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PaperLace:
1- Your wife doesn't know the gravity of the issue at hand.

2- She knows the person already and wants to handle it her own way before you kill someone.

Kids don't like to see their parents cry, work on his emotions. Be sad, get teary, don't eat _tell him you've been unhappy because he doesn't trust you enough to spill. You can take him to his favourite spot and promise his favourite stuff. Don't let it linger, 'cos we don't know what might happen the next time he is out.

Maybe the person has threatened him, hence his refusal to mention his name. This is a very serious issue, start narrowing down suspects, who are the men around him? Came home from where? School? A friend's house?

Like I said at the onset, I respects the family section!
Thanks, bro. I'll sieve those opinions and employ the very best.

athaliya:
Call him and tell him that daddy is very sad and its because of him. When he asks why, Tell him that its because he does not trust you, and he's hiding things from you . Promise him you will not beat him or shout at him and you will buy his favorite toy or snack if he tells you who it is. Dont pressure him , just tempt him. You can even pretend like you want to cry. Then when he tells you, you must keep every promise you made to him. Before you make any move, call him and tell him what you want to do, why its important you do it and steps you will put in place to ensure that the person cannot molest him again.
Shortcut: Tell him the man is an agent of the devil. It solves alot of problems very fast but dont use this line very often o

So much words! So many Thanks given.

agohmamuda:
Youe wife is perfectly correct; its one step at a time. If u jump, u might loose focus on the matter, knowing who the man is shld come later, preventing further occurance shld be ur proirity.

How will I know all that?
I least I will have to ask where? how? and when? right?
That's how I feel I can cub subsequent occurrence!!

Tobiloba84:
I really do feel you should ask the boy who it was, let him know you not willing to know so as to cause trouble but for his own safety, give him reason to confide in you

I gotta try this, i'll.. thanks.

RadicallyBlunt:
But if it your daughter that someone tried to touch her private part, she wouldn't judge same way. I hope she didn't say it in d presence of the boy sha.

Anyway don't be too serious in asking him just ask him later jokingly or is he a grown up? How old is he? Or perhaps he was threatened.

Even if he were threatened that should have prompted him to tell me the person in question.
But the situation is leaving a thought in me that he's hiding something from me.

Hopemoney:
There is more to that my brother investigate that matter very well

I see, but does it worth it? Don't want to take any stupid step?

pasqal09:
Just take the boy to somewhere nice. Treat him right and buy him stuff. This will make him open up.

Thanks, bro. The point actually is, the mother isn't seeing anything biggie in that..

Let me start by acknowledging this fact.
Family section on Nairaland, is the most matured section where you find quality opinions from experienced parents.
With that in mind, what I hope to accomplish is to get sound opinions from you guy. Thanks!

My boy came home, telling me a man was trying to play with his genital part, I was scared, but I never made it glaring to him. So I thanked him for confronting me to tell me this, then I further asked, who was the man?
Then he said, Dad, I am sorry I wouldn't tell you, I frowned at that, why wouldn't you tell me?
Then the mum came, called me in and said, respect the boy for telling you what happened, if he says he's not telling you the person, forget about it, so that he will find it easy to confide in u next time.
I was terribly shocked!
Nairalanders, at that point what will the father do? Let go?
Or knowing the man is not the fathers' business really? I'm just confused!!

Yes, but make sure you are using a Google keyboard or any keyboard that can help you access the setting option on your phone.

I love your post.. I've spotted where I needed correction in your article.
Thanks!

MrBrownJay1:
Arrant nonsense!!
1-2-4) if anyone says anything bad about my partner then they will get the bashing of their life.... And subsequently be removed from my circle of friends/family....
If someone doesn't like her then I will make sure she knows.

3) if I wake up screaming because of a bad dream, then why shouldn't I tell her?!

5) any feeling you have about her, whether dirty or sweet, let her know.... That's how you make things easier at home, rather than being an hypocrite.

6) as if she wouldn't figure it out... Actually that would make her stay in check.

7) same as #1-2, what's good for the goose...

8-9) the only way to have a great r/ship is to fully open yourself. Being a coward is a cheap way to be on a r/ship. It's all or nothing!

10-11) why should I pretend to be a virgin, or lie about my sexual past?! This is what makes me the great ME, so be proud and let it all out, before she learns the truth from her damn friends.

God bless you... The op is a dumb head.. very silly opinions.

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julimax:
There is also an Hausa and Yoruba version on the way. Cant cover all the tribes now

I'm not saying its bad, bro... I love it.
Just my observation.

You bringing it from an IBO man's perspective.

obsolete... Hahaha..

Oloruntobi4382:
We remember where Jehovah gave his first threat to the robots he created:

"You shall eat of every fruit...except the tree of...for IN THAT DAY YE SHALL DIE"

Thank God our ancestors disobeyed him(Jehovah) the slave master and NOTHING HAPPENED. Jehovah said in that day we shall die but we didn't die that very day.


Christians will always use two points to defend their master's failure:

* Jehovah meant spiritual death.
* A day is like a thousand year in his eyes.


What's Spiritual death? To be ignorant of the spirit realm doesn't mean you are spiritually dead. In fact, spiritual death doesn't exist because the human soul and spirit are immortal. Before one can be spiritually dead, the spirit must die except you wanna give what you mean another title.


If a day is a thousand year, then Jehovah used a thousand year to create his robots. That must be dull of him, since we humans can create robots within short period of time.

No excuse, Jehovah lied and that's the truth.

Your quote actually addresses you..

Mail sent!

I will give it a trial. But I sure wish it'll be real.

Alright.. but your explanation isn't clear enough.

I've mailed you.

Oya, let's go..

Hey, bro.

Let's clos a deal.
Why is the communication line limited to only WhatsApp?

felixomor:
This one is a learner.

You dey mind am?... The title of the topic reflects that..

This is insightful.. Thanks, bro..
But, I've got a question.

I'm not in Lagos, but we can discuss via the internet...
I've mailed you.

Cute hector, been a while.

FunkyMetahuman:
Cheat saved our butts back then.

I wrecked those bastard back then

But now, can't even remember the last time I used cheat.

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I think everyone's on that same lane..

We shouldn't smile.. But, we can't look it off..
His phone obviously had control over him... Indeed, it had him controlled.