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Sweetplum:
Firstly, I saw the thread. I don't noticed any female handle typing like she's pained over losing virginity.
Matured ladies don't talk about virginity anyhow so I can say no female did what yiy said.
Also, you can't know who's a virgin and who's not a virgin. Your grandma can be here claiming she's a virgin and a very promiscuous man from your kins can be here to claiming I m Mr purity.
Stop creating threads like this with lies. It denies you the opportunity to be seen as a person with intellect! In fact, I now see you as a person constituting nuisance here!
So go and grab your playstation game or go to the nearest bus-stop to argue football with okada riders!


As for you Jeromestarks, I see this thread was created by you and your minions. Dunno why you guys are so pathetic and immature!

You all should go and plan your future so that we won't be reading your lamentations in future say economy bad and you all ll be roaming Nigeria at 35-40 jobless and unfulfilled!

jeromestarks:
The thing tire me as dey just dey vex anyhow.

This your thread made me realize that ladies who are currently not virgins and single are not happy with the decisions they've made.

It's shows that they rejected opening their pvssy because of iphone and money.

It's shows that a non virgin is a broken woman. The best one can do for her is to fvck her and let others fvck her.

Never marry a broken woman.

They are not happy with their with their decisions but shame no go let to them talk am , instead they start shifting blames and cursing whoever wants to hold them accountable for their decisions.

I know 99% regret the way they lost their virginity and wish they can get it back but that's impossible so they start venting their anger and frustration

muyico:
Who cause it?? Dey tinkz men trick dem to take it away! Many times dey felts cheated! Dada who beat u,no b u

One thing I have come to realise is that women hardly take responsibility or blames for their decisions and men like you are their enablers, they cheat , they blame the man for not giving her enough attention, they commit paternity fraud, they blame the man, they lose their virginity, they blame men for tricking them,
nigga it takes two to tangle and sex will never happen except the woman allows it, get that

So they should take responsibility for the aftermath of their decision and stop blaming men

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Avoid single mothers like a plague that they are,una no dey hear

Enjoy your cup of tea

Sweetplum:
I v spoken. Respect your sister. Now, [treat girls well.

Sweetplum:
Should I go harder on you or be soft?
Go and get knowledge before creating a thread or else I ll drive away your self esteem.

But I m considering you as my kid brother so I ll just spank you a little.
Never compare men with women. We are already at a disadvantage. If you want to marry a virgin, do so. But never belittle a girl who has lost her virginity carelessly or not carelessly. Some were raped! Some were jilted, they wished to marry who dis-flowered them. In all, never mock anyone with their situation. You don't know the circumstances that brought them their.
Girls v the right to demand anything from men they are to marry and guys are not allowed to marry only virgins. Those that were dis-flowered must be taken too.
Now I v been fair!
For your own good, you and others should reply with sense!

Thunder fire you , kid bro kill you there, Who tha fúck do you think you are and what makes you think any jargons you say will make feel any less good than I already feel now, not to talk of my fucking self esteem, you must really deluded and high on crack to say that shít

Girls have a right to demand anything from the man they want to marry same as men,
what's good for the goose is good for the gander

As for me and my niggas, It's Virgin or nothing no time for the cock and bull story about being raped, where the likelihood of that being true is less than 10%

Now you can fúck off to the hole you crawled out from

Nasty ass bîtch

Jeon:
You can't buy my virginity with your stupid riches.

PoliteActivist:
Who will marry the women you seduced, sometimes actually approaching rape??

PoliteActivist:
We are not talking about society, we are talking about VIRGIN. You insist on it for a woman, while you yourself are free to sleep with whoever opens leg.
Who will marry all those girls you slept with??

ok, who will marry the men without a car, the short men, the not so financially buoyant men, who will marry them if women instists on the above, abeg leave matter

Women set standards,no problems, then why is it a problem when men do the same

PoliteActivist:
You are comparing apples and oranges. Non of the things you mentioned women want is abstaining from fundamental urge. If you say women insist a man never have ever smoked or drank, that's closer to virgin

WTF are you even saying

Men and women are not the same, society judge both genders differently,
get that!?

My stance still remains, Virgin or nothing '

shantti:
the only reasonable thing for u to do is to get married and have your own baby.
if u dont want to marry now, then exercise some patience about wanting a child.

Goodvibes8:
Although, I already sent my father 50k for Christmas, so he called me on Monday complaining how bad village rice is, that the rice is always filled with stones. I told him not to worry that I will send him good rice.

So I contacted my girlfriend who's an expert in buying things in the market and we also live in the same city. She said I should go for long rice, that long rice is the best and it cost 46k a bag. I also needed Groundnut oil at home (10 litres) so I asked her how much and she said 12k. I sent my girlfriend 60k for the stuffs. She went to the market and bought it stuffs.

Out of good will I told her to take half bag of rice and oil to her parent, that I will be sending the other half to my father. She was really happy & grateful.

But I was so disappointed when I went to pick up the rice & oil. I may not know long or short rice but when I see half bag of rice, I would know. The rice wasn't up to half bag and the oil isn't up to 5 litres. I felt cheated and angry but I just lock up.

My girlfriend & l are spending the Christmas & new year together, she's coming over to my house on Saturday. So she called me this evening that she's going to the saloon tomorrow to make her hair that she need 15k.

I'm so pissed off. Is this greed or what? You cheated me and still asking me money for hair.

Avoid broke hungry girls like a plague, una no go hear, now see the results, enjoy!!!

MissLAP:
I wonder what men are turning into these days. You people want women to take over your duties ba?

And what are women's duty if I may ask

UyaiIncomparabl:
I am not a hungry girl, but my dear boys, you will send transport money, hairdo money and upkeep money. I am self-sufficient, but if you are mine, I don't even need to ask you, you should have the sense to take them as your burden.

Isn't that the burden of masculinity again? To provide for the female as long as his ego is constantly shined and she continues to revel in her femininity?

This is 2022, I don't even argue about these kinda stale and repetitive topics because outside of here, I can't relate.

Women, follow and date men who have a sense of responsibility. Date men who are intuitive and assertive about your needs and if you're lucky, your vanities inclusive. Men, who before you ask, have done it. Men who you don't need to ask for things before they get them done. Men who are thoughtful and sensitive to your worries. Men who are premium and assume the provider role without complaints. Men who care and prioritise your welfare, for when you are on a man's priority list, you are gold and will be cherished. Date a man who is kind, generous and has a high opinion of women.

Does he have a low opinion of women? Abort mission. Does he think he is doing you a favour by being with you? Abort mission. Listen babies, you aren't materialistic, they are outchea funding baby girls to Santorini and Maldives for summer vacations. If you doubt me, come to Ebeano and Blenco stores on the Island on weekends and see these men shop for "em girls raking into thousands while you as the resident wifey keep wasting her prayers on 'em disloyal boys. No baby, don't do that. Let his mama do that.

Be selfish, strategic and intentional about your associations with men. Stay wicked and never settle. The street is military. Nuff said.

Pinkpill 101.

You are not a hungry girl but you still want men to send you transport, hairdo and upkeep money and you call yourself self sufficient, L L , you just painted a picture of a ' hungry girl ' and why should I take up your burden, oh I know because I am hitting it but I ain't the only one enjoying it, you do too, infact Collins the next door neighbor hits it for free so why should I be the one paying for it, oh you know what why don't you just make it official and sign up on baddoo, instamessage, naijacodedruns etc or better still go start standing at popular joints so we know it's now official

Oh I see what you did there , trying to gaslight and play on egos but know that don't work self aware men

And of course offline simps are the majority and will always be for a long time to come, I hate that but that's the harsh reality, I even created a thread to buttress that fact so you will always meet 'foolish' men who thinks the only way to get a girl is through money and I can see your partner in crime below shouting 'Cheers' talk about "birds of same feather" there couldn't be any better example

So rejoice my dear, simps are clearly the majority but not for long because they are wising up each passing day with your over demanding altitude

Trip to Maldives, Dubai, Paris etc , shopping are only reserved for my relatives infact the only females that chops my money is my mother and female siblings and a female friend who supported me when I had nothing (I can't appreciate her enough) not some entitled leech who feels so entitled to my money like I owe her just cause she got a fish smelly pusyy, no way

So enjoy your simps while it lasts but know for sure that one day dem go wise up

So dear men, just cause you are dating her dosent mean you take up her burden and start funding her like you are her father, trust me ,it always ends with tears cause girls will so use you like tissue and dump you when they are done, so wise up my niggas

zrealjaheal:
Did you just say booze smoke and women. Chief just make out time and go through my siggy

And I have got enough people that could vouch for me that I am no scammer

Here is my moniker azraeljaheel it got banned na condition just make thus crayfish bend

IgiveLadiesBj
bro abeg come see something

zrealjaheal:
Please if you are on here and you can help a brother with Lil change please do. Before you tell me to sell my phone. Abeg I wan sell am na samsung s5 and I wanna sell memory card too 16g

16 79788 000
Lawrence Stephen
Access bank

no amount too small. You can go through my siggy

Shalommy:
Audio money! Broke ass idiot claiming shit. Go and get a job, make more money and get a girlfriend.

Your assumptions of me really amuses me , I am literally LMAO out here, a job , can't remember the last time I had something like nor a girlfriend but the money I make can buy you and yours and I won't even feel like I spent any money

Now go play with your fellow lowlife

Shalommy:
Trash from a stupid idiot. Broke guys will always lament, see faults in everything while Rich guys are looking for ladies to spend on. So boy, go and hustle hard. Chaii

Ballzproblemm:
they will never hear ,they will instead join stupid nairaland females to tag you "broke redipiller",

My bro had a relationship with one of 'em, mehn even up to her sanitary pads, she will still bill him for it , one day my bro asked her, ' come on, can't you buy this pad yourself, must I be the one buying everything for you, her reply was, '

Isn't he the one hitting it so he should be the one responsible for all her expenses'

You can imagine such rubbish, sex that both of you enjoy is what you are using to manipulate him, and despite all he did for her , , it wasn't enough, the hoe was still sleeping around until he found out which led to their break up, last I heard he said he saw her at seme boarder on his way from Ghana doing olosho

You can't make this shit up,

Zonefree:
Broke Nigerian girls are terrorist! Avoid them!

They all over social media especially Instagram looking flashy and be posting y'all Niggas can't afford me but their bank account can't flash MTN to MTN

That shit crazy

Magnoliaa:
It'll be as lavish as possible, but depending on the conditions below.

First pic, definitely nothing short of a royal wedding.
Second, a semi-luxury wedding.
Third pic, a canopy-sized event inside a football field.
I'm never marrying from the last category...

For the record, *I marry* my men and I oversee all expenses concerning them.

You are talking nonsense, cause there is no scientific evidence that masturbation or sex with multiple partners has any permanent effect on penis size or whatnot( of course except for STDs that can be gotten from unprotected sex ) , stop talking like an unenlightened fellow

And for the umpteenth time , there is nothing like male virginity, there is no hymen to ascertain like the females