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And to add, dat doesn't mean been gullible o, in short u should be extra careful n sensitive. Besides i tink we should know his testimony cos, i'm very farmiliar wit d regular ones

baldman: Preshuzpearl. Thanks for sharing this with us. Trust me a lot of people are in your shoes right now and some of the insights shared here will be most helpful to them and those that are likely to find themselves in a similar situation in the future. First I need to warn you about your apparent concern about the guy not being romantic and your insistence that physical attraction is important at this point. As some good men here have told you it has been observed that women can develop sexual attraction for those they truly love and if indeed God is the one authoring your relationship with this brother, you can be rest assured He has designed him to fulfil every of your needs, even those ones which have not yet found expression. Just as you have been designed to fulfil the needs of your God ordained husband. Assuming he is truly your God-sent, you will spend the rest of your life falling in love with the man, it will start from the moment you yield to God in obedience. What you should be concerned with is ascertaining whether indeed He is God's appointed for you. As many people have suggested, first you need to tell God that you are ready to yield to His will in marriage, even if it means getting married to the unromantic brother. Ask him to lead you definitely on the matter, remind Him of how much you depend on Him and how you trust Him to give you the one that is truly capable of helping you fulfil His purpose for your life, just worship God as one who is sold out for Him and let His peace guide you. If he is truly the one and you are willing to obey God on this, the situation will work itself out, you know what the bible says about God making things beautiful in its time. If after an heart felt communication with God you still feel your spirit resisting him and it has nothing to the with your thirst for romance or a particular model of men, then it will be al right for you to tell him with all certainty that God is not leading you to him. At that point, be sure that you have more peace letting him go, than you may possibly have if you say 'lets start and see how it goes, I am not making promises yet'. Let me leave you with what a Female Pastor in my church who got married to her husband who was way behind him socially, the brother having been a born again for most part of his life, said " It is amazing how God can help even a Christian brother to make one feel like a woman" If what you want is romance trust me God can help the brother to fill your life with romance in amazing ways. Trust and obey, there is no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey.

i love this, just keep ur taste out of this. And i tink the reason dis has lingered this long is because there's something extra bout it. Also i think the brother's action's simply because he's not matured enough in some areas. In ma church u can't just walk up to d sister, you'll have to go see d pastor first. And i think that's where he got it wrong. And besides you'll have saved ursef loads of trouble by telling your pastor immediately. One mistake i learn from older folks is that they wait till marriageable age b4 seeking God's face. I'm far from marriage tins but i already put everything in check cos i started praying at the age of 19 even as a guy. So am not likely to be confused by the time am ready. Peace to u dear

I had a similar experience, wen God showe me a lady, i was not even tinkin of relationship not even marriage. But i pray alot bout ma wife n kids. But wen i told d gal she even hated me d more. Dat was wen i learnt a lesson dat, God's will wil always com to pass, but the player can change if disobedient, and might even attract punishment.
What if God had told you b4 hand but because of ur insensitivity not discern it?

born2fuck: their is no way I will born-again by myself because God is using me in a way he want to, we are toy in the eye of God and he uses us to catch fun and entertain himself, God may change born again to bad boy aand change bad boy to born again, he do anything that please him.. I think hell fire does not exist,as we come to this world so shall we return, we will not exist again just as we did not exist before existence! And to be honest if man will go to hell, dog,lion,fowl and fishes and even tree will go to hell too because we are no different from them but our intelligent compare us to God by himself

its jus a piece of lie, the devil wants to harden ur heart so dat you'll rot in hell. And dat's not God's plan for ur life, you can live above all this mundane attraction. God has always loved you but He'll neva force you to change. He'll only fold His arms and watch you until you change, jus change b4 its too late

Mr AdeWale, i've been following your posts bout this issue and i know its true. Jesus is the only solution you need. 'come to me all we that labour and are heavy laden, i'll give you rest' That's wat Jesus said, except you'r willing to continue in your regrets. Wat if you die b4 70, remember that "those who plan to be born again at 12pm die at 11:59am" Don't take chances wif ur life its too precious to gamble wit.

Yield: Sounds like a match made in heaven.
What is your love language? Just curious.

i'll inbox u

titans: Sad

, op NEVER WORRY BOUT THE PEOPLE IN YOUR PAST THERE IS A REASON WHY THEY DIDN'T MAKE IT TO YOUR FUTURE. In a similar situation so i let go and make lots of friends, mingle and socialise. K? And let it never change the real good person you are. SHE'S NOT WORTH YOUR TEAR OKAY? Take care and be a good boy

[quote author=tpia@]doesnt sound nigerian.

i think the poster copied it from somewhere foreign, and inserted nigerian words and phrases to make it look authentic.[/quote]not at all i even know the couple, even the person who shared the story

Thanks to everyone its a tru story of one of my big friends. And guess wat the couple is a year older today and tomorrow, daddy today and mummy tomorrow

BY WISDOM A HOUSE IS BUILT- Proverbs 9:1 When i was a kid, i remember my mum being a great cook,we always looked forward to her dishes, one night in particular after a long hard day at work, mama pkaced a plate of stew and an extremely burnt yam in front of Dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed, yet all Dad did was reach for the yam and smiled at Mun and asled me how my day was at school, i dont remember what my answer was but i di remember hearing my mum apologise to my dad for the burnt yam,i will never forget what he said 'HONEY' I LOVE BURNT YAMS. Later that night i went to kiss Dad goodnight and asked if he really liked burnt yam. He wrapped me in his arms and said 'your mama put in a long hard day at work today and she is really tired and besides A BURNT YAM NEVER HURTS ANYONE BUT HARSH WORDS DO. Excerpt from Mr Tobi Adelusi

It'll be more lovely to keep herself till marriage, there's no need for d rush. If she gets popped, i swear she'll get loosed. So to save her dat, let her remain intact. K and besides WHOSOEVER DEFILES THE TEMPLE OF GOD, GOD HIMSELF WILL DESTROY DAT PERSON

I wanna wish all ma birthday mates a very happy and lovely new year, we'll all prosper and dwell in d presence of God all our lives and God's grace over ur will continue to appreciate in Jesus' name AMEN. And for those dat'r ma twin bros nd sis i specially love u. HAVE FUN. U can inbox me ur nos and lets even add ourselves and try send some cool birthday messages.

You'r not the only one bro, but i choose to preserve mine, opportunity full ground but Jesus saved me by His grace. So keep the flag flying k? U ain't alone

190: 190 speaketh nothing but the trutheth

na wen you becom rasta fried rice

pendo89: well said

sup mama, how'r you doing really been its long time hearing from you.

190 actually wanna stir some trouble tonight b4 going to bed and probably making me enjoy you guy's comedy titled 190's ADVICE

Happy born day honey pie, fulfil your God given destiny sweetie

Kinkynature: @whiteman5000 pls don't look any more. I'm ur birthday mate. April 26

you'll have to tender your birth certificate, lols. Good to see people now linkin up. Maybe be we'll change this topic to BIRTHDAY MATES MATCH

sexiestharam: I had two classmates (guys) born on the same day, same month
and same year with me (June 22). One in my secondary school
and the other in the university. I never agreed with any of them. We were like water
and oil.

you naughty no be small o. Lols anyway:-D

Mine was so funny dat we have the same love language, same temperament, same nature of relationship. Sometimes i wonder y we hadn't meet earlier