ModelX: Imagine the embarrassment. No husband can ever be happy in such a situation. Imagine strolling along with your new wife or posting pics on Facebook/Instagram and the men she has slept with and sucked their dîck will be pointing and laughing.
What does female ‘virginity’ mean Just the Facts: * Virginity is a quality an individual (male or female) has and may choose to change by deciding, freely and without coercion or impairment, to experience sexual intimacy with another person of their choice. * So only YOU choose to change it – no one else!! * You can’t lose your virginity or have it taken away from you! * There are lots of situations where sexual contact might have happened BUT we did not get to make a decision – like we might have been too drunk or too young or too pressured or someone abused or assaulted us……..none of this is sex! * Therefore, virginity is not a physical thing but a quality that we carry either in our heart or our head that cannot be lost or taken, but rather a quality that we can choose to change. * Learning the facts about hymens and virginity helps everybody.
Thanks for the enlightenment. Whatever is the definition of virginity, we should always our partner the truth about our past sex life.
BadLuckonmyGame: Na so one tell me say she be virgin. The day we want fvck I lay white bed sheet for my bed because I hear say the blood na sacred blood and should be cherish and in fact the woman should be adorned. Na so, I swim enter vam. Las las she say na maybe bucket of water when she dey carry abi na heavy things she dey carry when she small na make I no see the sacred blood. She even show me links on online to prove her point.. na so I move on with my life because u cannot force your hoe on Me say na me disvirgin you when e no be me. I prefer to marry hoe when tell me truth from beginning than marry virgin when be hoe in the end.
U got my point 100%. Tell me the truth and I would still love her. But she chose to lie to me.
EM123: lol but on a serious note if u want to know whether a woman is a virgin or not is to take her to hospital and do some text , not any girl coming to claim that she is a virgin then u put ur dick in her vagina to know if she is a virgin , she can claim that u disvirgined her. And u can do not about it .
And she go gree follow you say make una go do virginity test when she no be your daughter?
Obakoolex: Pls his story scares me o....my new girlfriend is 27 yrs old virgin, and I love her so much. Yesterday when we're making out I put one finger and it enters tho not easily but two fingers couldn't go in. Please can a finger enter a virgin pussy Or she's been lying to me
She might truely be a virgin. You can't say it with all certainty till you do it.
Mrlucky81: Did you date her because she said she was a virgin? Bro you said she's a pro, you better keep nacking her, because pro are hard to find these days
Cindy222: If you wanna love a girl just love her,let the virginity be a plus. If you make virginity the only thing you want,you might be disappointed at the end of the day.
My love for her in the first place was not based on any assumption of her being a virgin. She made me believe she was only for me to discover otherwise.
funmisticqueen2: you seem to be a mistrusting person. Not everyone bleeds in know presence
Even if she won't bleed in my presence, a little obstruction in the process would have given me assurance she was a virgin. But before I knew it, I was effortlessly accommodated despite the size of my tool.
yeminiz: Take heart bro, I have experience that too. She told me she's virgin but believe me it was direct entry no go slow when I inserted the rod.
We are still together tho' and it's been years. my advise for you is that you continue with her, you never can tell if she's the mother to your unborn kids�
Xclusiveme: I don't really get some dude sha. Showing interest in a girl cos she's a virgin and u ducked her and noticed she wasn't a virgin and you're beginning to lose interest in her. What's so special about being a virgin??
It's just a matter of not lieing about it.
Myself I'm not a virgin and I made it known to her.
Stephenmoka4: The girl should just say that's how her body is, that years ago she tried using toy till it fits properly and he shouldn't be shocked.
I made it well known to her that I have had several times in the past just to get her to tell me the truth, yet she was bent on insisting she's a virgin.
Arekpitad: See one thing with ladies is they are quite sensitive and would only tell you these things if they feel secured around you or see a sense of mature...any lady who just talks without being asked and she isn't isn't worth to be with ...she has just given you the easiest way out because that relationship would become unhealthy
I'm telling you. She would have opened up to me same way I did.
Sixfeetbelle: I hope your criteria for saying she's not a virgin isn't because you didn't see blood? What I'm trying to say is, could you be so kind to point out reasons why you think she isn't a virgin so I can determine if she's lying to you?
The fact that she accommodated me so effortlessly informed my conclusion.
I know a virgin when I have s*x with one. She's not a virgin at all!
Stephenmoka4: Why didn't she just say she have been putting stuff in her body and she had been practicing with her toys she bought but, dispose them. Anyways, why did you loose interest in her. Just as you made your claim she is also making hers.
Arekpitad: One thing about these issues is that you both should know what you want and not based on just one thing because thats what determine maturity in a relationship...asking a lady if she is a virgin makes her uneasy especially if she loves you and her fear of she losing you makes her take such decisons of lying to you so you don't judge her as a bad person ...Don't ask a lady this question, if she sees a bit of maturity she would tell you herself or as a professional you would know yourself with your observations..but i personally don't feel being a virgin is necessary because what matters is the heart,visions and ambitions not even the beauty