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The truth of the matter is, the pain never really ends. You just have to make up your mind and move on. For me, it's over 8 years and sometimes I still have some kind of nostalgia and wish things never went south but it was not in my power.
She will come back, question is, will you take her back. With the way you feel right now, if she comes back you will take her. The biggest mistake I made was accepting her back after she left for 8 months. She became worse. So, ask yourself this question. Once a woman taste outside, it's always very difficult to stay loyal again.
My advice is for you to continue to be
responsible , take care of the children's upkeep. Don't even wait to be reminded. With time your pain will ease up and you'd be a happy man.
In my own case, this is what I did.
Unfollowed her on every platform
Deleted her number( even though I still have it in my head, 😂) at least I won't be seeing her status because I know that's what she would want.
Erased every thought of her. Only
communication was sending school fees and other needs for the child.

When she heard I had gotten married and with a child, come and see cry. Me sef shock cos I didn't understand.
She wants a friendship but I'm not ready for that. I have two boys now from another woman and I'm happy.

I'm really grateful for the nairaland community. The only issue i'm still battling with right now is how to move on, i'm trying everyday to forget the past, but the more i try, the more it's becoming fresh in my heart and the pains too. I won't lie to you it's difficult. Sincerely sometimes i cry and the thoughts of ending my life comes and goes. I don't drink, I don't smoke, neither do i womannize and worst of all i don't have much friends cos I'm more of an introvert.

A snippet of the entire problem is that most times we have an issue and she leaves the house, i've always been the one going to speak to her mum, plead and bring them back home, that's why whenever there's problem and she goes back to her mom's place, nobody from her family would contact me to even hear my side because I've become like a fool to them cos they know i'll still come. This last one that she left, we just had a little issue and she packed a her things and left. So many people not to go to her family house and beg this time around since i didn't send them packing. I swear guys, i've forgiven and tolerated what 90% of men won't forgive nor tolerate from her.

Please guys help a brother with more advice, how do i move on?[/quote]

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What if he was the one that stole the phone in the first instance or he knows the people that did? Don't be too trusting.

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Another demolition will soon happen at Ajao estate some day soon, where omo onilés have breached the perimeter fencing of the international airport and have sold all the lands there to igbos. Only the Igbos have something to loose. Omo onilé has collected his money and gone. Always do due diligence before buying land.

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I would really love to see that lady's transformation. It's been over ten years. You expect her to remain the same all this time?

5 years

Klass99:
For some reason I can't explain your first sentence cracked me up real good. I am still smiling as I type this.

I am a flawed and imperfect being, but that doesn't stop me from sharing the valuable lessons learnt or the good things of life with others, to help them along in their journey.

She may just share some of the mistakes she made, the do's and don'ts of dating, marriage relationship, investments etc. Don't write her off completely because of your negative experience with her. Some young girls who attend may actually benefit something from her session.



I think I vaguely recall your story. Is this the same ex wife who came back to plead after the first time she walked away, right? You first shared this tale more than 6 or 7 years ago, right?

You are right. Apparently she thinks marriage/relationship is a game. She actually told someone that she was some how hoping we'd get back together until she realised I was married and with a kid too. I do not resent her, I actually do wish her well. She has apologised to me and all is well. I still send monthly allowance for the sake of my son and school fees. Last week she called me to come and take my son for the weekend. He was with me from Thursday till Sunday evening and it was beautiful. I just curious to hear her speak.

mejai:
End of discussion.
Don't go and start falling in love o. Next thing, one for the road and boom, una don start.

No Na!!

I'm married now with a kid and very loyal to my woman.

I did my best o. Trained her in school, bought a car for her, supported her parents, paid their rent sometimes, supported the siblings too. My house was a mecca for them. Even bought a bus for the dad for transportation. But she wanted more. God knows if I had the means to do more I would have. She wanted the big life, ikoyi, VI life, the big babe life. Well, after the separation she lived it for a while, driving Prado, latest cars etc but nowadays she's so humble. The humility in her voice these days ehn. No more Prado, no more Honda SUV.
Life. Now it's every day church and posting #whatgodcannotdodoesnotexist

My ex wife will be speaking at a singles program with the title romance and finance. I wonder what she will be talking about. I probably should attend in disguise. I just want to know how she thinks now. Same woman that gave me hell for almost 10 years. Same woman that was never satisfied even though I gave her my all. Same woman that constantly compared me to other men. I just wonder. Though I'm remarried with a son . I really would love to know. Same woman who had no ish going about with other men even while married. She's now a committed sister in a church in this Lagos and a lead speaker in a conference . What will she be teaching the attendees. I should attend.

Most of the boys that steal phones around ikeja and computer village can be found at no 3, Shanu street ikeja. If you can get security operatives there I'm sure you'll find your phone. I stayed around that environment a while ago so I know.

I sure am. Thanks to everyone here

Been there, seen it all. If you chat or call the man, it won't change anything. She will hate you and they will device ways of avoiding you. I already know how this will end and trust me it's not going to end well. Just brace yourself, get as much evidence as possible about their relationship cos when push comes to shove, she will deny flat out. Women never learn. This is exactly how it started in my own case but today I thank God.

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I'm.just wondering how someone can be so rough with a phone that in two days, the brand new phone looks like the picture posted, battery last only 6 hours and charger looks like it's been used for over a year. Mr Psalms, Jeff trusted you that's why he didn't open the pack in your office(big mistake). In your heart you know you sold a used phone as brand new to him. Money is not easy to get these days. Do the needful and end this. Refund his money and amend your ways.

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