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CelebritiesRe: Davido Reacts To Tweet About Losing Son To Another Man According To Igbo Culture by topetalks(m): 3:14am On Feb 25, 2020
Nigeria is not governed by traditions but by the law, so if my tradition says that even after paying the bride price, the father in law can still lay claim to the child, you will expect the court to obey that, if the judge will respect tradition, Davido can also tell the court to respect his own tradition and give him his child.
Please let us give more respect to the law.
Juliusmalema:
Please on a more sincere note let us all try and respect tradition.

That child in Igbo tradition rightfully belongs to chioma's father.

How can Davido be claiming a child he hasn't done. Anything on the mothers head. It is fully reserved for chioma's father to either allow the child to go over to David or not.

If he decides tomorrow that this child will be part of his land inheritance and will take his share as his son. He is right.

I am yet to come to terms how this child belongs to david.

The twitter user was right.

Finally, judges that are versed in people's tradition will try such case and on merit of it.
HealthRe: Doctors To Embark On Nationwide Strike Over NUC’s PhD Directive by topetalks(m): 11:35am On Feb 17, 2020
what exactly will be the use of the PhD to their lecturing, one of the major challenges in the education sector is that we value certificates without experience, what good is the ability to make an academic research without the knowledge to teach practicals, there are a lot of professor and PhD engineers that cannot do jack on site, yet they carry certificates around.
obi4eze:
angry

Maybe NUC actually goofed by allowing them lecture and become Professors without PhD in the past but it seems they realized their error.

The consultants want to continue becoming Professors without PhD. I laugh! Do they actually know the rigors of becoming a PhD holder?
They are not bigger than NUC that regulates them so if NUC says they cant become Professors without PhD then they should either join their colleagues who go on to acquire PhD or get out.
Christianity EtcRe: CAN Prayer Walk: Pastor Adeboye Leads Protest Against Insecurity (Photos) by topetalks(m): 1:16pm On Feb 02, 2020
It was not a protest walk, it was a prayer walk, bloggers please be guided.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Ecobank Nigeria Intensive Graduate Program 2017 by topetalks(m): 8:48pm On Jan 22, 2019
Esejoan:
I can send it to you.. Drop your email address or pm me
Kindly help send the past question to talk2topenow@gmail.com. Thanks
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Autocad Proficient Personnel Needed by topetalks(m): 8:54am On Jul 05, 2017
HALIX16:
Our company requires the services of fresh graduates who are proficient in AutoCAD for a three (3) months renewable contract.

Location is in Yaba, Lagos and candidate must own a laptop.


Contact me or send CV to oyewole.f@molcomconcepts.com if you are interested.
I am your man, I stay in yaba and very efficient in AutoCAD
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Suleman Reacts To Stephanie Otobo’s Claim That She’s Now ‘born Again by topetalks(m): 7:59pm On May 07, 2017
ironheart:
Being born again is no longer between God and man but between pastor and man. Pastor should be rejoicing over a lost soul that has been found not to b making such press statement
I disagree sir/ma, from the scriptures, true fruits of being born again includes restitution and confession of sins, you spoke as if you're so sure of what the Bible said over the matter, Nicodemus restituted, Paul confessed his own involvement in the persecution of the church.
Christianity EtcRe: Don't You Think God Is A Partial God? by topetalks(m): 6:08am On Apr 11, 2017
oruma19:
Bros there's no record that Judas stole from the Treasury. Why una de add to the scripture? Pls show me d place in d bible.. Saul committed lesser sims than David. Paul the apostle was a brutal killer. Achan only stole gold once and he was destroyed with his entire household, what did his household do. In Judges 19 thru 20. There are very controversial stories of pples families being destroyed because someone sinned or disobeyed. Why shuld innocent pple be destroyed for a sin another man committed? It's all over the scriptures. Y shuld I suffer because my ancestors served idols? Na me serve idol?. Lts be bold to ask pertinent questions .we have right to ask cos we are creatures of God, made in His image and likeness
Please do read your Bible sir, there is record of Judas stealing from the treasury, and the Bible is clear that you don't have to suffer for your ancestors sins, you do have a point though but a closer look at the scripture will show that it was not God that messed things up, we humans did that part, starting from Eden to Israelites telling God they want His law their own way in exodus etc.
Christianity EtcRe: Don't You Think God Is A Partial God? by topetalks(m): 6:04am On Apr 11, 2017
refiner:
In Romans 9 vs 16...so then it is not of him that willeth,nor of him that runneth,but of God that sheweth mercy.

That means God is selective of whom to show mercy to,why that?...are we not all his creatures?...we can see this in the case of jacob and esau...he showed mercy to jacob unlike esau...

Peter and judas iscariot...peter was showed mercy but judas was doomed to die...

Saul and david....

And lots of biblical cases...

Not everyone will receive the mercy of God...some are doomed to die no matter how many years spent on the earth...God spares only those he wish to and destroy others...

Little wonders why someone will commit a particular sin,will go scot free but someone else that commit that same sin might die.....

So doesnt it mean that God is a partial God?...state your opinion without insults...
if I wake up one morning and decide to wear my Blue Jeans instead of my brown trousers, does that mean I'm not being fair on the brown trouser, and even if I decided to give someone my phone for free and buy another one, does that mean I'm being partial on the phone I gave away? My point is it's God's world and He can do as He pleases without having to explain to anyone, you just pray to be on the side of His mercy by giving your life to Christ. It's like God making Jesus the standard for those He wants to be fair on and telling us the standard so that we'll choose right.
However, most times we don't always know the whole story, God not allowing someone to keep living might be Him doing the person a great favor, so let's not try to reason out God's decisions and ways(its like trying to pour all the water in the Atlantic Ocean into a small cup) and just live according to His word since we are in His world. i
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Post Entry Level/Industrial Trainee Jobs Here For Those Without Experience by topetalks(m): 6:24am On Mar 17, 2017
Memunah:
I have the 2015 GMAT pack..drop your mail,if you want.
please send to talk2topenow@gmail.com, thanks in anticipation
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Post Entry Level/Industrial Trainee Jobs Here For Those Without Experience by topetalks(m): 10:57pm On Mar 14, 2017
eremy:
‎Work as a Social Media intern at Adim the organizer of the 'Ada Di Igbo Nma pageant'. Must be fluent in Igbo. Send cv to info@adim.com.ng

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Research & curriculum Development Intern needed. Send CV to: admin@sesewa.org

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‎A firm in Lagos is assembling a team of CCTV operators. Applyto be a part of this team by sending your cv totunde@crimebustersnigeria.com

***‎

A qualified, skillful and experienced Structural and Electrical Engineer as well as an Architect is urgently needed to fill the vacant positions in DEZYNES & STRUCTUREs Lekki Epe express, Lagos.
All engineer and Architect must be highly skillful in use of computer aided design's (CAD)softwares, for building drawings and also in site work.
Application is open to OND, HND and BSC degree holders . Signed management. 
Forward your CVs and Applications to odobocurzy@gmail.com or info@dnstructures.com
URL:www.dnstructure.com
Good evening, in response to this I got this mail this evening :
Hello,

As a result of your application, I would like to invite you to attend the interview for that post, on Friday March 17, 2017. Time is 12noon, at our new office at Rain Oil Fuel Station, Abijo, GRA, Lekki-Epe Express way. Lagos. 5mins Drive from Crown Estate.

You will be interviewed by the Director. Please come with documents to back up your qualifications and additional documents if any to show your level of professionalism.(Photo copies preferably). Also come in with a copy of any form of Identity.

You can call 08060230906 if you need Assistance in Locating the Interview Venue.

We look forward to seeing you.

Best regards,

Mr. Jude O.

Pls I'd like to confirm how authentic this is, please, anybody.
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 12:19am On Feb 25, 2017
kokson:
Thanks for the info. Can i have your number?
08137441763. civil engineering, structures option, pls drop your numbers let's form a whatsapp group
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 12:18am On Feb 25, 2017
haryourdayG:
Civil engineering department students. Please find attached the time table and courses you'll offer
thanks
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 2:34pm On Feb 24, 2017
Civil engineering msc, lectures starts on Tuesday for all options, time table is out, 28/03, lectures are from Tuesday to Thursday's
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 11:17pm On Feb 20, 2017
please who knows if there's a deadline for payment of fees yet, both acceptance and tuition
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 11:14pm On Feb 20, 2017
koolengrtimmy:
civil engineering list is out== congratulations to my structures option colleague.
.yeah yeah, we in, don't you think we should form a group on whatsapp, structures option
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 11:33am On Feb 07, 2017
koolengrtimmy:
whats up with civil engineering list? that 24th feb registration deadline cannot work for my dept.
Is the list for civil out, ate you close to the school environ
PropertiesRe: Please Help Criticze This Building Plan. by topetalks(m): 3:10pm On Feb 05, 2017
HarunaWest:
This is a poor design.Lemme state my reasons.
1.Lobby has neither access to light or wind.
2.You cross ventilated a guest room,and in room 2 only one window was provided.
3.The position of the kitchen is funny.The orientation should be changed.
4.In this modern times,all rooms are built ensuite.
5.No guest bathroom.
Biko i know the engineer is your friend.But please reach out to an architect,let them draft you contemporary 4 bedroom design cos it might look fine in paper,but when they commence building,even you will notice the fvck up..By then you can do little or nothing to change it. You can drop your mail,i would sketch and send you the kind of Contemporary design you should request from your architect. Takia
Now an expert is talking, please listen to this advice, and tell your civil engr friend that he should learn to design with AutoCAD or hook me up to teach him, tell him I won't take too much cash, I understand the economy
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 5:14am On Jan 26, 2017
kokson:
Let's just hope for this week.what option of civil engineering do you opt for?
structures
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 5:16pm On Jan 25, 2017
kokson:
koolengrtimmy thanks for the previous updates .This week is ending the stipulated time given to use to expect the released of the admission list. Please anything new pertaining this? Please let me have your phone number.
I was thinking the same thing too, I'm getting tired of visiting unilag site every day, please if there's any civil engineering student around school let him update us
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 12:43pm On Jan 08, 2017
kokson:
structures option and you?
yes o, same here, structures, nice to meet you
EducationRe: Unilag 2016 thread by topetalks(m): 4:19am On Jan 08, 2017
kokson:
when will unilag update civil engineering to the admission list? what is going on ?
I'm also in the same shoe, unilag abeg bring back our civil engineering list, please what option did you choose
PropertiesRe: Lawyer condemns new Lagos law legalising ‘foundation fee’ by topetalks(m): 6:33am On Aug 26, 2016
What kind of thinking is this, na waooo
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Has Anyone Been Contacted By The Nigeria Police Force Force For Interview???? by topetalks(m): 7:16pm On Aug 15, 2016
just got the mail now but was not able to open it, pls what's the content
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Autocad Personnel & FSE's Needed by topetalks(m): 11:28pm On Jul 25, 2016
HALIX16:
I am in need of AutoCad experienced personnel for a renewable three (3) months contract.

Field support engineers are also required.

Projects are in the telecoms industry.

Contact me if you are interested.
3yrs experience in AutoCAD, good site management skills, wonderful communication skills and presently doing a graduate internship program in a construction company. I will be delighted to have a chat with you over the opening.
08137441763
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Sat Verbal/Math Instructor by topetalks(m): 12:46pm On Jul 20, 2016
where is the location and what are the job conditions, is it part time or full time
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Office Manager Needed by topetalks(m): 12:30pm On Jul 20, 2016
could you give more info: location, job conditions, possible income etc.
Christianity EtcRe: CAN Reacts To The Murder Of Evangelist Eunice Olawale by topetalks(m): 12:50pm On Jul 13, 2016
mrkayusfit:
Only Allah knows what really transpired between the woman and her assailants that day. She might be preaching inciteful messages that were too hard to bare. Even tho i condemn the action of the killers, by preaching around a mosque makes her actions daring. It's like an imam coming to preach in a church territory. I suggest the government ban street evangelism so cases like this can be averted in future. It is wrong to go around with megaphone and start preaching as early as 5am when people are resting. Those who blame Islam for her death are just displaying ignorance. We cannot use the action of few to judge the entire muslims. Islam remains a peaceful and tolerant religion. cool
Yes, govt should ban early morning call to prayer too that disturb my sleep by the mosque wey dey my window side, and because mtn dey put their poster for front of airtel office, the airtel guys have the right to kill the Mtn agent. Just listen to yourself
FamilyRe: Whatsapp Dp About To Crash My Sisters Marriage . Pics by topetalks(m): 5:59pm On Jul 10, 2016
mostyg:
Are they married for over 20 years? May be he is justing using it as one of those quotes.

The husband may mean the quote as it may apply to him.The wife needs to demand for an explanation and the explanation will determine who should really apologize.

As a married man, I would never be carefree posting such quotes. Thats too much a sentence to spite a partner.



Modified:
I got this from a whatapp group and of the opinion it will help lots of married folks.
Meaningful THOUGHTS for the Weekend

*_A Recipe for Peace_: "TWO WRONGS THAT MAKE A RIGHT"*

There were two houses standing next to each other. In one of them resided a very unhappy family. The spouses yelled at each other, they fought and quarreled all the time. The other was a place of happiness and calm. During one of the fights a wife asked her husband:
“Did you ever hear them quarrel or yell over at that house? No!
So, go there and see what they do to avoid it!”

The husband stood at the window of his neighbors and watched. There they were busy doing their own thing. The wife was in the kitchen cooking, and the man sat at the table writing. The phone rang, and the man jumped up and headed to the hallway to get it.

On his way he bumped into a vase, it fell and broke. He got down to his knees and started picking up the pieces. The wife ran into the room from the kitchen. She also kneeled down and started helping her husband to pick them up.

The man said to his wife:
“I am so sorry. I rushed to get the phone and bumped into the vase. It fell and got broken.”
The wife replied:
“No, honey, it is my fault. I put it there on the way. That’s why you bumped into it.”
They kissed, and that was over. Both got back to what they were doing.

The man who watched them returned to his wife. She wanted to know what the secret of their happiness was. What he said was fantastic:
*“I know it now. In their family they both are guilty and in our family both of us are always right!”*

That’s the secret of family happiness!

Food for thought.

The "trick" isn't in not wanting to take responsibility, but rather in not claiming right.

There are times you need to forfeit your right to earn your peace: depends on which you cherish most.

This recipe is applicable, not only in the home, but also
-at work
-on the road
-in the market place
-between nations.
-all relationships.
you nailed it mehn
PetsDog Breeders In Abeokuta Needed by topetalks(op): 1:27pm On Oct 02, 2015
Hi guys,pls i need breeders in ogun state,abeokuta to be precise to link me up with where to get dog food in abeokuta and other needed infos on dog issues in the town,bin away for a long time and comin back this month,intending to get dogs as pets there,just getting active on this platform. cool

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