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itsJude:
how can u blame the men

Why stay in a bad relationship?

I think this is something that should be denounced by men.In most African nations, men are the legislation. True a great deal do not condone women abuse, however many do not do anything to fight against this epidemic. Women are trafficked daily, killed, abused and raped. It's not only about denouncing but also rectify mindsets

Though it's quite rife in Africa, you find issues of domestic violence everywhere in the world. However the issue lies at the casualness of which it's regarded. Women hear that if he hits you, it means he loves you. I don't stand for those lies.

This matter got to be addressed. South Africa in recent months has seen this matter come to the forefront of the media with recent Cases of women dying at the hand of their partners. I disagree that the problem lies with women but with men.

luminouz:
Lool@ d mathematics part......I like straight up honest gehs like u....too bad ur married!!!!

Hahahahaha... I believe in simplicity. I don't like unnecessary complications. You like someone says so, you want to scr*w a person say so. Playing games really ain't up my alley. Pointless feeling the person, wanting to get down and dirty. But going home H*rny because of pretenses.

prinsam30:
u mAde me smile

Glad I did. Life is simple, enough problems exist without over complicating things

shadowsblu:
FIRST YOU MUST BE A GOOD COOK...

YOU MUST BE GOOD ON BED... SQUIRTERS ARE MY BEST.

I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PAST.

JUST BE NICE.

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Lol is this serious? I have seen it all in my life

luminouz:
U nailed dat fucker!!!!!! N girls dat form like dat are not my favourites!!!! She has like 2 other guys in her life so y WTF isnt she giving OP some of dat action? Ladies n drama!!!

Lol yes. There is really no sense in what she does. She already told him that she has 2 other dudes, yet she wants to act sanctimonious! Wtf!!! If she wanted to play hard to get, then don't tell the brother that you seeing other peeps. She is just sending mixed signals. I sometimes feel bad for guys. We can be more confusing than Mathematics

3DCYCLOPS:
Op the merit sure ooo

That was how I followed one mama and do all nite session till 9am the next morning chai
For 3days my spinal cord and ribs were paining me


Shey If i did not test waters and na marry th
is kind mami...I will last 1 month

ronald4lif:
Mr. Toks never disappoints in brandishing his misogynistic views. Dude, a woman doesn't have to stay in a relationship that's not working just so she doesn't appear to have many exes. If it's not working, she move on. Likewise the guys.

You talked about women being 'ransacked' but never spare a thought for men who are also being ransacked. Why must your opinion be laced with male chauvinism, female belittling and condescending to the women folk. You can do better mate. We already know you're a chauvinist but easy with flaunting it on our faces.

I agree.

prinsam30:
wetin dey vex me sef na this statement wey she make.....

No wonder each time I come visiting, you will only be kissing me, you don't let me to feel you, na kissing I go chop? "

this statement keeps ringing in my brain, she actually wants me to fvck her, then why is she stopping me

She doesn't want to view her as an easy lay.

prinsam30:
ur lady, Pls say something na

Why play a game where you deprive yourself of your own needs

While men could easily do that. For women it's almost impossible unless she is getting paid. Women first connect emotionally in a way,which later translates into the physical aspects of a relationship.so attraction should exist first. But if you trying to ask whether you have been with a person though you did not feel there was anything keeping you there outside of the physical side, I think you would be surprised that a great deal of women have indulged in some form in this type of arrangement.

Eish the game people play sometimes.

Toks2008:
You ask an obviously unmarried lady out and she says "sorry I'm in a relationship" and many ladies will quickly change their status on their social media handle to...."in a relationship or Engaged" ...worse still some will go as far as putting up the pics of a man who is not yet officially theirs and I keep wondering what goes on in the minds of some ladies ..

Shall we call that being faithful or being naive?

Every lady reading this should wake up and understand that until a man is officially married to you,he can not be trusted in anyway and that a man is even engaged to you does not guaranty marriage

Each time you tell a guy who asks you out that you are taken while still unmarried,you are simply shutting the door on yourself too soon and many ladies have shut out their husbands simply because they got carried away by an unserious man who is only good at mouthing their love and giving them forlorn hope.

Don't get it twisted, this is not about being unfaithful to that particular guy you truly desire but it is about tactfully leaving your options open by not flaunting him on or offline thereby driving away possibly more willing suitors.

Many ladies remain taken for years without wedding bells and I have seen several ladies who have been engaged for years.

The bottom line is that you should stop flaunting any guy you are courting and only flaunt your husband

Ladies should stop blocking their chance cos In the real world...there is no in between and there is no such word like "I'm taken" while you are still unmarried.

You are either single or married

Don't know if this makes sense.

Preach!!! I definitely practice this

Well this is my simple view. I think it's better to be realistic in our expectations

rawpadgin:
take it easy so u don't crack ur ribs

Lol don't intend to

rawpadgin:
I tell ya

i make sure feel the 'D' right for where her womb dey

& she can't even quit cuz she is gonna miss junior a lot

You got me cracking up

rawpadgin:
can't imagine myself hitting a woman

have always told guys, if u have to make a woman cry, do that right ontop the bed with ur d1ck as weapon

Lol an interesting way of battery

tifany89:
Good morning, have a nice day ahead

Thank you dear, same to you

pressplay411:
Lol ok dear, what else could it possibly mean?
If it's good news, yall say it straight up "Baby I have good news"

She could be trying to voice some concerns. It's not always calling you out on sh*t

pressplay411:
Luv... Statistics have shown that It's a prelude to catastrophe.

Hahahahaha I'm cracking up! It doesn't always mean trouble

pressplay411:
Baby we need to talk.

Your Bleep-up-meter is about to explode.
Just pray it's not so serious like maybe you only killed some one.

Lol why are men afraid of those 4 words

Constantly having to try to open up to people and communicate when I'm perfectly happy being a loner

Seems a lot of people quote the material things. What about personality? It's all good and all that he drives a bugatti and lives in a mansion. But if his manners are lacking and his personality is that of a devil, I doubt there will be much happiness

Lol #facts

tifany89:
Lol yeah you should. Dat is another name for promiscuous men. Their cheating and heartbreak is on PhD level

Lol so I have been told. I think they are at post PhD level

luminouz:
OK....
Found what u looking for yet @ fine boiz?

luminouz:
Whaaaaaaat Hell No! We are d best dearie!!!!
Nawa o.....n u just registered today

Lol usually visit the site but only today yes I registered. The best I wonder.

26andsearching:
What will you gain moving here

Lol joke. Simply put its just about you changing the way you approach things. Lead less with your wallet or maybe tone yourself down a bit so that you are not perceived as a money bag. If asked what you do for a living,don't give too much info. If for example you work as a marketing manager, simply say I work in marketing. See you haven't lied but not revealed your pay grade. But also review the type of women you are attracted to

26andsearching:
Am trying to be real

I can't pretend

I know that feeling . Problem here is that men are like that. Maybe I should move to Naija