tot:
You are an illiterate liliantalks, your statements make that very obvious to everyone.
The mods will go through your post history in due time so pls continue to call them, they are needed here.

you are the daft and illiterate one. Hypocrite

tot:


Unfortunately, ignorance is bliss for a person who is unexposed.
Just the Programming section here alone, there's been multiple threads and discussions for software engineers, front and back end developers majority of who work remotely for companies not even based in Nigeria. Not to mention several instagram-based businesses that are home based, stock traders (many people made boatloads of money in GME stock just weeks ago) and many others. People have put in the hard work to achieve such flexibility in their work life, it did not come in a day.
Opportunities abound everywhere but a person who is ignorant and close minded can not see them.

shut your trap , you started this nonsense , why did you call her names while tagging someone else and now you are calling MODs for what exactly, after being verbally abusive, was she talking to you in the first place?

Lol funny people , so in your widest dream you think it’s every tag NCDMB would reply to. When they expect u not to be dumb enough to believe stuffs that they have not formally Announced.

Happy new year

kalu61:
You have your definition of companionship.

l'm emotionally connected when l discuss or argue with like minds than those who always agree with me. That's shows you are not even sure of what you are saying.

l prefer criticizism to praise. l love it when am shown my errors than praising. l don't even get angry at it even.

That's me o

Have you seen an igbo smoker bonding well with fellows female igbo smoker?

yes o , na them bond pass self .

Relationship is for companionship , cuddle, aproko , outings and . Argument Issa no no for me . I don’t like women that argue too much .

kalu61:
It means you are broke but being depressed but if aren't depressed, then you are disciplined or it's your nature.

Make money, girls go pursue tire

first of all , lol I’m not broke. Girls will pursue me if they see me , U get ?

Uniquisite:


Hehehe!

High libido kills oo.. Make una find solution

my brother lol, no be small thing

Liliantalks:
Being single as an introvert is very depressing , cause u know ur problem , which is networking , u don’t go out, even if u do ones in a blue moon because u are a naturally shy person u can’t go alone, u need friends around but of course if u want to met a potential partner, all YouTube Channels advices u learn how to go out alone , this phone generation is the worst cause ur phone is a enough company that b4 u know it the day is gone and u are home all day. Online dating is scary cause there r a lot of liars, and the men expect you to do the traveling *eyesrolled* and I’m like” what if u are a kidnapper?” . Of course they are ready to send u ur Tfare but I’m i ready to risk my life ? Not at all .

What do u all think ?

I know right, I can relate. I am single to stupor and I know the reason is cause I don’t mingle. If a girl doesn’t come close to me, u can never see me chasing girls. Very depressing especially with my high libido

Drop urs

fati2001:

shamsin6300, virginprincess, sixfeetbelle pinkdoll ,Petyprincess Uzomacharles, Descortes ,ovay ,Nwaezeemmanuel ,mzihtra
zzor and all the NLANDER'S who are against the negative value going on in the society (especially on nairaland) .

it’s alright. Nice

Madibah:
Mia khalifa
Everything she does drives me crazy

lol ashawo sumbori.

1. Pocahontas
She’s interesting , regardless of what people say about her

2. Shugavee
Tho I hardly see her content but her comments are always on point

3. Ilegend
Cool dude

4. Petyprincess
She get mouth , lol

5. Purplecoco
She’s my crush ❤️


Drop urs

Dannyyoung26:
Honestly, if you happen to be where this yahoo guys spend money, my brother if u r not careful.
You will engage your self. The oppression is damn much for lekki here. It looks like we wey dey do legit, we are very lazy.

Sometimes I don't blame them thou because our leaders self na oga yahoo...

But my problem is they are making things expensive for us to purchase.

guy you don’t blame them because them never scam you before .

All retailers think everybody is a yahoo boy , especially food and snacks sellers

Trust no one, but if yu have to trust anyone at all , he better not be a fraudster. I have heard many stories , I wish this post can go on front page.

Lalasticlala , Mynd44

bankulizer:


The word simp is very convenient for them to type behind their keypads

Their low self esteem gets the best of them , they feel trying to make other men who are better than them feel low ,makes them feel good about themselves

Hehehehehe Una don start

Una don start

iLegendd:
Read.

Forget career women — most of them are too arrogant and unfaithful. Passive income women is what we want. She must know how to cook, f*ck, and stay faithful.

Whenever we need abroad, we can always go on vacation to any country we want.

In fact, we will turn videos, stories, and pictures of our vacation around the world to blogs, YouTube videos, books, etc. and make millions with them — which is worth more than what any unfaithful career woman working in a company (and cheating with the latest cute guy at the office) will ever make.

this is the pure example of fooling thy self . You don’t want a career woman but u want a passive income woman . Yeye Dey smell . A career woman doesn’t want you.

litigator:
When an introvert finally attends that party and music somehow overtakes his/her soul after a few bottle of beer.

Swtbabyvee:
please there is no where u would travel to that u can’t make it big ,, because Nigerians And Africans are so fascinated about America don’t mean u don’t hv equal opportunity in Europe and Canada . Do you know how many black people live in dumps in America? Yes there is a lot of opportunity due to their economy, but there is already a very population of blacks in the US. B4 u get a proper work permit in the US , u will sweat and suffer as an immigrate , with a student visa u can’t work for more than some specified hours , and destination to your school , and this is because of the high rate of immigrants! B4 u can hv a stable life in the US , even with family . U would hv stayed there for almost 10 years , getting a green card is like gold . So at the end of the day u are going there to wash plate for 4 to 5years over there. In Canada if U are given visa u are given a work permit ,,, same thing with Europe countries , except Uk , but their policies are still better than the US. Then the police brutality and all , it’s a black American palava, but ur black skin and ur Nigerian status will still be an issue ... the time u would use to suffer there , u can stay in Nigeria and be hustling and trust me one day thing will be good !!! Except ofcourse u are going there to do drugs like most of them do and never tell you ,, if you are from a rich family that will sponsor you to nursing school till u graduate, praise God , but school fees isn’t cheap !! So which hustle are you going to hustle there?

not only blacks , even Indians and Chinese. So much immigrats , and blacks are last on the list of preference. They hav made the system to rigid where by if you are not investing in their economy, u will struggle!! Back then as soon as u marry an American , you are automatically a citizen, now u hav to stay married for a period of time constant visit to the embassy.

alfredilly:

US is the best destination for anyone who desire to make it big. Yes, Europe, North America and probably Australia are what we should come to mind when we refer to abroad but in US come ahead of Canada any day. I'm a bit surprised at the obsession of young Nigeria with Canada these days. It is an nice place to be though with good welfare and facilities, but USA come ahead in big business and opportunities. You may travel to Canada and be satisty with all you need to live a meaningful life but the opportunity to make it big and send money home may not surface like the US. In US, the chance are there if you plan hussle and dream big. It is the headquarters of world capital.

Are you aware , there are people in the US who beg many Nigerians for money but when you would see their pictures you think they are making it

Liliantalks:
yeah we are ,, and surely if we see she would talk and talk about it , I don’t want to give a write facial expression or say something wrong that might show I feel jealous.

u have to face ur fears

Liliantalks:
yeah force myself, but I feel like just avoiding the person till I get mine

are you girls very close

My friend got a new phone back then when I couldn’t afford one , I felt bad , like maybe the world was against me succeeding , but at the end of the day , u just hav to realize that u hav to move on with ur life , jealousy is a very unhappy feeling. Force urself to be happy with the situation even if U are not .keep pray for ur own. God will bless you I promise

Why are some men spoiling our name , in a country like ours take the financial part down alittle sha, u know u women

Slimtuns:


thanks a lot but trust me, I've always handled it with maturity, I mostly laugh it off as you said cos in reality I've got no explanation for them and about friends, yeah I have friends who do check up on me and I appreciate that but sometimes, maybe the moments I need to be alone is when they come around... I would call it a bad timing, there was a time when I was still in my teens that a friend of mine paid me a visit, I didn't know when I left him in the living room and went into my room to take a nap... my brother had to caution me not to do that again whereas I didn't mean to offend him cos he was already having a good time by watching TV not like I left him alone all by himself. I guess that's just the way we are, not to be clearly understood by the society, just maybe.

kul

Slimtuns:
guys am I the only one who experiences this? people always question me whenever they see me that why don't I come out or why don't they usually See Me in the street or why am I always indoor? is it a crime to live one's life the way one pleases? I'm the type that don't see going out as a necessity unless I've got an important thing to do outdoors... I even feel disturbed sometimes if my friends come visiting. why don't people realize not everyone can be like them?

it’s normal , but don’t be rude about it, don’t feel offended by it either, just laugh it out , say something like “I just Dey relax” anyone who exaggerate about it , you just smile . When people care or like you and can’t hv u around often that’s what they say. They will get used to it, why don’t you like your friends visiting , I feel like if u hv friends willing to cm around knowing you would hardly reciprocate such actions , u should appreciate them.

Mikocake:

Why drink black bullet? That shiit is poison

that’s my favorite drink but never adding weed to it again . Lol

purplecoco:
Like Anxiety? I mean for me personally, I would not go if I'm not mentally prepared for it, but sometimes I'd change my mind depending on the individual that invited me.

not anxiety per say but maybe stress , like which kind Wahala be this. Often times I don’t attend but when it’s an important event, i don’t hv s choice

purplecoco:
So I wanna know. Am I the only introvert who gets kinda mad when invited to hang out or for an event last minute? . I'm the type that likes to be told a day or two about the invitation, so as to prepare myself mentally. Am I the only one?

would hv a hard heartbeat during the invitation , and may not go

devafire:



Attention craving.
I don't look like it at all, but my man gotta have eyes on me always. It makes me feel vulnerable, so I haven't really been lucky with relationships

I think it’s a general thing. Ain’t easy having someone who can cope with our personality, We just love that centered attention, but it always seems impossible to find. Everybody is busy with other people.