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sotall:
You better brace-up and do the needful. There is no worst distraction to academics than you having a romantic affair. It competes with your academics for your time, attention, energy, resources such as money, and most importantly steals your concentration especially as you are a very emotional person.
Don't let your village people use this girl matter play ludo with your destiny.

You may be hurting her but you have to do it so that you can pass out in flying colors, so that you can win departmental/ faculty academic awards, So that you can come out tops in your class.
I am advising you based on my own experience, choose between her and your studies.
Only me knows the reason I graduated with a second class upper when I should have graduated with a first class.

Emilokoiyawon:
Be careful - some gals will murda you if you break up with them. Make sure you know who you are dealing with. If she is not the type then good. However, if she is one of those - then your obituary is loading...

CaptainJeffry:
"Anyway I don't I need to be in any relationship now because I feel its a big distraction"


Discuss that with her and you had better be sincere about the above statement or karma will come for you later.

cruchenutii:
November 2018 Pregnancy of S*X they had on February 15th .... Dec 2018 Denial of Baby & the list goes on...

Holysucker:
Karma av no say in dis.. he said he dosnt love d girl in question anymore.is it by force? or will u prefer him to keep professing love to d girl while he keeps cheating on her?..we don't always end up even wit d one we are ready to die for..so I don't see any fault here..

@0p der isn't a beta way to break up wit someone witout hurting dat person..i will only advice u stop doing doz tins u normally do..like communication..pik her calls but don't sound too interested and lastly stop visiting her..she will get d message

PSTEMMA1960:
u neva ready 2 tell us why u wan quit.

Antina:
You were here sometimes ago to ask if the girl really loves you! Thank God she do love you!! Now, you are here again to get advice how to quilt the relationship.

Didn't you think about being distracted before you started the relationship??

God go help you though!!

Antina:
You were here sometimes ago to ask if the girl really loves you! Thank God she do love you!! Now, you are here again to get advice how to quilt the relationship.

Didn't you think about being distracted before you started the relationship??

God go help you though!!

AnodaIT:
Since the reason is academic, why not turn her to a reading partner or try something that may bore her

gunners160:
Wait,dnt he have close Frnds or relatives to confined with. How does coming online solves the whole issues? When he was asking the lady out did he not care about his studies?Shmm, all of a sudden he became serious with his studies.

NeeKlaus:
He only brought it online because he wants collective opinion on the way forward. Seems like a very normal thing to me.

You should be the immature one for branding something as conventional as this as immature.

tenmariner:
Reduce ur level of affections to her..give flimsy excuse, miss appointment with her for no good reason, stop receiving her calls..if she ask why, tell her u are too weak to pick..Do the above wholeheartedly she will definitely understand..

kimbraa:
Man up and tell her to her face. If you could've approached her for a relationship when you thought you were in love then this shouldn't be a problem. Sep 2017, you were in love... Feb 2018, love don tire you. Campus relationships!.

crismark:
i still dnt knw wat is difficult in jst goin 2 her nd tell her..

"I NO DEY DO AGAIN"

urbanemind:
of course ure a bad person now!!! u don kpansh d girl finish u come dey avoid her, Na good person dey do dat kind thing? quit d relationship like a bad person dat u re without regret..

EBUBS:
I think you should open up to her... The earlier the better. Make sure you make her see reasons why you want to quit.. don't ignore her calls but try as much as u can not to be romantic when you talk to her, rather be playful and unserious. With time she'll find someone else without getting too hurt.
Note: don't have sex with her. If you already did, don't do it again.

Lomprico2:
You have done it already na! What else do u want us to say?

kimbraa:
Man up and tell her to her face. If you could've approached her for a relationship when you thought you were in love then this shouldn't be a problem.

HOLYDICK:
Trash i repeat TRASH

Pubichairs:
seems I have heard this tale before