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FamilyRe: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ? by tnaidaR(f): 2:34pm On Sep 01, 2007
crazykid:
What did I do to girls on Nairaland; they keep attacking me all the time.

I go commit suicide o! sad
I wish I could be bothered.
FamilyRe: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ? by tnaidaR(f): 12:01pm On Sep 01, 2007
Did someone say saucy? If calling you by your name means being saucy then you might have your 'sauce' pretty hot everyday! Nonsense!

Crazykid, your mentality is very embarrassing.Seen a couple of your garbage all over NL recently. undecided
FamilyRe: Are Women In Nigeria Supposed To Expect And Accept Cheating Husbands? by tnaidaR(f): 11:55am On Sep 01, 2007
lmao @topic

Depends my dear. Not all women are stupid. smiley
FamilyRe: Is It Good For Wives To Call Their Husbands By Their Names ? by tnaidaR(f): 11:43am On Sep 01, 2007
lol. . .I remember this thread tongue
FamilyRe: Why Would A Man Go For A Second Wife? by tnaidaR(f): 10:49am On Sep 01, 2007
Climie, please do me a favor and save your explanations. I'm not good enough for them.
TravelRe: Please Help! Planning To Survive In (abuja/lagos) On Apx. N5Millon For 1 Yr. by tnaidaR(f): 10:15pm On Aug 31, 2007
*giggles and walks out*
Christianity EtcRe: Which One Is Better? Deeper Life, Redeem, Winners Chapel. by tnaidaR(f): 9:53pm On Aug 31, 2007
@poster,

Since you've attended many Churches, don't you think you're a better position to choose which one you're happy with? We may not have attended as many Churches and besides who are we to tell you which Church to attend?

D'u people reason at all?
RomanceRe: The Old Silent Treatment Is A Waste Of Time by tnaidaR(f): 9:35pm On Aug 31, 2007
Seun:
Soon you will join them.
Lmao grin


Why do I find it hard to believe this is coming from Orinkila?
FamilyRe: My Wife Called Me A Liar by tnaidaR(f): 9:29pm On Aug 31, 2007
I understand it pains to be called a liar but umm. . can't this be settled there and then? Have sleepless nights over this and even come and say it on a forum? Dear Lord, I reject such a man! embarassed


Crazykid, please delete my Yahoo!ID from your list. Thought you were better than this. Damn you kid!
CelebritiesRe: Beyonce And Jay-z? They Are History! by tnaidaR(f): 8:31pm On Aug 31, 2007
I go tell u later tongue grin U no understand but u fit sha. Read well wink
FamilyRe: Why Would A Man Go For A Second Wife? by tnaidaR(f): 8:25pm On Aug 31, 2007
Debo, leave that matter. How u deh jare? cheesy
RomanceRe: Females: Nigerian Guys Are Too Stubborn? by tnaidaR(f): 8:16pm On Aug 31, 2007
+osisi:
I hope their wives agree with me LOL
I hope so too tongue

seun001:
like all them guys u met both current and EX
Including you tongue grin
PhonesRe: Samsung D900i by tnaidaR(op): 8:10pm On Aug 31, 2007
Thanks lancer. I actually got a lot of info about the phone from gsmarena.com.
CelebritiesRe: Beyonce And Jay-z? They Are History! by tnaidaR(f): 8:00pm On Aug 31, 2007
No so I see am o grin
FamilyRe: Why Would A Man Go For A Second Wife? by tnaidaR(f): 7:57pm On Aug 31, 2007
ClimieNH89:
Look at it from an objective point of view.

It's obvious una body dey burn una just at the thought of your hubby having a mistress talkless of a second wife.
lmao. . being objective you said? Damn! Please be kind to tell me the object/goal of this matter? Thank you!

Our body go pain when we know a man has cheated and not when he's cheating(that won't repeat itself).

But, to think of offering my husband another woman is beyond comprehension. Body no go pain me because it has never crossed my mind until I met you and Tanna unfortunately. Mistress ko servicing ni. Rubbish!
RomanceRe: [poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin? by tnaidaR(f): 7:45pm On Aug 31, 2007
kanz:
@ tnaidaR my boyfriend knows im a virgin and he hasn't walked away nd trust m when i say he is a hottie.
I trust he's an 'Angel' too.
FamilyRe: Why Would A Man Go For A Second Wife? by tnaidaR(f): 7:28pm On Aug 31, 2007
Tanna dear, you sure you've fully recovered? You might have to go back to the Doctors again.OK? embarassed


Climie, don't even cough here. How can a sane woman wish her husband to take a second wife because she's ill? And you'll live in the same house according to Tanna all in the name of "servicing" her husband? Even deranged people can't imagine that let alone say it out. angry

Even if you feel sorry for the man, and really wish he took a second wife you should never mention it to him or even people around you. That's the craziest thing I've ever heard a woman say. I mean, knowing who we are!!! Apart from wishing he took a second wife, who knows if the slowpoke wouldn't even be cheating? And you Tanna, thinking one extra wife will do a man(who has been offered another woman by HIS OWN WIFE) for two years is like passing a donkey through the eye of a needle. If the man is stupid enough and agrees to your crazy offer he would still cheat anyways 'cause he's been given the GREEN LIGHT by HIS OWN WIFE.

Where the hell do you people get all these crazy ideas?

I refuse to meet people like you in real life. You suck big time! Sorry! embarassed
CelebritiesRe: Leona Helmsley Left $12 Million For Her Dog. by tnaidaR(f): 12:32am On Aug 30, 2007
lol @ the comments smiley

I love that Yoruba adage though smiley

dafman:
Good for the Dog, most dogs are better than humans anyway.
What a conclusion! embarassed
PhonesSamsung D900i by tnaidaR(op): 12:24am On Aug 30, 2007
Hey guys,

I'm thinking of getting a Samsung phone- D900i. Does anyone have it? Could you tell me how good it is? Thanks.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Mukina2, Razor, Siena, Omo Eko, Acidrop, Aisha2, Yimiton, Tnaidr by tnaidaR(f): 12:15am On Aug 30, 2007
*Sneezes through the eyes* grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Ugent Pls I Need Help by tnaidaR(f): 12:13am On Aug 30, 2007
Can't "release" inside you? Don't you use condoms? Nonsense! embarassed The next thing you'll come here to start a thread like "Urgent help needed. I'm pregnant and my boyfriend has dumped me" if you get pregnant by "mistake". Gerrout!

Seun, delete this thread abeg. angry
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Mukina2, Razor, Siena, Omo Eko, Acidrop, Aisha2, Yimiton, Tnaidr by tnaidaR(f): 11:54pm On Aug 29, 2007
lanre_s:
@mukina2, do you work in a cyber cafe?
Looking for free minutes?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Who Arms You Seun by tnaidaR(f): 11:46pm On Aug 29, 2007
*clears throat* grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Advice Needed For Living In Nigeria by tnaidaR(f): 11:40pm On Aug 29, 2007
HisMichele:
Most of you seem like you try to confuse things and twist words to make your own ugly remarks either about your own countryman - his sincerity, character or other - or about making assumptions that I am a fat white woman?? What the hell? Now you ask why I'm getting defensive?? WOW

I'm blown away, there are a few on here who have stuck to the topic and answered me honestly and from their heart, good hearts. But the rest of you make me want to never go to Nigeria if all you know is how to hate each other and attack those around you. It is sad.
We are telling you facts about Nigerians abroad. We don't hate each other but are aware of OUR capabilities. What's wrong in letting you know your risks? undecided Who says you shouldn't go? Who says you shouldn't marry him? All we want is for you to have these facts at the back of your mind. Without doubt, I know you'll go to Greece more "eye opened" than before you started this thread. wink

Go to Nigeria. There are many Americans there as well and other nationales. You won't be the first nor the last.

Sorry if you were attacked but see it as an 'eye opener'.
CultureRe: Terrible State Of The English Language In Nigeria by tnaidaR(f): 11:21pm On Aug 29, 2007
It's called spicing up English grin However, you don't speak that way with non- Nigerians who don't use such language spices wink

Don't be unnecessarily bothered cheesy
RomanceRe: [poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin? by tnaidaR(f): 11:02pm On Aug 29, 2007
kanz:
i won't like to marry a virgin. reason because we would have to learn @ d same time nd that is such a messed up way of losin your virginity. i dnt think its adviseable 4 2 virgins 2 get married. hi veracious, Toh, Pth,
May you never complain when guys find out you're a virgin and walk out. Unstable minds grin

That's such a gross thinking @Vera/Vero and Kanz.
FamilyRe: Why Would A Man Go For A Second Wife? by tnaidaR(f): 10:56pm On Aug 29, 2007
Rofl grin
FamilyRe: Advice Needed For Living In Nigeria by tnaidaR(f): 10:47pm On Aug 29, 2007
I pray so.
FamilyRe: Advice Needed For Living In Nigeria by tnaidaR(f): 10:37pm On Aug 29, 2007
Oh dear!Lot's of bullshit in here! grin

Michele, in your first post you sounded so enthusiastic about getting married to this man. You even told us in another post that you can't wait to marry him and meet his mother and treat her with all respect. You told us you want to be a good wife for him. This means you two have agreed to get married and that's why you're making the move to go and see him.
Why are you sounding all defensive after a few attacks? You don't seem to be so sure of what you're doing or whom you're dealing with?
HisMichele:
Either way, I'm going to Greece, first and foremost to have a good time and vacation with my daughter - something I have never done. The relationship is not really the issue. If it works, it works, if not, her and I will travel to Africa someday
You sound more confused than any of us here. Why the sudden "whatever" attitude? If you're sure about what you're doing you'll be firm on your decisions. Why doesn't the relationship of whom you want to marry matter the most? You better make up your mind and stop playing games here.

"One brother who lives in Napoli".

lol . .what does his brother do in ITALY?

"He is willing to move to the US but I am wanting to move to Nigeria".

HisMichele:
Yes, I was asked why he hadn't come here. He didn't want to, and quite frankly him being afraid had more to do with me than anything else, but I didn't want to get so personal on here.
What exactly are you saying? Damn! Talk about unserious minds.

"As for staying here and dating someone close to home, been there, done that, and I've had it with dating men in America. They only want someone who looks like a model, unless you make a lot of money, then they only want you for your money and as soon as either is gone, so are they".

Why won't you be tired of dating men when you seem all confused? I see no reason why a woman of your age with 4 damn kids will be jumping from man to another. That's what teens and young adults do. You now want to hang on this prey, huh? You do well!

HisMichele:
Up until lately I have viewed him as only a friend, and that is why he was afraid to come.

Our relationship in the last few months has grown stronger and he now has more faith in my feelings toward him being sincere. I think he was afraid to become too attached and get his heart broken.

As I have said, I have dated TWO other men since we met online, and he's been upfront about his feelings for me since after the first year we knew each other. It was very hard for him when I did this, even though I had told him we were just friends and I really did not think us ever meeting would be a reality.
You decided to get serious with him after ALL your relationships failed huh? How nice and smart of you.
I'm really marvelled at this man. Are you really sure this dude is Nigerian? Naija no deh Bleep up like this o! 4 kids, white, fat, unserious, on about almost every man around. I worry seriously about this man. Apart from the fact that he may be fake, he's strangely strange.

May I also say that it appears some of your kids are white and some are mixed. True?

HisMichele:
The doubts about his being genuine and not just someone who was trying to "scam" me took time to work through. Yes, he could still be trying to lie to me, but after 5 years and he could have easily found someone else. He has stayed faithful as a friend and as a man.
Your doubts should still linger until "face me I face you", OK?

Basically, I don't buy your "love" for each other, the relationship and all what you've mentioned. Keep it coming anyway.

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