₦airaland Forum

You guys stayed in one house for a while year without talking and you still remained in that marriage. She could have left but she stayed. She could have moved on with her life, probably marry another man who will love her better , but she chose to stay on with her oppressor. For what reason. She never talk am finish

The greed of our leaders won't allow them to use the only solution to curb this issue, which is banning of open grazing. If we don't graze openly, it means we'll kinda kill the issues of farmer herders crises. States can have huge ranches where herds can graze. It's not difficult to do. We have vast lands after all

A multi-faceted approach would be best to address the issue of child suffering in Nigeria. i would suggest the use of

1. Financial literacy education: Utilizing religious bodies especially the MOSQUE to educate Nigerians, especially in the North, on managing finances effectively.
2. Family planning awareness: Informing people about the importance of responsible family planning and its impact on insecurity.

These initiatives could potentially help address underlying issues contributing to child suffering. Other potential strategies might include:

1. Economic empowerment programs
2. Access to education and healthcare
3. Social support services
Implementing such initiatives would require collaboration between government agencies, religious organizations, and community leaders.

chidiokay:
Strong support from the South west governor ... Yes But from South west people .. Hell No.

Tinubu knows he cant dare face people of south west that is why he switched to Using the Governors structures via proxy to lock votes ... most of the parties structures will be working for their governor forgetting Tinubu is the beneficiary

Yep. The end justifies the means right? And Tinubu have already bough the whole judiciary system

Fayose's statement suggests Tinubu has strong support in the South West and backing from governors in other regions, which could impact the election outcome. He believes Atiku will perform well in the North but struggle elsewhere, while Obi might be a strong contender. Some interpret Fayose's words as hinting at potential electoral manipulation, though he doesn't directly say it.

Merry100:
While men are often praised for income, women quietly carry both the home and the hustle. And still, they’re expected to submit, even when they’re the ones holding everything together.

Your submission/illusion is on just about 5% of women right?

I think people misunderstand what the post truly mean. Some women with lavish lifestyles might have questionable income sources. If the boyfriend visits her two-bedroom flat and notices expensive items, he might wonder how she affords them on her salary. Worst case is if she's not working, that could raise suspicions about her financial situation. We know most of our girls na. Nobody go tell us

The cultural expectations of Nigerian girls have practically turned most into glorified confident self entitled beggars

Kobojunkie:
LOL.... you didn't read the part where in the OP it clearly stated that the gang up from her brothers came after the man disrespected and humiliated his wife by way of beatings, turning the marriage toxic? Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

I'm really questioning your level of comprehension. I'll advise you use AI to ensure you understand the statement I made earlier. If you do, you wouldn't be asking this question

Education is crucial in dispelling misconceptions and fostering a more accurate understanding of various topics, including religion. The lack of knowledge and misinformation can lead to distorted perceptions, as seen in some interpretations of Islam in Nigeria. It's heartening to see educated Muslims sharing a more nuanced and compassionate perspective on their faith, which contrasts with the extremist especially Northern Nigeria views often perpetuated by misinformation. Indeed, as the Bible verse goes, 'My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge' (Hosea 4:6)."

Kobojunkie:
When the man initially beat his wife, that was not an act of disrespect? He turned the marriage toxic the moment he felt to disrespect her by hitting her, but you are busy trying to shift the blame here onto her brothers. Why?

You didn't read where I said physical violence is never acceptable right? Don't jump into conclusions pls

Crow is arguably the most intelligent bird. So sometimes when they behave we think it's an evil act. Africans and mumu na 5&6 😂... Thank God for the internet though. It have saved us from a huge mess

In such situations, the dynamics can be challenging. While physical violence is never acceptable, the woman might continue disrespecting her husband if she feels protected by her brothers' presence. This could lead to a toxic environment, with the husband feeling threatened, disrespected, or disinterested in the marriage. In such cases, prioritizing happiness and well-being might mean considering separation or counseling to address underlying issues. A healthy relationship is crucial for a fulfilling life.

Those girls are so lazy eh. Honestly see them as scammers 😂

From dust we came and to dust we shall all return

The Marketers should build a coalition, build a refinery then rival Dangote. Yes he is monopolizing the gas sector. But if that will make the masses have cheaper gas , then nature will welcome it. I pray it comes to pass

We may all choose to polish words. But truth be told. Bihari failed in several ramifications as a leader.
1. His poor decision to close the border for food importation caused the nation an all time high in food inflation, yet he didn't do a thing about it because the North was gaining from that
2. His covid-19 palliative was a scam project to enrich the North which it actually did. That resources could be used for other beneficial things
3. Insecurities was high in Nigeria even when the president was a General. This is just a few

Nonsense man. He practically caused a lot of lives

SyrusdeHansome:
Nice advice but everything you listed up there depends on how wealthy or rich a person is before getting married.

My point exactly.... Some who is not financially stable will find it difficult taking his kids to the best schools, register NHIS, and employ a house help. I think you should also line list decisions that are cost effective

INEC needs genuine independence, merit-based leadership selection, and financial autonomy through self-generated revenue or a direct federal budget allocation to ensure free and fair elections.

While some individuals exploited the subsidy system for personal gain, the truth is that many Nigerians benefited from it. The removal of the subsidy has led to significant hardship, including increased costs of food, transportation, and power, affecting nearly every aspect of life. It's puzzling to hear talk of infrastructural development when the same infrastructure projects are often plagued by budget padding and corruption by government officials.

purples25:
It’s the guys gaslighting you and making you believe that they would accept a free sex relationship for me, smh.

It’s not your fault, he’s just bad. Seriousness jammed play. Move on fast, your time has been wasted.

So every relationship should lead to marriage? She didn't even mentioned that she loves him. She just want to marry him. If the man is so much concerned about sex, he can have it multiple times elsewhere. Remember, sex is the cheapest commodity you could sell

Berankis:
Man that will marry you will, whether you do pre-marital sex or not and man that is not ready to marry won't, no matter what you do for him.
No lady should place all her life on any man, he is just a man and can fail you. Same also goes for the guys....

No mind them. Good sexual satisfaction was part of the reason I married my wife self... You can't weaponize sex and expect a real man to dance to your tune

Let's be honest, it seems like you're controlling the relationship by making sex conditional on promises like marriage. While it's understandable that you want assurances, have you considered what he might gain from being with you beyond intimacy? You might be benefiting from staying in his apartment, but perhaps it's time to consider your own space. You mentioned he has desires, but if you're not willing to fulfill them, it's likely he'll seek satisfaction elsewhere. Ultimately, it's essential to approach relationships and marriage with a clear understanding of each other's needs and boundaries, rather than trying to cajole or convince someone into commitment.
I tell you for free. Your worst mistake would be continuing in this trend, he'll definitely leave you or bullshit you after wedding that is if it ever happens

Lovelife433:
I'm a redeem member, and I'm too small to criticize YOU Sir. But the wey U and other GOs join hand take criticize president Jonathan then and ur silent now speaks volume of Ur, let me stop here I now want trouble.

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You are not too small to criticize him . What the man did is called hypocrisy. Use your head and know the truth

If Jesus was insulted, whom art thou?
Ignore them and continue to cash out from your members pockets as usual. But remember, speak to them to learn to hussle more because no prayers can bring money to them. Tell them this one at least. And also , no prayers can change our leaders. Na we go carry our hands remove them.

Tenrack:
I am......
.just a bit confused here. Honestly sir/ma. Mean no offence. Never mind.

Ok

Tenrack:
are you female? Or are you male? I'm confused sr/ma. Na man dey your profile pic 🥺

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So?

Only one in a 100 women will bring a man to the UK with their money. But men do that all the time. Now you can use this as a criteria to understand which gender truly loves or have a fragile heart

This case started since last season but Arsenal protected their player from the media. Man utd should learn a thing about player protection from Arsenal fc

twilliamx:
Men should try.. It really hurts their wives when they cheat, some even lose their minds, we should pray to God for strength . Especially with the way these girls throw assesss in our face, it's not easy to stand firm

Our society and religion makes men what they are today. Every man in the bible and Quaran married more than one wife .Biologically,naturally and animalitically, Tu Face isn't wrong.

It's clear that the amount of money looted by governors or the government is too good/much to be ignored. In a sane country, the likes of Adamu will just find one place and rest after retirement but lust for money no go allow am