel lonely or you need someone around you.

Because the same thing might just happen to you again, if you venture into it.
A lonely heart is always vulnerable and a vulnerable heart is easy to manipulate.

The guy or lady might look attractive or even like your ex but do not try it. You are not strong enough to make such a decision. And being with that person will not help matters because it will break you the more.

That explains why some of us never have a stable relationship. When you move from one person to another. In three months, some people have dated five people and it is not their fault the relationship was broken but it just happened that way.

Did you ever sit down to ask yourself why?, did u ever try to reflect into the past and wonder what the problem really was?, did u give yourself a "me" time to heal?, did you give yourself a breathing space enough to figure out what you do wrong that you should correct?.

But then, believe me, if you are out there, trying your best to make that relationship work but your partner is not thinking the way he/she should. And he leaves you or she leaves you, it is their loss not yours.

Everyone is insatiable, no matter how much you endure the beating, the cheating, the lies the whole toxic relationship. They will still leave you because they do not understand or value you.

You have to be with someone that values and understands you. Till then, work on yourself, heal, meditate, go out, watch movies and have enough fun free your mind.

Never think of the past.

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Thanks dear.. A kiss on the cheek is a friendly kiss. A kind of gesture that shows that you are appreciated and lovely.

That one is money oh �

WHAT MEN WANT

This article I'm about to write is a very controversial one because another man's food is another man's poison.

So I will try my best to be very general as possible. Men are very smart and outstanding.

Being a man comes with a great deal of responsibility and it is not a joke at all. Because it makes them decisive, confident, strong and protective. So it is not easy to be a man at all, believe me it is NOT.

Which brings me to the conclusion that if you are trying to attract or get a man, you have to be extraordinary.

You have to bring something valuable to the table. Yes beauty, physique is very important, in fact men are attracted by what they see but beauty vanishes with age and time.

Who you are is not defined by what you look like but what is inside you. The funny truth is most men are sapiosexual.

They get really attracted when they find out you're smart and intelligent.

I will advise ladies, this is simple and clear, before you get attracted to any man or before you start catching feelings, try to understand the kind of man he is.

A man that is sapiosexual would not want you to come around flaunting your body trying to seduce him indirectly.

Believe me, he will find it inappropriate and highly degrading.

Such man will not respect you or value you because of the image you portrayed in his head.

If he should even give in, it will just be sex for him and nothing else.

I am tired of ladies getting it wrong, ladies getting heart broken, putting themselves in situations they should not be at all.

So before Catching Feelings, try to understand what he really wants.


They say "food is the way to a man's heart", that is a pure fact no disputing, but do not turn yourself into a chef, when you do not really know where you stand in his heart.

He will call you and only want you to be around when he is hungry and dispatch you when he is satisfied. I know how that feels and it's far from being happy.

What I am trying to say is do not do anything serious for him, if he is not taking you serious.

Do not be desperate to please him or get him.

Because they actually want you to play hard to get.

There is nothing as attractive as a woman that has a goal, something to offer to the world.

They want you to be ambitious. Any man that does not want his wife to work or move forward academically is not a good man.

You have to let her grow too. They want someone they can build the whole world with not just a pretty face and a nice body.


Lastly sex can not trap a man, even if you get pregnant for him, it doesn't still stop him from sleeping around, best case scenario you would be his baby mama.

There are a lot of women out there desperately trying to get your man. What Differenciates you from the girls out there? What makes him tied to you? What makes him interested in you that he wants to take you to the alter?.


They actually want you to be yourself, do not lie, honesty turns some people on.


In as much as you need money to do the essential things, do not turn your man into your ATM, it is really draining, work together, buy him things too, check up on him, call him, pray for him.


I hope to an extent I made u understand that you do not have to do much to get a man.
Remember, first impression lasts forever. Do not go seducing him on the first day, have a healthy conversation and be yourself.

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There is this deep connection you share with your lover, that is beyond the physical, which explains why you do some things that you have never done for anyone before for them.

A kiss might just be a lip to lip communication of saying, I love you or I adore you or I want you so much or I cannot do without you.

But you can still kiss a person without having genuine feelings towards that person. Remember Judas.

So, this article is about the kiss of a lover, the types and what each of them mean indirectly.


Without further ado I am going to give you,

Seven different kisses and what they mean.

1. Kiss on the forehead

Love has no bounds, love is patient. A kiss on the forehead means "I adore you".

It could also be a friendly kiss saying " I appreciate your efforts, thanks for being there".

The purpose of this article is to explain what any type of kiss means and who you should make important in your life, if that person kisses you in a certain way, you know the person might not say anything but the person cares a great deal about you.


By just kissing your forehead says a lot, a night stand can never kiss you on the forehead and look into your eyes with love but your lover, or someone that really appreciates you.


2. Kiss on the eyes

This type of kiss says a lot and it can only come from a lover.

I know some of you reading this, your relationship is complicated.

But trust me if he kisses your lazy eyes all the time "he loves you".

It says "I see you beyond the way you see yourself and I love you, I can't do anything without you".

So if you are in any relationship right now and your "supposed" lover has never kissed your eyes before, says a lot.

But he might actually love you but not be the romantic type.

And non-romantic guys or ladies are no fun, why don't you try this non-verbal love language with your lover today, to show how much you care or adore him or her.


3. Kiss on the neck

Nothing screams "I want you so much" non-verbally, more than a kiss on the neck.

Being intimate with your partner is a beautiful thing.

To be honest with you, whenever I feel like cuddling my partner, I just kiss his neck and whisper a lot of sweet words into his ears, I am hopelessly romantic, I do not have to directly say "baby I want you" or "baby, let's make love", I just kiss his neck, ladies you have to show your man how much you want and care about them.

Why don't you make a move today.

This type of kiss from your lover means a whole lot of intimacy.

Let's say this type of kiss is coming from a friend, acquaintances or anybody apart from your lover, it simply means " I want us to make out" and nothing more, it does NOT say " I love you " so do not go catching unnecessary feelings.


4. Kiss on the hand

This is usually for the ladies and it says " WOW!! You look so ravishing" or "You are so beautiful, I wish you were mine".

If this person still lingers on your hand and looks into your eyes and actually says you are so beautiful, then he means it and he would not mind to go out on a date or two with you.

But if this is from your lover, consider yourself lucky, because nothing makes a lady feel beautiful than when her lover says she is beautiful.

The chemistry is amazing.

5. Kiss on the ears

This type of kiss is so romantic and lingering.

Imagine your lover, kissing your ear lobes and whispering sweet words into it.

Telling you how much she loves and adores you and how she would fight to keep you forever, and you responding with happiness and peace because there is no where else you would rather be than her bosom.

That kind of intimacy says a lot beyond what you feel.

6. Kiss on the tummy

This is mostly experienced by pregnant women.

It simply means " I adore you and our baby and I'm glad we are making a family and I promise to stand by you".

During intimacy, this type of kiss says " I love your body and I want to be with you".

This person would always want you to spend quality time together.


7. Kisses everywhere


This is a totally different and passionate way to indirectly show your love.

It is only your lover that can kiss you everywhere.

When I say everywhere, I mean your forehead, earlobes, eyes, neck, nose, lips, body.

To show how much they love and cannot get enough of you.

If you are seeing someone that does not like talking or is less expressive of their feelings but kisses you like that, says so much beyond what you think.

Only a lover will kiss you all over and cuddle you to sleep.

So, yes a kiss means a lot and it says a lot about how that special person in your life truly feels about you.


After reading this article, why don't you kiss your lover and make them understand how you feel inside without trying to put the right words together.


Remember, action speaks louder than words.

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Women are beautiful creatures that should be treated with respect and love.

They shouldn't be an emotional handbag, to drop or take. It's so frustrating to love someone that takes you for granted repeatedly, without being remorseful.

You do not have to be aggressive before a woman feels hurt, you do not have to be violent before she knows that you do not see through her.

Most times, Men don't know how to properly take care of their women. They feel money, affluence, wealth is the love language of every woman.

The needs they tend to, the hair, the shopping, the countries they visit, none can be compared to the love of a man.

Always spend quality time with your woman.


Take note of her feelings, make her understand you.

I am going to discuss on the five ways to know she is over you. if she acts accordingly, then you have lost her.

Her mind is somewhere else not necessarily with someone else but somewhere far from where you are.


5 ways to know she is over you.


1. Communication :-

Being incommunicado is a sign that she is over you.

Once She stops communicating. She stops protesting.

She's no longer interested in anything that involves the both of you, despite you being around her, she feels lonely.


You call her and complain say " babe I'm home, do you want to come over ", and she's silent at first, that means she's hesitating, now someone deeply into you, will never hesitate to give you a reply.



So if she has stopped calling you, stopped texting you, stopped doing things that will bond you guys, there are chances that she's over you.


2. She deletes your pictures on her phone or anyone you took together :-


Pictures brings back memories shared together with a loved one, just staring at a picture sometimes says a thousand words that can't be explained.

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Exactly my dear

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Sometimes we look and wonder if you we can get people to do things by just staring at them, by snapping our fingers, blinking our eye lids. If you have seen the Avenger's Infinity War, Thanos should come to mind. However, we won't be discussing super villains going on a power rampage today.

Rather, we will be focusing on how you could effectively carry out the art of seduction. Practice makes perfect, they say.




Manipulations work, strategies work too; but to achieve an effective relationship with friends, business partners, family, you have to be a master of this craft.

Without wasting time on the formalities, why not join me as I walk you through the seven powerful rules to follow in the art of seduction.

7 Important Rules to Follow In The Art of Seduction



1. Find the right person:-


Opt in for lonely, melancholy, anti socials, introverts, people that don't have much on their schedule. This is the first rule. Lonely people are the victims in this stage they are often vulnerable and it's easy to make them do things.

They tend to crave for what they are missing. They need bright people around them. Know that the pessimist and optimists are always attracted together. The optimist sees a glass as half full, the pessimist sees a glass as half empty.




So finding the right person is very important because with the wrong person you can not achieve "the art of seduction". Workaholics and extroverts are always independent and this brings a confident feeling that they don't need anybody and they shouldn't waste their "precious time on anybody".

They are always never around and they hardly pay attention to distractions they only think of their goals and achievement. They are egocentric. Now a loner has withdrawn from the whole world, they have wild imaginations of a knight in shining armor coming to rescue them from their boring "world".

Before you can be a master of this art, you must choose the right person that won't waste your efforts. Do not lose dollars trying to save a penny.

2. Be patient:-


You have chosen your partner, you are happy, you can't wait to explore with them, you can't wait to show them all you know. I understand, but this is where you have to calm down and be patient. They're just getting to know you.

Remember this is the initial stage you can't allow feelings and emotions get in your way. This is the stage where you study them: know the food they like, know the kinds of music they listen to, how they want to be addressed, the movies and soaps they can't miss.


If possible, know how their daily routine goes and imitate them in all these aspects. If he/she comes to you and says: "hey I just saw Harry Potter" and you've never seen it go see it. But before you can apply this rule perfectly, you have to be patient because most of their ideas might seem odd and you may want to give up. Don't! Consider this as an adventure, have fun, explore.

I'm sure they'll think they can get to you and manipulate you to do more, what they don't know is that you're the one calling the shots, putting them where you want, so they feel special and open up to you more. That's the real art of seduction

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WHAT IS YOUR LOVE NICHE?





Is it when you live with him? Or when you're apart from him, what makes you linger on to them no matter the condition?
What makes you endure, and be tolerant with them?.What drives you in that relationship? That's who you really are.




If you sacrifice a lot for that relationship then you are a nice person., if you forgive a lot then you have a soul, if you cry a lot then you're vulnerable. It'll allow you understand your personality more, so when accused of it you smile to yourself and say "you don't know me".


That is your love niche, enlightening you psychologically about your good, sane part.



Psychologists say distance makes the heart fonder, is it this same "distance" that made you linger on to your lover.






Is it when you share things together, or have a tight intimacy, where you and your lover are hardly apart, to see, text and call each other that means keeping contact is your love niche.



Find that out now today, know your love niche explain to your partner, to be understood more and never taken for granted.



Is it the gifts he gets you, the jewelries,fendi and the adidas, that makes you feel noticed and very attractive. That's your love niche



I urge to indulge yourselves and find out what you really are, discover a part of you
that you're afraid to admit.



Remember, love is a beautiful thing.

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Thanks for reading.