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abubaka:
Please this is naija,where things do happen in our own styleeeyy.
Who is a stranger here to naija ladies?
Is only in naija that u would see a babe requesting for a recharge frm a guy and after he sent the card,the only thing she wls say is "TNX" in text message and sent back.
Nigerian girls are very very unromantic,because it has been long since when they deleted "cards and flowers" as a gift on Val day or there birthday.They re so desperate that all they are planning is how to come in group and ask one of there friend's boyfriend to take them to tasty fried chicken,and mock the guy at the end of the day,calling him MUGU.
It was funny when i called a lady that i just started dating and i tried to be romantic in my own way and the conversation went this way:

Me: Hi babygal,am about goin for lunch,
Nelly: what re u goin to eat?
Me: maybe rice and stew wit beef,
Nelly:what about mine,
Me: Dont worry,i will eat for the two of us,
Nelly:Nooo,please just buy me a recharge card and send to me,that would be ok by me.
Me:??Ok,i will send it later.

My God,just imagine that,
Is only naija gals that will tell you what u should buy for her on her birthday, Is very very unfortunate the extent at which naija gals are so mean nwww

jbuoy:
1)Get a nija girl flowers and she goes-- "does he think am a goat?"
2)Give her kisses and she goes--" thats all he knows"
3)Tell her u love her and u hear---" na love i go chop?"
4)Give her regular calls and she's like-" hellooo durling, do u know it's been lang since u scratch me card, culd u scratch me one now to show me u care?" (all with a baby's voice)
5)Scratch her the card and all u get is -- A short flash to show that she got it, u are not really sure so u hav to call for confirmation.
6)Take her to the so called Mr Bigs to hav a lovely meal together and u hear--"durling can i get some for my friends too, u know they always talk about u sweetie"
7)When it comes to the time for real love, they give u once and then--" arent u tired?" or "am not feeling so weeeell"
Well am lucky havent seen that ping-pung girl that wuld try that nonsence with me.

IBDat:
As interesting as this discussion is, fact is Naija women will not make do with just the following:
- A hand in hand stroll in the street/park, they would rather go somewhere that is public - most likely with their partner spending
- A nice romantic meal with their partner at home, they would rather go out and eat
- A fresh bouquet of nicely scented flowers, they would prefer a call card
- Exchanges of loving, sensual and romantic SMS, the woman will be the first not to reply as she feels she is wasting her credits (unless u promise to buy her more)

Not to seem like a pessimist but the fact is what it is - all the above are fine and good with the women as long as it is going to pay-off in one way or the other and number one preference is financially!

Even nowadays, it's one thing to propose - the sparkle/size of the diamond in her ring is another

Rhodalyn:
Accepting family members of ya spouse to live wit ya aint da best at allllllllllllllll

Old Glory:
@Rhodalyn

It is easier said than done, sitting in your shoes and giving that kind of advice, is borderline irresponsible. Her reality is right in front of her and she is tackling it head on. She cannot wait for a man to come and sweep her off her feet. It might happen in England or the west, but Nigeria is a different Animal and i am sure you know that. She might not even be able to finish school, i can feel her desperation, i am sure you can too.