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MariamAlheri:
What I hate is people crowding my space or forcing me to talk.

I'm doing great.

no one has the guts to cross that boundary, they just leave me alone... only my close friends hv the guts to cm close n I am always comfortable with them , is not like I drive them away , they just don’t like me much lol

MariamAlheri:
I wear a mean face too most times but with very close friends, I can relax and be jovial.

Being an introvert isn't easy at all. This lockdown is almost turning me into a recluse.

HI, how're you doing today?

I just realized I hate being forced to stay indoors even if I love it a lot .

I am fine and well , how about you ?

Liliantalks:
so me I love dancing in my room alone, I normally feel like a super star , especially with a glass of whiskey. I write poems also , but still hv problems with public speaking which I am working on. Glad to meet my kind , let me add I am madam naked , my profile pic is the complete description of me everyday

Lol

XRJP:
I finally meet my twin... You just described me... It's sad sometimes when people describe me to others as the guy who never smilies... Buh who cares??

Life goes on

seriously , I am not as mean as I look, I am actually a funny person . Only my few friends know that. Especially when I am high .

JentuPrinz:
Introverts,pls put down ur book and check on ur extroverts friends.They are not okay.Now might be a gud time to show dem some love...From an appropriate distance of course.Wash ur hands,follow the science.#staysafe..

Lol

I’m just this quite guy,I love music, I love making money , I am also a stoner. I am this mean guy nobody wants to talk to but actually the kindest dude u can ever meet . if u don’t make an effort to be in my life, u will never get to see that part of me .

Thanks to everyone who contributed. I hv heard you all

yemmit90:
Some people sef, how can you be sharing your girl with someone else and still wanted to propose to her. If my brother come to me for this kind of advise, i will give him a dirty slap that will reset his brain.


Where is her loyalty and dignity? Do you think a good girl will accept to be in such situation? These kind of girls are only good for sex, possibly to pass time and not to be taking serious. Please save your proposal for someone better, you cant have a peace of mind in your marriage with such a girl.

Deep breath* alright

Skmoda:
like you said try your plan out and see whether it will work.....and morever, dude might has a bedmatic skills that's making the bae not to wanna leave. That's why i won't advise a guy to forcefully marry a lady who doesn't love him or corner her from another dude cuz of yankee cash..your game must be par with the other guy or else she will go back to sleep with him.

thanks, I will do it n see how it goes . Thanks

Skmoda:
like you said try your plan out and see whether it will work.....and morever, dude might has a bedmatic skills that's making the bae not to wanna leave. That's why i won't advise a guy to forcefully marry a lady who doesn't love him or corner her from another dude cuz of yankee cash..your game must be par with the other guy or else she will go back to sleep with him.

I am not doing a bad job I make her cum and squirt. I can do better if she wants

Everybody doesn’t want me to tell the boy !!! Whyyyyyy? Gosh

Dicktion:
she ends ups with you and she go look for another alternative and shuts him up from letting you the main guy know then... As usual na And the whole sh!t keeps going in a loop

if I am the only one she knows she can’t play me, she’s changing her phone number and I will marry her as soon as possible. She knows I want to marry her

Skmoda:
you must be an assistant boyfriend and she gonna dump you soon, she is still enjoying your money...make woman dey play your brain like ball, continue doing bobodi ok, to cap it all she love the other dude more than you, you just a money spender and fvckmate..try and propose whether she will not fall your hand.

make Kukuma tell the boy abi ?

Dicktion:
Your bitch is the one playing games Here. You prolly an alternative for her when sh!t doesn't go well with the main nigga.. If care is not fully taken you may end up in ya feelings
Cos she a gamer

another reason I should let the guy know Nd spoil it for her , so she can pick, and if the guy leaves her I hv her all to myself , it’s a win win situation.

Dicktion:
Was once in ya shoes bro. I think the question should be how would you feel if you were the serious boyfriend and someone's pulling this on you
What goes around comes around you know

I thought about that also , but he deserves to know , don’t you think ? Would be doing him a favor

Neimarjr:
AUDIO GF

YOUR LEFT HAND THERE

please say something more reasonable

jagorinho:
......being with you does not necessarily make her happy, both of you in her life have different purposes, and by the way, you said you are richer than your rival, maybe the girl is in for your cash, but the paid sex you get in return has masked your reasoning about what true love and happiness is, for the last time, leave that girl alone, for her not to choose one out of the two means both of you are just being used to past time, find another girl and start again, stop being a slave to your emotion.

Let me see if it works na before I make my final decision. U guys talk like quality women r everywhere, neat, composed , intelligent, humble , still a student , so I have control over her , plus a good cook, These other girls r just one kin. She’s Chubby with big breast and tight vg .mehn

I wish one person can genuinely understand how I feel .

jagorinho:
Ehen, let me stop here, o.p I can not take your nonsense again. Please, is the girl in question gold plated? or does she belong to Saudi royal family? look at how a girl is mesmerizing and vandalizing your self esteem and you are happy, a girl that can comfortably date 2 guys at the same time is worse than a virus and you that you can consciously take part in a polyandrous relationship deserve to be castrated or sent to a jail in north Korea, in this love triangle, you are the biggest loser for knowingly entering a relationship with a girl that has a stable partner, you are now trying to cause friction between the girl and her original boyfriend, you want to pull an orubebe on them, you are not serious, better leave that girl and face the army of single ladies in the country, you will definitely see one that will tick all your boxes.....do not be a joy killer, it is not worth it.

I can make her happy , if I can’t she won’t be with me would she ?

Lamanii22:
"I am financially better".... It's the reason why she's with you nothing more... You better know what you're doing before your heart gets shattered...

whatever the case make I try my luck na , I can’t just leave her like that . My sister has begged me to leave her , given me many girls to date but na she I like I wonder why no one gets it

ovcwality:
Op is it that you and her serious boyfriend have been dating her together for 1year or he came recently? hmmm hmm hmm

she has been dating the guy before me, I saw her in school when I went for my masters , I think the guy have been dating her for even a year plus b4 we met , it was suppose to be a sex thing, I don’t even know what he does but I hv seen his pictures tho. 100% sure I am financially better

Descorts:
so are you saying she loves both of you equally?
If she was in a situation whereby she'd have to choose between the both of you will she choose you?

I don’t know , but atleast I have to fight for what I want , so I should leave her like that ? The thought of it is heartbreaking seriously

reubenobi:
Keep deceiving yourself. If she loves you as she claims, why can't she leave the first guy? I pity you oo.

I hv decided to find a way of informing the guy we r dating without it coming from me . That might work . Atleast if it doesn’t I would know I tried

Davash222:
If you want reasonable comments, make reasonable post!

it might not be reasonable to you but it is to me .

Descorts:
since you said she likes you tell her to end things with the guy.
if she hesitates, move on.

telling her to leave the guy will be very hard for me cause I knew they were dating b4 we started dating , we were supposed to be FWB , but we really like ourselves. The other guy hasn’t done anything to her for her to leave him . She’s such a compassionate person she will refuse, and I don’t want us to start having issues , she just left my house , I can’t imagine my life without her.

Descorts:
Na insult dem go insult you for here o.

I will pick from the reasonable comments

obumsway:
lol .... she has a boyfriend who is serious and from no where u became number 2. you then want number1 out for ur self

bro woman don finish ne ? i bet most of you are destiny killers, you wont marry her but deceive her out of her future parter

na wa o

The Guy is the only reason I hvnt proposed

Fidelismaria:

scatter their relationship without remorse

thank You jor

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Good evening house , I need ur help

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for more than a year now and our relationship seems perfect , but the only problem I have is that she has a serious boyfriend, I really love her and I know she loves me too but this her boyfriend has been our obstruction. I don’t want to leave her , that’s not an option, She doesn’t want to leave me too , She’s so perfect for me and I think I am done searching.
I am thinking of plotting a way to make the guy know we have been dating , without it coming from me , so they can break up . My sister is discouraging me but it’s my happiness.

What else can I do ? leaving her isn’t an option, I have tried dating other ladies but non of them seem to meet up .