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Yo, some should tell me the meaning of "lalasticlala". Always find that on the comment sections. What that mean mehn?

Glink2018:
Otedola the rich daugter.instead of this nonsense why can't your father give you a role in his company like Dangote daughter, it will keep you busy instead of you jumping up and down the entertainment industry...
How many serious people can. you find In the entertainment industry, it is better for you to ask your father for a professional role in his company so that you can take over from father after his demise...

Bro, are u for real? She does not solicit for those advises of yours.

McCoy662:
This is uncalled for. Damaging someone's means of livelihood is also a racist attack. Protest should be calm and peaceful as supported by the Constitution.

What tha Bleep are you talking about bro? Do you realy know what hapened? how it hapened? and how long it been hapening? I you knew you will be as angry as those folks mehn.

O no, so parthetic of these clowns. Now what for them?

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cococandy:
Are you sacred for your life that you might end up hurting yourself? How do you mean?

In any case, please understand that you’re worthy. Even if your parents made you feel otherwise. Parents are supposed to speak life into their kids not make them depressed by constantly bringing them down.

If you ever feel strongly that you might hurt yourself, please pick up the phone and call someone. Step outside the house at that moment. Go somewhere where there are people. Anything in the moment to distract you from harmful thoughts.

Thank you ma.

Shinny1:
First is not good to call your children degrading names cos it makes them feel inferior and suffer from low self-esteem
But one way for you to be free from it is start seeing yourself as you want people to see you,add value to yourself by reading books,always try to be confident in what you do..
Try to acquire skills and knowledge of what other people lack..they will add value to you cos you are now a solution to their prayer..
Secondly is that you can find peace and love from the word of God(Bible)....God has given us the spirit of boldness and Peace...
I understand all your are passing through but if you do the things here you will see change in your life...
If you can talk about it with your mum when she is in good mood it will help as well

Thank you so very much. Speaking of skills, i learned how to make palms and sandals. I do paint. Trying to focus on the palms and sandals making so am trying to build up capital for it. Thank you so much once again.

jabolo:
Check this out. 5,000 people will read this message. If 2,000 decide they will never call their kids these names because you, yes you, have opened their eyes to the unintended consequence of these names ... do you still think you are a mumu? Do you still feel you have no worth?

This is just one example. You are a child of the universe, not just your parents. You should walk around, proud that you can make a difference in people's lives with the slightest effort. As you have done today, simply by sharing your experience.

Let me leave you with that.

My eyes just got heavy reading through your comment sir. Thank you a multiple times. God bless you sir.

Ibechris2:
HOW TO KNOW IF YOUR MOTHER IS A NIGERIAN.

1. When you say "Mummy,I am sorry!! And she replies, sorry for yourself! �

2. When yu ask her where you should drop something and she says, " drop it on my head. ��

3. When she brings food wrapped in a nylon bag from a frnd's daughter wedding. ��

4. When you say "Mummy, I have fever and she replies you, why won't you have fever when you press phone every night.��

5. When you say Mummy I took 2nd in my class and she replies, so the person that took 1st has two heads abii?? ��

6. When she takes the DSTV remote to work just to punish you. ��

7. When you are watching TV with her and she sleeps off and still doesn't want you to change the Channel.��

8. When you tell her you are going to a friends place to play and she asks, " when last did that friend come here to play with you??. ���

10. When she tells you, if I hear peeem, you will hear weeen. ��

11. When she touches hot pot comfortablely without a cloth or paper. ��

12. When she tells you,I didn't kill my mother, so you will not kill me!! ��

13. When she calls you from your room upstairs and then sends you back upstairs to bring her purse. ��

14. When you ask her to refund the money she borrowed and she tells you, "All the food you have been eating in the house nko?

*Our Mothers are beautiful, special and
wonderful.*�❤���

In conclusion,some will call u mumu,goat,never do well, and even bastard. I beg just hold ur depression for now. All these Nigerian mothers can yab u to a point of asking if they were ur real mum?

So,calm down and prove them wrong and forge ahead.

With that,we still love them all.

Lol. You had it all sir. Every single word you said is 150% true. And thank you for your words of advice. They are so cool, seriously. Thanks.

KaideeGee:
Well charity does begin at home.

Exactly

KaideeGee:
Well charity does begin at home.

Exactly

PuZZyNegro:
Lack of love from people who are supposed to be the only source of unconditional love could hurt.

But, like someone said "prove them wrong".

Find any available opportunity to stay away from such environment/people.

"prove them wrong" yes this means alot. Thank you.

KaideeGee:
Are you black? If yes, by the time you are able to read and write you should be used to name calling. As for the depression, i think you should see a therapist or a pastor, who knows, your condition may be more than what meets the eyes.

But this are not just ordinary names. And they come from people you're geneticaly attached to.

JasonJidenna:
Lemme answer your question,

It is not right to call your child unprintable names...

If you have passed through that stage, what is expected of you is to prove them wrong. Your destiny is in your hands, no need dwelling in the past, it would only add to the depression and stagnation.

Get up and move on.

NP; "No shaking" by 2face.

Thank You

I wonder, is it right to call your child names? Names like mumu, fool, dundy, otondo alike. Even worst this starts when the child was just a little kid. This is what i passed through. I remember feeling so depressed anytime i'm called such names to the slightest mistake like droping a glass cup. I feel this can cause a dent in a childs life, most espesially when such comes from his parents. The thing is, it never stops. I'm scared for my life because now i feel like i don't no longer belong. Alot of times i feel so depressed.

This fucking pigs are idiots o. Like are some of them are just waiting for an opportunity as this to unleash the trigger nature. Most of then aint even worth being cops. mofos.

This man always sounds annoying.

adekolaelect:
why do you always prove to be Satan By condemning and insulting others and you bible doesn't teach you this oooo .

Satan? You mofos don't like the truth.