Most of the time, the problem people have with something isn't that it is bad, it is the fact that it doesn't meet their expectations. This explains why some people have so much nonsense to say and even go out of their way to justify senseless rhetoric.

I am doing fantastic and I am completely happy with where I am today. I'm not rich or living a perfect life but you can bet I'm excited for the future. There's a reason the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53 and that in the U.S. is 78! I hope it's not too late when you figure it out.

travelland:


Woah, you sound like a black American from the bronx. Take it easy, okay? I'm out. Cheers.

Lmao! Whatever this means. I simply returned what you gave to me. I'm good. Thanks for contributing to the thread. I wish you all the best.

LUCAS99:


No, I’m talking about American Banks like Wellsfargo & Bank of America.

It’s not as easy as you make it seem for RN to $100,000

You fail to realize that $80k+ per annum is before tax by the time taxes are taken out and Bills are paid including Rent & Car note then it becomes very difficult to saved up such amount of money.

Where/when/how did I make it seem easy for a RN to earn/save/make $100k? I only said it's a possibility. I don't know where you people live that bills and tax is taking all your earnings o.

RNs with experience, working in ICU for example, can earn $80k+ AFTER TAX (I know one in Tennessee). It depends on lifestyle. She currently has two houses, 2 cars and has $55k cash in her account. I promise I can show you proof if you think I'm making it up.

My point is: it is not an impossibility. Things happen in this life of ours.

travelland:


Interesting read. Let's hope your car doesn't get repossessed, I've seen this happen a lot on screen and it's quite devastating for folks who experience it

One question, is your earning as an Uber driver not taxed?

Same way we should hope you don't get picked up on your way home by SARS operatives and shot in the head to die on the spot. This also happens to people and it's devastating for their friends and family afterwards. Take your negativity away from me.

Uber earnings are taxed. Paying taxes unlike you doesn't scare me. Moreover there are countless things to claim as deductions. Driven miles, gas I bought, insurance paid, etc. At the end of the day, the taxable income is reduced greatly and I may not even pay anything significant.

LUCAS99:


Nobody said that you cannot save up enough money.

I mean you could if you wanted to be picking up another job but you also have to let go certain things.

What most people are trying to point out is that Most Money Made in America stays in America.

That’s is how most advance society are designed.

I wasn’t talking about saving up $100,000.

I mean that would be impossible by simply working a regular job.

I was talking about taking out a $100,000 Business line of credit from my bank in exchange for a lien on my Business.

Are you talking about this credit from a Nigerian bank? If yes, that's awesome!!! I didn't know Nigerian banks could do such. If No, can you do the same with a Nigerian bank? If yes, that's still awesome!!!

PS. You can save $100k working a regular job here (if being a RN and making $80k+ per annum is considered regular). It's not as impossible as you're making it. The question is... who's willing to make sacrifices to have $100k cash sitting in their bank account? Lol.

Godson201333:


I mentioned it in my post earlier,They would want to move back not for good intention but it’s simply because they cannot adapt and cope with the society. They couldn’t cope with a functioning system with no fraud, bribery and many other criminal activities!!

Lol, the moving back concept is really baffling. Someone's talking about moving back with 30-60 million Naira ($100k-200k). That's a lot of money. How many people can save 60m Naira in Nigeria? How many?

People have failed abroad, people have also been fooled into moving back home thinking it'd be easier. In the end, they lost their way and their only saving grace was that they could realize their mistake and flee Nigeria again lol.

A functioning system is a functioning system! It's complete ignorance to compare Nigeria to a such countries. There are still places in Lagos where you can't drive to. You have to park your car somewhere and walk or else... you'll spend your next salary fixing your car.

I'm not against anyone wanting to move back. As long as they do it for their own reasons without saying untrue things, we're cool. Not even 2m Naira a month can make me move back to Nigeria. I can't deal with stupidity anymore.

Lmao! Ungrateful hypocrites all over the place. Sometimes, no matter how much you try to explain a concept, some people won't just get it. I'll stop trying.

See them talking about saving $100k-200k to move back to Nigeria in the same country where they said it's impossible to save any money due to tax, bills, debts, etc.

I'm glad I was able to leave at a young age

You can fool yourselves by talking up Nigeria like it's flowing with milk and honey over there, lmao. Is it not the same Nigeria?

Sit down there and listen to stories of failed people, continue reading things online about losers and keep deceiving yourself with the Idea that everyone is suffering here lol. Your ignorance will only increase.

I shake my head when I think of the barbers, hairdressers, truck drivers, welders, auto-mechanics, plumbers, etc. in Nigeria and how underrated/undervalued they are.

As I am typing this comment, I just thought to myself... I can conveniently walk into a car dealership this weekend and walk out with a brand new 2018 Honda Accord if I wanted to and I'm just an average person with a nice credit score and a good job. I'm only having that opportunity because I'm here.

Oh, and guess what? I tried the Uber/Lyft thing last weekend lol. I made $432 driving Thur-Sat, evenings only. Not bad for a rookie, is it? I spent about $30 on gas, though. I'm already fighting the temptation to make another $400+ this weekend.

I'm glad things are working out for me beyond my expectations. Wherever you are, if things are genuinely working out for you how you want, awesome!

EDIT

Just checked the exact figures, it wasn't 432. It's 246 on Lyft and $201 on Uber making $447.

Nig4Greatness:
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[s]OK, Relocating abroad on any type of non-immigrant visas for the sake of getting a parole or do AOS cannot be termed legal immigration,if not we wont have any single one without residency.There's clear difference between travelling abroad and immigrating abroad legally,the latter has been abused and quoted wrongly.As i said earlier,the only legal immigration routes out of Nigeria as at today are through DV,family based and some kind of EB series.My opinion[/s].

Documented aliens who are checked in/paroled in at the port of entry and are following proper channels to become permanent residents are doing it LEGALLY. For example, some students decide to stay after studies and never commit any crime in doing so.

There are several ways to migrate without breaking rules. People do them EVERY day.

Kolping:
Nigerians on the move without applying for visa...

Many things are unclear about this image. Is it the stats of illegal arrivals? Nigeria's population compared to the other nations on the list could mean the % of people from other countries moving are higher. Also, there seemed to be a decline in the number for Nigeria in 2018 compared to the previous year, etc.

All in all, migrating illegally by sea is one of the things I'd NEVER EVER advise anyone to do. That thing's so risky I don't have the heart for it but what do I know?

dilodavid:
Hey, theamerican and imperiouxx. You guys are great minds and you guys have been here over the years. Yes, it's one thing to fall out which is quite understandable, you guys need to stop this and let's move on, thank you.

Just seeing this. It's nothing. Different opinions don't mean people are fighting or can't stand each other. We've both moved on. It's a free forum where anybody is free to say anything as long as the forum rules aren't broken.

I call out dumb logic and close-mindedness. In the end, everybody is ok.

imperiouxx:


You quote whoever you like to ask a dumb question? Please be on your side.

You'll be fine. You'll get over it.

imperiouxx:


Who the hell are you to tell me what to say? Never ever quote me again.

Lmao! I'll quote whoever I want (including you), whenever, and wherever... and P.S. I didn't tell you what to say. Have a nice day!

imperiouxx:


Just this point alone disqualifies him. I don't want to know if it's true or not, 10 out of 10, anyone will see that as a fat lie. How could an hospital sponsor someone not for medical seminar, leadership workshop or for skill acquisition program but associate degree. Of what importance is he to the hospital? Probably the hospital is family owned.

At first, you said it was impossible and 100% a flat out lie, but you contradicted yourself by suggesting a possible scenario in the end (saying probably the hospital is family owned) which could be one of many other possible scenarios. Keep your mind open.

I'm not in support of whatever that poster said or against the criticism she's getting from you guys but I frown when people say things like "nobody should/would spend x amount of money to do y". Ahan, is it your money?

I agree with you completely OP. I quoted a part of your post on a thread I created and cited your thread as the source. Is that ok? I'll take it off if you don't like it.

That being said, I must say I agree with EVERYTHING. The problem with Nigeria is not just with the leaders, the rot is from top to bottom! Smh

Pipedreams:

What John Zibiri said about Nigeria I worked and lived in Abuja for 18 years. I ran my own private company from 2001 until 2014. Two million of the likes of Buhari cannot change Nigeria.
�Everything is wrong with Nigeria.

�The Director won't give you contract except you pay up front .

�The banks won't give you loan except you concede a certain percentage. �The man supervising the contract won't pass the job except you play ball. �The clerk won't pass your file for payment except you rob his palm.
�The accounts department won't raise your payment voucher or cheque unless you see them. I can go on and on.
�The worst thing is that it has become a norm that nobody sees anything wrong with.
� If you think otherwise, they begin to think you are sick and not normal. �If you try to stand in their way, you put your life at risk.
�If you get killed there is no justice system in place to seek redress and bring the perpetrators to book.
�The police is corrupt , the Judiciary is the same.
�Even the religious circle is not spared.
�Everything in Nigeria revolves around corruption.
�Nobody cares about anybody. No law and order.
� I looked from my left to right, everybody is only desperate about one thing "money".
�They will kill anybody and anything that stand between them and money. �I am an electrical engineer with MNSE and COREN. The system don't care about my qualifications.
�Distribution and transmission jobs are given to alhajis, pastors, friends and relatives without any basic skills.
�I started asking myself, how do I convince my kids that education and hard work is rewarding?
�When fools, agberos and touts are running the country from the local govt to the Presidency.
�Is this what my four sons will also go through? In 2014 I decided I have had enough. I decided I was leaving. I migrated to Australia with my family. �Don't put yourself in harm way for any reason.
�The problem of Nigeria is in the hands of Nigerians living in Nigeria.
�Try starting a gate house in your village, everybody wants to profiteer from it. The bricklayer, the carpenter, the mason and even your brother who claim to be supervising on your behalf.
�They are corrupt, morally bankrupt and selfish.
� Everybody there thinks about himself and nobody is thinking about Nigeria .
�You don't have to be the one to go there to change anything.
�Let those under the hammer start the revolution. I beg make you hear word.
�This post is gonna anger a lot of my followers. I'm still gonna post it anyway.

Saw this from another thread... good read!!! The part that got to me most was that of people thinking you're sick or crazy when you try to reason correctly and condemn the bribery, nepotism, corruption and the other BS.

Here's the link to the thread: www.nairaland.com/4550649/dont-think-nigeria-ever-get

yemiosinbajo:


Really You, an American citizen, never heard of Duke

You'd be surprised at the number of things American citizens haven't heard of. Now I've heard of it, life moves on. I only knew Harvard and Stanford

mayd16:
Hello house, please i got admission into Jamestown community college, i did not do any English proficient test because it was not required this is according to school requirements. What can i tell the Embassy when asked if i have taken any exam

And also is Jamestown CC a nice school now somebody is hearing about iglobal thing

Just say the truth! A simple "No, I have not taken any exam." is all you need. Also, I've not heard about Jamestown CC (don't fret, I also didn't hear of Duke or Morehouse until I saw them on Nairaland), and I don't wanna Google it. The concept of "nice school" is not clear-cut. What do you mean by "nice"?

If you think you're a credible student, and you have plans for life after studies, go and face the VO with a good case for yourself.

nwendujudy:



I have shared my transcript and my proposed school and spring option. Just need a little help bikonu

What do you need help with? I know nothing about Oregon State University or the other ones you mentioned (Florida and California). Anything I try to tell you is just something I'm going to read off an intensive research online .

Embermom:
Visa appointment was for 6.30 today. F1 plus F2 for Two children


Vo: make sure you have you i-20 at all times when entering the US you should also carry their birth cert as they might need it at border . Enjoy your stay in the US
Me: Thank you

I did GRE but no question came on this. Statement was not checked.

Congrats. You had an excellent interview. Enjoy your studies and stay in PA. if she had continued asking more questions until next year, you would have provided the same excellent answers That was a good read, I hope we'd get more transcripts like this from future applicants.

Ugosample:


Well, your last paragraph is not always applicable

Indians speak horrible English, but many of them are doing fine.

But their children speak better English tho

You missed the message, but ok.

GreatDIM:



I'll use this post to begin on this thread, what most people fail to realise when migrating is that you must be adding value!. You aren't a citizen of the country, so where does you sense of entitlement come from?

Also, Berliner mentioned studying in demand courses, from 4 years in UK, I can say that most indigenes of these countries don't want to study the hard/technical courses, so going to study courses like "European history, Sociology, Human Resources etc." will only put you at a disadvantage cos there's a surplus of their indigenes in that labour market.

The key to successful migration I'll say is strategically planning before moving and ensuring you have potential to add value to the country you are migrating to.

I'll be sharing experiences of myself, family and friends to the question this thread asks, later

You're wise and I agree with you. I'd love to learn about your experiences.

Ubah1:


You joking right?

I'm not. I don't remember many things about steps when applying for the visa. SEVIS fees, ds160, etc. lol, it's the reason I hardly ever talk about them.

Tunmise100:
cc: theamerican
walspring
lagosismyhome

KINDLY HELP:

while filling my visa application form i was asked for my ds160 confirmation number? how do i get that?

I have absolutely no idea.

hemekhar:



Thanks for the correction opinion/suggestion , I’m seeing the mistake now, God Bless you.

Amen, bless you too.

nwendujudy:



I always love reading your replies. Thanks so much. Please can you permit me to chat you in private? Please. There's a lot of things I would love to share with you as regards my preparations. I have made up my mind to go for Spring. Please

You're welcome I'm sorry, I've decided to not communicate via private messages anymore. I'd be glad to help you if you post on here and I see it. Spring is doable

Berliner1:


Where is desired job available without paying your dues? Mention the country.

Look for internship,werkstudent after that the rest becomes easier.

Move with people with positivity.

I know more than 10 Nigerians working after graduation here...its not easy anywhere...learn language, do internship, study courses in demand(not the likes of forestry etc)...connect with people and move out of your afro bloc.

This is spot on! People forget two of the most important things to remember when migrating: a positive mind and assimilation (blending in)! That's why some people fail.

Move with people who see their cups as half full (not half empty) and try to blend with your host town/city/state/country. Learn about them and try to do things their way and your life would be easier. You stubbornly refuse to learn Finnish, German, Spanish, Italian for example or refuse to try to change your pronunciation habits for Americans, Canadians, etc. to understand you and you complain later, you have yourself to blame.

Gewezzy1:
thanks, the Masters degree am looking into doesn't require GRE but either Tofel or ielts.

I won't ask what degree that is Just do what needs to be done and explore options. Good luck!

nwendujudy:
Hello everyone.

I want to know,how adviseable is it to be denied visa with an unranked school's I20 and refiring almost immediately with a ranked school? Should I just reapply or wait till the next session? How affordable is living at Oregon for an average student because the school am looking at now is located there?. I need opinions and practical experience if possible. Thanks all

I remember your username. I just want to point something out to you. If you think repplying for a visa with a "ranked" school will guarantee your visa, I'm afraid you need a really good reality check. You will still have to work for your visa.

If you're asked why you changed to XYZ university in Oregon and all you can say is "it is a ranked school", it's just another futile effort. What's my point? If you're trying to get into other schools, this is the time to start asking yourself what you want, why you really want them and do your research and continue learning how to prepare for interviews.

Moving on, cost of living depends on so many factors. Like in any state, not all cities are the same so, where your school is/you'd live could be factors too. Oregon is a relatively expensive state to live in but remember: sometimes, the cheapest things in life aren't the cheapest. Mississippi, Alabama, Oklahoma are cheap states but there are so many places in these states you wouldn't wanna live in as a foreigner.

Don't rush any decision, wait for the next session and spend time preparing. Make better decisions and be self critical. Don't let your future be decided by a random, faceless person in another place like me and others here lol because in the end, you'll be the one to live with your decisions.

Always go for what's best for YOU, not what someone thinks would be best for them. I wish you the best.

Gewezzy1:
Please is 2.03 GPA qualified to apply for Masters!

Yes it is!!! Only thing is... you'd have to strengthen your application and apply to programs/schools you have a chance of getting into.

What do I mean by strengthening your application? Try to prepare and do well on standardized tests like TOEFL or GRE (preferably both), read on how to write a really good statement of purpose for your admission, etc. If you succeed in doing this, you'd see that your profile could be better than that of someone with a 3.0+ cgpa and has nothing else.

Don't rush into anything, target fall 2019 semester and start your preparation now. It's doable!

hemekhar:
Hello guys;

I was denied visa today, please go through my transcript for correction and also for the upcoming ones to learn from my mistakes

*exchange pleasantries and passes docs*
VO: Why are you going to the US?
Me: I’m going for my Masters in Information Technology in Minnesota State University
VO: Tell me about the program
Me: I’ll be majoring in Information Security. The program consists of a 32 credits courses spanning 24 months, I’ll be taking courses in AI, Information warfare, dB security etc and cap it up with a thesis.
VO: Did you take any test?
Me: The GRE was waived for me because of my UG CGPA and my professional experience
VO: Have you travelled outside Nigeria before?
Me: No; I’ve not had any reason to until now
VO: How many other schools did you apply to?
Me: Two; University of Central Missouri and University of Bridgeport
VO: what’s the relationship between the 3?
Me: They all support research interests in Network and Database Security which is what I want my thesis on.
VO: Tell me about your academic background
Me: I have a bachelors of engineering in electrical and electronics engineering from Covenant University in 2014.
VO: What have you been doing since after your nysc?
Me: Immeidtaely after my NYSC, I got employed in Abc bank, a major commercial bank in Nigeria. I currently work as an IT Security and Complince Engineer
VO: I see you have a good job, why do you want to leave your job now?
Me: it’s all about career progression for me. I believe with the masters would equip me with the necessary technical and business skills to professionally compete for a more senior role upon my return.
VO: Are you married? Any kids?
Me: No sir
VO: who’s your sponsor?
Me: My aunt
VO: *types for a while* I’m sorry blah blah blah

People at the embassy were asking me to reapply but I don’t think I want to be dashing people things.
Please constructively criticize so others can learn
Thanks.

In my opinion, your interview was really going well and you almost nailed it. I'd definitely reapply if I were in your shoes but with better preparation. Nothing wrong with your answers except for the two questions in bold.

First one. Did you take any tests? I think "No" or "No, I didn't" would have been better. Not taking a test is not a crime. If they need anything else, they'd ask why.

The second question in bold was your chance to nail the visa. Your answer was general, vague and most importantly, it didn't really answer the question: "Why are you leaving your good job?". Read your answer again, and you'd see that you could have done a better job. Another VO could have been impressed so maybe you just got unlucky.

I believe reapplying is a good idea with better preparation. Give specifics. Talk about the particular technical and business skills you'd be getting and the particular examples of "senior roles" you wanna go back to. Better preparation. Don't give up on a dream after one failure.

This is an opinion, please don't mistake for legal advice

Nig4Greatness:
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No biggie man,enjoy your life in EU but in my own opinion, there's no such thing as legit migration especially from Nigeria.people just brace the odds to achieve whatever dreams they set out for themselves.
This your moniker get as e be self,make them.no tag you member of Isis from Syria.lol

What do you mean? Is being checked and paroled in at the port of entry, maintaining your visa status and adjusting your status to permanent resident status and the likes not legit? Your post confused me.

paulemi:
You're right ma'am. I do have relatives in Sacramento, and that's one of the major reasons the school is my preferred school. I'm hoping that should help reduce expenses at least.

You should be careful with this. Having relatives in Sacramento as a reason for choosing to study there could send a signal to a VO and set you up for a more intense interview.