Lol why can’t I ? Yes I can

Aboks:


At age 19 I was on my own it depends on the guy I can't remember last when my parents bought clothes for me

The only thing they for me was when they sent me to skill acquisition program

NATIONAL DIRECTORATE OF EMPLOYMENT

because ur parents were that way don’t mean that’s the way it’s supposed to be

Aboks:


The bottom line is he still depends on his mother

and so what ? This country is hard !! Except u are into fraud or prostitution

BigJoe19:
I don't think your quote is meant for me, maybe the OP. In Nigeria we have many 25years old that still stay with their parents.
It's not easy to be a man

it’s for u base on ur comment giving a deeper thought to tha age thing and the Op also

BigJoe19:
You think it's easy for a 20year-old to live on his own on in this country, it's like you are not from Nigeria. Most under 22years old that do not stay with their parents are mostly yahoo boys and drug addicts.

I left my parents house at 28 , they said all sorts but I humbled myself , to save, I got a stable job at 25 , b4 I left the house I bought television , bed , fridge n and others before I rented a small place n took my things, life is all about planing . Don’t let ur emotions control you .

Humble ur self .

TheSourcerer:
ma nigga , lol you dey tell my story so

normal levels .

What I love about weed is that , u simply don’t care ,, say all u want, I don’t care , u ain’t paying my bills so I would do whatever I please . I can’t marry a woman who doesn’t smoke . What a boring life .

Smoke is good for person wey get the head for am , boy or girl . But if a girl smokes,it should be with class . If u see me on a norms u won’t know I smoke , or even my babe . Only if we r together or with close friends. After sex na weed o, both mixed together is the best feeling ever

doitforyou:
Any introverts here talk to themselves out loud?

I do it a lot , when I am alone before someone comes around Nd calls me crazy . I do it sometimes on the road thou and when I am caught It’s so embarrassing. It is something I can’t stop, I give up

purplecoco:
This thread is going out sad

what is the thread about in the first place ?

Liliantalks:
Thank you

I know how annoying these tags could be , but take it easy or just ignore .

maeola:

Lol...sorry bro!!!

Daz how they do

it’s very wrong , u make this place very uncomfortable for people to express themselves. Allow people say their minds without any tags , talk to people who u identity with , not arguing about how an introvert should be or not be , or what u think is correct or not correct , everybody is not the same! So just vibe with people who vibe with you , that’s the way to go , introverts have different personalities.

What I have noticed from this thread is that , there is a lot of foolish people here , someone states their opinion and you have to have something to say about it . This place is a toxic place , filled with toxic people . No single positive vibe.

People talking about how depressed they are , people who must have issues with what others say , people who suffer from low self esteem, people who argue about who’s more introvert or not.

WHAT THE Bleep IS THIS !

xrayj:

Where did u get the bold from?
So rev. Fathers & celibate that got nothing to do with women are not men? This is very wrong!
Why on earth will your father give u money to give to girls? Is your mom aware of this?
Very wrong orientation from a father to a son I must say!!!

rev fathers r commited to Christ and want nothing to do with women ,, but normal people on the street need women acceptance to feel like a man , it’s reality, nothing to argue . Wrong orientation to you is the best orientation I hv ever had , made me more devoted to my hustle, knowing fully well I can Bleep any woman of my choice. Women are the greatest motivation to making money . My father was the best advicer I hv ever had!! Which is the exact way I will train my male kids..

dingbang:
I dont think mouth action is proper. Adult videos has taught us a lot of rotten things.

And we even have ladies sucking guy's butthole! Damn!

hope u mean from both sides , cause don’t say this when u love ur dick being sucked .

Akposy:

Every man don't need a woman acceptance please. Where do you get this idea from. I don't need the acceptance of anybody to feel humanly man. All I need is to accept myself and work on being a better version of me.
Also, your dad giving money to give to girls is bad parenting (no offence). What was he trying to teach you? That women can be bought, money can get you happiness or help brood entitlement mentality in girls? I don't understand at all.

offense taken , let me make things clear that I wasn’t talking to you ,,,secondly if not for my upbringing from my dad , I would hv been like the numerous men on Nairaland nagging about giving women money, . And that’s the same way I will bring up my kids . I gave that guy my own advise not to give up on hving a girl friend, if u hv a different opinion please talk to him directly. Me and you are not the same and can never be the same , we cannot think alike or hv the same upbringing, ur upbringing was best for you , so was mine to me ,, so let’s just respect peoples opinions and move on with our lives . THANKS

johnkey:
Seems nairaland just pack the highest percentage of stupid Nigerian girls, you hardly see girls like this on Instagram and Twitter. if not for boredom person no for dey read stupid comments from stupid girls here, almost makes me want to start feeling disgust for girls offline.

those ain’t faceless forums dummie !!!

Therapyken:
You be cheerful giver?

yup !!

PHOTSEE:

Ahem, i dey smell brewies for your bodi frm a mile away. boss man.

not at all

PHOTSEE:


Ahem,bro's ecomomy bad ooo, no level. coro takeover.

I know things hard but my problem is the fact men Dey lazy, Dey pretend like no be man job to take care of woman ,,, if u no get u no get ,, if u see woman wey manage with you fine , if u no see u hustle! But na thunder go fire any guy wey dump babe wey suffer with am !! U must pay a million folds when everywhere stew , but that no mean say if u get am u go Dey stingy money from ur babe , that na nonsense Biko ! Dey talk independent up and down ,, if woman get money e get an for himself and family ,, atleast e no go bother me about e mama and papa

BizBayo:



You too get sense I like your perspective

na the matter na guy , person go Dey argue weather e good or not to give babe money ,, that na nonsense arguments... I no go fit every try am . If I get the money why not? Na 20k to give babe go kill me ? I pick women of my level o !! Cause I love respect an honor o !! I like when woman Dey appreciate me o !! The only thing wey go make me no give babe money na if she no get respect.

Juell:

Wow! You have one of the best dads in the world.

i swear , we drink together, and talk about women till today, He’s quite old now , but still very young in spirit!! I am the only son and last born of my family . So daddy’s pet .

Descortes:
lmao dude!
But according to you, you loved her so much and wanted her all for yourself . Why the sudden change of heart?
Nah it's not a sudden change of heart. It's the fact that she made it clear to you that you can't have her all to yourself and she loves the broke dude more.. so you've lost all hope

the guy isn’t broke o, I never said that! I know I earn more , I am a business man . The guy is a banker ang they hv been together for years , it’s hard for her n I understand that , I just met her a year plus , n how much do I really spend on her that will even bother me .20k , 30k sometimes 10k depending on how much we see . I did much more for my ex gf.

Descortes:
so the girl chose her main guy over you yeah?
Did it come across to you that she was with you all because you spent lavishly on her? If you were on an even slate with that her guy i bet she wouldn't even have considered you. She just use you as maga and then she'll go back to the true love of her life
Don't you want a girl who'll love you and be with you for who you are and not what you have?

, as I said as far I got that pusey when I want and how I want it , I ain’t really bothered . I hv spent for women I don’t even Bleep or even in a relationship with . We enjoy each other’s company , I love her big breast! N I still hv it when I call . What’s my own .

Oluromantic:

What do you know? You have a lot to learn. I have properties where rents await me in large amount bro, almost completed..She's seen the bright future and has nothing to make her not stay but for now, she earns more ...simple. Even without that, earning more than ur guy is not a crime and you don't have to make it look like one, as we all know what the economy is like. It's commitment that matters. Ur girl may earn more than you but there are things she needs to see in you before she trust you, you support each other.. think about that ok. And stop this attitude of just posting anything to get likes. Reality is what's important. You won't be young forever and Nairaland is not in your future

Justbehave:
Don't mind the fool. He is there spending on her while the other guy is lashing her cunt dry.

as far i get her pusey as i please i aint loosing anything , i aint even bothered

Descortes:
have you gotten that your girl all to yourself now?

NO o my brother , but i want to take one of my smallie more seriously now . Just Bleep her as usual, even tho i know i like her .

Why should a man care if a woman is broke or not ? Weyti concern u with woman money, u like the body n u feel comfortable around her , that’s all that really matters .

I rest my case

Maybe it’s because i am an Igbo guy , I can’t even be among my friends n debate this nonsense debate, the insults u will get, lol
Right from the beginning of my life , I always Dey help women, some I Bleep , some I won’t , some cm around ones a while , tell me ur problem n I help out except I don’t hv or I am pissed with the babe . I no Dey reason all those things at all.

People don’t know the meaning of the word MONEY IS NOT MY PROBLEM, spew it around n then again start arguing about giving women money !! Who I suppose give money b4? Man?

Just say u no get , or u find woman wey no get big eye , wey ur small money go fit maintain .

I like independent women but woman money no Dey sweet me. I will still do what I hv to do as a man .

when I was a guest I see threads like this and just laugh , men boosting up and down , ladies arguing! What’s money for hair ? If I am going to shoprite to get stuffs we go together, almost every month. It’s nothing to me , if her hair is messy I know , she doesn’t need to ask , I know she would make her hair twice a month , we share sub , we share Netflix. I don’t even regard it as money , I won’t spend more than 20k a month or 30k if there is any special need , and I hv her Pusey any day any time , u get a runs babe and pay her 10k a night, lol Na wah for Una argument o

Kceefresh19:


Lol same here. A few years ago; when i was in Jss3, I played a prank on the girl i had a crush on via 2go .. Told her i met a girl at the beach and asked the "girl" out but she refused.
I asked her to guess why. And the girl i had a crush on said its because I'm fat. Since then I've never thought of even looking at any girl because i have that mentality.
And being an introvert doesn't help with it because i find it hard to express my feelings.. I'm still 20 though, so i might get over it

you will if you try meeting other women , till u get a woman who value you, for a lady, she doesn’t need to make much effort , but for a guy , if u don’t supress ur inferiority complex, and go out there , u will never get a woman. And women acceptance is very important for Everyman ,

back then, my dad use to give money to give girls , I will be so down and depressed and he would ask my problem, when I tell him, he would encourage me not to give up, give me money , buy me card to call the girl , and guess what I had my first girl friend at ur age n he was so proud . until u get a woman u never really feel like a man , don’t give up

Lol weyti Una Dey argue !! E get person wey like stingy person b4, , even me as a bros , I hate them a lot .