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carefreewannabe:
Don't you think you kind of lost your dignity when you married such a man?

And how will fighting the mistress restore your dignity?

you are not fighting to restore your dignity dear.

you are refusing to pretend people's actions do not have consequences.

many of you sound like mistress is your career goal.

you wan chop wipe mouth.

michaelwestern:
which version of google do you use that shows you naked pictures everytime.

the regular google.

Stillfire:
What does that say? He's manic too now. You then expect me to fight two manic people?

ok, if you are no longer interested in your two timing man, then that's different.

but to say the wife should quietly put on a stoic countenance and pretend all is well while the man is busy everywhere and turning her to a laughing stock, is hard.

it will come out somewhere else, unless she herself is doing the same thing as the man.

which one is matyr for marriage?

when the mistress is doing bad girls are the shiznit?

Stillfire:
Naa her dignity is not gone

my dear, the dignity has developed wings and flown away.

Dignity means your sense of self worth. It's something that stems from within, your principled nature not as a result of external factors or what somebody else did. That doesn't make sense. If you choose to lose your dignity at the dictates of what your husband (who freely distributes his services to all and sundry), then go ahead and act like an aggressive bull. On judgement day we would NOT be judged by family. Everyone would stand by themselves.

your dignity is intertwined with your husband's actions once you marry.

unless you divorce him for being a philanderer, there is no dignity in watching your husband making a f.ool out of you around town.

its not about "outwaiting" the mistress and waiting for his wandering prick to come back .

if the mistress is the aggressive bull and your husband is still with her, then you need to check yourself.

aisha2:
I remember as a teenager a woman came to the mistresses supermarket and actually met the husband there having lunch with the mistress, na so the woman begin shout shout curse the husband still dey chop him food the mistress was calm probably because she didnt want her shop destroyed, then the woman decided to slap the mistresses, chai the mistress beat her ehnn, tore her clothes, the man was still eating telling the mistress to "deal with the shameless woman". We had to get her a wrapper as our house was close by.

so she slapped the mistress and left the husband to be enjoying his food and watching the show?


no wonder he told his hoochie to beat her up.

btw @ yourdeathtime24

the next person who posts your kind of asinine response in response to a post of mine, you will see what you're looking for.

Sophyrocks:
I get what you are trying to say. So i will confront the mistress then what next? will it stop my husband from cheating? you have answered my question.

the issue here is not whether anything will stop your husband from cheating.

it's teaching people there are consequences for whatever actions they engage in.

so far, all i'm seeing is some folks insisting the wife is the only one who will bear consequences when her husband is busy displaying his prick around town?


and all the people talking of "dignity", the so-called "dignified response" engaged in by some women, is actually deadlier than the wife who makes her displeasure known.

the mistress should even be happy the wife confronted her, some wives will not confront you but your own don finish nevertheless.

Stillfire:
What is wrong in the wife keeping her dignity while the husband runs around town in heat?

what most of you are not getting here is IF YOUR HUSBAND IS RUNNING AROUND TOWN FREELY DISTRIBUTING HIS SERVICES LIKE A PUBLIC TAP, your dignity is already gone.

which dignity are you looking for again when another woman is busy showing off what is supposed to belong to you?

your "dignity" has vamoosed long time, you are still acting the emperor who wears no clothes, saying you have it.

if I want to fight my husband's mistress, she will definitely win

your choice dear.

Stillfire:
Lol, they keep on downplaying the confrontation to mere phone call or reporting to 'her' parents. lol As if a manic lover has any decency to respect a wife's phone call.

so its ok for the mistress to be manic but not the wife?

if the mistress is manic and your man is still humping her regardless, what does that say?

she used juju on him?

Mariecakes:
If the wife doesn't deal with the mistress...The mistress will deal with the wife.. . . . . Sooo u advice the wife to just sit there n do nothing while some useless chic wage war against her..lai lai
I say Confront the bitch...she deserves more than a few slaps..but there are other creative ways of doing that n showing maturity wisdom n in control of the situation

eod.

even the law makes it a crime to be the receiver of stolen goods.

in this case, mr wandering prick is the stolen goods and the desperate hoochie is the receiver, yet some people are saying she should just get a pat on the back and go scot free.

life is not like that, sorry.

Sophyrocks:
Now that she was screaming her life out, has it stopped her hubby from going back to the mistress? Has it stopped the cheating? NO!! you see why most nigerian women are taken to be stup1d?

So while the husband is inserting his penis into the mistress, his wife's screaming will not be reverberating through his head?

What kind of sex is that where you are sweating like person wey see his dead great grandparents looking at him with ghostly eyes while he's having sex?


You folks have no experience of what you're talking about, you just want to keep your " dignity" while your husband is humping various women all over the place.

Or just say you do not have interest in fighting and the man is inconsequential to you anyway.

Ozegbe:
My dad, mum's dad and dad's dad are no more. But the three women are still healthy, strong and kicking. I know of some other women, even examples from prominent nigerians. I just wonder if they got more life span than we do or is it because of our way of life, you know, we drink, smoke and do most hard work than the women or could there be a more reasonable explanation to this.

How old were they?

Hope you're not busy comparing people who died in old age with widowers who are mostly under or around 50?

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You're the one doing that, stop projecting.

I simply gave my opinion, you do the same without fixating on my post because you certainly cannot intimidate me?

For your mind you're all that, because you are "anonymous".

I call it cowardice.

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned prayer btw.

moca:
Nne, imagine me going to fight
By d time d lady finish dealing with me, i go don turn red and yellow with swollen everything
Hian!

Transfered aggression is it.

That's probably why your husband is going with the lady to begin with.

You are not even strong enough to fight for what's yours whereas the "mistress" is aggressive enough to fight for what she stole.

This is the kind of attitude that made africa or is it nigeria, a colony.

eightsin:
Wife = yes. Girlfriend = no

And if the girlfriend is your intended wife?

Pennywise:
Men shouldnt. But boys can.

That's the spirit.

Nashville:
I said earlier, that confrontation does not necessarily mean physical fight. It could be a phone call. It could be calling her parents. It could be reporting in her office or pastor. Something to try to get back at her.

Seems you have a very warped idea of marriage and relationships.

xynerise:
Do what?

Confront their wife or girlfriend's lover/s.

See how people are advising the op to force himself to date the lady?

Need I ask if you're here to support the baby daddy?