Otenestbestyaho:
Today I share my testimony with all my friends i have lived my life deceiving my self to be a Christian, while I only practice it yet live in the world ignorantly, the world and it character pushed me doing things I never thought can kill me for ever, brethren except a man is born again he can not see the kingdom of God.
I have been in the world but now a changed person, a new creature for the glory of God. I used to lie and defile my self, but the Lord open my eyes through a child of God to see no gain in it but death, condemnation. My brothers and sisters let us change if we do such things and embrace Jesus Christ the Savior of all. God bless you as you read and accept the fact that everything is useless but the kingdom of God last for ever.

Welcome to the family, broda. I pray that the Lord will grant u more wisdom, understanding & knowledge for you to know who you truly are in Christ Jesus. Once again, u're most welcome

The Lord is with you, little one...........

A very educative tool we need in these desperate times. Too bad, some people will still opt for the way of balaam.

Greenbullet:
when I tell people how much I hate my dad ,they think its discipline .I remember being told to sleep outside the house. when he called me when I was sleeping and could not answer ,when I was beaten to a pulp in front of my school with only bursars on ,for what he said I stole his money ,money that his colleague later informed him that he gave him,even with that he showed no remorse or even sorry .if i tell u my story this page will not contain it my heart burns with hatred every day ,I will never forgive him.

You are human, brother. You can not win the internal struggle on your own because you are an imperfect being & so is your own father. But you have a perfect father who has the power to right every wrong in your life including enabling you to find the place in your heart to forgive those who wronged you. And that person is Jesus Christ. All it will take you is to put your trust on him and everything will be fine. I have been in your shoes before & I know what it feels like, believe me.

I loaded N100 for 30mb to use it to download a data of 30mb. As I was consuming about 13mb data, they sent me a text saying that my remaining data is 7mb. I was like, "What?! You guys got to be kidding me! I just only used 13mb

I have always believed that one can truly have a godly home even in this already fallen world despite what the society may think, say or do. Based on God's holy word, all it takes is just a genuine repentance & complete trust/faith in God based on what Jesus has done & will still do (in the nearest future). O.P, keep up the good work

Handsome dude, hapi birthday

Cute baby. Look at those innocent eyes of hers. Hbd

Pack

Wine is a mocker & beer a brawler Whoever is deceived is thereby not wise

God never makes mistakes in his creation. The human dark skin is built to withstand intense radiation from the sun hence due to the high pigmentation of the melanin. There's nothing wrong about having a dark skin. It's only a demented soul will try to make his fellow human to devalue his self-worth

Although I'm no expert at the field of office work, but one thing I do know is that they will most likely offer you a venture that seems too good to be true

In effect of the place of work in our lives, what the poster is trying to tell us is that no matter how busy we are in our place of work, we must try & make out some time for learn more about God, to prevent our attention from completely losing sight of what God is doing in our lives. It's just a simple matter

CAUTION!!!: The following list mentioned by the O.P comes by complete trust in God/Jesus. It can not be possible if you seek to do it on your own. Do not go around playing "a-holier-than-thou" attitude. Doing so will nullify the power of the Holy Spirit on your life. Just as the number 2 of the list says it. May the grace of the Lord Jesus be with you all on your faith-walk to perfection. :-)

"Take heed that no MAN deceive you!
That was the first warning that Master Jesus gave to his followers when they asked Him of what shall be the sign of His coming again.

Those words of Jesus always sent shivers to my spine each time I read them. This shows that no human being can be trusted in this age except the true Jesus

Holyfield1:
Please help, I always have this feelings and premonitions that I'll loose my destiny, favour and good will the day I have sex with a lady, Now I'm beginning to have a girlfriend, just kisses no sex, Will I actually loose my destiny and favour from God if I have sex?

The right question you should be asking for, OP, is "What's the commandment of God concerning the issue of sex & how it's meant to be used?" That will give you the right answer you are looking for (if you are really serious about knowing such)

Anyway, I will advice you to study all of the book of 1 Conrinthians chapter 5, 6 & 7 to know more about sex. And please, please, please study your bible all the time, especially the new testament scriptures. Good luck

Genesis 2: 7 & Matthew 10: 28 says it all. No controversy God's owns both body & soul of all men!

The reason for that is because we live in satan's world according to the bible. Until Jesus returns, evil will appear to be reigning in this our time(which in reality, it's not).................
But all this evils & it's perpetuators(including satan) will end when God's new world will take over following the immediate arrival of master Jesus in full glory. Revelations chpt 19: 11-16, chpt 20 & 21

The true Jesus of the bible will tell you to lay up treasures in heaven by giving your money to the less-privileges & following Him. By doing that, you will experience true happiness that is beyond measure on earth. He talks about living a contented lifestyle. (Which is the best of the two according to the Bible)
But the false jesus of the world will tell you that the best way to heaven is by accumulating more treasures/wealth here on earth thereby making you to live like a god. This fake jesus focuses on living a covetous lifestyle.
The former offers eternal glory (LIFE) while the latter offers eternal damnation (DEATH).
Your choice totally depends on your heart desires

Please @Nokiacare. My asha 300's screen is faulty. Am in Onitsha. Where will I find those who will repair it?

VoteDemiladgold:
who cares what people think about you? Phew.. stop leaving a life of "what will people think about me"


Whether you greet someone or not, their replies does not add anything to your life span.. the people you ought to be greeting are your elders! Anyone that's within your age group that looks at you and waits for you to be the first to greet him/her needs to be snobbed totally..

You are right, my friend. At times there are certain things we will be doing & we think we are right in our own eyes not knowing that we're really wrong. ****sighs****such is life

VoteDemiladgold:
I think you should stop greeting them..


The bible says it's shameful for one not to return a greeting..


So don't even bother yourself, raise your head up and walk tall...

Phew!! Some people can be very unpredictable. If you choose not to greet them again, they will say that you are too proud. Thanks for your advice. I have finally gotten the picture

layla129:
You didn't wrong them. Some ladies tend to take guys for granted if they are too available, they feel you're not financially buoyant, or they they are ashamed to be seen with you in public and other irrelevant reasons.

Solution
Just ignore them totally. Don't even act like they exist. MOREOVER, WHY ARE YOU BOTHERED ABOUT THIER ATTITUDE?

Because this is the first time someone I know very well is doing that to me. But any way, thanks for your advice. I think I know what to do now.

dapizy02:
Je n'ai pas de solution

Sorry sir, but I don't speak french. Pls would you mind helpin out in english?

BlissP:
Salutation isnt love... if they dont honour ur greetings, delete them from ur loyalty diary....

Are u serious?! But I thought there's no harm in maintaining a close relationship

I do not know where to create this topic but I feel that the romance section would be a better place to share this little issue. Pls pardon me if I posted this in the wrong place. I would like the Mods to help me out in this scenario. This has been bothering me for a while now but I have decided to summon courage & post this issue here on nairaland knowing that there are well-meaning people on this forum. It may seem like a little problem to you guys but to me, this is a serious stuff.
Ok, here is the issue:
There is this mannerisms I have come to observe in some people especially the female folk. There are some ladies that I have known for quite a long time in my life. (Actually, they are from different backgrounds). Our families have been friends with each other even since we were kids so that kind of makes us like an extended family-relation.
Fast-forward to this present year, things have changed, we now have our different respective lives we are living on. But the problem now is that I have noticed that each time I want to greet them, (those female folks I told you guys about) they will ignore me or pretend as if they can't hear me even when I tried to call to their attention. Unless I approached them & they now listened to me. Most guys I know hardly ever perform this kind of act before unless I wronged them (which I will know beforehand). So pls tell me. Does anyone have a clue of what is really going on here? I can't make any sense out of that manner. Have I wronged anybody? Am confused

Some people can be so ridiculous!
Anyway back to the topic, Nonso you will be alright. Just be careful next time. Wish u speedy recovery

From our very own selves.

Firstly, In order for you to prevent lust from invading your heart again, you need to recognise it for what it really is instead of you trying to deny the presence of such in your life. You must admit it as your weakness. Without your admittance of such, you can never conquer it in your life. It takes true humility & genuine repentance to do this. The apostle John said about this in the book of 1 john 1: 8-10
Second, once u realised this, the next thing u will do is to confess that sin of lust to God, tellin Him that u're truly sorry. The bible says that God is always faithful & just, He is quick to forgive us of our sins when we were remorseful & repentant. Also find a worthy person to confess that you have such weakness to that individual so that the person will know that you are serious about over coming such problem in ur life & will assist you in your quest to do so. This is because you need to be accountable should find yourself slipping back to that dark path again. Thirdly, remove & avoid all manner of medium that will incite lust to rise again in ur heart, including hard & soft porns, bad friends, x-rated movies & music videos, being alone with the opposite sex in a private place etc
Finally, this is the hardest part but by the special grace of God, you can do it. Realise that you can't overcome this weakness on your own. You need trust master Jesus to help you overcome it. The bible says that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. This is something that only Jesus alone can do not by your own might. Remember to pray to God always, my friend. It's your greatest weapon against forces of evil. Goodluck in your faith walk to perfection. May the spirit of the lord be with you & give you strength to overcome your temptations.

Firstly, In order for you to prevent lust from invading your heart again, you need to recognise it for what it really is instead of you trying to deny the presence of such in your life. You must admit it as your weakness. Without your admittance of such, you can never conquer it in your life. It takes true humility & genuine repentance to do this. The apostle John said about this in the book of 1 john 1: 8-10
Second, once u realised this, the next thing u will do is to confess that sin of lust to God, tellin Him that u're truly sorry. The bible says that God is always faithful & just, He is quick to forgive us of our sins when we were remorseful & repentant. Also find a worthy person to confess that you have such weakness to that individual so that the person will know that you are serious about over coming such problem in ur life & will assist you in your quest to do so. This is because you need to be accountable to someone should you find yourself slipping back to that dark path again. Thirdly, remove & avoid all manner of medium that will incite lust to rise again in ur heart, including hard & soft porns, bad friends, x-rated movies & music videos, being alone with the opposite sex in a private place etc Matt. 5: 27-30
Finally, this is the hardest part but by the special grace of God, you can do it. Realise that you can't overcome this weakness on your own. You need to trust master Jesus to help you overcome it. The bible says that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. This is something that only Jesus alone can do, not just by your own might. Remember to pray to God always, bro. It's your greatest weapon against forces of evil. I will also advice you to always find time & study the new testament scriptures to aid you in your quest in overcoming evil. Goodluck in your faith walk to perfection. May the spirit of the lord be with you & give you strength to overcome your temptations.

Tobey

@OP. Because of the odds that are against your husband & also for peace to reign in your family (& that of the new compound) I'ill suggest that your husband move into that apartment that the woman pack out from. I understand that your husband is trying to fight for what is rightfully his but he must also try & understand that his opportunity to live a peaceful life with his family is at stake here. As for the sewage problem that is crippling that other apartment, he shouldn't worry about it, God will take care of such. Just trust God, my dear sister