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26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

Probably how you carry yourself

2nattie:
Yorubas are good people. Do not be deceived

Lol I'm sure they are.

tifany89:
Hahahahaha funny you. Well I guess agree with you den.it sure shouldn't most especially if distance ain't a barrier

Lol exactly. So was probably trying to figure out what has been other people experiences. Well my colleague tells me I should steer clear from these 'yoruba demons' as she calls them. Mind you she is also yoruba

tifany89:
I guess probably that is because you choose to allow it irritate you. You made mention of you playing second fiddle to their hustle. Will u rather he sits at home with you all day? A man gotta earn a living

Lol of course not. Making a living is all good with me. However at least once a week making an effort to see your partner shouldn't be like trying to drink the red sea.

tifany89:
Don't blame us sis, there is always this innate ambition in us to be successful. It's inbuilt and factory fitted what is Congo like? U mean we have Nigerians there

Lol is there a place without nigerians?! I currently live in Cape Town,and there is quite a number of them here as well. I definitely love that about them brothers. Ambition, drive and that charm.However those things that initially attracts you, later become a nuisance.

Fmartin:
so if u ar nt a nigerian wil u lyk to try a nigerian? am jus curious

Have dated nigerians in the past. Nothing but love for the brothers. However most Naija brothers put money first, with you constantly taking the backseat. That sh*t gets old.

Smellymouth:
Na only ogbono soup you dey chop?

Na only one shoe you dey wear?

Na only one bank account you get?

Na only one boxer you get?

Can you chop only rice all the days of your life?

Oh my word, this made my day lol

Fmartin:
do u wanna compare nd contrast abt ur own rela... ?

Lol maybe ey... I'm simply curious as it's a very rare intercultural association.

Honestly I will say find yourself a genuine girl that will like you for you as a person. This chick is obviously not it.

TrapQueen77:


Ooh really? I never had a chance to meet a congolese guy/gal yet...

I'm Congolese, and there are a great number of good Congolese men but the vast majority will give you unwarranted headache

TrapQueen77:




I heard their men are so meaty

They do tend to be well endowed, however will frustrate you in other aspects

FelixFelicis:
Waiting for one stúpid boy from plurimi to come tell us about one of his Congolese ex

Hahaha haha I'm dead

dingbang:
For me they are more loving.. Although very clingy.. You just need to drop the Nigerian mentality and understand them

Lol clingy how?

Is there anyone on this forum who has dated a girl from either Congo? Or a girl from these nations that have dated a Naija brother? Interested to hear about their experiences. What were the good side of such an intercultural relationship and of course your frustrations?