₦airaland Forum

Thinking Doyin is one of those "stubborn" Nigerian men

This is the most appalling thing I've ever read on NL. Dear JESUS!

debosky:
May i remain forever a kid sef, wait Jesus don talk am sef, na only pikin dey enter heaven

May I join you, please? YES. Thanks!

Wondering why Omoge would be bothered about MEN back home and MEN in Yankee

+osisi:
some unvirtous woman earlier told us she wanted her husband to take on a wife who would perform in bed while she recovered from an illness.

Whatever happened to the marriage vows "in sickness and in health, for better for worse" DAMN!

Thinking of getting Debo a machine called "clipper" to save me the shame on his behalf

How people tend to wear the white veil when they obviously have the real mask underneath.

Feeling sorry for Debo's barber

_PTH,

Thinking if I could give Debo a hair cut

Ndipe, just leave that issue.

ThiefOfHearts:
Some of them do accept it though, Rad dear.

I've heard "well it's in their nature" from more women than men. Very depressing.

I know some women can take whatever comes but hey, why I hate women that can't be useful to themselves. Indeed very depressing.

Why not women saying, "it's in our nature to forbid and reject humiliation"? Damn!

Tanna:
I sure hope some of these women of Nairaland never end up being leaders in your country.
Their inability to have an open ear and disagree without denigrating an individual is not virtuous.

There are matters you don't need a second blink before you take actions against. However, no man or woman can stop polygamy.

Why must we be ignorant to a fault Ohhh dear Lord, come fast!!!

Why must a freaking ring be an issue that discourages you?

Nice. what does Timaya mean?

A post of hers suggested such a look. _lmao

His wife is 8 months pregnant

HisMichele:
I'd rather be blind than think I "see all" And I have no false unrealistic ideas. Now if I went and married him while I was there, that would be foolish.

Umm. . you're not far from getting married if I may say so. Basically, according to your first post you've both decided to get married and "you can't wait". You're excited about seeing his mom and family. Oh well, what's left to tell us? That you may change your mind when you get to Greece?

You said you've been in many relationships but none worked out. Even got married but it failed. I'm worried about your persona. Seems you can't make up your mind on one man 'cause even while you were just "friends" with this man you still dated several men. You said so, remember?

If you can't cope with the men around you, what makes you think you've found the right man and he'll marry you because he "loves" you so much? I agree you're 37 but that don't make you smart. You've been with a black man obviously(or your daughter is a mixture of what?) and probably white men as well. That is, you've seen them 'all' and yet none worked out. What exactly is the problem here?

The issue of "a house divided against itself cannot stand" is not an appropriate clause to be used here. We are Nigerians and therefore know what Nigerians are capable of doing in and out of Nigeria. It's a daily issue. Especially the people who live in Europe. In the country where I am, a Nigerian was jailed 2 years ago for drug trafficking.He was labelled the ringleader of the drug barons in my country. Greece, Italy, Holland, Spain, Germany, Austria, Turkey are countries I hear everyday and the stories are almost always the same. Drug trafficking!!!

However, it may not be his case but he's definitely up to something. I mean, why should he be scared of going to America? Only "business men" in Europe don't like America. Yankee tight!

Something in me tells me you just want to hang on a man

PTH:
She probably wont mind so long as he is a "strange somebody" that admires her "slave potentials".

More like it.

Awww. . Pitty, we all know you're good

Tosin, it's really painful now. 22 years

mamaput:
on niraland

Haba!

PTH, don't even play Mr nice now

He has "everything" that could be required? Why then is he scared of visiting AMERICA? Visiting, not relocating o! Umm. . something's really fishy here, sorry.

Goes to tell you strange people are. I wonder if she'll be very excited if he cheats and continues cheating on her after marriage?

Rofl

Leilah:
it seems they just have to accept a cheating hubby

Accept you said? Geez! what's that? Some men dare not mention another woman's name to their wives let alone the wife finding out that he's cheating. We got some really rugged mamas.

HisMichele:
I asked him to come, but he doesn't want to really. He said he's afraid to come over.

Getting more juicy. PTH, what ya think?

HisMichele:
LOL I have dated men off and on during the last 5 years, as he and I were 'friends'. He was not happy about it, but has remained a faithful friend throughout this.

hehehehehe You never tell a deaf man that there's war.

ClimieNH89:
You have discovered me!

PTH, I read that comment a while ago but I was too dazed by the comment to say a word.

A lot of drama in NL.