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WotzupNG:
The 2018 edition of Big Brother Naija entered its pairing stage last night. The female housemates were asked to pick numbers after which they proceeded to pick male partners.


The males were given the choice of rejecting or accepting when picked by a female.

Below is a list and pictures showing the 2018 BBNaija Housemates pairing. Which pair do you think will make the ultimate power couple?


1. Tobi and Cee- c
2.Lolu and Anto
3. Angel and Ifu Ennada
4. Alex and leo
5. Dee one and Vandora
6. princess and Bitto
7. Bambam and Teddy A
8. Nina and Miracle
9. Khloe and K- Brule
10. Ahneeka and Rico

http://www.purplefeel.com/2018/02/bbnaija-details-housemates-pairing.html

Guys just started watching. What's the purpose of the pairing

hatchy:
The South African society is inhibited by semi mad people so im not surprised.

This kind of dressing depicts the ungodly nature of that society.That is why the crime rate especially rape and murder is always on the high side in S.A

Angel Gabriel should please stop toying with the trumpet and sound it biko nu!

She is Zulu. and frankly that's not viewed as nudity in the culture.Secondly, how did Africans dress prior to the arrival of colonisers? I agree that the dress can be viewed as tasteless but citing such an hypothesis on an entire society is wrong

afrikanbabe:
Well well.. what do fellow Nairalanders think of being based in Nigeria via a Niger wives visa

Lol please tell us more

Veron265:
Update

It turns out my southy friend has departed last night's flight.
I'm curious and excited to hear how it will go, how she'll like it etc.

True to what you folks said, the SA-9ja based companies are willing to lend and ear.
LinkedIn has done wonders, plus her known contacts etc.

As for me....I await a few pieces to come together

She got a job?

Jayceon:
lol as if we don't already know you are a Nigerian hahahaha

Haha Thixo wa se George Goch

She is South African. Spoke to her over the phone

afrikanbabe:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am a South African woman very interested in relocating to Lagos, Nigeria. I've lived in the country before so I'm quite familiar with the people, food and culture. I love the energy in Nigeria despite the hardships.
I would like to find out how South Africans living in Nigeria get their jobs, via international recruiters or friends or how? Also, how easy is it to organize the right papers? I am not looking to marry for green card oo... unless genuine love is concerned.

So any advice or leads, I'd really appreciate. Thank you folks

Spoke to this lovely soul Afrikanbabe on the PHONE and I can confirm that she is genuine and really SOUTH AFRICAN (You can't fake a SA accent) for those saying she might be a troll. For the 9jas coming at her for wanting to relocate there, open your eyes to the beauty of your place. I just wish that more South Africans were as open to exploring this continent. We need more of this to put an end to afrophobia. This demonstrates the true spirit of Ubuntu. These borders are man made, we all Africans.

SorftWerk:
yeah, but not all men. Do u agree?

Definitely

SorftWerk:
lol...u see well endowed on ur dp...I wonder why he looked else where...I left facebook cos of my ex tho cos my wall's constantly flooding with messages from different crush and she couldn't handle it and requested we leave Facebook together and I obliged but sadly she broke my fragile heart and since then I been poking wet holes but unable to go back to fbook

Looooool thanks. Men can be something else!

SorftWerk:
lol...you really had to go through all that cos of a guy that's not worth it?


I hope u dumped his ugly black ass after all?

Lol I did. The thing is I was constantly being accused of cheating. Out of the blue that evening, he caused an argument because he wanted my Fb password, which I provided. I then requested the same which took him 4 hrs to send. Upon logging in I found his inbox empty. He had deleted everything. However I had one up on him, I went online and started going through his chats where I found everything I needed. I was just happy to be vindicated

SorftWerk:
following wetin?


Common share ur sexperience joor!

I don't cheat-but caught an ex through his fb msgs. Downloaded the proof, printed them all and took it to him.

Following

Quinn22:
Tklabelle you don't need to struggle to find true love dear, when you are ready true love ❤️ will find you naturally

And remember, only you can make yourself happy, not your mother, not your father nor your true love, just you

Oh thank you love . I'm focused on building myself up and my career. I'm not actively looking either . However saw the article and found it true

redbeans:
9. They don't talk when you talk [glad amarabae applied this to her man]. They reply 'yes sir' for their man. They greet properly and entertain relatives.
10. A dirty girl finally, knows the opportunity availed to her and as such treats his man as his superior and not a rival.

Insecure fool. You are so low yourself in the hierarchy of life that lording it over a woman would make you feel better about your pathetic life.

It’s hard for you to find love because you’re honest. You wear your heart on your sleeve and you don’t know how to hide your feelings, play hard to get or play games, which makes people think you’re either too needy or something must be terribly wrong with you.

It’s hard for you to find love because you’re craving the old, sweet and pure romance. The one you heard your grandparents talk about, the one you read in novels, the one you saw in black and white movies. You’re looking for romance in a generation that ruined it.

It’s hard for you to find love because you still hope and believe that your ex will come back. You believe in second chances and comebacks and resolutions. You believe that people can’t just fall out of love with each other forever, that eventually they’ll come around, that eventually they’ll reunite and sometimes this keeps you holding on to a past that’s no longer good for you.

It’s hard for you to find love because you’ve been heartbroken more than you’ve been loved. You don’t trust easily anymore, you’re too guarded, you’re afraid of opening up again to someone and they leave. You don’t know how to believe people anymore when they tell you they like you or that they care about you, you think they’re just pretending, you think they’re not being genuine and you subconsciously compare anyone to the ones who broke your heart.

It’s hard for you to find love when you’re secretly giving up on it. You can’t be positive when everyone around is suffering because of a girl or a boy. You’re not fearless anymore because every time you put yourself out there and chased love, it disappointed you and left you broken. You can’t believe that you’re the exception to the rule anymore because this mentality brought more heartbreak than love.

It’s hard for you to find love because you found more safety in your loneliness. You like knowing that you don’t have to deal with anyone who could be lying to you or cheating on you or about to break your heart. You like having the upper hand. You like knowing that you’re not in a position where someone else is in control of your happiness or your emotions. You like staying away from it all so no one calls you crazy, needy, insecure, desperate or whatever label people give you when you’re in love. You like knowing that no on else will make you feel like you’re not good enough or someone else is more worthy of their time and affection.

It’s hard for you to find love when you don’t know what you’re looking for. You have an idea of it in your head but you’ve never lived it. You never felt it. It was always short-lived. It was always fake. It was always temporary. You don’t know forever. You don’t know unconditional love. You don’t know what love is and sometimes it feels like you’re searching for something that might not even exist anymore.

www.thoughtcatalogue.com

You honestly in the wrong here and if I was you, I would swallow my pride and reach out to the man. But I have to say this though my dear,a relationship isn't always built on money. There are numerous non expensive things that you guys could do that doesn't involve breaking the bank

1Rebel:
Because of amu? You burn my house?

When we go to court, I hope you'd remember that $5,000 I've been saving since was under the bed when you set the house ablaze

Where is the proof
Serves his cheating self right!!!

mandmis007:
She's always been dia 4 me. Very loving n caring. I don't doubt her faithfulness. My friends told me she confided in him dat she loves me. Her elder sista too told me that.

Interestingly love is shown through actions, not words. However if you feel that you guys can get past this, and you will not have doubts lingering in your brain. Then by all means get back to your woman. But the fact that you brought this matter in this platform clearly indicates that in your heart of heart, you doubt how genuine this woman is.

kokoye:
Some female posted this on her facebook page"

'A successful man is one who makes more money than his woman can ever spend . . a successful woman is one who can find and

hold down such a man.'


36 'likes' and counting . .all from females.

Utter nonsense.

Honestly ask yourself if all is said and done, it is such a woman you actually want in your life. She is obviously not loyal. If you get back with her, you will always wonder what she does behind your back. My advice:cut your losses and move on!

nnamdiokere45:
she abandoned u and zoomed off with d guy,i think u shld know d ans to ur questions bro.
where i blame u is for even following dem and even trying to fight. my bro if dem kill u der wetin u go tell papa God.u died for love? my brother even if my wife leaves me and enters d mans car,i wld drive d opposite direction ,find a bar and chill

Lol like seriously? Your wife? Laughing so hard

No you don't need a visa to visit Barbados

lamalang:
So naija visa de hard to get for some countries, me i think say naija no get visa, you can just enter the country the way you like

It's actually harder than a USA visa

Wow such hateful and venomous comments leave me saddened for this continent.

jy2kbeyond:
No come o. We never fight recession finish you wan add your own.

Lol you made me laugh so hard!!!

cassidyjosh:
Hello nairalanders I want to share a story with you guys that I have kept within me and I want to know if what I did is wrong or right. I met this girl in January 2016 when I went for a youth program. It was love at first sight when I laid eyes on her I walked up to her after the program and introduced my self to her, we exchanged numbers and became friends. As our friendship grew she saw how I was ready to do any thing for her and that my feelings for her was beyond just been friends. I later told her about my feelings, at first she declined and told me that she had a guy and that the relationship was not all that stable, today they will be on and tomorrow off, she later accepted and we loved each other. I did all I could to make her happy and she showed me love, I introduced her to my family she also did the same, she paid them frequent visits to the extent she was been called our wife because she did alot of house chores. She cooked, and cleaned and even went to market for my mother everyone loved her until she started acting strange She hardly calls and when I call her after talking when I say I love you she hardly respond even if she does all she says is me too or thank you, she reduced her commitments to our relationship. Later I discovered that she has been making calls with her previous guy when I confronted her about it she said he has been disturbing her asking that they get back together, so I asked her about what she wanted and she said its like she still loves him. I acted maturely and told her she was free to choose thinking that she would choose to be with me after all we've been through. But I thought wrong she reduced calling me and eventually broke up with me but I would still call her and ask how she was. One day I called and it was her mum that picked and told me that she was seriously sick and had been admitted in the hospital, quickly I got the address and rushed down to see her. On getting there I saw how she was changed she looked thin and was very weak; when she saw me she just kept crying and crying and could not utter a word, I spoke to her mum who told me that she neeeded blood transfusion and that they are yet to find a suitable donor and can't afford the one the hospital made available. I consoled her and told her all will be well, immediately I went to see the doctor and discussed if I could be a suitable donor. He ran some test and I was a match the whole thing just happened before me like a movie I never thought something like that could happen to me. The doctor told me they would require some deposit before they commenced, quickly I rushed to a nearby ATM and withdrew some money" her mum just kept thanking me. The transfusion was successful and we were both discharged after they observed us and her especially and her health improved, I was so proud of my self that now my blood is flowing in her body I gave her mum some money for her upkeep and called regularly to check on her. A week after I went to check on her only to find her with another guy gisting and laughing she stood up and introduced us and told me that this is her husband to be and he was the guy she had earlier told me about I just congratulated them, asked her to greet her mum and I walked out. Days later she called me and said she wanted to thank me for saving her life and that she understood how much I love her and the reason why she changed towards me was that her pastor told her that we were not meant to be and that the other guy is whom the Lord had chosen for her I took it in good fate and wished her well and that I had noting against her. Eight months after the wedding I got a call from her saying that she wanted us back and that she dint no that she got married to the devil and her pastor had ruined her life by making her leave me. That she knows am the only one for her and that she is getting a divorce before he kills her. I told her she made her choice and I have made mine as well and that we should all stick to the choice we made, but she keeps calling wanting to know where I am so that she could come show me how much she loves me and wants me to forgive her. Pls guys advise needed cuz am still in love with her what should I do? Should I maintain my stance and move on or should i forgive her. Mature advise pls.

Run! She is a witch

tanyah0001:
Honestly I was going to save my virginity with marriage. I don't mind leaving him but I will lay a curse on him I swear cause I was so pressured into doing it and he was even telling me it was an oath to stay together forever. I will lay a curse on him.

Oh honey, you fell for the oldest tricks in the book. Given that we have the same first name , let me advise you. Leave that guy. Learn from this. You should never do anything that you personally are not comfortable with. Concentrate on building yourself up,your aspirations and dreams. Guys will always come, it's up to you to be wise. They have the sweetest mouth when they want something from you. Always try to read between the lines. Look at what he does, not say.

MrBrownJay1:
They are both mad, but yes, women should take a big part of the blame when they gladly stay with an abusive man (thinking he will change) AND/OR accept the beating as they want to keep the "happily married" charade and remain being called Mrs, at all costs.

A sad reality.