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My Dear, it's legit but for the sake of safety take precautions by telling a relative or a good friend to escort you or tell them where you're going to, if they can't escort you.

The sms is not SCAM nor for the purpose of using you for rituals.

The truth still remains that if you say enough is enough, you have to be ready to take some decisions yourself even after listening to all advise thereof.

It's better to try and see for yourself before drawing a conclusion from hearsays than never to try and later find out you missed a golden opportunity that would have transformed your life.

Still you don't have to blame anyone in this platform for deceiving you or giving you wrong advise because everyone speaks from the best of their knowledge.

I speak from my own experience.

Choose wisely!

I know of one that can help you start making an average of 250k to 500k monthly in the next 6months if you start now.

Though it requires your time commitment to make it happen.

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Blessingsam2318:
Please I need your suggestion on this. My budget for a start is 100k, I need a lucrative business to start with the money. Thanks

I know of one!
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GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

I bet you dear, your 2022 is brighter than any other years past.

From your story I can deduce that you have a good heart and want a good and lovely home with beautiful family to spend quality time with.

God saved you from a catastrophic marriage, as a matter of fact, God's plans for you is in your ability to identify your purpose in life and through that means you will find that good man who will be the complete opposite of your last encounter that will melt your heart for love again.

Sure no one is perfect but things that will make you love him will be more than things that has caused you to hate (partially) men.
Thank God you have "wonderful Father and lovely Brothers" which means not all are one and one cannot be all (men).
I wish you all the best and find reasons to be happy again even when it hurts.

JustMe407:
Well, 2021 is coming to an end in some days. And I personally don't like the way the year went for me. So by 2022, I want to put in a lot of work in my hustle and pray that it pays off.

But the issue is, how does one really hustle effectively? What are the specific things that should be done while working hard? Those that worked hard and made it, please what worked or did not work for you?

I know a lot of people would say avoid women; noted! What other thing should a young entrepreneurial minded Nigerian do in other to scale in his/her hustle.

Abeg make una answer ohh!!
Mods please help push to front page for broader inputs.

Well, you asked the right question and you deserve the right answer.

As a matter of fact God has given us the sufficient grace to excel and be fruitful but the question now is

Are you rolling with the right financial vehicle?
Do you have the right mindset to create wealth?
Are you patient enough to create wealth?
Are you always putting God first in all you do?
And finally do you have a strong WHY for doing what you're doing?

When you are able to answer these questions, then your worries will be less.
I also have solutions when you're able to answer them well.

Meedon:
I don't know the right section to post this. But I will drop it here. A thought occurred to me late October, so from November, 2021 I decided to save or drop any amount in my saving box daily. Below is the money. I didn't snap the ones in 20 and 50 Naira denomination.


flexing don set.

Happy Christmas in advance.

At least you've learned an aspect of money philosophy but it doesn't stop at saving, you still need to learn how to put your money to work to multiply it and also learn how to keep it.
Kudos!
Enjoy the season

I share in your pains Dear.

But know it that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

Keep Hope alive and be rest assured that there are better days ahead.