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Solocoin:
Some women are really confused with their life. How can you be confused band still have the audacity to confuse us here. He's a good man at the same time not your kind of man. If he's not your kind of man, why will you go into a relationship with someone that is not your kind of man in the first place? Why will you have to asked someone for advice when you know he's not your kind of man? You would have simply tell him I'm sorry it would work.
I'm average in height and want to marry a woman who's a little taller than me or atleast we're the same height as such I can't do anything with anyone I am taller than her. Some people will create problem for theirselves and start looking for advice. Anything I don't want I can't accept it no matter the condition I found myself because I don't want to displeased myself and please someone else.

You are a guy it's different for you ,you choose who you ask out
It happens
If he had asked me out straight might not have dated him
But we started as friends, gisting and stuffs ,he's always there to listen and motivated me
Then sending each other posts on ig and others, I tell him about my work
So we moved to talking everyday
He became my person and feelings developed
We talk everyday, he became the person that if anything happens ,he's the one I tell and all
Then when he asked me out was already in love with him and the relationship was perfect
It's my overthinking and all this rampant divorce that messed me up

StrongAlphMale:
normally he's not my type of guy

Any girl who tells a guy the above statement is a prostitute, an olosho and a runz girl.

The average Nigerian girl is confused and don't know what they want. The op is a clear example. He is not your type and yet you developed feelings for him? I'm sure you were with him because of the little money he was giving you. Olosho! You want a wild guy and yet you're with this one? You really think guys are stupid or what? you wanted to play smart by using and dumping him, but in the process he outsmarted you.

I'll urge that young man to dump you ASAP and move on with his life. Until you fully turn into an evening newspaper na then you go get sense

Who hurt you
That made you throw away your humanity
May God have mercy on your soul
Saying rubbish based on assumption

Why did all American kill billy

Floki will be listed on kucoin in 51min
Is it advisable to enter now?

pansophist:
You just described a good man, so tell me how exactly is a good man not your type? When people talk about "type", if I scratch deep a bit, they will mention superficial things that they will probably outgrow, and have no bearing to sustaining a relationship.

You can't have all in one person. You must compromise. If you meet " your type", he probably will have some qualities that you hate. So you must know that you're paying a price if you think you can just dump a good man. You're a lady, and being emotional can be your worse enemy.

To answer your question, you know it's time to move on when your effort has seized to be reciprocated. If you're the only one initiating, sustaining and perpetuating the relationship, then sign off. You'll be hurt, but it's better than loosing yourself.

You can't negotiate on being weak, and staying in a place where your presence is not appreciated is weakness, you'll lose yourself. It's like trying to score a goal, but the goal post is move farther and farther everytime you approach the scoring line.

And as a woman, you should understand your nature. Women are highly neurotic, meaning that you see negativities and pessimism where they are none. Scientist argued that it's because women carry the young, so their sense of danger is sharper than men. Women are physically weak as well, especially during pregnancy.

The last card you should play now is to discuss with him and tell him honestly that you know things have changed since he saw your message, and that you don't want to waste time if there are no future in this relationship. That you fully accepted the responsibility of your mistake.

Then make a decision from his response. You may need the help of a trusted, neutral person, because your emotions may overshadow reasoning. This discussion may be hard, but if you don't have it, you'll pay a costlier price, which is, your time.

As a woman, you can't afford to waste time on a fruitless relationship, I'm sure I don't have to remind this to you. Next time, don't make stupid mistake. You don't have a monopoly of "my type". There are places he wished you were better, but he accepted you. Why can't you do the same?

Yes they were superficial things,and I thought about it and came to my senses,because it's not worth losing him over
And no one is perfect
But now I have messed everything up
Thanks so much for the advice
God bless

So from the beginning the relationship was perfect,he was the best ,normally he's not my type of guy,but he was there for me when I was at a low point in my life,we started as friends, then feelings developed, and he was the absolute best,no guy has ever treated me like that
So he asked for my hand in marriage, normally I am a pessimist, I expect the worst,create different scenarios in my head and how I would react when it happens and stuffs
So when he talked about the marriage stuff , I started thinking about what would go wrong (because he's kind of boring ,not spontaneous and not wild a lil bit),so I started thinking if the marriage would be boring and if I won't get tired of him as he's not my usual type of guy

so I sent a message to someone asking for advice ,then mistakenly he saw it and it turned to yam pepper scatter scatter sha
I begged him ,he really cried that I have been stringing him along ,which is not so,I do love him a lot
I begged him sha and we continued the relationship, but the relationship has changed a lot,he's not even asking for my hand in marriage again
I'm the one pestering him
and when I threaten him with break up ,he begs me not to,that he's just taking his time with me
This issue happened 2yrs ago o,how long is it going to take


I just feel I should break up with him,but can't seem to let him go
Is it some kind of pay back?
And I am not getting any younger

Theyemmie:
I captured Dec 16
My collection was Feb 14
But no one has called me o
Captured at alausa

This alausa people are crazy o
Went there this morning they said I need to wait another 3weeks
That they just brought booklet
Something that I need by nextweek
Omo I for don go shagam sha
If not because of work for

I captured Dec 16
My collection was Feb 14
But no one has called me o
Captured at alausa

Hi
I need a room self in ketu,standard house o
Yearly rent 200k total package 300k
ASAP!!

This Tom candy's jack Ryan is so dope
E don Tey wey I watch series that every episode is dope

Why is fitfi so sluggish like this

Thank God for metis sha

Better go and stop
Same thing happened to my bf
It's that energy drink monster he was addicted too
I shout shout shout ,he said he drinks agbo jedi
Now he has diabetes, he almost died before he was diagnosed
He was so lean we thought it was stress,or because he doesn't eat much
Now he has stopped it o
Better stop before it's too late

Upon all the pump
I never see any profit take
Wahaleux

udemzyudex:
Na you wan run am street but e played you.
If you know say you smart you for collect the old screen for him hand, then tell am say you go pay him for him stress probably #3k and himself go chill.

You wan play smart, collect the phone and him go just labour in vain why una no bargain before he test the screen.

He said he wanted to be sure only screen is it's problem before we talk price

Kimiso:
someone carried your stuffs and you didn't even bother to fight for it or make it go beyond what he expected

I didn't really see him carry it ,but the people there said it was him, I asked him he said he didn't take anything
And ps I'm a lady

Omo they run me street today o
Been seeing stuffs online but didn't know it would happen to me

So I went to ikeja today with my iphone7+ 128g,I fixed the IC or what do they call it recently ,when I went to collect it was told the flex is faulty too ,me being tired of the spending told the guy if I could just swap it with 6+64g without fixing the screen
He said yes but he doesn't have 6+ at hand I would have to wait
So I just thought since I was at computer village o,if I enter street will be able to go home with 6+ today
That's how I entered different places ,they were telling me 30k
Phone that I bought 130k

Later saw a guy that said he would buy it,but we would have to go to where they are selling screen ,he will test that screen is the problem
So we got there,they said screen is 10k,he fixed the screen ,not fully tho
And he on the phone abd checked everything only to start telling me rubbish again that he will pay for the screen and pay me 30k
How is that different from all the others
I told him I was not selling again ,that I will fix my screen
So while I was trying to do transfer to the screen guy
Na so this guy carry my old screen go o,with my touch I'd, all the stuff they are meant to use to fix the new screen,even my nuts

Now I have a new screen,with nothing to fix it
I went back to my old guy ,he said now I have to add 20k to my phone before i can get 6s32g
He said touch id is created for each phone that others don't work for it ,that even him would have to really search
My front speaker too won't work
And there is also a pan that's missing

Anyway I regret not waiting I swear
People where saying I should go fight him,make person go shook me bottle