IbrahimSkiba:
What about fear of DICK

PHALLOPHOBIA

Your head get oil...

Adasun:
then u are a snub, if I need u more, I had put up with it but if I don't actually need u then I aren't chatting u
again bro

That's why you're not in my DM, Sir.

Adasun:
did u read the message

I read every WhatsApp message that enters my phone, replying depends on whether the message tickles my fancy or not.

Offpoint1:

I just tire for that guy.

Whoever message me within Monday-Friday 7am-9pm is wasting their time. I have time I respond to messages, if it's important... CALL ME.

You don talk am finish Sir.

Adasun:
true talk... If the person read Ur messages and didn't
reply,that one dey understandable but say u send message and didn't get reply over a reasonable time,what reasonable time

I still get new year messages wey I never reply yet, does that make me a bad guy?

Gentlesoul2021:


You could as well tell them you're busy, while u do your thing and get back to them later. How about that....

So if ten people chat me up, I should tell all of them that I'm busy, is that not the same as replying them?

If you chat me up and I don't reply, it shows I'm busy, I don't need to explain myself first.

You either wait or do what soothes you.

CatchMeIfUCanMO:

Stop capping, the first guy said "if they don't reply in a reasonable time..."
Keyword: Reasonable time.

That guy you are backing/supporting is capping rub. bish like you, if you are reading or doing other things online it won't show that you are online on messenger or WhatsApp. He is only trying to prove or justify non. sense.

Lol jon snow, you know nothing Sir.


If your data is on and a WhatsApp message enter, don't you see notifications?

The person would also see a double tick on their message which means the message delivered but you haven't read it yet.

What does that tell you? That means the person is online but haven't checked your message yet.


So if I don't reply you till later in the night, that makes me a bad guy?

LoL.

I repeat, you don't know nothing Jon snow.

MissIndependent:
Same here what if i am reading a very long important epistle that is more beneficial to me? Ignore the app and go to Whatsapp or fb Messenger? One would have to wait for the other for response...😎

Your head dey there Ma'am.

If I'm studying and a message pops in, if I immediately start replying, the person would assume that you're free and would keep dropping more messages, then what do you think happens to what you're reading?

Of course you'll never finish what you're doing.

Nemesis0147:
so people really thinks that lives revolves around chats.

Exactly, I mean I've got physical friends too and it would be considered rude for you to be hanging out with men them and you're pressing your phone like a bitch just because plenty people dey chat you online when most of the chats na billing go finish am las las.


This life no hard, na we carry too many trivia things for head.

mariahAngel:


Do you let them know that when you eventually reply?

Lemme tell you something funny about myself.

I have some messages that I haven't replied since this year started, but nobody can get mad at me or block me cause when I have your time, you'll enjoy chatting with me that's because I have a peculiar way of replying messages that you'll even forget that I hadn't replied you for months sef.


Infact the best way to get my attention to reply is to talk about money or business, I'll reply you in mili seconds.


But if what you want is to catch up and shiii, you have to wait.

So it's safe to say, I don't explain to anyone why I didn't reply their messages on time, if you can't wait, block button no hard, funny thing, I might not even know you blocked me sef


I'm not a snub, I just rank my priorities and chatting with random people is the lowest of my priorities.

yarimo:
(1) If I messaged you and you are online without response in a reasonable time I will unfriend you even if you later reply I won't reply you forever.
(2) If i messaged you and it shown seen without reply in a reasonable time I will unfriend you
(3) If you reply my message within a minute I will reply within a minute, if you reply in the next 5 minutes I will reply you in the next 5 minutes too.

I do most of my reading and tutoring online, I don't reply any WhatsApp or FB message till I'm through, if you think I'm snobbing you cause your message delivered and I didn't reply, you're Oyo.

Nobody help anybody put data for phone.

I can't be toggling two or more apps because I want to reply folks that want to chat what would not benefit me.

So na only picture wey him wear cele gown him don snap with for him life?


May God guide his soul safely.
🧘🧘🧘

I cover this thread and my self with the blood of Jesus.


🧑‍🦯🧑‍🦯🧑‍🦯🧑‍🦯

VeryWickedMan:
With how fuel is set to become N1,200 per litre, the husband should be grateful for her thoughtfulness.

First time I'm agreeing 100% with your comment.

Like I thought I was the only one getting that evil thought as I was reading the article.

Autobot05:


But mine is reacting violently sha
Not touchy touchy … more like I’ll counter the person’s harassment.

If na fight we go fight am there after that you won’t wannna try me again … nobody ever has
I just make sure I don’t look for trouble sha . Infact people always call me that gentle boy even tho they know say I be bad boy 😂🤣 .

I hardly fight oh, I'm very gentle to a fault but if I've ever turn dark on you before, you'll know that I'm one of the most evil person ever.

But everybody knows I'm the good guy that can be very bad.

Dear Op, so sorry for what you passed through. At least be glad you made it out on one piece.

I don't know why it's when time reach for settlement, oga go start one wahala or the other.

Don't give up, if it's possible to learn a new skill for now, do it. No knowledge is wasted.


And don't conclude that all women are the same, you're just unlucky to fall under a jezebel.

One of my guy that got settled two years back had one of the best madam I ever saw, she even allowed him drive her car with her children to church.

You'll hardly believe that the dude wasn't her son cause all her children looked up to him.

Na only during settlement, matter choke due to Buhari Economics, but they still tried for him nonetheless.


Stay safe bruh...

Autobot05:
I can relate
Infact it works for me

I’m very gentle and quiet but if you see my other side … you’ll never see me as a normal person again 😂🤣

I'm your twin brother.

Sometimes I wonder whether some people get brain or not, cause common sense suppose make you hide your shame small and not post this topic on NL.


Now op what do you stand to gain being dragged around like generator rope?

Lutherblaq:


Omo broda mi, you just dey yarn facts no capping.

No be small oil dey head.

God no fit answer Nigerians prayers cause our hearts dirty die.


I enter my parents the other day, I tell them say China get lesser churches in their whole country than the number of churches in just my town but we dey borrow money from them while shouting in God's name.


Everybody for this country na hypocrite, your own never show yet.


How can we ask God to help us but we'll discriminate helping our nebos cause they're not our tribes men or fellow religion.


Mtceew.

Even the person wey put the sign board go come dey pour dirty in the night.

The ones that would pour dirts there in the day time will be shouting, "Back to sender."



BTW prayers no dey work for Naija again, if not why politicians still dey alive after stealing till infinity.

All this die by fire branches no dey ommit fire again.

Laurene:
It seems like you're not yet feeding your parents.

Why are you even quoting me, it's been over a year ma'am.


And why should I feed my parents, it's not like they're all old and weary, everybody feeds them selves, they even earn higher than I do but I still handle my own responsibilities around the home.

And Yes, I still stay with my folks, but we live independent lives, na evening time everybody dey see each other.


Next time slide in my DM, or send me a message on Whatsapp, don't resurrect this thread again.

Gracias..

Laurene:
You smoke inside your room... Your neighbours might have reported you due to the smell

All my nebos na stoners

CuteMaro:
OP you actually missed the point smh 😂.

Lemme help you see it from the correct perspective. Women love sex so much that they'll manipulate you to get what they want.

Sorry bro you're actually being used and that's the reality. They know real men have standards but unfortunately you don't. You buy their bullshit story but the end game is they're getting bleeped. That's exactly what they came for 😂.

To them you're like that cheap girl in the street used to quench thirst. You'll think u're a bad guy until u understand that there's nothing special about u.

To the men out there, no one man can ever satisfy a woman. No matter your sacrifice, efforts, prowess and achievements. So just be yourself and try to enjoy your relationship while it lasts.

Let people be themselves and see if they align with your goals. Stop trying to impose yourselves on your partners based on your expectations. You'll end up dissapointed. Yes a man should lead his woman but do not impose coz she will end up pretending. Be on the look out for the red flags. Everybody usually knows what they're doing & if such person doesn't align in any way please move. People don't change!

Can't advise married couples coz I'm yet to be married.

I get your point bro but you're actually accusing the op of something that he didn't do.

He never said he was dating any of the ladies, it's all about the sex and BTW they're both using themselves, the onus is on the non suspecting bf or hubby that thinks their relationship or marriages are still bed of roses.



What I realized is that, there's no template to handle a woman.

Give her all the good things of life, she'll still crave companionship, something you can barely afford since you're trying to give her a dream life.

Okay, be a broke ass but always available to her attentions and desires, she'll still crave for a life of flamboyance which your considerate ass cannot afford.


Then you'll ask yourself, what exactly do women want?


I won't give you the answer.....


If you stand at the op's POV, you'll know that being the odd man in any woman's life is the best position to be, problem is that, things get way complicated if you ever try to settle down.

This is the exact spot where I find myself right, too wise for my own good.

Op just comot and say na konji dey worry you.

You're an introvert, as the konji wan format your memory you no fit toast new chick, why you no go miss your ex toto?


I've been single since 2019 and never for once have my balls gone full for more than 2 weeks except I chose to.

Girls yapka everywhere, not all of them want to date you, they have numerous toasters simps already.

Build your network of FWB chicks and chase the paper. I don't know whether na only me get this template.


And BTW learn how to cook, trust me, your frustrations would reduce by 90%

SuperOnyi:







You're right, bro. She really did sense it because I ended up losing money and didn't do shit; I guess she thought I was ajebo because of how I looked.

I could even tell she knew or was contemplating if I've ever been to a brothel before... But bro, what if I embarrass myself again?

Failure does not mean you can't get something right next time.

The real failure is giving up.

SuperOnyi:







I've had sexual encounters with girls years ago but I didn't want penetrative sex, so yesterday, I felt I could do it even if I didn't have much interest since it was my first time in a brothel.

I also didn't want to embarrass myself with a girl that knows me so I wanted to "service" myself and get ready for the things of this world . Plus these girls all end up hooked.

I still go with my stand, brothels are not for newbies, those hoes can smell your naivety from a million miles away.

Try a regular girl, even if it means inducing her with cash, shebi na the same money you for spend for brothel.

Your first sex shouldn't be with a hoe, know this and know peace.

It takes a level of semi-craze to deal with hookers, if you're still inexperienced, face upcoming hoes who haven't known the right side of the business.

Know this two things and know peace.

1. Every man is born a simp, you either decided to harden up or remain a door mat to be trampled upon.


2. Every woman is born with an additional advantage between their legs, how they use it is what matters.


Men are wired to always seek sex, the method you use is what matters.

But the oga kpata kpata of the matter is that; Na Man Dey Always Do Man.


That your chick wey you dey form redpill for, another maga is ready to roll over for her to climb. It's a crazy rat race mehn.


So just try to level up, the women will come, how you handle them is what matters.

Twoclans:


The funny thing is that na your first comment on the thread carry me come here ,the danger of following you.

Me hairy male? UDUAK don't allow me enter nassarawa because of you.

Come, I dare you.

I'll meet you for bus stop with boxers.
😁😁😁😁

BTW stop following my comments, you'll spoil.

Op, just say you're dating me 😁😁😁😁😁😁


Call me a narcissist but nothing wonan go do wey go pain me, na you go find trouble, na you go still vex.


No human on earth is above my mental health,stress me, I ignore you.