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Well,i really guess you are a woman in disguise if u feel like one.Please go and check your gender to be sure. (Joking). I believe you can do it if you try.

I suggest you should not get married because you still have a long way in life. Competition? You are right. The girl should be the one worried about the size of wedding and not you.Are you trading place with your wife to be? Grow up please.

I find all suggestions given thus far,very fascinating and somewhat articulate in their individual perspectives.However,i want to base my suggestion on the popular saying which goes thus `AGE IS JUST BUT A NUMBER`.Agreed,but that has its limitations as well. I am of the opinion that the girl in question,is still inexperienced in comparism to the ``Experienced`` 30 year old man.Did you say that the 19 year old girl,meets your standand of IQ you look out for in a girl/woman? And you sure she measures up to  about 70% of what u need in a woman? If these are in the affirmative,then be the judge.

Sounds like a common place thing among women of your age.Please know that what you think about most,hardly come by.I advice that you keep an open mind to it and let nature take its course. Quit making  comparisms because that is the main cause of your problem.Your friends are all getting married?So what about that? Look around you and find out what you have that your friends do not have. Keep your shoulders high girl.Stop asking your man what his future plans with you are. Just put in your best in the relationship,find out areas of interest in his life.If you are able to do that,you will certainly become indispensable to him.

23 nov.Anyone in the house?

Damn, that was a sharp shot.Thank God it was not a bomb.

This is a very sensitive issue that needs a close attention.We should not be fooled of the non existence of Wicthes and Wizzards because they do exist in whichever perspective you may want to look at it.I live in the western world as well and i must say that the westerners have as much spiritual attacks like people in the third world countries.The only difference being that,they choose not to tackle them spiritually like we do.The westerners have always been under an erroneous impression that most anormalies in human behaviour could be attributed to some form of medical disorder therefore,demands a medical attention and that explains why we see alot of social miscreants looming the streets in the name of one addiction or the other. However,like what one of the respondents said,its a thing of the mind which means that what you do not concentrate your attention on,can hardly harm you.
Again,this does not underscore the existence of these forces and i will want to use this medium to opine that PRAYER IS THE KEY if we really want to be immuned to whatever force that be.