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I just saw the footages and watched the CNN reports. I didn't know when tears started streaming down my eyes. The evil that men are capable of knows no bounds. While I know illegal immigration should not be condoned, it still tears me apart to knowing that these young men and women just want a chance to have a better life for themselves and their families. They just want a chance to work and earn decent wages. They could have stayed back in their countries and become armed robbers, ritualist, drug smugglers but choose to pursue a live of honest hardwork. But what do they get un return, THEY ARE SOLD AS SLAVES AND COMMODITY. I am not naive to suggest all of them are saints but I am sure a vast majority of them are good, responsible people doing it not only for themselves but their families too. Nothing breaks my heart like seeing a man trying to put food on the table for his family but unable to do so. Another sad aspect is that the fact that their skin colour is black is major factor in what is happening. PLEASE IF YOU ARE CONTEMPLATING THIS, DON'T DO IT PLEASE. The journey is too perilous, dangerous and not worth it. Please watch the video of this Nigerian to get a sense of what I am saying. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qK_232xzJ5E |
ponpon:You are super nice. I think we need to read the previous pages. For the umpteenth time this is a link to every GRE materials you can need. http://drive.google.com/drive/folders/0B-ii97JplpxMdzhHNnYxSUlPOEE . It contains all the Magoosh videos, PDF books and also PowerPrep windows app. |
AgentOfAllah:I am not supposed to dignify you with a reply, so this is the last time I will respond to you. Do you have to descend to name calling and ascribing labels because you don't agree with my opinion? That's what is called BIGOTRY. I am not one of those people you can attack with educate yourself line. I am highly educated and continue to educate myself. Like I said, this is the only response you will get from me. Any of your rants will be subsequently ignored. You have shown you are not cultured enough to hold a civilized conversation. I need to catch some sleep. |
Sagamite:I think this point has been made in different iterations on this thread. In an ideal world, no woman will have to worry about rape. But, will live in a less than ideal world where evil minds on on the prow'. So what do we do? Continue shouting rape is bad, real men don't rape? We know that already. The point is that there are certain things than can be done to reduce the incidence of rape. There is a role for society in term of education, non-tolerance, appropriate laws and implementation of the laws. And, dare I say, there are certain things women can do to reduce the likelihood of being a victim of rape. It is about not giving the rapist an opportunity to commit the crime. In the same vein, there are cultural norms that reduces the prevalence of rape. There is less incidence of rape in Saudi Arabia due to a combination of these factors. The truth is criminals are more likely to commit a crime if they believe they are likely to get away with it. I don't subscribe to the notion of a rapist seeing a provocatively dressed woman and then losing his senses and then raping her. A more likely scenario is the provocative dress sexually aroused the rapist, and instead of controlling his desire like most men would, he devise a means to lure and isolate the woman to perpetrate the act.(Note here he finds a way to reduce the likelihood of getting caught, he doesn't just grab her on the street and start raping her there and then.) Another thing is that immodest dressing sends a wrong message to his warped mind that he is probably going to get away with it. The truth is that criminals profile their victims. And the profile of the victim of a rapist is not all women, they prefer to target certain types of women Now, I am aware that this account for only some subsect of rapes and rapists. There are compulsive rapists which only get sexual gratification from forced sex, chiled molesters and peadophiles. No amount of modest dressing is likely to deter these sets of criminals. But, will modest dressing and common sense precautions reduce the incidence of certain type of rapes and reduce the chance of a woman being a victim of rape. YES it would and it does. |
Tozara:In as much as I didn't want to comment on this thread, you practically forced me. OH no no, Stop pulling out stats indiscriminately. While I do agree that rape is a problem all over the world, the prevalence greatly differs from one country to another. Below is a graph of the prevalence rate from the same womanstats website. While a rapist can never be excused, the fact is that a Muslim woman dressed in Niqab is less likely to be a victim of rape compared to a scantily clad woman in the same situation in Nigeria. And a woman is more likely to be a victim of rape in Nigeria or USA compared to Saudi Arabia. And every country has a Wikipedia page on rape. Are rapists beasts? YES, but to come here and try to say nothing mitigates against rape is ingenuous at best.
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And what is He doing there? Just looking at this picture is giving me goosebumps. I love children so much that it scares me to imagine what might have happened. The outcome could have been so tragic and traumatic for everyone involved. |
I agree with his reasoning, but he should have attended since he was not the one footing the bills, so no hypocrisy. |
pronto543:Femi312 and Scholastica16 have given you excellent advice. Why not broaden your search? Why are you constraining yourself to those four schools? |
NOV2017:What kind of help do you need? That people should give you so money so that you can waste it again on gambling? That is if what you have written is true, which I seriously doubt. |
toluene1234:Go to https://www.usnews.com/education/best-global-universities/search?country=united-states&subject=agricultural-sciences You can search for your specific course in each of the universities listed to find suitable ones. All the best. |
PHEEEMMMY:Check out F And G Suites Ilupeju, Lagos - 7, Ade Akinsanya Avenue, Off. Town Planning Way. It is less than 5 minutes walk to the test venue. It is nice and not too expensive. |
Wow, really nice thread and quite informative. |
dikru2002:The US embassy does not care if you keep your beards or not. I am a Muslim and also keep my beards although I don't have much of it naturally, but enough that most people in Nigeria call me "Alfa" when they see me. I didn't even feel any different at the embassy and even in the US nobody cares. You see different shades of people, from Indian Sikhs with beards and turban,Americans who keep beards because of whatever reason to Muslims with beards and cap. Even when I rocked my Buba and Sokoto with cap to campus on Friday after Eid, no one bat an eyelid, only my colleague complimented my looks and were curious about the clothing. Like the VO replied to someone who gave you a false information, just make sure you are a genuine student and stay within the boundaries of the law. May Allah guide us. |
Scholastica16:It has been interesting and a little challenging. PhD in the US, especially in the first year entails a careful balance of three major aspects; The core courses, Lab rotation and most likely Teaching assistantship (TA). The core courses are quite demanding and you cover so much in a short space of time. Two courses of 4 credit hours each, and a seminar of just 1 credit hour. Lectures for each course are twice a week and early morning in my case. In two week(4 lectures) we covered more than a typical Nigerian semester. So if you don't review the lectures after the class, they pile up really fast. One thing I try to do is review the previous lecture before the next class. Also, we record the lectures and listen to it again, because so much information is passed across in limited time. American students even struggle to cope with the pace of some of the classes. Another important thing to keep in mind is that C is a failing grade for a PhD student. That means the student has to retake the course and a number of students are actually retaking Molecular Biology. Full exams also are frequent, usually every four weeks but tend to only cover the lectures treated in the previous period. Therefore up to 4 exams in a little over 3 months period and then the average is used to determine the final grade. I think most people know that C in the US is not 50% but a lot higher and sometimes depend whether the Professor decides to "curve" the grade using the class average. One of the thing that has helped me is forming a study group, where we discuss the lectures and bat around ideas. I also picked the brain of Senior PhD students about what to expect from each course and Professor( All courses have more than one Professor, with different style and exam). The good thing about it all is you learn a whole lot, the classroom experience is great, Professors are helpful and would gladly answer your question in class, through email or you can set up an appointment for an office visit. In my program, a PhD student is expected to perform two laboratory rotations to determine which lab to pursue dissertation. So after your classes, you would usually go to your lab. While securing a lab before admission really helps the admission chances, it might be counterproductive in the long run. I say this because of what I have gleaned in my few months. Finding a good research fit is highly important as the student would be spending the better part of 5 years in that lab. This goes beyond performing a research that interests you, but also encompasses the temperament and mien of your potential PI. Some labs are notorious for being difficult, toxic and also some PIs are almost impossible to work with. In addition, you will want to find a lab that has funding, because then you will have more money and freedom to conduct your research and will not have to work as a TA beyond the first two years. Working as a Research Assistant means you can devote all your time to research. Sadly, this information cannot be accessed until the student is fully on the ground. The good thing is thatmost labs actually need students and would gladly accept you as a rotation students. The TA is where the stipend come from and you are expected to perform your duty as assigned. We don't get to teach in my department but I know other departments in UTD where PhD students teach courses. We assist in laboratory practicals mostly, grade scripts and proctor exams. Officially you are expected to work 20hours per week but is less than that in practice (maybe between 8 to 10 hours per week). The Graduate advisor actually gave us the freedom to choose our TA assignment from the available pool. My advice is to never volunteer for a TA assignment others are unwilling to do as they are usually the most difficult and require more time commitment. The general life in the US has been good, The weather in Dallas has been mild (although it is getting cold), food is relatively cheap in Texas and there are Nigerian stores in Dallas. A drawback is that one needs a car to get to most places as the public transport is not the best. I love UTD in this area because there are free buses that run to campus every ten or twenty minutes to students dominated housing areas(depending on where you stay). Most shopping options lie within the route to campus, so you can also use the bus for that. The school is located in a suburb so it is really safe and accessible. The facilities are top notched as would expect from a US university, but it's some simple, civilized touches that have impressed me the most. Like a kitchen with fridge and microwave attached to the lab, coffee and tea available in the lab. There are lab meetings fortnightly with good food ordered from restaurants. There are different kinds of seats all over campus with charging ports, there is always an event or small talk on campus. The staffs are always willing to help. I actually misplaced my relatively new phone on campus but had no doubt that it would be returned by whoever finds it and it was. |
And this is a link to the study guide I have posted before on this thread https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B-ii97JplpxMTVhRZGplOEhPaVE/view . I think it is worth sharing again. Hope it would be useful for prospective test takers. Cheers |
Great GRE scores being posted here. You guys are killing it. This is a link to comprehensive GRE materials that I uploaded https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/0B-ii97JplpxMdzhHNnYxSUlPOEE . It contains all the Magoosh videos, pdf books and also Powerprep windows app. |
Great job you guys are doing here, I am just catching up on the thread and only really have weekends to do that. Schedule has been really busy. I fully understand why PhD students have to be funded. You don't really have time for anything else. I think I should be contributing more to this thread but bear with me biko. Shout out to Scholastica16, your posts are full of sagacity. |
LagosismyHome:Hello ma'am, Please can you give specific examples of the statement in bold. |
ProfOjah1234:Lol. Still carrying my haircut from Nigeria. Planning to grow it into an Afro. Na Afro sure past. |
A big heartfelt congratulations to Scholastica16 and DreManuel. "As we work to create light for others, we naturally light our own way". You guys have been immense. |
temmitats:I really have to respond to this. To me, his suggestion is just a load of bullshit. Let me put it this way, American universities represent the best of America in terms of tolerance, cospomolitan and progressive thinking. I think the least thing you should worry about is racism, especially in the university environment. Is there really any school in America in which the student body is not over 75% white except historically black colleges? Therefore if you want to study in the US, be prepared to be in the minority. Blacks are only 13% of American population and it becomes something like 5% on university campuses. During my orientation, I was the only black person out of about 400 to 500 students in the hall. It was only on the second day that I saw a lady from Kenya and another American born Nigerian. I think I am also the only Black PhD student in my department, and this is at UT Dallas, a southern school.(Blacks make up a higher percentage of southern states population). However, do I give a damn? Hell No. Do I feel different or inadequate? Of course not. Be confident and carry yourself with pride my lady. |
dawbbleOuEi:Seem pretty clear to me. It means that there are two ways you can be admitted into the graduate program of the school. 1) You will be admitted to the department directly. It is highly likely you would have a specific research interest, contact the faculty and get their commitment to taking you as a student. 2.) The second is an interdepartment (if I can call it that) program involving all the departments that can be classified as as biomedical/health related. It gives you more flexibility in selecting your area of research and would probably admit higher number of students (with various science background) through this method. |
gokuu:Hi, I don't think you really need any admission consultant. I really doubt their expertise. You seem like a really intelligent person and all the information you need in contained in this thread, the USA visa thread in the travel section and forums like gradcafe. One of the joy of this process is doing it yourself and it actually prepares you for graduate school because you would learn some valuable skills and it boost your self confidence immensely. You can always request help on forum about things that might be proving intractable. Cheers. |
eaglebeliever:Decent GRE scores you have there, although a Quant score of at least 160 is desirable for Engineering. If money is not an issue, you might want to consider retaking the GRE. Althought, I can't gainsay the fact you can be admitted with your current GRE score. I think you should work on a list of schools yourself, there are myriad of criteria that only you can decide on. For example, I was only interested in schools in cities and also in the south because I hate cold. Try searching for research from American universities in your area of interest and contact the authors. It is always nice to have faculty support and it helps your application immensely. All the best. |
Scholastica16:Lol very funny. |
Just catching up on the thread, You guys are doing a great job. Good to see the thread is active and progressing. |
dawbbleOuEi:It depends on how egregious the mistake in your name is. If it is just a few letters, then I wouldn't sweat it. Getting the supervisor to give you a letter of recommendation helps to prove you did the work. You can also discuss the research in your SOP and add a line about your name being misspelled if you are comfortable with that. But if I were you, I would just discuss the project since I am the one that did it, without any mention of the mistake. If adcomms are in doubt about authorship, they can always contact you for clarification. |
nibrainengine:It is definitely a plus. Be sure to mention it in your SOP, you can even cite the article as a footnote in your SOP. |
tizentos:Congratulations. Really good score especially considering the circumstances. And the improvement in your scores as you progressed in your preparation is really impressive. Relax for a few days or week and continue working on other parts of your application. Especially your SOP and LORs. It wouldn't hurt to contact some potential supervisors. Congrats again. |
Horexis:For guidance on taking GRE go here https://www.nairaland.com/1832477/how-achieve-high-scores-gre. I advise you to read the thread from the first page to the current page. Cheers |
This is the belated second half of my travel and POE transcript. I am sorry it is coming late but I have been extremely busy with orientations and registration. So where did I stop, hmmmm okay Killing some time at JFK. My connecting flight from New York's LaGuardia to DFW in Dallas was scheduled for 3:20PM New York time and our flight into NYC landed on time and I was cleared before 2:00 am, so I had a lot of time. I got a cart lying around and used it to take my baggage to the first floor of Terminal 4, where the airtrain offload and loads riders, so that I could watch CNN and also use the internet. I stayed here for a while and a Nigerian girl with connecting flight to Seattle helped me to watch over my luggage as I went to pray Fajr Salat in the JFK islamic centre around 5am(Located in the departure area of Terminal 4, at the corner of Virgin Atlantic check in counter). I really should have gotten some sleep in the mosque but baggage storage was not opened, so I had to wait it out. I used some of this time to type the first transcript. At about 10 am I came down the arrival lounge , used the bathroom to freshen up a bit and change my shirt, got a cup of coffee and 3 doghnuts from Dukkins Donuts at 6.80 Dollars. I then presented my ticket to Airporter agent and was informed that the next bus for LaGuardia leaves at 10:40 am. I got to La Guardia before 12 noon for my 3:20 pm flight. I used the internet a bit before commencing check in around after 1pm. Delta has a self check in which allows you to print your boarding pass but my card was not accepted so I had to opt for manual check in. The Delta official asked for my travelling documents and then the card I used to book( A big Thanks to @Ndawe because I might not have taken it along if not for your advice). I was told that my ticket was placed on hold, He proceeded to call someone and after a few minutes I was cleared and payed $60 for my 2 checked baggage in cash. I then joined a long serpentine queue for security check in. Although I know that Blacks make up only 13% of American population, my experience in LaGuardia really drove it home. About 19 out of every 20 passengers were whites. Some of them gave me a knowing smile because the probably guessed I am an international student with the size of my luggage(the nylon wrapped around it at MMIA didn't help too). As I stood on queue, the folder I was holding kept touching a middle aged white guy in front of me, he looked back a couple of times while I was quite oblivious to his concerns. Suddenly, he detonated on me; PLEASE STOP TOUCHING ME, OKAY. YOU ARE MAKING ME NERVOUS, THIS IS ABOUT THE TENTH TIME, NO ONE ELSE IN TOUCHING ANOTHER PERSON HERE. I apologized and made sure I kept enough distance from him until we cleared security. We boarded on time and I had a window seat on the wings of a small Brazilian made Embraer jet. For some reason I was really nervous about the takeoff, and being my third flight in 24hrs I really should not have been. LaGuardia is under construction so there was literally a queue on the runway we used with a plane taking off almost every 2 minutes. The flight took off late, was really smooth with great view of New York and we made up the time lost in the airport during the flight. Therefore we were able to land on time in Dallas at 6:30pm Central time after a three and half hours flight. My roommate was out of the country, so he arranged for his project mate, who happens to be a Nigerian, to come and pick me up from the airport. I borrowed a young Asian American guy phone to call him upon arrival. He took me to the apartment and also brought a delicious bowl of rice, fried plantain,meat and chicken courtesy of his wife. I arrived at the apartment around 8 o'clock on Sunday 13th of August. Overall my journey was smooth and straightforward and I appreciate everyone who assisted me in one way or another. I have been trying to settle in but sleep cycle has really been messed up. I am always dosing seriously around 5pm Dallas time which translates to 11pm Nigerian time. The first thing everyone ask you is where are you from and I was told by my Graduate officer that I am the first Nigerian that would be admitted to Molecular and Cell Biology Graudate programme of UT Dallas. I hope to do well, serve as a good ambassador and open doors for other Nigerians. I know this applies to a lot of us as well. I have been mightily impressed by the school, and If you are someone like me who has always valued good education, then I say keep putting in the hard-work on that GRE prep, SOP, application, Visa interview process. It is a life changing opportunity. Let me stop here at the moment, I still have a lot to share. All #teamfall2017 people who have entered the US and couldn't be bothered to post a POE transcript, remember there is Godooooooooooo......... ![]() |
Scholastica16:I am sorry for my silence on the thread. I have arrived in the US and have been busy with orientation. Class starts on Monday. I would try to be more active as the situation permits. Thanks |
