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TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 10:41pm On May 07, 2018
orimahspence:
My curiosity about the poster led me here, i am not disappointed, God bless you ma
God bless you too. smiley
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 5:16pm On May 07, 2018
kikky91:
Pls the prof I have in the house...i want to knw if some one can pay sevis fee from Spain to an American university. Thanks for ur responses
I don't think you pay the SEVIS fee to the college. As long as the "someone" can send money via westernunion, they should be able to make the payment.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f):
Now, a few tips for those going for interviews.

1. Be honest. Some lies are totally unnecessary.

2. A VO's mind is programmed to think you're an intending immigrant so the burden is on you to prove that you're not. Imagine having a child and your partner is the only person you'd ever been with. A DNA test shows the child is not your partner's. Think of the length you would go to prove your innocence! That's how much you should be prepared. Get ready for anything.

3. In addition to (2) above, you should NEVER argue or get confrontational/condescending. Learn to get your message across in the most polite manner. Be respectful and relax.

4. We Americans (yes, we grin) nod whenever someone is explaining things to us. A nodding VO does not mean you're convincing him or he's agreeing with anything you're saying. It simply means: I'm listening. If you're saying crap and the VO is nodding, don't dig a grave for yourself. Smile and stop talking!

5. Americans speak very loudly and as a result, we hear things only when they're at a volume our ears can pick. Don't use bedroom voice or whisper to a VO. Forget being shy, you need to speak loudly or else, there's a chance the VO didn't even hear all you said. This is why some people come here with very good transcripts and wonder why they got denied. Remember the VO didn't text you.

6. Just a follow up to 5, a conversation is as good as how much the listener understands. Heavy accents + weird pronunciations could affect you just like volume. Remember TOEFL speaking test? Yes! If you have an iPhone, practice with Siri. If you use android, practice with Google help assistant. Keep doing it until you get better. Do it until you can tell Siri/Google to check on baba kafayat if he's cheating on his wife or not without getting "I'm sorry, did you ask me to play a song?"

7. Learn how to understand questions. Until you understand a question, DO NOT ANSWER IT. "I don't know" is a lot better than saying something false that'd put your application in jeopardy. Simply say things like: "what do you mean?", "I didn't get that", "can you please repeat that, sir?"

8. A VO needs 3 questions answered. A. Is this person a genuine/capable student? B. Is this person financially capable to get through this journey without getting stuck? C. Will this person go back home after studies? Now go back to (2) above, get ready to let them know it's a "Yes, beyond reasonable doubt" to these 3 questions.

9. A denial doesn't mean the dream is over. It simply means: you didn't do enough to convince me today. You get the chance to practice until you do enough to convince them.

10. Do NOT let any preconceived notion mess with your mind. It doesn't matter if you're 45, out of school since 31 years ago, going to study fishery, have no wife and kids, have a virgin passport, been denied 79 times back-to-back, and all the nonsense your mind is saying. As long as you have not been banned, the minute you are able to convince the VO that your answers to ( 8 ) are "Yes, beyond reasonable doubt", your application will most likely be approved. Work on how to convince the VO.

I'll post more tips if anyone needs them. I passed the stage of VISA, green card, removing conditions of my temporary green card and finally citizenship so I'm not bluffing. The American dream is a chance for everyone, it's your choice to chicken out or work for it!

Wakanda forever!
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 4:04pm On May 07, 2018
RoadAnimations:
Hi
I want to thank you all for your help.
Am happy to post my transcript cos I have learnt from others.
My Visa was approved today.

Got there 5:30. Saw crowd. Was like really?
I had to pay 1k to keep my Bag and Phone. This Lagos sha.
Had to stand throughout.
Nice building. Up to 4 security checks. Fingerprint stuff then VO.

I loved the fact that you cud listen to others as they argued with VO. Thanks to the many approved transcript I have read and Gods Grace ( Major Factor ). Kept cool and calm


VO: Pass me your Passport and I20 pls.
Me: Here sir
VO: What are you going to do in the US
Me: Am going to start a direct-Phd programme at Iowa State University, Electrical and Electronic Eng
VO: Hmmm. Okay. Why do you need this degree
Me: I want to Lecture and Research
VO: Who is paying for the fees
Me: The school. Got a full scholarship that includes tuition waver and health insurance and ( cuts me off )
VO: How many years
Me: 5 yes.
VO: I would be approving your visa

Wishing all of you guys yet to interview the best.
Whatever happens. NEVER argue with the VO. Cos everyone I saw today do that went home with a blue paper.

Shalom

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Congrats!!! Straightforward interview. I hope you have a good time in Iowa. For those sitting at the back, look at the words in bold.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 3:59pm On May 07, 2018
Smartconcept1:
Theamerican ,is it possible I use a fixed deposit account, that is a fixed deposit certificate as evidence of financial capacity to get my I-20 and go to embassy for interview ?
I'd assume it's possible. When I was in Nigeria, fixed deposits used to have a letter/document (is it called a certificate?) that stated the duration of the "fix", when the money would be available, the clauses, etc.

If you can prove that this fixed amount would be available to you at the start and during your studies, you should be good.

This is a topic I am not sure about, so don't quote me on it smiley. This is merely my opinion.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 1:20am On May 07, 2018
baani:
i hope someone here can help me answer this question or direct me to where i can get some answers.

I am a permanent resident in the USA and i would like to file for my mum to also become a permanent reside. My questions are as follows

Can i file for my mom?
If yes, should i file for her when she is in the Nigeria or file for her when she comes to visit me in USA

Thank You
This could be the wrong thread but no, you can't file anything for your mom when she visits. Wait until you become a US citizen. She's not eligible to adjust her status upon getting here if you're just a permanent resident. Go to the uscis page and read more on eligibility. There's none for "parents of a permanent resident".
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 1:10am On May 07, 2018
lockupman:
. If you've already secured a visa for her, then let her come, like you, she would adjust her status.
This is wrong. She is NOT eligible to adjust status.
TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 12:22am On May 07, 2018
Spygadgets19:
Hey there I would like to join the US Army, but am not living there..
That's good! Start reading about what it takes to get here and achieve that dream. Use google and read lots of stuff you find about it.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 5:38pm On May 06, 2018
brave1773:
Happy Sunday everyone. Please how do i solve problem of standardized test i didn't take it. My interview is fast approaching. I am going for undergraduate through transfer credit. My school never asked for it
It's too late to take standardized tests if your interview is fast approaching. Did you take any standardized tests? Simple answer: NO. You won't be denied or approved SOLELY because you didn't or did take a standardized test. Don't let that bother you too much at this stage.

Don't let what you don't have or what you can't change weigh you down, let what you have cheer you up. Keep preparing and you'll be fine.
TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 8:13am On May 06, 2018
oluezekiel:
With adequate preparations for PhD/MS, you don't need to bother your head about tuition in the US. Follow the student thread and learn more.
This is true.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 7:49am On May 06, 2018
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
I have typed all this from my one room apartment in mushin grin grin grin, take it with a pinch of salt please cheesy cheesy
Of course. smiley
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 1:31am On May 06, 2018
chinemomah2020:
@theamerican, am really impressed and i enjoy the way you reply to quotes with well detailed facts and in a very polite manner. I want to guess you are somehow related to Bigfrancis Or Lagosismyhome because you guys are really..really outstanding in the way you address issues and thats how it should be for someone who has lived in a western world.. i really do not know you guys in real life but i just to want say.. I LOVE YOU GUYS and i want be like you when i grow up grin May God continue to increase you guys knowledge in all aspect of life..
I'm just glad I can help. A little encouragement to someone goes a long way and that's all I try to do. At the end of the day, everyone's free to either listen to "You can't do it" or "you can do it" advice.

I walked the path of studying here to citizenship. I know the number of "you can't do it", "you'll come back to your senses when reality kicks in" comments I got. In the end, I did it. Others can do it too. smiley
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 4:32pm On May 05, 2018
LagosismyHome:
Gullible... please enough already .

Was going to type a response but no need . It ain't worth it .
Of course. smiley
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 4:14pm On May 05, 2018
LagosismyHome:
YES

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A friend of mine Nigerian who studied Bsc med tech (outside of the US) ...went visiting on holiday to the U.S. and saw a med tech night shift job in a remote location. ...night shift only . She probably was the only applicant...lol . Applied got in and they filed her h1b ... barely 2 years they filed her green card

She had her green card and moved on to clinical research CRA making good money. So she defined the stat that she didn't spend a cent on been a master student and was in the US on b1b2

Does that mean that the general demograph story ... nope. But there are always one or two . It is extermely difficult but one or two get lucky out of a thousand[/s]
This is what I said initially: Know your strengths and weaknesses, and plan your life according to them. If you have a background in creative arts or Insurance, don't let anyone fool you into thinking you'd be a complete failure here unless you switched to an engineering or nursing program. Life comes with NO guarantees.

I asked you a very simple question and intentionally asked for no additional information. You added more info trying to push a narrative that can only work with the gullible. Nice try.

If truly, that's the ONLY person you know who has made it here without going the STEM route, I'm afraid to tell you you shouldn't be making bold generalizations with so much authority on the subject the way you're speaking about it. You need to do more research and keep an open mind.

Of all examples to use, you talked about someone who did something completely illegal and tried to spin it to make it sound great. She came here on a visiting visa and conveniently "saw" a job, lol. I'm sure she had it all planned and again, had a bit of luck.

I'll leave it at that. Different strokes for different folks. I'll say this clearly, life has no guarantees. It's all planning and a bit of luck. Going for OPT/H1B using the STEM route is a good idea, my point is... that's just one way, it's not the only way. Those who can't go that way are not doomed. There are countless student immigrants who did nothing close to STEM, there are also countless STEM graduates who never got a job to sponsor their greencards and got stuck in the end.

You already answered my question and confirmed that yes, there's at least someone who immigrated as a student without STEM. I encourage people who plan and stay positive. There are different ways in life to solve problems. I'll keep my opinion open until someone proves it wrong. People defy odds! See: Obama.

Have a nice day. smiley
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 7:14am On May 05, 2018
LagosismyHome:
When you have permament papers in any country then yes you can follow your passion and do what you like.. in some countries you can decide to watch Tv the whole day and claim benefit .

When you don't and have Nigerian passport tongue then society trend dictates what possible and what limiting. .......

let be real to those who haven't travelled...... and not create false hopes . Except they adjust status later on, the law / trend doesnt favour a lot of pathway following the f1h1b route . If you like remove the Box self and think from today till tommorrow
I have only 1 question. Please just answer yes or no. Can someone come here as a student and make it here without studying a STEM course and going the OPT/H1B route? Don't explain, just say yes or no.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 1:08am On May 05, 2018
sheke01:
What do i even know. I never comot naija before grin
We'll leave it at that. smiley
TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 8:58pm On May 04, 2018
cruchenutii:
Now this is the dilemma I'm trying to avoid at the moment. At 28 years my spouse wants us to settle down. Now I'm thinking to myself once I do this & kids start rolling in, I'm trapped in this country, because feeding & living expenses will start to roll in. The only option is to leave the country & she'll join me later, easier said than done yeah?

Another issue to note is that Embassy consulates won't even give you a VISA if you can't prove you have sufficient reason & enough investment to return to your country.

Second option is to do a Masters or a PHD if possible. Paying about 11,000 USD for just the first Semester in the US is so much that a lot cannot afford. The other option is to move to Germany which cost 4Million excluding travel expenses. So the Cheapest options goes down to Permanent temporary residence for Canada which takes 9 Months or more.

Thanks @theamerican for your response.
It gets a little more complicated when you're not single. Now you'll have to consider your partner when making any decision(s). Lucky you, no kids yet so you've got time to make bold decisions and take risks. I hope things work out for you. I don't know as much about European migration as I do about here so I can't say a lot on how it's done... and sure, you're welcome.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 5:48pm On May 04, 2018
Chidinho10:
So on point

Nice analysis
I totally agree with you


Mind you, we aren't arguing here. We're just sharing ideas for everyone to pick points from

And you've made a nice analysis here
Kudos
Of course, I always welcome sharing ideas. One more thing, if truly that poster knows your real name, social media pages, phone number, etc. and that's what they posted, do the right thing and talk to them to remove it. The Internet never forgets stuff, you don't take chances with things like this. It's a very small world.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 5:40pm On May 04, 2018
@Femi321 I'll let the matter slide. The first thing when giving a counter-argument is to understand the point of the original argument. As you have stated that you didn't understand the point I tried to make in what I wrote, I'll let it go. smiley

We've both made our points known. You're saying going for STEM courses would help someone's odds of achieving the American dream, and that's good. I'm saying people who can't go that path shouldn't beat themselves up and think they'd never succeed here, that's all.

Like you asked, "does THIS law favor students in those disciplines?". You're right, it may not favor them. I'm sure you know there are other laws that could favor them and this is where thinking OUTSIDE the box comes into play.

Thank you. smiley
TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 5:02pm On May 04, 2018
tensazangetsu20:
I will add my own two cents. I graduated in 2017 and started a business a month after I graduated and in a period of 7 months the business has seen more than 3 million naira in revenue. I have been trying to raise funds to grow the business but I have been frustrated at every turn. Funny enough I built the business from nothing without any money and thought my story will be appealing to incubators and investors but damn I was wrong. I am really thinking of a masters degree now, I graduated with a 2 2 but am thinking of using my business experience and milestones over the past year to make a stellar application. Africa is a cursed continent and should be left for the likes of Buhari and Yusuf huh. I am 22 years going to 23 and I don't want to waste any time. Before you know it one is 30 years old without anything tangible to show for it.
You made 3m in 7 months from nothing? That's remarkable and super impressive. If the business isn't expanding yet, is it possible to give it time to maintain the pace, while you save enough to be able to expand it slowly but steadily? It's just a thought.

I wouldn't go as far as saying Africa is cursed lol. It just doesn't work out for some people.
TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 4:58pm On May 04, 2018
DEGABA:
Nigeria is a fail state and i regret not taking the opportunity of moving out in 2003,now wt kids and wifey wt the present situation of the economy am stuck.
If you are in your twenties now and have the opportunity,pls move out so you wont regret.
It's sad you feel this way now, I hope you find a way to get what your heart wants and things work out for you.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f):
femi312:
Yes life comes with no guarantee but then again you have to be smart in life. I completely disgaree with the sentence in bold. You guys keep forgetting restrictions to get a job as a foreigner in the US and as such you have to stand out to be gainfully employed. Coming to the US to study typicall courses many Americans study is not a good idea. No matter how good you are at that course, 100 out of 100 companies will employ an American over a foreigner. This is not about looking down on anyone or course but coming to study social works, arts, psychology etc is not a smart move. Even the HIb law is about employing foreigners in specialization where they cant find no American. Getting a job is one thing, getting H1b appoved is another. Not everybody that gets picked at the Hib lottery will eventually be given the h1b visa at the end of the day due to not meeting certain criteria. This post does not apply to PRs or people who can find there way by getting PR through other means
This is exactly the mindset I criticized with my post. Saying you "disagree with the bolded" simply means you're saying having a creative arts/insurance background means you're sure to fail in the U.S if you don't change to Engineering, IT or Medicine. I will NEVER accept that. Changing to those things guarantee absolutely NOTHING! Again, not thinking outside the box is the reason people fail.

I'll simply remind you that at the time of VISA applications/interviews, everyone tells the VO they ONLY wanna go study and go back to their country. All the ideas about OPT/H1B visa etc plans after school (if we're strictly going by the book) ARE ILLEGAL. I'm sure you know that having/hiding an immigrant intent during a NON-IMMIGRANT visa application is illegal and that's already a reasonable ground for denial.

If you don't believe me, someone here should go for a visa interview and when asked why they chose the program/school, they should say: "because it's a STEM program, after graduation, good companies will hire me and I stand a better chance of getting H1B visa".

My point: people who sit on the moral high ground with the same IMMIGRANT INTENT, should not come here discouraging a section of people who wouldn't do things their way and encouraging others. There are other ways to become an immigrant and have a life in the U.S., it's not just for programmers/nurses/engineers and that's why I always say leave people to think outside the box and have a plan with their life.

Let's be consistent! If we wanna advise people to come here to study, let's do JUST that! Encourage them to study and go back to where they're coming from. If we wanna start advising people on how to achieve their American dreams (whatever the dreams are), let's level the playing field.

The American dream is NOT only for students on scholarship, first class graduates, engineering/IT/Medical majors. Anyone in life can be successful in anything they set their hearts on with good planning and a bit of luck.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 10:08am On May 04, 2018
NiklausAkins:
Hello Everyone..
Saying the truth is one important factor during the interview..
Now am going for an undergraduate course and the major reason i picked that school is because my MOM said thats the school am going to(since she is the one paying). Now i also did my own personal research and found out the school ia actually better than the rest of the schools i applied to.
My question is,assuming am asked why i picked the school do i say the two reasons(My mom and my personnal research) or i should leave my mum outta it.. And start giving facts that i got online..
Thanks. My interview is close..
Responses please..God bless
Ask your mom why she wants THAT school. There has to be a reason and that reason could be good enough. An answer such as "Of the 3/4/5 schools I got into/applied to, x school was worth the investment. This is because..." could do the magic. Don't stress over it too much. Just try not to make your answer sound generic/scripted and you'll be fine.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 9:58am On May 04, 2018
ATnTMartz:
Thank you. But do you mean if I use my brother address, it may affect my interview outcome?
Please DO NOT use your brother's address. You don't want that problem. It's going to raise a very unnecessary red flag.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 9:50am On May 04, 2018
I have said it many times, the problem with Nigeria is not just with the corrupt politicians, but with the mindset of the average Nigerian citizen. Looking down on people/places/things in 2018? *sigh*

@thegrandchemist put it absolutely spot on!!! "KNOW THYSELF". Know your strengths and weaknesses, and plan your life according to them. If you have a background in creative arts or Insurance, don't let anyone fool you into thinking you'd be a complete failure here unless you switched to an engineering or nursing program. Life comes with NO guarantees.

Not everyone can score 320+ on their GRE or 110+ on TOEFL to get into top programs/schools. Don't look down on people who can't get into those programs and go to lesser known schools instead. As @Femi321 put it, the country has changed. Most of the employers now lose interest in hiring foreigners who need to be sponsored to get legal status to work. Going to study at the white house guarantees absolutely NOTHING.

Getting into top programs is great! I encourage people who have what it takes to shoot for them, but let's encourage others who cannot. A friend of mine went to a school no one knows about at age 32 and got a Bachelor's in finance. She works for Microsoft now and makes $120k+ per annum.
Another friend with a Nursing Masters degree makes so much less than her. They are both happy with their lives.

Other examples, a truck driver friend went to truck driving training for 8 weeks or so, job he got now pays him about $60k, CNAs (after 6 weeks of training) get jobs that pay $14+ per hour. Happiness in life is subjective, let's encourage people.

You have no idea how difficult it is for some people to even get into those schools you laugh at and the joy on their faces when they finally see the admission letters from them. Encourage people to believe in themselves and think outside the box.
TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 9:02am On May 04, 2018
@cruchenutii

I read your comment and completely agree with you. Of course, there are cases of people who succeed in Nigeria and make money setting up businesses. You cited cases, successful stories and I smiled reading them. I'm happy when I read happy things like that. Just so you know, I can also cite 5 cases of people who invested in these same businesses you mentioned and cried bitterly afterwards. How many people have 1m cash to make any investment? How easy is it to have 1m in an average man's account?

That being said, the 4m Naira gist was a mere subtopic. Making money or owning a house in Nigeria or anywhere else wasn't the main theme of the thread. I was majorly talking about why people go abroad to live a better quality of life. Most people who travel don't do it only to amass wealth. They just want quality life.

Most of my counter-arguments on the business-idea topic is that it's not really a black and white world. People vaguely say: "instead of going abroad, why not use that money to set something up here" and they'd be unable to say anything meaningful regarding what business to set up.

It's personal opinion. I really appreciate your contribution and it makes so much sense. Life in Nigeria no matter what the attraction is, is just not for ME anymore. I don't wanna go over the same issues, but the main point here is quality of life and it depends on what we see as a life of quality.

In conclusion, I'm sorry if some of my posts give the impression that I think NO BUSINESS can thrive in Nigeria, that's not my position at all.
TravelRe: Is Life Abroad Worth The Stress And Hype? Memoirs Of A Naturalized Immigrant. by theamerican(op): 10:02pm On Apr 30, 2018
Business is not for everyone. Some people aren't just cut out for it, and not all business ventures are successful. Again, everybody has their own life/decisions to live/make.

Some people can start a business with 10k Naira and over time, it becomes a multi-million Naira venture. Some people start with even 50m Naira and in the end, it's a total waste.

In the current economic climate in Nigeria, what business can you do with 4m Naira that guarantees success? It's a honest question, I'm curious.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 5:37pm On Apr 30, 2018
femi312:
You guys are the one trying to bully him into silence.
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. I still want you to tell me the relevance of that part I highlighted. I'm just confused and wanna know what you were trying to say. The same way I rolled my eyes when I saw "...maybe he's just a waiter", so don't think I'm personally attacking you, or anyone.

I'm not bullying anyone into silence, I'm only questioning statements like "You're one of the unfortunate souls who have been denied visas many times", and a lot of other statements I can't even remember. I mostly ignore things I don't agree with. I simply talked to you because I respect you and trusted you to reply without insults and settle disagreements like adults.

You're fine. I don't wanna dwell on this topic. Let's move on to important issues... ones that involve students and visas. wink
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 4:50pm On Apr 30, 2018
femi312:
In as much as I don't support the way he answers some questions because I believe there are better ways to pass the message accross . However, you guys are doing exactly what you are accusing him of. Calling someone 'ode' or 'boy' or 'waiter' is not rude to you? Because Nairaland is a faceless forum does not mean everyone here is a kid or fresh out of undergrad. Just to give you a perspective of who he is..this person you called waiter works in one of the largest oil company in the world. Him telling you to tell your friend to ask the question is not a big deal here.
I respect you a lot but this post disappointed me a little. It would have been ok to stop after that first sentence and you would have made your point in a clear, straight to the point and objective manner.

Secondly, what is the relevance of the third part in bold (working in a large oil company)? Good Lord, respect is reciprocal (and I don't care about age, status in life, etc.) and you should understand there's a limit to what everyone can take. Bullying is bullying. Call it what it is. Remember someone owns an oil company, or THAT oil company. Will that give them the right to bully him as an employee?

I agree with some of his opinions for example, over-dependence on God when someone is not prepared, discouraging people who just want to lie to get a visa, etc. but I do NOT support bullying. I'm sure this person doesn't talk to colleagues at work in this manner.

That being said, I agree with you on the posters not doing what they're criticizing. Name-calling, etc. should be discouraged. Again, be fair and objective with matters.

Let's get back on track as to why this thread was created. Have a nice day.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 3:00pm On Apr 30, 2018
VECOH1:
Hi everyone.
Pls I would like to know if showing my Dad's landed property and a study leave letter will be tangible enough to prove home ties to my county for F1 visa.
Thanks for your anticipated replies.
Your dad's property? Not so much. Unless it's yours. I would say a study leave letter would do a good job... I assume it shows you intend to go back to that job especially if you've been there for a long time and the pay is really good.

Another factor that could work in your favor is if the course you're coming to study is directly related to your current job/if the current employers are the ones sponsoring/if the letter says upon your return and completion of studies, the job's waiting for you with a raise in wages/promotion.

Thing is... there's no one thing that absolutely serves as proof of home ties. Burden is on the applicant to be prepared to provide as much proof as possible.

Finally, you should try to communicate these things without having to show any documents. A VO hardly has enough time to read through letters, etc. and you'll be helping yourself if you can use words in such a way that showing documents wouldn't be necessary.
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 11:35pm On Apr 28, 2018
cosxzbay:
How are you sure she has evidence of adequate financial statement to cover for this?. If her husband is not fully funded, they both have to show sufficient financial capability for the trip and not just an expression, because the VO will look at the SOA to confirm.
No, you got me completely wrong. I didn't say she should have said what I wrote word for word. She claimed her husband was financially capable, which was a very vague statement. I suggested breaking it down and putting it in dollar terms.

It was an example and that's why I wrote: "a better answer like ..."
TravelRe: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by theamerican(f): 4:16pm On Apr 28, 2018
James89:
Pls how do I send my resume,SOP,letters of recommendation to the school,and transcript to the school
Different schools want these done differently. Some schools have portals where you can upload to, some want them sent via email, or via courier. You should read the "admissions" page of the school you're interested in. Most times, the information is there.

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