zemaye: First and fore most no muslimah that understanding this deen will subscriber to this.
That said I think its ignorance on the part of the lady that can lead to is kind of relationship that is totally forbidden in all forms by Allah.
The case am familiar with during my university days was of a lady,her parents told her 'koro koro' instead of her to bring a Muslim man not from their tribe she should bring other religious believer from the said tribe.......

Its usually other tribes who do this.

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edwife:


Can we just stop for a minute and think about the op?It is not about YOU and I.

do people know the op personally in order for them to leave their OWN problems and start commiserating with hers?


the story does not even sound real, most likely recycled especially with the way certain folks are rushing in with "much sympathy" for the "first" wife.

the way i see it, she or whoever is in this situation, are only dealing with the loss of a husband. This can happen in many ways- through polygamy, cheating,becoming a widow, divorce, criminality, scamming, etc.

There are many single ladies out there, some are raising kids, not all are single because they are in the exact circumstances as the op.

Some women are married but the husbands are relentless skirt chasers day in day out, my point is everybody has their own problems they are facing.

The op is well placed, she has her job, qualifications and whatever else she needs without depending on the man. Its up to her if she wants to put up with this behaviour or not. In african culture, when your husband brings additional wives, you put up with it whether you like it or not. If thats what she wants to do, then there's no need to table the matter on nl.

what exactly does she want to do?

All this talk about first wife is irrelevant, that does not matter and is inconsequential in the larger picture.

neither is it a matter of threatening others with "when they are in the same situation"- there are millions who never even marry and are happy with their choice.

child abuse things i guess.

lord have mercy.

havent watched this though.

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kilokeys:

for a moment... i was shocked.. what did he expect her to say?

oloshi okunrin.. i guess that thing (lust) had died long time ago.. excuse to break up with a regular chic..

i think he was just jumping on the bandwagon aka egbe alatewo, supporter's club where folks just type any sort of nonsense to keep a thread going.


perhaps he wanted her to say she saw a career in soliciting men for money to give him?

olashas:

Used to watch it on nickelodeon years back. It's about a family who travel around the world filming exotic animals. It's really cool and very funny

yes, it sounds familiar.

nickz: Planes

i watched the first one, wasnt too bad i guess.

kulkatty:

Animated movie of life.

Bla bla bla

nickz: you should!!
It's interesting

will do

Should I post more??

absolutely, yes, thanks.

ok, e nor concern anybody sha.

just wondering if you intend to go the 27 dresses route.


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Ramnon2:

What language is Ramnon2? And who is Ramnon2? Do you know what pseudonym means?

you couldnt find any Igbo pseudonyms?

After my presentation, one of them, a university professor from xxxx university, xxxx State, who approached me first asked me ''Bros, how come you still have an Igbo accent despite living in the US''? I was like, duh!! ''I may be an American by adoption, but I am still a proper Igbo man''.

so people who do not have thick accents like you are not proper Igbo men?

you modify your accent so people can understand what you are saying?


even within nigeria you modify your home accent to match wherever you are, in order to communicate.

nickz:

hmm, i still havent watched this