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it's ok to not have sex 24/7.

its not abnormal, some of you are extremely narcissistic and terribly unrealistic.

i just pity young guys who dont know their left from their right who look up to some of you as role models.

if you know you're not ready for the responsibilities that come with having a child, then why impregnate someone.

and after you've impregnated someone anyway, why not man up and understand you're now a father to some hapless child who didnt ask you to have unprotected sex?

Matthew briggs: A breath of fresh air at last.
Thanks Phinity318, your words are really encouraging glad someone is at least keeping an open mind.

lets hope he retains that open mind when someone uses the app on you.

that doesnt look like her, who is behind all this misinformation, is it psquare?

whats the reason?

just because mixed people tend to look alike, doesnt mean you should interchange them anyhow.

op post the full picture, not just a cut out, and lets see if i'm wrong.

i dont think its your business however a man eats his food.

or what he eats, as long as he didnt eat you or your relatives.

anyway, i guess you can pitch it to those people who buy apps, the western world usually likes anything sex related, they might find it interesting if it hasnt been done already.

my concern there doesnt seem to be an attempt to differentiate between genuine criminal activity and people crying wolf to get back at their perceived enemies.

Matthew briggs: They don't cancel each other given that the ultimate goal is to help me

1. Have a better sex life

do you do that- with pictures, videos or something else?

is it p.orn?

2. Assist me when that sex life is endangerred by rape or sex crimes against me

you make it seem like calling for rape assistance is the next step after using your app to have a "better sex life"

3. To have a better sex life, one of such prequiste is abtinence and statying true to one partner something we preach.

i'm not getting that from your posts and ad, maybe i'm missing something.

Konjy wants to help you achieve two core things which is ... to play well and play safe.

seems you're adjusting your "goalposts" depending on the responses to your ad.

however, i still have to mention, your emphasis from the getgo has been on rape, perhaps you need to separate the rape function from the enhance sex life function.

like have a separate app for rape, instead of putting both together.

if by dating you mean booty call then obviously the bible doesnt support it.

thought they already had nigerians doing that for them.

Matthew briggs: Amen it never will be.
Like i said earlier our app boast of a ton of features and yes we have several checks and balances to protect everyone both our males.

I have attached a comprehensive list our app functionalities to my first post for your view pleasure.

yes, you should have a system in place for such, because it seems like you're trivializing actual instances of rape and would make it more difficult for real victims to get help if it actually occurs.

Okontami: @OP abeg let me advise on another functionality you can add to this application. Can you please add a feature where people wey Konji dey catch can locate them selves and de-Konjirize. You get me. Meaning 2 ho*rny fellas can hook up and do the thang...

makes sense, at least that way there is some form of evidence of agreement to have consensual sex.

as for your id, see a doctor, maybe the app has something for you.

Matthew briggs: At konjy we preach abstinence, because we understand that it is the best way to keep your sexual health safe and sound, so building a feature of this nature is against what we stand for given the numerous complication and risk having sex presents.

how can you state these:

1. your app is to enhance se.xual pleasure

2. your app is to help rape victims get help from "professionals"

3. your app is to encourage abstinence

which all cancel out each other, yet are on the same app.

deols: Should Seun not just employ me as a thread booster already?

You can't even sift when I am totally serious from my keep the talk going posts again?

I am serious about this one o. Very passionate about it. But I really am not against the institution. I am only concerned about the social effects of it-like how much can the Father cater for the education of the children and the psychological effects, like how much love the children can siphon from a farther too busy chasing skirts and the mother too deeply involved in the household politics.

you cannot be a staunch supporter of Aisha and at the same time, say you're against polygamy.

that is a strong contradiction on your part.

deols: Not against it per se. But I don't see myself sharing. My things are mine and no mgbeke is gonna be sharing with me.

It is about me, my wants for myself and I will do everything possible to that effect.

People who are ok with practising polygamy can go ahead with it and I will chop wedding food if invited to even show that I don't detest it.

is your stand supported by the Koran and Islam?

Nene1

I think what you described, is a common problem with african relationships and marriages.

Most african men are not into relationships for the long term, they actually do not have the ability to stick to only one woman for long lengths of time, and neither does african culture support such.

So regardless if a marriage has been ongoing for 2 or 35 years, the man still considers it his prerogative to venture into other relationships if or whenever he feels like it.

Deols

Why are you against polygamy?

Are you pretending to be against it as a topic booster on nl?

Matthew briggs: Counselling and support from those professionals. Moreover they get to decide what kind and level of help they can offer. Our job is to connect us with them.

That function is not my portion in Jesus name, thats why i have modified your post.

However, you seem to be emphasizing the rape aspect, do you have any checks and balances in place to protect your fellow males who may be victims of wicked people?

Chybeno: plz the first pix ar they kissing in d church or ...

I'm also wondering sha, no be from house dem comot?

they're acting like they havent seen each other for a long time.

Even young couples no dey do this kind pda.

Matthew briggs: Knojy has a ton of features. Really cool ones you just have to try it out before judging.

As for questions, I really can't answer every question but will answer those I can.

Note our app is meant to help you stay safe and... play well not encourage or discourage sex

For molestation victims
Out of several features we have one called. The help Centre. What we try to do is connect users with relevant health professionals to help them acess the help they need.

what type of help?

for example, someone who uses the "they just got raped, help!" function, what type of assistance are the "professionals" going to give?

why not zainat/zainab, amina, sheri, etc?

aisha is a nice name but seems everybody is aishat these days.

lord have mercy.



@ topic

well, she says she's always been half muslim half christian, so its her decision. She IS an adult after all.


dont know much about her btw, hope no story involved, nollywood tends to not surprise people.

Perhaps.

Remember i keep mentioning nairaland should not be synonymous with half baked.

Or criminality for that matter.

If you mean can your enemies get you wherever you are ( even if you dont live in the same country), then yes.

Are you supposed to have a state of origin if you're a naturalized citizen?

State of origin means state you originated from.

Unless you're running for political office, i dont see how it applies, maybe someone can enlighten me.

You keep hammering on rape, explain exactly how your app is supposed to work.

You are trying to sell a product here, stop ignoring the questions.

Is your app meant to encourage sex or help women pursue claims of illegal se.xual activity?

Buhari looks quite handsome in the picture, lets not lie.

I'm sure its not news to him anyway, he must be used to people complimenting him on his looks, even aisha was head over heels and resigned her position because of him. ( i think).

I dont see whats innovative about yet more p.orn.


Trust nigerian praise singers to jump on anything titled konji when others are building bionic men and can boast of world class cities and presentable infrastructure.

Whats the link between your app encouraging illicit sex on one hand and asking for rape info on the other?

Explain plz.

You asked what of without intent to marry and no sex.

That's friendship which you're mistakenly calling dating.

cumpaddre: Why hasn't any1 noticed dat first pikshure?
Now I have a hint on wat dey both look like wen dey wana "do it". **winks**

It has already spawned a thread in family section even before appearing on nl.

I think most nigerians arent used to the idea of a husband and wife being together, its a strange concept to them.