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Properties5 Bedroom Duplex + 1 Room In Lekki Phase 1 by tonak(op): 1:55pm On Dec 11, 2014
Call 08033938813 for details.

5 Bedroom duplex at Lekki phase 1 for sale
CareerRe: Worker In A Foreign Company In Nigeria Found Dead by tonak(m): 9:30am On Oct 03, 2014
Linda manufacturing, makers of expression hair extensions.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Starting An Oil And Gas Servicing Firm by tonak(m): 11:20am On Aug 18, 2014
We can go into lubricants production, call me 08033938813
PropertiesRe: Duplex Needed At Maryland by tonak(op): 4:05pm On Aug 13, 2014
For purchase, as soon as possible.thanks
PropertiesDuplex Needed At Maryland by tonak(op): 5:59pm On Aug 12, 2014
In need of a twin duplex at Maryland Lagos urgently, pls call 08033938813.
Business To BusinessRe: Distributorship Business by tonak(m): 6:29pm On Jul 29, 2014
benodic:
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those interested should drop their emails here to get further details


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PoliticsRe: Nigerian Army's Campaign In The North Eastern Theatre (Photos) by tonak(m): 10:48am On Jul 10, 2014
Why is the Nigerian airforce not part of this battle, the absence of the airforce has made this fight a bit difficult for the army. The army no doubt has risen to the occasion. Was in maiduguri last year and I must say I'm proud of our soldiers.
PoliticsRe: Terror Suspects Arrested At Maiduguri Airport by tonak(m): 2:37pm On Oct 24, 2013
Arik air flies daily from Lagos to Maiduguri, spent 3 months in the beautiful city of Maiduguri and flew arik all the way.
PoliticsRe: Borno Govt : No GSM Network For Now by tonak(m): 2:33pm On Jul 31, 2013
Been in maiduguri for a little over a month now,this lack of communication is killing but thank God for Internet n skype.
AutosRe: SOLD/SOLD JETTA @450.STILL COMING PASAT/BENZ.E.T.C.FRM CITYHOOD. by tonak(m): 3:28pm On Jul 27, 2013
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Business To BusinessRe: Buy Fabulous Wrist Watches - Pics Available by tonak(m): 8:03am On Jun 10, 2013
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PropertiesLand For Sale At VGC. by tonak(op): 10:33pm On Jul 11, 2012
1282 square meters of land for sale at VGC,Lagos,with C of O,please call 08082565513 for enquiries,only serious enquiries and leads please,thank you.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Finally Collapses by tonak(op): 5:44am On Jan 15, 2012
Fellow nlanders,I have for some time that something was definitely wrong with my marriage,I wanted to be sure not jumping to conlusions,because she always assured me she loves me and we'll be together for ever,but I knew deep down something was wrong that's why I sometimes monitor her,I'm not a sneaky person.consider these,how would you feel if 1.your spouse wakes up around 2/3am sneaks out of the bedroom to receive calls thinking you were asleep.2.how would you feel if your spouse leaves work at 6pm and then one fella comes to pick to bars for 'a drink' and then calls you by 11pm to come pick her up at the bustop cos there was heavy traffic. mind you I have all these facts and even confronted these fellas 3.how would you feel if your spouse continue to refer to her ex as 'babe''darling' 4.how would you feel if your spouse arranged with a guy to take her to a club and then she lied that her collegues at work were having a girls nite out at rehab nite club,of course I refused her anyway. 5. How would you feel wen you see ur wife arranging to meet with a guy a bar somewhere on the island. 6.how would you feel wen you see receipts for cowtail and plantain with ur wife when she was supposed to be somewhere else,7, your wife sleeps with her fone,u can't catch her without it even in the bathroom.on her Facebook page she never mentions that she's married,you hardly see my pics,though we quarrelled over this(fb) matter,I just decided to let her be.so u see it's been stacking up for a long time,believe me I thought I could make things work,change her at least for the sake of our son,cos I didn't want him to grow up from a broken home,a fate I suffered,and I mentioned this to her severally that I'll do anything to make this marriage survive if only for our son.but I think she had other plans,she got carried away.I needed to be sure of who I was dealing with,what her plans were,so that I don't get caught by surprise,which was according to her what she wanted to do.I didn't want to live a lie or pretence anymore.i just want to forget everything,av handed all to God who sees all,let him judge,if I have bad to her to warrant all these,then I accept.I have been rubbished,embarassed and made a fool of but in all these I thank God.do you know I'm not even her friend on Facebook?my profile pics is one of our wedding pics and I post regularly,so I'm sure she didn't want pple asking her questions.when I confronted the man that usually took her out to bars,he confessed she told him she had left her husband and was now single,he even told me he tried to bed her on two occasions,can u imagine that?I have accepted the facts that the marriage was more or less a sham,will I say I had expected it to turn out the way it did,funny enuff,I normally used style to let her know I knew we would not last,this is a woman that calls me 'babe'.we had the best Christmas last year since we got married,put urselves in my shoes those of u criticising me.would you take all that for that long,I doubt any of you would.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Finally Collapses by tonak(op): 7:51pm On Jan 14, 2012
My spirit is lifted,tanks for responses,I just spoke with my son now,he's the most intelligent 3 year old you'll ever find,he said' daddy I'm coming home tomorrow'.tank you so much,I really appreciate this family.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Finally Collapses by tonak(op): 2:03pm On Jan 14, 2012
@chaircover,tanks for ur advise,I have always appreciated your inputs in situations like this,I dontknow if it's possible to speak with you on phone,will really love to.again,the last thing I want todo is force someone to love me or remain married to me wen there was no more love,hence I would say it was a bit easy for me to get over this,I think I have,cos the handwriting had always been on the wall and it would have been foolish to have ignored it.tanks again,pls let me know how I can reach u by phone.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Finally Collapses by tonak(op): 11:52am On Jan 14, 2012
Tanks again y'all,I'm not trying to be sensational here,the nlander I talked about is her friend,he sends her messages all the time,some of which I'm not comfortable with,and always told her so.he is not involved in this case that resulted in our separation,just that sometime ago that we had an issue, she told me it was the guy that was encouraging her to leave me,thT he would accept her and her son,since in the first place he was the one that should have married her before I gate crashed.the separation just occurred on Tuesday,I hope she's happy now and wish her well.she wanted to live a fast lane life,I'm a little bit conservative. But not boring.the whole problem actually started wen she started working on the island(Victoria Island),and started meeting these so called island big boys who started toasting her.I think she is just confused, I hope she realises her mistakes but for me,av moved on.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Finally Collapses by tonak(op): 8:17am On Jan 14, 2012
I want to thank you all for your response,i really did try to make the marriage work,in the process taking in alot of shit.example october last yr,there was this guy she was very fond of,they call themselves honey,sweetheart,darling etc,i also discovered they usually hung out together after work,the guy drives to the island and they both hit the bars having a good time,and then by 11pm she calls me to pick her at the bus stop complaining of heavy traffic on 3rd mainland.when the matter broke,i called up the fella,he apologized that she told him she was separated from me.she pleaded and i allowed the issue to die.she also used his pics on her bb dp on his birthday.two weeks ago,she used that of another guy,but you will never see my pics on her dp or facebook,she tells pple she isnt married.im not a poor man.i have my own company,im a thorogh I.T pro,so its not as if we cant feed at home.its just her way.i really feel sad,av not slept in 5days.why she would ttreat me like this,i do not know,again im not old,im 37.shuold i reveal the name of the nlander who is her ex based in the uk,may be he has something to say about this,cos i contacted and accused himof also being behind the collapse of my marriage?
FamilyMy Marriage Finally Collapses by tonak(op): 5:15am On Jan 14, 2012
10th january this year,my marriage to E.L finally came to an end,february 17th would have made the union 5years,it was a very turbulent marriage right from the start,filled with intrigues,drama and fast paced.quoting her ex bf,who incidentally is the reason for this break up 'may be the marriage itself was a mistake'i totally agree,E.L wasnt prepared.on that faithfull day,i overheard her discussing with her sister that she was still plannin to leave me but she wasnt sure when, she went on to tell her little sis about a particular guy,how the guy loves her and has been giving her money,wat further infuriated me was wen she said she was sure the guy would accept and take care of our 3yr old son.i immediately went in and confronted her with all i heard,she initially played dumb bt later agreed she planned to dump m later in the year.i told her not to bother to wait that we should just end it now,i have accepted my faith,she has moved out and im trying to rebuild my life.my question dear nlanders was i too hasty. 2 should i have played along.i hate pretencies and hate to live a lie.3 one major issue we had was her constanty communicating with her ex bfs one of who happens to be a prominent nlander,always referring to them affectionately as 'babe','sweetheart'etc,even goin as far as using their pictures on her bb dp.im not a saint and i always acknowlege my own shortcomings as a husband and father.she treated me so badly, i feel so sad but im happy it has now come to an end.but,she has my son with her and i miss him so much.i just cant imagine him not growing up under me.so sad.sobs,
FamilyRe: Is my wife cheating on me after 4 years of marriage? by tonak(m): 5:15am On Jul 14, 2011
I have an almost similar problem,my wife still maintains contact with her ex,they talk regularly and im beginning to suspect they might plan to meet someday ,she doesnt it though,i have her email n facebook passwords.the moment anything untoward happens,she's out.i monitor her communications everyday cos i know the person i have.
ComputersRe: Oracle DBA Corner by tonak(m): 12:56pm On Sep 23, 2008
hi all,pls can anyone help me configure enterprise manager in oracle 10g,been having serious problems with it,iv supplied the correct credentials for the os and user but it keeps complaining of wrong user password.anyone pls.tanks
EducationRe: ATBU Graduates by tonak(m): 2:20pm On Mar 25, 2008
hello greatest balewites,
my name is tony, graduated in '98 industrial chemistry, nice to hear from u guys. presently in lagos running my biz. keep the flag flying always.cheers.
ProgrammingRe: Please Need Help With Writing These C++ Programmes Please This Is Really Urgent by tonak(m): 5:19pm On Nov 14, 2007
hello tboy1,
im just starting on programming specifically vb.net and ASP.NET, though i bought a book by Dietel, im still having problems.im also interested in c++, i will really appreciate it if you could assist me with some materials especially for a beginner.my email is tonnie23@yahoo.com. expecting your response. tanks
RomanceRe: The Silent Treatment - What You Are Saying By Not Saying Anything At All by tonak(m): 3:34pm On Oct 17, 2007
hi, silent treatment is very dangerous, i can say so because im a first hand witness to its destructive nature cos iv used it to destroy my life. u see, im married to a very beautiful lady, the problem is, each time we have a quarel,i give her the silent treatment, its my specialty,in june we had some misunderstandings, i handled it the way i knew best as always, THE GOLDEN SILENCE, for 4 days, on the sunday of that week, i refused to go to church with her. after the service, in other for her not to come home to the same treatment, she decided to go to her friend's place. unfortunately armed robbers attacked the house, she was beaten mercillesly and eventually raped by one of them, as i write this message,im not sure i would survive this week.she kept it from me all this while until last week friday.help me please,
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancy For Marketers In Gtbank by tonak(m): 1:03pm On Jun 16, 2007
Hi, please find enclosed my cv, thanks for sharing this information with the house.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: For Engineers And Computer Literates Add Value To Yourselves: by tonak(m): 12:56pm On Jun 16, 2007
hi, im interested in your staad.pro software , can you reach me on the following nos,. so that we can discuss.08033938813,017623621.
tony

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