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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 10:33am On Apr 21, 2018 |
daprince5898: I'll try to answer this without being a dream-killer. According to your first interview, it went horribly wrong because you simply didn't prepare for your interview. Your answer was too generic, those people are tired of hearing the same things over and over and it gets frustrating for them at a point. Going back to do the same thing, expecting a different result was just wrong. Changing the embassy isn't going to do much if you're still going to repeat the same mistakes. She kept asking: WHAT has changed? Your answer was self-indicting. Nothing has changed hence the decision also isn't gonna change. If you go again in May, they'd gladly take your application fee and deny you IF you make the same mistake. Now that we have covered what you did wrong, how do you correct it? First, until there's something significantly different in your application and/or what you're going to say next time you go, please don't waste that money. Secondly, read about your school, your course, the city, the ranking, etc. and use convincing words to show you are a good student who put in work to secure the admission. Avoid statements like "well known for its well structured curriculum and a high quality research program which aliens to my area of interest", instead, say something original, something that really shows you put in work and have a particular reason to CHOOSE the school, course, etc. Don't just say "my career goals", tell them specifically what your area of interest/career goal is and what about that school/course is going to help you reach that goal and how it's going to do so. A quick example: I intend to start a poultry business in Nigeria after my studies (instead of I wanna set up a business when I'm back), and ABC university's department of Agriculture is well known for teaching students eco-friendly practices in the 21st century (instead of ABC university's agric dept is ranked highly). I believe learning from a school like that would set me apart from my rivals. (Don't stop there, say something original like because eco-friendly agriculture in Nigeria is non-existent, and you think you'd have an upper hand). Etc. When you keep talking like you know what you're doing, the VO nods and moves to next question. Always speak like you REALLY know what you're doing and you have a plan. Finally, PLEASE, make sure something about your application changes before you reapply. Good luck and I hope you make the right decision. Wakanda forever lol. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(f): 5:36pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
EMMAACHILE: This is exactly the reason I created this thread. Many people don't tell the whole story. many cannot get professional Job's after school is often taken out of context. I'll try to explain some things. These countries have strict immigration laws. There is a system, and I promise you, those systems work. Visa for visitors, students, workers, etc. are such labeled because that's all they are supposed to be. There are restrictions for visitors, students, non-residents in general, etc. People start encountering problems when they try to do something contrary to how the society was designed to work. Before leaving Nigeria, many people are aware of the restrictions of their visa. When you hear that visitors aren't allowed to work, or students shouldn't work more than 10/20 hours weekly or that foreigners are taxed at a higher percentage than residents/citizens, you know what you're signing up for before traveling. It's stupid for anyone to get there and complain. If you understand the system and make plans for how to blend with it, you will avoid most problems. If they give visa to visit or simply study, do just that. If you decide to violate the terms of the visa, you lose the right to complain. Whatever you face afterwards is your own doing. I promise you, it's still a lot better than what you'll face in Nigeria. Like people have said on here, majority of those who complain are people who are abroad without proper documentation, qualification, yet, they expect too much from the host country. There are success stories everywhere, just like there are stories of failures. In the end, everyone's gonna be ok. 37 Likes 6 Shares |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 12:51pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
kingfintan: 1. What can you say if asked... first option: the truth, second option: the truth, or just say the truth. Lol, on a lighter note, you can say you've been volunteering anywhere or getting set for grad school. Lying could complicate your interview. Don't tell a 2. These people don't worry much about these things. They have better things to talk about than NYSC's incompetence. Again, if they ask, just say the truth. Keep your answers short and straight to the point. If you're not asked for more info, don't give more info. Good luck sir! 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(f): 12:33pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
@go4value You're welcome lol @lucrezia Hahaha, listen to someone ooo. Two mistakes in life: taking everybody's advice and taking no one's advice. Always listen to positive advice and make good decisions. For example, if you wanna enter Mississippi with visiting visa, overstay and hustle with only $200 cash in hand and someone advises you not to do it, don't do it ooooo!!! They're saving your life. Lol. Unless you are a big risk-taker. 10 Likes |
Travel / Re: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(f): 12:24pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
@mobilia Thanks. I agree with you, experiences are personal and significant. People generalize hastily and that leads to many problems in life. The funniest part of their "people are suffering abroad" rubbish is when they search for pictures of the ghettos in the US and say "this is the America you wouldn't see on TV" and try to mock the country. My response is always: it's not for everyone. If you don't like it here, go and live where you like. Lol 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 12:10pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Gbemmy120: After reading your transcript, I think you gave the VO a very easy decision to make. You chose only ONE school in the whole country, and your reason for choosing the school wasn't that convincing. If Family/friends over here have a very big influence on your decision to travel, it triggers the "intending immigrant" bells in a VO's head. They told you to pick just one school, and the reason is because the school has all the courses that will help with your career goalS which you already said was taking over your mom's business. All the schools in the US have "courses that help career goals", your answers seemed rehearsed. In addition, unmarried, not engaged, etc. gave the impression you have no strong ties in Nigeria. I don't know if she could have seen that you applied to other schools outside the US and hooked you for that too. All in all, I'd say you were not prepared for that interview. Being a non smiling black big woman has nothing to do with her being professional. She did her job, you were not well prepared. If you intend to reapply, please correct your mistakes. Be better prepared and avoid answers that give the impression you rehearsed what to say. I'm sorry you didn't get it this time, I hope it works out for you next time. 13 Likes |
Travel / Re: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(f): 10:18am On Apr 20, 2018 |
@go4value Haha, I can only give advice. Secure visa, follow the proper channel, and she'll be able to move out. There are very informative travel threads on here. @lucreziaborgia Don't mind those ones lol. 8 Likes |
Travel / Re: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(f): 9:51am On Apr 20, 2018 |
@lucreziaborgia don't mind them lol. I won't raise hopes and sugarcoat anything. Life is not easy anywhere, I get mad when they only focus on negatives and completely ignore the positives. If I start talking about the hardship in Nigeria, I'll get upset for 5 years, and laugh for the remaining days of my life. If Abroad is hell, Nigeria is what? Call emergency service in Nigeria when your house is on fire or let your wife need surgery to give birth to a baby when you're broke. You'd know what hell is. 46 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(f): 9:41am On Apr 20, 2018 |
Abjay97: You're welcome lol. I'm not against anyone who's choosing to stay. I'm against those who have nothing positive to say about risk-takers who simply wanna find a way to live a better life. I respect people who try stuff but fail, than those who just sit in their comfort zone and laugh at others. 40 Likes |
Travel / Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(f): 9:19am On Apr 20, 2018 |
cc @justwise in case this is in the wrong section. 103 Likes 20 Shares |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 9:53pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
UzzyBreeze: I'd say if possible, wait until you get the "interview SOA" before you try to obtain the i-20. Imagine your interview going really well then the VO asks "who's sponsoring you?". Due to your situation, you may get anxious thinking "Oh God, I hope I don't screw this up", your whole demeanor could change and you become uncomfortable (like shaky voice, speaking at a different pace than you had been speaking all along, etc.) which a trained VO would notice and that could be the point that opens a bigger can of worms. I repeat, you don't want those problems. Long story short: if it's avoidable, avoid it at all costs. Unless you have no other options. |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 7:49pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
quinzypearl: Still need help with this? Let me know. |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 7:44pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
UzzyBreeze: The i20 is going to have the name of your sponsor and the amount required (tuition and expenses). While going with a different SOA for the interview is not the end of the world (you may get lucky and not get asked who's sponsoring or be required to show any SOA), it's better to avoid such situations that can really mess up your chance. Is it a risk you're willing to take? You really don't want those problems, better to avoid them and not complicate matters. Remember the burden is on an applicant to prove to a VO that everything's clean, no shady deals or ulterior motives. May I ask why you don't wanna use the same SOA you're taking to your interview to secure your admission? I hope this helps. |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 7:34pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Shedonnaoz: 1. Most schools require proof of English proficiency for graduate degree and it's in your best interest to cover that part. Is it too late to correct that, as in admission window? You have already made payments for what? You can get a conditional admission, while you go ahead with TOEFL and you'll be fine. You could be asked if you took any tests during your visa interview and seen as an unserious student or unfit to succeed in Grad school. 2. Stay away from agents. While there are a few good ones who get it right in the end, there's nothing an agent is gonna do for you that you can't do for yourself (except add documents/stories to your application that could put you in trouble - again, you can still do this yourself). My advice would be: get TOEFL sorted. You'll be glad you did. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Message To Nigerians Coming To USA Very Sobering Message Video by theamerican(f): 6:52am On Apr 19, 2018 |
timesup234: "It is better to say nothing and let people think you're stupid, than so say something and remove all doubt". I won't drag myself to your level and try to argue, when you have stupid arguments with stupid people, you lose. Have a good night sir/ma'am. |
Travel / Re: Message To Nigerians Coming To USA Very Sobering Message Video by theamerican(f): 6:39am On Apr 19, 2018 |
timesup234: I can't believe a sane person in 2018 will utter such a reckless and hopeless statement. You need help, and you need it quickly. I fought the urge to reply but I wouldn't be able to live with the thought that I saw someone with this kind of mindset and I did nothing about it. So, this is the only reply I'll give you: you need help. May God help you. That line in bold summarized your IQ. A child in 5th grade wouldn't say something like that. I weep for you. |
Travel / Re: Message To Nigerians Coming To USA Very Sobering Message Video by theamerican(f): 6:32am On Apr 19, 2018 |
I just came across this thread and tried to watch the videos. I stopped watching after about 2 minutes. I understand the concept of freedom of speech and being entitled to one's opinion, and that's fine. In what world is life in Nigeria better than life in a country as developed as the U.S? Same Nigeria where there's no regard for human rights? People get lucky, travel abroad and have the nerve to look down on the people they left back home and talk crap about them. Ungrateful wastes of space! When people say Nigeria is better, I ask myself "Is it the same Nigeria?". How many people are working in Nigeria and are owed months of unpaid salaries? Nigeria where a woman will be forced not to work, waste years being a full-time housewife and then sent packing for not having a male child? Where professors in school fail people unless they have sex with them? I could go on and on but I'd simply get mad. Every place on earth has its ups and downs. The downs in Nigeria greatly outnumber the ups. Failed government, frustrated people, disappointing country as a whole. They'll pick a series of sad stories and push a worthless "people are suffering abroad and pretending" narrative. Smh. |
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