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Bornsinner7:
Na wetin make me fail waec.. any question wey just dey lengthy a bit I dey skip am..

Anyway, I agree with her.. I know a guy that plays football professionally like he has played in Europe, Saudi Arabia and still playing at a club somewhere.. I have seen some of his post with big names training together and this kind own big big properties here in Nigeria.. I still wonder what kinda of brother he is when I see his younger brother on the street...

Open business and let them be managers,you say?

Go ask those that have tried it in the past,they would tell you stories.
Many of these family members will finish the business without accountability and taking responsibility for the failures and still plan the person for asking them how they managed the business.

But one thing I'd suggest is when you make money.. instead of handing them cash to lavish to waiting for them to tell you about their business idea.. I'd rather you open businesses and make them manages, supervisors etc just engage them

Open business and engage them,you say?

You should have told them.
You don't know if they had doubts themselves and just needed you to confirm their fears since they had faith in you as a minister of God.

Remember the story of King Hezekiah,if they prophet were to be afraid to tell him the vision because it was a bad one,he shouldn't have been given an opportunity to pray and God answered his prayer.

Also, the story of David and Barsheba. David won't have stop interceding for the child and the chance of Solomon coming maybe slim.

You need to ask God for forgiveness and ask him for wisdom subsequently to know how to deliver bad news to someone without offending God.

He is a merciful God and he gives several chances to those that come to him with an humbled and repentant heart.

I always laugh whenever I see people post post partum bodies few hours,days or weeks after giving birth.

Why do I laugh?
It is because their body haven't started producing so much breast milk because the baby isn't sucking much.
Breast milk producing hormone is fatty and she should come back in 3 months to post another video of herself looking pre-pregnant.

Except she didn't breast feed. It takes the womb 42 days to return to it pre pregnancy state and she can't start exercise immediately because of the blood lost during delivery either through CS or natural way.

For the records,it isn't easy to diet when you are breast feeding because you need to eat nutritious food to enable the baby get required vitamins to grow well. Even if you didn't do exclusive breast feeding,it is advisable to still try to breast feed the except in situation where the mother of the children isn't available. Either because of death, sickness or out of the country.

To make her matter worse,her baby is a boy. Boy and breast are like Siamese twin. They can suck for African and you discover the mother always eating something because if she isn't careful she would feel dizzy because of hunger.

Although,she has an advantage to quickly have her body back because she is very young but not so soon.

I tried not to talk but a lot has been said about the matter.

I think OP is just jealous on behalf of his father that he can't stand the thought of another man touching his mother.

My father died in 2014 and my mom wasn't 50. I can't count how many times my siblings and I have spoken to her about giving whoever is coming into her life a chance. We have all left home and the last born despite being done in school can't because we are afraid something bad might happen to her. Recently,she fell sick in the middle of the night and thank God the last born was r home to take her to the hospital. But she still stood her ground that she wouldn't remarry.

When my mother-in-law died, I told my husband to discuss with his father about getting another wife,bit because I don't love my mother inlaw but I knew what my mum is going through and it isn't easy losing a spouse. My father in-law said he won't remarry because he loves his wife so much,but he had to after a year when he feel in the house and for 24hours he couldn't get help.

Your girlfriend was just concerned about your mother and doesn't want her to be a burden to you ,by either coming to live with you or you having to live with her because of loneliness in the future.

[quote author=emmnprince post=91311035]Bookwarm you try. So all those books you read you practically applied the laws and wisdom shared at women with your full energy. Good!

Mind you, when woman really mean, and sit down on top your matter with full force, both spiritually and physically, na for dream you go dey see Robert Greene wey go dey lecture you what he left out in those classical books about his new discoveries of the spiritual aspect to the manipulative law of seduction being unleashed by women of the world and underworld!

Better pocket your bragging inside your boxer!


When I saw that, I was surprised that he used all the lessons he got from those books on women matter. Bros you try Wella.
I also read those books.
Maybe you haven't met a siren lady. You will forget everything Robert taught you.