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You either pick someone who’s complacent, sits on the couch like a sloth, but caters to your emotional needs and is available all the time. Or you pick someone ambitious with a purpose that has no availability.

Pick your poison carefully. Because if you select an available man, you will eventually become repulsed by him.

But then DONT complain and find it unacceptable for a man to be working on his purpose and deliver a better future for the family that INCLUDES YOU as a whole. You don’t know what you want. Understand that. The moment we give you what you want, you flip flop like a dying fish to the other side.

Here’s some advice. Pick a man with NO availability. Because that's a man with purpose and ambition. He is the right selection. And his unavailability is a sacrifice. He is doing everything to build a better future.

And that should constitute a degree of sacrifice on YOUR part: For you not to be a nuisance and understand to control your emotional needs and support him.

No man wants to not be available. But that’s the sacrifice we make to secure our future. If you don’t like that, then find a sloth on the couch who watches netflix all day. Or find a guy who’s loaded with inheritance money but can’t iron his own shirt.

Pick and sacrifice.

Cc Lalasticlala Seun Farano

I'm not taking the credits for this post.

Nature130:
Don't quote f monikers here

I would have said that too but this isn't a strict "Men Only" thread. It's for both genders. We are all here to learn. You can just simply ignore anyone trying to derail the thread or causing unnecessary arguments. If anyone asks a good question or share his/her views, you can respond politely.

CaveAdullam:

DAY 72, REDPILL 2021

You're correct, but it's between 18 - 30 years of age.

This is a major controversy amongst many, however, I choose to remain in the "fixed" camp based on pattern recognition and demographical observation. You probably know that in our contemporary day, many scientists has been vitiated by corrupt government officials to postulate scientific claims that will benefit the government and big corporations who are allies of the government. For this reason, for every claims made by a top ranking professor in any field, there's also another top ranking professor that is waiting to discredit such claims and they do this by:

1. Propaganda.

2. Truth + Lies.

3. Truth + lies + Truth.

The social media is the final kill; anything it supports becomes the ultimate "truth". Very difficult ferreting truth in this modern time.

But note that IQ/Intelligent capacity doesn't equate to street smartness/machiavellianism. They're very different. The former grants you an ability to be highly successful in academics like science, mathematics and technology, which in return grants you high success in life if it accurately correlate with other factors like good health, good energy, low neuroticism. High IQ makes one work little and earn much or do difficult task without becoming histrionic.

Street smartness is the ability to manipulate yourself to the top, it involves every form of tricks you can easily pull from your sleeve. Understanding human nature and psychology is a greater advantage. Low/Average IQs are more street smart when compared to the High IQs who dwells in the realm of numbers, logical and pragmatic reasoning.

Hard truth: not everyone will become successful in life. But those that've access to good information and will really put the necessary required work will experience breakthrough. The poor in majority will ever remain with us because intellectually they're dumb and socially they are not street smart and don't have the ability to leverage their way to the top. Pareto distribution on ground!

PS:
1. Men occupies the realm of both the low IQs and high IQs. Women, always average.

2. Average woman is more manipulative than the average man.

3. Majority of high IQs are men.

4. Majority of low IQs are men.

Authority: As the pill gets bitter, take a high dosage; swallow the redpill.

You're right. If a person has High IQ + High Cunning + Low Neuroticism, the person has a high chance of success.

SweetVibe:
Are you saying this from a religious angle?

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No.