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2buff:yes, it's a good excuse. |
cant relate to the topic unfortunately, because i'm a great admirer of nigerian architecture. for those of you who cant say the same, well, just focus on something else. |
donspony:big loss to somebody, no doubt. |
donspony:someone tell this f.ool to smile occasionally. |
And did i mention it feels great to be able to focus on other things in life besides women. Without being called gay. |
Second best thing about being a woman: not having to be fixated on butts and breast. |
One of the best things about being a woman is not having to gawk at every female that passes by. Ope o. |
no one really knows the origin of the word kobo for sure. some schools of thought feel it may be derived from a nigerian slang for copper. the etymology of naira is anyone's guess. |
is joagbaje the "pastor" involved or why is the thread suddenly about him? ![]() |
Toaskarity:sorry oh!!! just giving you a heads up because you seem more concerned about things unrelated to your questionable command of english. i'd have thought this would take precedence over chasing away any broken home product who you caught eyeing you for marriage. |
chika98:believe me, i'm not joining him anywhere but just acknowledging that sometimes the fears are justified. Not always however. it's ok to have some knowledge of what you're getting into in marriage, and how someone's background could influence their behaviour when married. it's up to the people involved how they're going to handle this knowledge, and how it will affect their feelings for their potential partner. i wouldnt advise someone who isnt comfortable with the idea of dating a person from a broken home, to go ahead and do it anyway. People should stick with whatever they think they can handle, or what they're comfortable with. it doesnt mean people from broken homes wont get partners or will not find love. however, we also shouldnt have the notion that coming from a broken home automatically makes the person an angel. This isnt always true, though i think many people from broken homes do take their relationships very seriously. And they're sort of disadvantaged to begin with, as a matter of fact. Society is very unforgiving. |
^^stop derailing the thread and dont stop taking your medication. i wont respond to you again here because you dont interest me, sorry. i know i interest you. |
^^one cant really dismiss the fears or stereotypes about people from broken homes, since many of them do indeed ring true. i used to think it doesnt matter, but not anymore. the percentage however, is what i dont know. anyway, thank God for Christ. |
^^true. some women do have a tendency to think all men are dogs, based on their previous interactions with men. as per men screwing up, i think the test here is if the woman will stay if or when the man screws up, and what her attitude will be towards infidelity and the like. take the maria shriver case for example- i guess most women from broken homes wouldnt have stayed with arnold that long. i suppose. |
^^true, except for the hair i should think. |
Toaskarity:you may be right but dont let that prevent you from improving your english. |
i'm not sure if a broken home is worse than a polygamous one where everybody is trying to destroy each other with juju, but some seem to think it is. they could be right, who knows. or a home where adultery is the order of the day. i think the broken here implies a broken covenant or contract, a factor which isnt really present in the same way, in the other examples even when cheating is clearly involved. anyway, all this one pass my knowledge. |
^^yeah, dont derail the thread, get a life and stop stalking people. it makes you look like an almajiri boko haramist. |
it's actually getting, or going to get, harder to find people who arent from broken homes, imo. so, just make do with what you see, as happens in the west. in certain generations, divorce was rare. In other generations, divorce is the norm. things like these are why people need christ. as per the op's question, well, i dont know. Maybe, maybe not. but being from a broken home automatically puts an albatross around your neck if you're nigerian. If you're not, it isnt a big deal. however, some people from broken homes do indeed break up their own marriages. But then some people from unbroken homes also do the same. so, personally, i find it hard to tell. |
Goldieluks:easy on the oversabi, and i also suggest you quit going on the offensive whenever you see me posting. i dont know you or care to know you- if you happen to know me, then that, unfortunately is your own wahala and not mine. now, go back, reread my posts very carefully, then buzz off. I am not you and you arent me, kapish? ![]() state what you like about being a woman [ i think you already mentioned the peacock factor is what waters your goat] and let others state theirs. am i clear enough or did i speak latin. |
yes, i appreciate not being easily distracted by butts and bosoms. to me, that's freedom. dont know about others but to each his/her own. life is more than all those, imo. not saying its necessarily a bad thing, for those who are in that situation. humans are social beings. |
the fact that i dont lose my marbles because of butts and breast. |
that's possible but i'm not sure who's the darkest. some other parts of africa are very dark as well. it's a black thing, no pun intended. come to think of it, some indians and even middle easterners are darker than africans too. They just keep low profiles for the most part. |
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