₦airaland Forum

jojofola:
How many kva and pictures?

neyoworld247:
Am in need of all this follow items
Dining table and chairs
Deep freezer
Air conditioner
Big generator
Solar or normal inverter
In case you have any of this items please contact me, ikorodu Lagos

Hardgun:
Goood

barule:
I will pay 10k.

Venerable612:
Still available?

emperor00:
Price and contact?

Venerable612:
Still available?

FantasticJ:
No contact?

Avast:
NO phone number

Bobbyunitedfc:
pls guys i need dstv decoder and dish,tall boy home theatre....

MaroonBlue:
please I do need a small generator like 2kva in a good condition and at clearance price

anyone who has should quote me.

ojo and iyana ipaja axis preferably
thanks in advance

bennymine:
If you have a certificate of origin, use it since it's for the same purpose.

sollie123:
For your local government identification, just go to your local government headquarters and request for it.
The 3 printouts are payment acknowledgment slip, guarantor's form and and application form.
Don't forget to notarize the guarantor's form in court. There's usually where to do this in immigration offices.

sollie123:
It doesn't really have to be. If you know anyone in your local government, he/she can guide you well. They might need some passports photographs there.

sollie123:
For your local government identification, just go to your local government headquarters and request for it.
The 3 printouts are payment acknowledgment slip, guarantor's form and and application form.
Don't forget to notarize the guarantor's form in court. There's usually where to do this in immigration offices.

sollie123:
1. Photocopy of local government identification letter (also go with the original)
2. Photocopy of Birth certificate or age declaration in court (also go with original).
3. Photocopy of NIN slip
4. 2 passport
5. One passport of guarantor
6. Photocopy of guarantor's NIN slip or card or driver's license
7. Photocopy of guarantor's international passport
8. All the 3 printouts from the internet.

That's all

sollie123:
Thank you all for your supports here.
I was able to do my capturing today.
I did it all by myself and with the support I got here.
So, I applied online and made payment via netpost pay (26k) on the 10th. Interview was scheduled for today.
I got to Ikoyi office at 8:25am.
I was asked to go and file my documents at the business centre (be careful, those guys are rogues. They charged me 2k for just a file and 3 photocopied documents they gave me. I insisted I wasn't going to pay, but they later collected 1k).
As I entered the gate, I went straight to the court to notarize my guarantor's form (N500).
Then, I went to servicom (its by the right of the entrance gate) and got my documents filed again.

After filing my documents, I was told to waite for sms this week before I come for capturing.
I pleaded with the man and appealed to do it today with the excuse that I came from a far place.
That was how he took my file inside and the whole process started again.
Same man directed me to the next office to go, from there to another desk till it entered capturing office.
There were just 3 persons before me.
In all, I spent about 2hrs to get everything done.
I await the sms for collection.

Thank you all once again!

Naira235:
Hi Everyone,
I have been paying high money for childcare here in UK and its giving me a second thought. My husband is a medical doctor and I work as a nurse for half days in a week, so we don't have to work all day and time to be financially okay as this is our first child and she is just 8 months old.

I can only afford to sponsor one person for MSc and the person has to be assisting me in childcare as a compensation.

I have a younger sister whom I am 6 years older than, she is a graduate but not currently working. She is a spoilt child been the last born and I am the first born. I found it very difficult to control her as an elder sister while in Nigeria. She is a graduate, and she is tired of Nigeria, she is also a burden on my parents as she has been living and feeding on them. Most times I send them money she spends 80% of it for herself and she is been treated as a pet been last child. I am afraid I won't be able to control her as my sister when she comes over.

I have another lady, she was the daughter of my boss where I was learning Tailoring in Nigeria. She and her mother were so respectful and caring. They are very poor and have no support anywhere so I am thinking of inviting her over for her MSc abroad and to also be taking care of my child for few days in return for her school fees.
Note : that is aside from their 20 hours work per week allowed on their student visa, so they can also work and have money.

The childcare is just few days in a week from 8am to 2pm. And I am hopeful it won't affect their studies.

Who is the right person to invite? Please I need your advice . Thanks all

Billionsclub:
My best friend who is a girl is one of the best thing that ever happened. I met her two years ago when things were really tough. she is a great friend indeed. we have practically become like family.
please advise her
She is from a particular tribe in the south south. She dated a guy for years but the guy's did not marry her because of her tribe. The guy broke up with her and followed another. She met another guy. This man is way older than her, the man is senior to her with like 30 years plus, the man has grown up children who are doing well for themselves, his children and ex wife both live in the US. The man is wealthy. He travels to US at times, spend sometime. My friend is like 35 years old now. It has been 5years now since the man came to do introduction,After the introduction,she was thinking marriage will follow ASAP. The man didn't come. She will go to the man's house, spend sometime and return. The man sometimes takes good care of her. But whenever they have issues, the man will shut her out. she will beg but he won't even mind. There was even a time she was pregnant for the man but the man asked her to abort it. And she did. she told me that she regret that decision because if she has given birth to the baby, the man would have taken care of her and the baby. The man travelled since last year to US and has not returned. He do call sometimes.
After months of travelling, My bestie met another guy. she didn't want to accept because she doesn't like double dating, but her madam at work at her to accept this guy because
1. the guy is young, although older than her and doesn't have children, not yet married
2. he is doing well for himself even if he is not as rich as the other guy. He lives a comfortable life That is ,he can take good care if the girl
She accepted the guy and they started dating. This new guy and and herself have been dating since last year now. She spends more time in his place than her parents. Although the other one send her money for her birthday this year and also sent money to her parents at different occasions without asking.
we tell each other secret about us. in the course of our discussion not long ago, she was asking if it is right to tell this new guy to come see her parents even though the parents are aware of the relationship but they don't know the guy. The guy has spoken to her mum on phone.
Should she break up with one of them or keep the two of them till she can get the one that will be willing to pay her bride price?
My opinion to her was that she should keep the both of them.
What should she do ? Push to front page
Mind you, this girl is good. she cannot bear to see others suffer. she has been a good girl to me. we are now like family.

hpk:
I have this Hose available, it comes in 50ft, 75ft and 125ft.

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75ft-4500
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adrusa:
Anyone with Felicity inverter experience?

tunmiluabi:
My story is quite long, please run through with patience. I married my wife about 11years ago. By the way I am 46years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neighter was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...As time went on, I got a job in one the international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up. We decided we was going to save part of her salary every month for service the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did. To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope thing s will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my if it would be nice to have another child and she advice it was not he best time. I understood and agreed. I then advice my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business , maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.

One day she asked me if could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course. To cut the story short 3years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I become a like "shit in her eyes" I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising. Fortunately for us, my got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but cant explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.

After about 3years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.

Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my made to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, it told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am am I will see how I can take care of the kids.

She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and become very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.

The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.

God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.

Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.

My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.

Thanks for reading.

Tunmi

mctfopt:
Too late to wait. I'm enjoying LFP already and I doubt I'll ever go back to lead acid

I love watching 100A flow into em banks and get it floating before 2 hours. Even if it fails tomorrow, it's been nice rocking it.