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abatisegun:
. Looking at it from what western world has brought for us, we will say it's not allowed. But viewing it from another perspective, it's so much allowed because those women also have their family names which is also important and valuable to them and mush be kept. Consider a family where there are only females and no male, and the family name is well known. If we now say they should only beat their husband name what do u think will happen to d family name?

. The family name would still die out anyway .. or will the children bear her maiden or hyphenated name ... After paying bride price and this new uprise of legal divorce proceedings plus if the children bear their fathers name what's now the point of keeping her maiden name

People are mad ooo ... He specifically said poverty stricken African nation .. I.e the poorest or a nation amongst the poor in Africa ... Anyone who disputes this fact is retarded , Nigeria is pretty much one of the richest in Africa and that would at least have a bit of impact talk less of the poorer nation . seriously try converting that money to naira , then when you are done convert it to CFA of Benin republic ... now keep it in mind that Benin is at least a mid tier nation in Africa . Low esteemed trolls.

There are 2 things involved , unless she has reached menopause you either not hitting it right or she is no longer attracted to you and is giving you duty sex (don't believe me do the math if you had sex 7 times a week even if she felt it was a bit tiring if she enjoyed it she wouldn't go from 7 to 2 that over 50% discount ).. at the end of the day these 2 things both mean the same thing, she isn't attracted to you anymore . For women sex is mental as it is physical ... you could do all the right things yet if she isn't feeling you its pretty much a waste of time, if this was abroad she'd be thinking divorce papers. She is basically saying she doesn't want to sleep with you , sex with you is a chore . Women are turned off by weakness , for her to boldly tell you to choose 2 days in a week when you'll have sex and expect a positive outcome shows she looks down on you.The fact you asking us if this is okay proves what I'm saying . In her defence attraction isn't a choice this could be subconscious. As for advice lol if you are willing to have mechanised sex twice a week on premeditated days go ahead , if you dont which I hope is the answer don't agree to it but don't argue about it ,by arguing at best you'll get a bitter woman laying on her back because she has no choice, just tell her you'd consider her feelings but your not scheduling anything . you are better off not agreeing to it then you are gonna have to try your best to only initiate once in a week (hard but too bad ) whilst trying to understand how you are being weak or unattractive be it in behaviour or appearance. Since she said twice a week and she obviously has a libido too she should at least show signs eventually that she wants sex if she is too much of a prude to initiate ... if however she doesn't and seems content with it maybe after 2 weeks of doing this (twice in fourteen days) then you'd have to increase it to twice a week , if she seems receptive to your advances then its at least progress , if she however seems indifferent or godforbid unhappy about your advance , she still finds you unattractive and you haven't solved anything.(Also don't be deluded into thinking you can buy or pamper your way to sex this is the working principle of magas and mugus globally , you can't negotiate desire/konji you can only evoke it)

so many silly old ladies forming tough luck then claiming they trying to help op by not being a part of the pity party circle jerk ... She is frustrated hence she is venting , this is a perfectly natural response as a human being that feels trapped . You people are even more useless than the so called pity party, they at least give her some level of comfort whilst you peeps just further aggravate her by calling her a lazy entitled wench and tell her to sit up whilst providing zero means to do so . What you guys are doing is the equivalent of me bashing you for not being a billionaire able to afford some uber expense because you just a simpleton content with your own folly and not a goal driven person ,then telling you to sit up . Just pure bashing with zero value , even snot nosed kids can bash. However advising her to attempt to sit up in itself isn't bad , but behaving like if she was hardworking she would be independent by now and she is completely at fault for not being independent is a just world fallacy , hardwork is a prerequisite to money and lucky encounters but it is by no means a guarantee . And to the group bashing her for being a witch against her sis in law , even if she is old and able what about their junior bro ?

I'm not saying the husband is smart or something but I don't understand the kind of animals that would think permanently disfiguring the man was suitable punishment ... if she was tired of the beating she should have divorced him or reported him but no she had to disfigure him and you bunch of pamper wearing teens and adults are here supporting her . if the roles were reversed and it was a dude getting his ass kicked on a steady what would be your reaction if he decided to bath his wife wit hot water ... he would probably get lynched or burnt to death before the post could hit front page. sha the guy is probably retarded or the Lady is a witch , I can't imagine how you would commit such an act and still have the liver to stay in his house .

So this is how nairaland females reason ... The dude is supposedly buoyant enough to help his gf in her unemployed times by giving her an allowance of 50 K , she has probably received this for more than two months . Now when its her turn to show her love and appreciation for her bf on his bday she is acting lyk an olosho who has to dash him a gift out of obligation to prevent being tagged .its the thought that counts ... what's the thought behind buying a cheapass perfume and giving it nice packaging to make it look like a good thing . Nigga if this story is true you better run her only grace is if you stink bad and a perf less than 1k Prally wouldn't even solve that .

The injoo i2s hasn't been in stock on jumia for so long ... Are they gonna restock ? where else can I buy the phone in Lagos ?

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1202343/I-hate-bread-winner-says-resentful-working-mother-two.html this link should pretty much sum everything up ... its called Madonna syndrome where the woman intentionally or not frustrates her husband because he can't meet up with her earning power . would I live in a house built by my wife , only if I'm willing to be an emasculated shell of a man.

promisador:
Please help me out, I’ve
been working on this. The picture on
my
screening form is my birth certificate
mistaken for my passport by the cafe
attendant. I’ve been to CITS and they
said there’s nothing they can do.
What else can I do and will this make
me lose my admission or affect me
later in the school? I need to upload
a new passport
photo.

. where you able to rectify the problem ?

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of course its harder for guys ,first things first if we remove religion from the equation a male virgin is seen as pathetic, imagine a male virgin at 33 but being a female virgin is a thing of pride .... then again most male virgins don't have a choice in the matter they are usually peeps who couldn't get laid even if their lives depended on it will now be forming team virgin -.- it is more difficult for a guy to make a conscious decision to abstain till marriage compared to females who could probably enjoy from either side abstaining or indulging ...

Op how old are you and how long would you have to wait if you actually agreed to this If your not gonna get married within the next 5 years (too much self) I fear for your ball sac .

Smh ... Now people justify relationship prostitution garh . When will people start seeing sex as a 2 way thing not just somfyn the guy enjoys

*Facepalm* Ugly Bolo

What's wrong with this girl ? Desperate guys are bad yes buh what's wif you nd imma. Elegant classy virgin shit ? Most proud gals are usually slutty , maybe dats what's attracting the punny desperados

Good thing you didn't generalise , buh Most men ?

Ugh , aside from the fact this is copy and paste. Number 2- Your the most beautiful woman in the world ? Really ?I thought you said genuine compliments plus that is waaay too mushy that should be for Old married couples then Number 6 is beyond common , the remaining are okay.

At first I actually wanted to help but now I change my mind .

It is as true as ojuju killing people at night

You go dey date olosho come NL dey complain , park well jor (your friend sef na waste)

Smh ... Why are you disturbing us ? Abegy go find labour job do, save money down for upkeep and ya 2 namings

Personally , I don't care about skin colour but from what I've heard , Fair gals are considered Flashy, usually have smoother skin and since they are fewer compared to darker babes they have a kinda unique look (Note: light skinned gal wey ugly ,ugly)

For a girl to give you her number with that lame approach , its either Your very handsome or She is very desperate