You all dont even know this person.
If u know who Mercedes is, you would understand that it is her that has property that Eric will collect, not the other way round.

Her post on Facebook was a joke that we all laughed about, just like most of her jokes with her husband on Facebook. The couple throw lots of banter in good humor on Facebook.

Truely, people can twist anything......even the most honest and harmless thing into controversy just to sell.

Is it that while growing up, you never saw a functional, close knitted family or you just feel the need to brew trouble in your marriage by your own self?

This is what happens when your children have seeen you emotional abuse their mother for a very long time.



If only people know the emotional torture and how
worthless it makes a person cheated on feel, especially if that person never cheated on you and has given u everything.
Was it not a few days ago one man dey vex for here onto say his wife who relocated to UK was acting funny? No prove of infidelity o but see how pained he was and he rushed to complain here, now imagine what that woman has endured for years and years and years , while the children watched helplessly as their mother went through that kind of pain.
Now the kids are grown, so they are defending their mother.


That said, why is this on social media though. The kids were extremely wrong to do this on SM.

The point is she was her viral load Is very suppressed or (2) because men are not receptors,, excpt you have bruises on your penis or lubrication was not enough causing you to penetrate with a little force which inturn bruises your penis, chances of men contracting HIV is quite reduced when compared to men. Which was why HIV was very prevalent amongst gay men as alot of them had sex via the Anus, causing tear and bruises, which inturn makes Infection almost 100%.
That been said, God help us all because after getting tested and all, your partner can still step out on you or get infected through other point of entry like needles and exposure to contaminated blood and inturn infect you. author=Macphenson post=118045551]I think they are. I innocently once dated a HIV positive girl and narrowly escaped being infected. Then I was in depression and she came to my rescue. She was so nice, loving and caring. When I was coming out of depression, we were already fuckn raw. I even was even planning on settling down with her since she was there for me in my challenging moment. She was so pretty, tall and fresh. Her plan was to infect me so that I can settle down with her.

One day, I came across her medications and googled it, only to find out its an anti retroviral drugs, with lots of immune boosters. I confronted her and she confessed. I broke down in tears and told her if I go for test and its positive, I will simply commit suicide.

I went for test at CDC in Yaba, it was negative. After three months I went back it was also negative. I tried about seven different hospitals and Labs, it cane out negative. Even when I travelled to east, I checked with several hospitals and lab it also came out negative.
There was evwn a time I delibrately went to donate blood so that my blood will be thoroughly screened, the result also came out negative.

I explained my ordeal the doctor there and he was talking about people who are naturally immune to HIV.[/quote]

Alaba international is just by Alaba Rago.


Him for go there na, and see weda crowd go follow am.

Please sir, I understand you have fears but understand your wife is navigating a new country on her own.
The pressure to get it right is very overwhelming.
She needs friends and friends and friends who have navigated this route before her, irrespective of their gender.
Even as a man, you will be lost for the first few months abroad. You won't understand the train, buses, how to fix some paper works etc and people have to put you through. Unfortunately being a woman, its easier to assume she's playing around when all she's prolly doing is finding her feet and weda you agree or not, men, even those that want her, would have their uses and because she isn't close to you, everything would look magnified because you have time on your hands to wonder, meanwhile all shes doing is trying to figure out her stay.
You living in Nigeria CANNOT do it all for her , she needs to find her feet by herself, to make even your own path easier when u eventually arrive.

For your own sake, PERISH THE NEED TO GIVE HER INSTRUCTIONS AND EXPECT COMPLIANCE. It won't work because she too is figuring it out, and u in Nigeria thinks you have the solution? she wears the shoe, she know how it pinches. This is not about being a man, its reality. What u think should work from your bedroom in Nigeria, may not work because Nigeria and UK is different.

Trust your wife....2months is too soon to begin to find fault.
She went to church without telling you? You truly expect a grown adult to take permission before attending church? Church that might be her only avenue to meet fellow Nigerians who may put through.

Truth is you may lose your marriage weda you live in kafanchan or Bangladesh but why you still have it, don't make your wife become irritated by your calls with your excessive need to keep her " accountable ".
I called you 2x you didn't pick....why? She explains
The next week.....she explains.
The next day, u call her by 7pm, she's not home yet. You begin to demand where she went.
Next week, you are vexed by her attending a church you didnt approve.
Next month, you want explanations as to why she was speaking with her male neighbor for more than 5mins.....she go tire for you quick, bc she is going through alot with no emotional support.


Wait till you get to the UK.....it might begin to make more sense to you when u miss for train station 6x in one month and come home tired and grumpy and somebody who should be saying sorry begins to lawyer you.