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Family / Which Is The Best Lotion For Kids? by thekichinboss: 8:15am On Aug 18, 2021
So I have been on a quest to get a good body care product for my baby. She used to use a particular organic brand, but I don't see any difference in her skin. The marks that were caused by the measles she had sometime ago is still very much visible.

She is a year now and I thought, ooohhkay, it's times to fine something else.


I went online and it seems that the Lillies Kids and Teens is the new raving sensation, I also had the option of Baby Secret Amino Acid Lotion.


Pls have you used any of these creams? What is your experience? And which do you think is better off.
Family / Expectant Mum: Don't Waste Your Money Buying These Baby Items by thekichinboss: 4:22pm On Apr 30, 2021
The excitement of having a baby is overwhelming, from the scans to the buying of baby things and everything in between.


No be everybody get money to spend, a lot of parents are on an average financial level, so it would only make sense that you spend your limited resources on baby and maternity items that are important.


If you are a first time mum, you most likely do not even know what you would need and won't need.

Well, take a look at these videos patiently, don't forget to take a pen and joy down as you watch.


This is a comprehensive list of the items you would need, those that are not really necessary and those you should completely ignore. Also ways to improvise for items that seem very expensive.








https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eIRsL41AOQ
Food / Where To Get Foodstuffs In Bulk And At Cheaper Prices In Lagos by thekichinboss: 12:28pm On Mar 30, 2021
The price of food stuff is increasing by the day and to cook for a family now is money. Just imagine how much a family of six spends on food daily.

People no longer even eat thrice daily, if two time manage come out everybody go manage grin


An average Nigerian family must learn how to cut corners when it comes to this food matter so that at least they can eat good food without spending soo much.


Meal planning, budgeting, bulk shopping, prepping and preservation are the gateway to spending less money and time in the kitchen.


Markets in Lagos where you can get foodstuffs in bulk and at cheaper prices are :

Mile 12: you see all those perishables, if you want them fresh and way cheaper than what you will buy in your area, this is the place.


Oyingbo: I never see the soup wey you want cook wey the ingredients no dey this market. Especially soups from the Eastern and Southern parts of Nigeria.


You want crayfish in bulk? Fish of different types and shapes? Dried or fresh? Liverpool is the place to be.


There are other markets that are central for different locations too. Like Mushin, Iyana Iba, Ile-epo, Ikotun, and the likes.


For beef and the likes, there are abattoirs scattered all over, popularly called Odo-eran. Just locate the one closer to you.



Stocking up monthly or bi-weekly is the way forward. You get to buy food items at the wholesale prices, which would save you some money and of course stress of always going to get in bits.




The major challenge of buying in these markets is that a lot of people don't have the money to buy at large quantities, all you have to do is collaborate with other people who need items from the same market and you guys buy together and share.


Also, it is one thing to know where these markets are, it's another thing to understand how the market operates and know the nooks and crannies of the market. If not, even in market like Mile 12, you might end of buying expensive stuff.




If you are interested in sharing food items or you have a list you want to stock up for the month, click on this link
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Food / Re: Help On How To Make Fried Rice With Chicken by thekichinboss: 11:33am On Mar 29, 2021
BenzEne1:


Not a girl bro.
Can I have your WhatsApp number?
Really appreciate.
Food / Ever Heard Of Dikpon? Here's How To Make It. by thekichinboss: 11:14am On Mar 29, 2021
Very funny name for a very funny food that was probably invented when sapa catch one person and he just couldn't think of what to eat.

But then it's a delicious casual snacky meal made from beans.

So now imagine buying agege bread straight from the bakery and it is very hot and you buy butter and spread in the middle. The bread hits different cos it's hot. It's no longer just bread and butter right?

Not sure exactly why it is called Dikpon tho but I learnt it from my moms ijebu friend, so maybe you might know it if you are ijebu


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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdE8bRZETSE
Food / Re: Help On How To Make Fried Rice With Chicken by thekichinboss: 10:52am On Mar 29, 2021
BenzEne1:
Please cooks in the house.
I need a recipe for making Fried Rice, I am cooking for some folks of mine for the first time and I want this to be good.
An easy to understand guide.

cc: Pocohantas, Amaka1



Baby girl, I swear I wish I could type out all the recipe for you now. But I can't. Go on YouTube and check, you will see. Or if you can come on whatsapp, I can send a vn or something
Family / What Do Your Miss About Pre-mummy/ Pre-daddy Life? by thekichinboss: 10:48am On Mar 29, 2021
cry cry cry cry I want my sleep back cry cry cry cry cry

I'm narcoleptic and being a mum with that has taught me that some struggles in life are real.
I struggle to stay awake, and yet I don't get to sleep when I am supposed to.


And did I mention that I miss spending time in the bathroom. Before baby, I spend time in the bathroom, cos mehn that's where the best ideas drop. And I get to do all the scrubbing and exfoliating.
Now ehn, na rush rush baff ooo. My mum will just be shouting, do quick ooo, bath like a mother and don't spend time there ooo. I just rush in and rush out.


More importantly I miss my me time with my hubby. Ohhhhh cry cry cry cry It feels like we no longer have enough time for each other. Now baby is growing to toddler phase, she is always all up in our middle.



Hubby goes to work all day, and still has to comman be baby sitting at night if her cry is too much maybe cos of heat. I pity the young man, he will just be fanning her and dozing at the same time while she drains my breasts like she went to work in her dreams.



Children are a beautiful gift but mehn sometimes it's so overwhelming, especially if you have never done it before. Trying to blend into the parenting life is hard work.



What things do you miss about pre-parenting era?
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 10:31am On Mar 29, 2021
Kimkiss:
When i had my first child,no trouble with breastmilk cos it abundant and i had to block the second breast with my hand so it wont waste.but the pain while sucking chai i felt like crying but i console myself cos it a junior to labour or /agaro/to the yoruba folks.




Yes ooo, the pain can't be compared to labour pain oooo
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 8:41am On Mar 27, 2021
culf:


Na so. we have to be grateful and appreciative of how God made us. We are all unique.



True, you are right. Me I'm always grateful oooo
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 8:40am On Mar 27, 2021
cricifixo:
What of a 32 year old baby...just asking for a friend



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Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 8:39am On Mar 27, 2021
culf:



you're very funny. That will be wrong sha though it can be frustrating but its not the wife's fault.
we suffered ooo, before my wife's breastmilk starts flowing, there is nothing we didn't do, from palm kernel to hot water, from tom brown to palm wine, drugs to massaging, there is nothing we didn't do or apply. I never blamed her, we were in it together, I know its not her fault. I heard it's also very common with ladies that gave both through CS.
So taking the frustration on the woman is totally wrong.

#meanwhile the milk is more important to us thank to
drink tea




You are a good husband naaa, better person. Some men ehn, when I encounter them I feel like giving them knock.
Thank God the milk later came out, I can imagine how relieved your wive will be. Cos that thing can disturb person ehn.
My friend will just be crying because milk no dey, when the thing finally came, she was literally dancing
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 10:12pm On Mar 26, 2021
lilyheaven:

Did you see that post where a woman was breastfeeding her 5 years old son?

People reacted to it.




Ahhhhhhhhh 5year old ke? Anyways she would have her reasons sha. My mum told me that there used to be a boy in her village, all those distant relatives. The boy was a grown boy, he will leave school and come home during break to come and suck breast grin grin grin
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 10:09pm On Mar 26, 2021
culf:


yeah, the child will be smart and intelligent but you can't compare breastmilk to formulas. the immunity, the attachment, the nutrients, water, etc all in one. My boy suck for over a year ooooo.



.yeah I get, breastmilk and formula cannot be compared. Just that some men begin to overreact as if it is the wife's fault that breastmilk is not flowing. Some men become so aggressive you would think they want to use the milk to drink tea
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 10:07pm On Mar 26, 2021
culf:


it may sound weird but its true. we are all build differently, The one I read us the lady herself that was asking if it's Normal that she usually have orgasm when her baby suck.

Some ladies lips are so sensitive that they can have orgasm from kissing talk more of breast just that the person involve here is her child.





Nawa ooooooo, it is well
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 8:10pm On Mar 26, 2021
culf:



hmmm, I have read something like that before, I think its ladies that have very sensitive breast. I Have also heard some ladies said their weak point is breast, I believe such ladies can orgasm when their baby suckle while some like my wife don't feel anything at all. she finds it weird self.




True oooo, even the thought of it sef is weird
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 8:08pm On Mar 26, 2021
culf:



its not our fault ooo, we just want the best for the child and knowing how important breastmilk is, we have to clamour for it.




Yeah true. Breastfeeding milk is important but it's not cast in stone if for any reason the mother can't breastfeed. And yes the child will still be smart and intelligent, it's not about breastmilk.

Although breastmilk is very essential especially in building the immunity of the child.

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Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 6:40pm On Mar 26, 2021
HajiaNotu:
My aunt had difficulty breastfeeding her baby due to milk not flowing well.She wanted to introduce formulae to her son at 3 mnts.She told me a friend introduced her to some lactation food items like cookies, tea etc.
Follow on I g The Milk Booster..It worked for my aunt. ..like she said her milk started flowing well and shes able to do exclusive breastfeeding for 6months.




I totally agree, it's one of the things I recommended in my video too. The milkbooster products work well, I ate it too and milk was just everywhere just after eating a pack of the cookies with Tea.

It's even better if a mum starts to eat them from the moment she is 36wks pregnant,it really helps

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Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 6:34pm On Mar 26, 2021
lilyheaven:

It’s not true, except with older babies, who are upto 1 year and above


Ohhhhkay but a lot of moms breastfeed their babies for over one year, even as far as a year and half

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Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 5:13pm On Mar 26, 2021
culf:


eyaaa, Pele. my wife did all that you mentioned above too and more. Her milk didn't come on time.



Na so ooo, it's like that for some women, while for some, it is fountain of flowing milk right from day 1


Body no be same, that's why person no fit dey compare mothers
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 5:10pm On Mar 26, 2021
culf:



not all women.




Sure cheesy cheesy Can't be all women ooo, cos me I don't feel anything like orgasm, it's even more of a slight sensation, mostly on the other breast that is not being sucked at that moment, and then before you know it, that one sef go dey leak milk.


I think there was a post of a girl who said she felt some kind of orgasmic way when her aunties baby sucked her boobs, but that's not her baby so I guess that's why.

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Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 5:06pm On Mar 26, 2021
lilyheaven:
Milk refused to flow for two days, I started drinking palm wine grin, pap without sugar nor milk cry cry
Fourth day, it started flowing, but the pain was so much, I cried each time I’m feeding the baby.
Massaging with hot water helped me a lot.
Chia that pain was terrible, the pain really touched my inner heart cry




Awwwwwnnnnn she say the pain touched her inner heart. Massaging with hot water really helped with engorgement. One day my breast was so engorged I was shivering and shaking so badly. My mum said the cold was because of the breast. I quickly expressed it Abeg, even though it means I have to throw it away cos mama wouldn't accept feeding bottle.

But my mum reassured me that the pain and engorgement would reduce and finally stop as time went on, especially cos babies tend to increase their sucking quantity

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Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 3:05pm On Mar 26, 2021
Nwaotu10:
I heard it gives some women orgasm when a child sucks on it. How true is it?




I have heard so too, but I don't know how true that it but I think it's very possible. Cos one would definitely feel some kind of sensation when the breast is being sucked

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Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 3:03pm On Mar 26, 2021
culf:


it was ooo, initially I didn't agree to the use of formulas but when I noticed that he was looking malnourished, I had no option than to agree.




���the way you men clamour for breastfeeding ehn
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 3:11pm On Mar 25, 2021
culf:
Wify breastmilk refused to show ooo, and when it eventually started flowing, it wasnt enough, had to buy milk for my baby.



Sometimes it's like that, and I understand it would be so overwhelming for her.
It's okay to use formulas if breastmilk no gree show face, as far as baby is well fed.
Family / Re: What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 2:36pm On Mar 25, 2021
LadySarah:
They didn't explain it well I swear.
Being a new mom ,the milk came in on the 2nd day.Woke up with a fever and alas my boobs were rock solid!I didnt understand what was happening.Had a warm massage and it got pouring out.

Latching wahala,engorgement every now and then nipple cracking/bleeding until we got the hang of it.

Every stage is challenging.






Them no explain am at all oo �� I mean, you just see a mother just whip out the breast and the baby is sucking while she just does other things like it is nothing.

So in my mind I am like is it not just to suck breast ��� I no know say the matter different.


I heard some women actually have serious injuries that bleed around their nipples, so much that nipple cream doesn't even do justice to it.


I swear motherhood needs to be a course in special universities cos everyday bit of it is a journey especially the sleepless nights ��
Family / What Was It Like Breastfeeding As A First Time Mom? by thekichinboss: 1:45pm On Mar 25, 2021
Breastfeeding can be something shaaaaa, why didn't they tell us what we were going to expect?


God help you, you have a child that knows how to latch on and suckle very well and very hard, Ohhhh my goodness ��


Breastmilk didn't show face until the next day, I had read a lot about it (not that it does justice to the real experience) but at least I knew what to do to get ready and prepared for the journey ahead.

It was pretty smooth for me, my baby knew how to latch on well (as if she had gone for training classes in the womb) so I didn't have problems with latching.


But I know some people who didn't have it pretty with breastfeeding, especially cos it's their first time.

And those hanties and grandmas too won't help matter, they will just be coming with all sorts of recommendations.


I also think that some of the things I learnt during my researches helped a lot.



If you are a mom, what was your experience like? A mom to be can learn a thing or two.

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You can check out my video where I talked about the things you would need for an almost smooth breastfeeding journey.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGwEibb1CsE

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