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deathcomestoall:
Yes, I wanted to talk about when I ignored a guy who offered me a lift in his rangerover but my post would hv been unnecessarily lengthy. You are entitled to ur opinion and so am I. I am not materialistic.

I have been fortunate at some point in my life to travel and go to rolex stores to window shop of course, so I have an idea how much rolex costs then. And her age, when I was 12(with a well developed body), I was getting approached by men in jeeps and I never ever for once hopped in, I walked away. I will never take a lift from a stranger even if it is private jet. And I'm not easily swayed. Her skill is of no importance to me. I stated my observation, deal with you and don't encourage hoeism.

Wow..I wish my gf was like you,id av been married by now ..sincerely if you are really saying the truth then your man is the luckiest man on earth.

kateskitty:
I really need someone to tell me the truth if what I've done is bad even though I feel no guilt in it except for the fact that my fiancé is thinking of leaving me just at the beginning of this new year.

Some weeks back last year December, I asked my fiancé to update my Whatsapp for me so I could be able to video call him when we are far from each other and he agreed. Only for him to start snooping around in my messages, especially the ones between me and my ex. And this made him to confront me.
Now he claims he does't have any problem with me chatting with my ex but his problem is that first, I still call my ex sweetie when chatting with him and second, I'm always the first to initiate a chat with him.

Personally I have always called my ex sweetie and bea and don't see why I should stop now. And yes I do initiate most chat when I need someone to talk to and I know my fiancé will be too busy or unreachable. How is this a problem I'm not cheating on him with my ex But he is threating to quit our relationship Is he being unreasonable Or I'm the unreasonable one

*modified*
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough, that he had to go through my phone and he found what he was looking for. Something to use against me to break us up.

Same reason I dumped my fiance..congrats you heard!!..now your ex will get married to you smh. ..some girls are soo dumb ehnn (no offence)and you are happily telling us looking for other cheats like you to help justify your wrongs..I pity you,you think it's easy getting a good man right?

mimicious:
hello fam!!! today is my birthday. show ur baby love

Happy birthday miss

You don't deserve to think of yourself as a warrior or survivor cos you already have given up on yourself which is pathetic if you ask me..you better quit the putty party and get off your pathetic ass and live like a normal human..it's people like you who give the world the wrong impression about sickle cell..I know sickles who are in their 60s so what are you talking about?life is in God's hands,there are healthy people who sleep and don't wake up,others get killed in accidents so what's the fuzz about?mtcheeeeww dude grow up joor you are not the first stickler and won't be the last,love your girlfriend and try to survive because of her sef if you truly love her.Goodluck.

HARDDON:
Drop a Luv , appreciation, appology, gratitude, yuletide note for a special somebody

CC: farano, Rocktation, Mydd44, firestar Lezz, Seun, Lalasticlala , ishilove
Dont just push this to front page, drop your dovey notes also!

We fam, but ya already know that.


N Ehmmmmm,

Itz not only about Pets, religious pelts, rules n ish.......Seun

Itz not only about snakes and celebrities...... lalasticlala

It is not only about banning, locking of threads n sweeping .....Mydd44

It not only about droping fancy words ( b forming soft to get) n been born on oct 3 1920......ishilove


It is not only about football , goals, sekem, scores updates n crushing on xynerise........ Mukina, muks muki


It is not only about hiding behind ur shy keyboards, reading comments n switching on monitoring spirit mode.... Farano me Volcano & Rocktation

com on ya'll give us some sexy yuletide luv!



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indoorlove,
teymmyt, GeeAde, Goodnificent, riodejanerio, Phlota, Highbee01, lovere, Bukybabe, Hydriss, Nonsreal, omololagirl,Masikay, KiigMaxi, c12112, yetty247, crystalzoe, torqque7, womike4u, bashorunbazok, Manfred05, anumide, TheSuperNerd, falconey, vizkiz, jom4real007 Divay22, Afam4eva

Lol some of us don't have anyone here we crushing on so we can't drop any luv note for someone(Anyone)special..but all the same Compliments of the season to you and every Nairalander,2016 was fun,looking forward to 2017 with yal.

truthsayer007:
Fiancee ke ? Omo this your own pass me oh !

Lol omoh na so I see am too o,Some people are never satisfied with what they have. I guess we where not meant to be,it's better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage man. It's all good tho,shit happens.

KafohVee:
I'm sorry if I acting so desperate.. If you take a walk in my shoes, maybe you'd understand better. I searched for a more better section, I saw none.. I'm not happy this post is under romance because it's not what I need

I know how you feel..I just broke up with my fiance too and it hurts like mad,I even tried bleeping other girls to get my mind off her but it didn't work. The good thing is its just a faze and it'll pass ok,,you'll survive it.

My favourite George Michaels song..'JESUS TO A CHILD" may he RIP

firstking01:
@ your moniker, you studying engineering?

Lol no iam not..you the first person who at least seem to get the moniker ...

firstking01:
She's very much around though she's anonymous...she's forming over maturity.

rotfl. .

VampireeM:
i hope she doesnt take you back cause you took her for granted. Dunnoo why some males are fond of doing that.. Asking females out when you getting married in few weeks time? You an assie

Lol ahn ahnn babe chill small nw,did you have a bad experience with a guy 2?

Nutase:

Why de face now?oya come lemi bribe you with small biscuit.

Nutase:
yes o.

Lol OK nice. So you are naughty by nature?ok that explains our plenty debate earlier. Anyway I am looking for someone 2teach me Yoruba and you'd av been the perfect teacher,but I am scared and suspect you'll mess with me alot and not teach me well,apart frm that sef if I fail as a student,your punishment go hot well well,aspa you de vex for this thread for anyone that dares challenge you lol ,plus you know you are naughty now.

Nutase:
I don hear.

Lol OK Mo ti gbo 2... ,So hows your morning going?I hope you are having a nice day apart from your small wahala/trouble here?

Nutase:
Mo ti gbo

So you are one of those people that think everyone on Nl is Yoruba abi? ..Lol kilode mo ti gbo?

zolapeperenpe:
wow! wow!! wow!!! *screamiingLikeAmbulanceSiren* I opend an account yesterday to ask/create a topic abt ds same 'situation' coz i tink am tired of keeping mine. Will soon be 28 ooo,una don see say na real 'situation'? Who knows if d future husband m keeping it 4 is busy wasting away as im typing sef?
Will still create my topic (enriched context with disturbing questions) soon,if i no change my mind.

Alot of guys are looking for Virgins o to marry sef and you are thinking of loosing it?hmm can we talk tho?

Nutase:
see the ops response to my question if he stayed faithful during that one month break.
I tried to stay objectives but u guys started making a case that guys can cheat.

Leave his response out of this,it still doesn't justify her cheating and spreading her legs wide for the next guy she sees after a fight with her bf..You need to understand that it is even in a womans interests not to open her legs anyhow because your man will never respect you after he finds out, he can forgive you but trust me it will never be like it use to be,and except you dn't value your relationship then you should be concerned if your man doesn't respect you anymore,and he will talk about it and torment you for the rest of your days together,you'll be fed up of him bringing it up always and making you think of yourself as worthless.

The OP too fvcked up cos one month is too soon to cheat,except love and respect were never in the relationship. But truth is the society doesn't frown on men cheating,some cultures encourage it and you are aware too,that's why Muslims are allowed to take more than one wife. It's just the way things are and even if every feminist from the beginning of time until now come together,it will still not change so the best thing is learning how to survive in a world like that. See lemi tell you something,if I cheat and my girl finds out and scolds me and doesn't try to retaliate even when i know she can easily do so then il automatically try to make it upto her for the rest of my life and treat her the only woman in the world and from that moment on il be her loyal puppy..and it's like that with most men except you village people swear for you and you meet a bad man lol. Two wrongs cannot make a right.

See as you make me the type plenty story this early morning if I catch you ehnn..

Nutase:
you sound like someone with a brain the size of a peanut. What is worse than cheating? It exposes the spirit, soul and body.
If he contacts a life threatening disease and passes it to your loved one, because he treats her like a queen you will be happy.
We should start training our sons right.
The hate she will harbour in her heart can kill her spirit and destroy her soul.
It's about time we stopped looking at women as tools and realise they have emotions too. Treat women like you want your daughter's and sisters to be treated.

You are lucky you are a woman so I am not going to trade insults with you this morning so I'l ignore your first statement,that's how you guys will be complaining up and down that guys on Nl hate women and always bash women,but you guys forget that almost always,you draw first blood ,just like you did now

Anyway cheating is never encouraged.That been said it still doesn't change the reality of situations in the world,a wise woman will value her relationship and won't engage in a cheating contest with her man,even Hilarys Clinton stayed with bill after the monica lewinski saga,and I bet you are not more intelligent than she is. So tell me,if your bf or husband cheats on you,do you think returning the favour will make things better?that means you keep cheating on each other cos he will still do it again to prove a point to you if he finds out you did same,and then what next?and to what end? And just so we dn't forget o,the OPs girl was the one who cheated so how did we go from that to making it a case of women treated like slaves? lol smh for you o.

Nutase:
But a man can do it without being labelled a hoe. That's the same way your sisters and daughters will be treated as intimacy gadgets.
What goes around comes around.

That's how yours will be treated not mine..and it seems you have a problem with comprehension,my people will not act like hoes and compete in a cheating game,they are LADIES and not women filled with testosterone and looking for confrontation with men,read and understand before you talk,I said il only treat her like that if she does what the O.ps girl did.

Nutase:
Save your sorry for yourself. I'm sure you don't have sisters or daughter's. If someone treats them like slaves I'm sure you would applaud the person and tell them welcome to naija and Africa. As per my status it aint for public consumption.

I'll never advise my sisters or daughters to cheat on their men if they get cheated on..it is different from being treated like a slave,a man can cheat and still over and treat his woman like a queen. Anywy I can bet you are probably a teen hence this orientation to life,you'll get over it when you become a grown woman sha,it's normal.

Nutase:
Can you hear the arrogance in your response. So because you are a guy you can fuckkk the whole world and expect her to still love you and lick your ass. If peradventure you say yes you have no right to judge her for two reasons.
1) You guys were not "officially" a couple when it happened.
2) You are also guilty of the same crime.

Remove the peck of log in your eye b4 removing a speck of dust from another person's eye.

Jesus was a man of impeccable character and he judged and still judges men and women by the same standard.

So because you had a fight that lasted for a month then you just jump into the next man's bed within that same month?(too soon)any girl that does that is a HOE..simple,anyway everyone has his way of handling situations,personally if it were I in the situation then she has just turned herself to my intimacy gadget and nothing more,strictly sex,and not just normal sex,il fvck her like an object or a prostitute and il cheat on her with every chance I get.

Nutase:
every woman who expresses herself is heartbroken. When will you guy have sense and stop profiling women wrongly. during the one month did you sleep with any girl? You are entitled to your sick opinion. When or if you have daughters teach them this and when you have sons teach them to continue training till they come down with HIV.

Honestly I feel sorry for you if you av this kind of orientation about relationships,then you better just relocate from nija because as long as you in nija and av this mind set then get ready to deal with alot of pain and heartbreak. The truth is you are either single presently and can't hold down a relationship and it has turned you into a bitter young woman or you are just bluffing here and cnt dare try what you say here in real life with an average nija guy.

And dn't even say u av a guy and he knows your stand on this,cos if any guy will tolerate a girlfriend that is in a cheating contest with him,then he is either not in love with her and just keeping her for sex or a true fool,so it is what it is wether you accept it or not.welcome to Africa, welcome to nija

Dude 500k is not plenty money,it will finish and you'll be stock for the rest of your life with someone who you dn't really love,someone you actually find disgusting..your life will be MISERABLE..give yourself brain. Btw@these brainless lesbian bitches jumping all over the thread disturbing,yal need some serious di.cking in your lives .