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jericco1:
cut them some slack, men do worse

Bro Shameless bitches is what they are.

ImaIma1:
Since you have decided to focus on the "confused" ones, i doubt that you will even be able to identify a good one even if she is in front of you.

But the good news is that more and more guys are adopting these reasons as their excuse to go to the other side and be gay. You should find a guy that will love you completely. Because i doubt that a serious minded and good woman can put up with your pettiness and immaturity.

So on behalf of many women here, i donate you to men looking for love.

Lols Gay

What's with these gay conclusion??
how on earth will I be interested in my fellow men that I didn't even mention anything gay in my opening post??

Mind you this ain't enough reason why they turned out gay.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I guess some ladies came to this same realization about men and decided to act out.

When it comes to cheating and lies, men have that award back to back.

Mind you whether the guy cheats or not,ladies can be unbelievable and are prone to act weird when a new guy shows up with much money.It is always the case with them.

A guy can love you,and for some reason cheat on you.This reason could be resulting from a whole lot of changes in attitude, behaviour and features(physical look) by the Lady involved.Simple.These is where u guys get it all wrong as the reason for him cheating on you was as a result of your carelessness and ignorance.

BUHARI!!! Abi wetin be your name?? dem swear dash you?? Don't try this rubish thing again on my thread.
Ediotic fellow like the lifeless one I know.Mtchew

kurupt1:
Don't worry u will get a good girl but its very difficult sha.The devil is using a lot of women nowadays.Take it easy

Bros forget that thing,dem go hear am.

cowgirl9090:
welcome to the gay club brother.

you must be mad!!

dairykidd:
There will always be cheap petty girls who are up to no good... My advice is when ever u see the warning signs never ever overlook them. Treat a hoe as a hoe & a queen as a queen.

Don't ruin a good thing because u have had so many ugly shît ur way

its not about having ugly shits with them bro.These bitches ain't loyal.They are not queens but servants.

Well you may be wondering I chose that topic.
But get it straight,
**My future wife,the girls or ladies I know now and the ones am still to meet,will never ever receive genuine love from me.**

Now let me explain this.
Over time,based on my experience, even on news here on nairaland I have come to the conclusion that that all these girls you see parading up and down are confused fellows.


The other day,it was a lady who was caught pants down with her boyfriend in an hotel room where she lodged for her wedding which was scheduled to hold the next day.Foolish idiot!!

The other time,I saw with my very eyes, a married lady who was caught in the act with another man.I was like what the heck is this??


Another one was the one I saw today about a guy who commuted suicide simply because the supposed girlfriend sent him a sex video of her with another man.Man what shit!!


Based on my own little experience, I have met girls who are willing to go down with me for a pack of indomie.There is one I met back then,she has a boyfriend or fiancee who sends her money,buys her whatever she needs and in fact so glaring that he loves her. Worst of it was that if you see this girl anywhere, you will think she is a church and yes she is.But if I tell you in details about everything that went down in her room every evening when I pay her a visit, it is then you'll understand what am saying.
I won't also deny the fact that I gave up even the ones I loved because of that realisation.When I knew that a woman is nothing but a distraction.


in essence,my wife to be(that's if at all)+the girls I have now+the ones yet to come will see pepper.They don't deserve my love,talk less of my worries.Cos I got a whole lot to worry about.

DanXplore:
It doesn’t matter. You might still find your self downloading her pictures from time to time depending on how deep you fell for her.

Lesson: padlock your heart until you are sure to a degree that your feelings are mutual

Thanks bro.In fact I don't wish to ever speak to her again.I can only wish to see her only to walk past her with a stare to her eyes and not utter a word to her.
Its infact fun

It ain't my fault sha.She tapped me at the back with a smile and let me in.I never wanted anything to do with her.She was simply a beautiful snare.


Ive learnt my lesson sha.Thank God.

Thanks a lot bro.I have moved on.I have done that already.I don't care if she loves me or not.l also dont care whether she would like the decision or not.That her opinion ain't necessary. Its not the first time I've told her how complicated she is.But this time I made i official by texting her about letting her go.


I feel better right now.At least I won't have to bother myself about her fu***cking feelings anymore.Or to try restart the fire of love between us when ever I feel its gone off.
Am free.

In fact I don't wish to ever speak to her again.I can only wish to see her only to walk past her with a stare to her eyes and not utter a word to her.

Its infact funny to realize that there's a thin line between love and hate

And yes I have moved on.
Thank you all for your advice.


Had to delete every chat,messages,pictures,numbers and everything that brings her to mind.It ain't easy sha.

brandon180:
dis one na just talk, u still love d girl and she has eaten deep into u emotionally..
whether she don friendzone u sef..
And u re coming here to cry because u cant get wat u want from her.

Friend zone
Haba No na

We've only been friends.Its two years now.Not a relationship. She's a church girl(Holy type).She could only allow me cuddle her,kiss her(once in a blue moon),hug her and romance but no sex(only if she knows I don't want it either).She told me she doesn't hug anybody except for her loved ones.Anyways,never was there a time I have seen her hug anybody,not even her lodge mates who are very good companions to her.She's Older and matured too.


She told she hasn't dated nor been in any relationship with any guy. And she doesn't want any thing like that yet.One day she told me that she has had few guys who came very close as friends;she even narrated how it was between she and those male friends.And she told me that she isn't into anything with them.Even tho she still in contact with them(Hmmmm).
Tho,she told me pump and plain that as far as schooling for her is concerned,that I'm the only guy who has ever came too close.

On few occasions whereby I see her with a guy (maybe a lodge mate),I'll grow suspicious of her which will become obvious to her.She will plainly tell me that she has nothing to do with them.I don't even know why she does that.


I asked her about dating,but she said no.Infact she told me **If you think this whole thing would mean me dating you,it can't work**
I asked her about the future,she said **well I don't know about the future,we may meet each other**

For me personally,I just don't understand her lifestyle.Sometimes when I touch or hold her,I feel she's disturbed based on her faith as a good Christian that she is.And her body language gives me a sign that she just doesn't want me to go.A day came when I told her that I doubt she loves me,she said **If you think so,why would I let you come this close??**


Now the problem

I love her,no doubt.And I don't see her the way I see most of them in school here.Even when you meet her as a person,you'll know she deserves respect.And I like her for that. She is not wayward. She cares too.I'll like us to be together in the coming future.


She's too complicated for my liking;and I don't like things being complicated.It bothers my heart to always seem or feel as the only one being in love.As if its a one-sided thing.So that's why I want to cut her off.Period.But we can still be friends.But not the close friends we used to be.


I have deleted her two numbers out of three.But then I still have her WhatsApp number which I don't want to block.Because she will easily know.We chat almost everyday.And have grown so fond of each other.So if I block it,she may not be happy with me.I don't want to hurt her.



pls someone advise me how to loosen the bond.

pls I really need the help of Good Engineering mathematicians in the house to help do justice to this very question on Dynamic programming.
Thanks.

Well dear am currently on a quite strong 2:1 In engineering too and hoping for a first class.


so I guess failing at this time of your school year is somewhat a very bad start which might go a long way to affect you for the rest of your years in school.If you choose to tho.

You can actually take it as a challenge,and as such, try to prove to yourself that you could have done better if not for certain circumstances (i.e if the circumstances responsible were beyond you) by doing better in the semesters to come.If actually it was due to your fault then I think you would need to turn a new leaf and stop whatever it is that distracts you from your studies.


Study effectively at least 4 hours everyday.Make sure you don't let pride set in by not requesting for help from other intelligent students who really understand a particular course.

Attend all lectures each semester has to offer and make sure at the end of the lecture you are sure you learnt something.

Also keep away from friends that can't help you academically.


Pray to GOD also.

Chuknovski:
I dare to say you ain't normal, how can you hate Gods creation that much, are you a robot, you are cocooned with irrelevant issues, I suggest you go for phycological checks

How can a psychologist help me
This is who I am.If its abnormal to you fine.I can't settle for any thing less.Thanks tho.

Strawberry001:
Okay. You should probably see a psychologist.

Sorry I don't think a psychologist can help the issue.It is just who I am.

xfire:
Since he is considering an engineering discipline, let him consider the traditional engineering courses such as mechanical , chemical or electrical engineering. The traditional engineering disciplines remain the most versatile disciplines not only in the oil industry but in other industries as well. Bioresources engineering is relatively new and is very much restrictive for now. Bioresources does not have anything to do with crude oil and natural gas but rather deals with renewable energy sources such as bioethanol, biogas, wind, solar, etc. However, this advice is only applicable if he is truly passionate about engineering. Geology will also restrict him to only certain industries such as oil and gas which is already saturated with many qualified geology graduates still looking for opportunities.

However, advise him not to be obsessed with the oil industry. Instead he should study a course he is really passionate about. Oil and gas is certainly not the end of life, as one can live a fulfilled and even richer life doing something else. There is absolutely no guarantee he will end up in the oil and gas industry irrespective course studied.

Good day sir,based on your quote above,

*Bioresources engineering is relatively new and is very much restrictive for now*


Sir may I know how Bio resource Engineering is now after that post you made 3years ago

Thanks in anticipation.

Strawberry001:
Were you ever sexually abused? Hope you know that the same vagina you hate is where you probably came out from.

I wasn't abused.I don't know why I grew up that way.

smart6:
OP you are very okay, but this reply is as irritating as it sounds.

I don't want to make out things from it. You sound like one in the closet.

One in the closet meaning

smart6:
TheGenius001, don't come here & waste our time... Asking if you are normal or what Na for my mouth you wan hear am abi? Read the italized above. Thank U.

you're trying to imply I hate them girls?

mhisbliss:
Yes, infact you can't begin to imagine

And you wouldn't mind to share them?

CaptJeffry:
Vag*** used to look dirty and disgusting to me during my maturity years. Then I would only kiss a lady and press booby.
I guess you're normal if you're under 20 but if you're above 25, bro I fear you may be heading to becoming a gay. But heh, American visa may be easy for you. Just tell them that Nigerian law is against your type.

Bro am above 20
Am not a small boy.

mhisbliss:
Nothing is wrong with you, it is your preference, and its normal, i have wierd preferences too

Are they as weird as mine too

daewoorazer:
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That’s not normal...your mamba should rise irrespective of the type of pvs$y as long as it’s human and a woman...

Go see a shrink...do not let people who know nothing about psychology tell you shïts...go before it’s too late...

If you don’t tackle this, your marriage is gonna nose-dive...or do you want to be hiding from your wife during the wee hours when she demands normal attention from her supposed husband?

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I'll let her know before marrying her.
if she can keep it very neat,then no problem.But if she can't cope with the above 100%.She can forget it. I will find someone else.

daewoorazer:
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You hate sex

Or you hate premarital sex

Please clarify....because saying you hate sex begs the question ‘are you impotent’?!

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I naturally have fear for Vag***
I mean its stinking and too porous and irritating.

mhisbliss:
You're very Normal as long as you're not having feelings for a guy

plss are you serious


God forbid I even hate discussing sexual stuffs with fellow guys.Its irritating.

I will briefly describe what really attracts me to a girl.Pls on your analysis,am I normal

(1) I consider the finger nails.


I like natural ones.I hate it when she bites her nails or a very short nails.I also hate painted nails.This is the most important to me.I just like perfect natural nails. the same goes to toe nails.I am not attracted to girls who doesn't satisfy this ones.This I repeat is the most imortant
am I normal
is it just me that stares at a girl's finger nails especially when am meeting her for the first time?


(2)Brilliant or intelligent.

if she's not,I wouldn't even give her a second look.



(3) I hate big boobs.


its stinking to me.I mean its gonna look like hell when you're old.
Am I normal

(4)I hate the Vag***
(Modified)
I naturally have fear for Vag***
I mean its stinking and too porous and irritating.


(5)If I only did pre-intimacy,I will hate you even if you come around again.I will just hate you,not to talk of doing the real stuff.


(6)I hate relationships.

its just too complicated.




I am most concerned about the nails of a thing.Pls I hve lost so many girls because of this.


So pls am I normal Pls help
I hate that attitude. Is it just me

This really got me pondering.What does it feel like when you're the best student of a department of about 150 students but not with a first class degree?
What does it feel like and what are your chances out there?


If you're one of those guys, pls kindly share your experience.Thank

Richiez
Fynestboi
olawalebabs

Delightiphie:
Hmm, but learn to kip somethins private n offline..

Sometimes you can't keep it private,simply because you want people to also hear your story,but in an anonymous way.

Moreover my moniker is as private as my Identity.Thanks.

Abeg I didn't call for insults here,if you have no advice to tender u vamoose away.

After all its not a must you comment. Mtchewww.


Thanks goes to those whose advice I'll consider.