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FamilyRe: When Is It Ok To Judge People? Your Views by tpiah99(op): 8:17pm On Feb 06, 2015
crackhaus:
The same Bible that had Jesus telling the accusers to throw the first stone only if they were without sin?
Matthew 7

11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!

12 So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
kindly note the bolded words.


Here's more:



Matthew 18:

10 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones
21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times
The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant

23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.
24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him.
25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.

26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’
27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.

28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.

29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’

30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt.

31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.

32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’

34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.

35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
Music/RadioRe: . by tpiah99: 7:33pm On Feb 06, 2015
Vibesking:
since morning have not eaten, can my mama pls find something for me?
Music/RadioRe: . by tpiah99: 7:33pm On Feb 06, 2015
am I your mama? huh
Music/RadioRe: . by tpiah99: 6:47pm On Feb 06, 2015
Which sun are you seeing on the internet? huh
FamilyRe: Specific Nigerian Marriages Are Blessed By God by tpiah99: 6:45pm On Feb 06, 2015
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Music/RadioRe: . by tpiah99: 6:34pm On Feb 06, 2015
Why don't you remove All Time from your thread title?
PoliticsRe: Photos Of OAU Students Storming Out Of Oduduwa Hall Over Yemi Osinbajo’s Absence by tpiah99: 6:32pm On Feb 06, 2015
Barely changed at all, I think I remember that colour.

Too bad there were no camera phones back in the day.
PoliticsRe: “lord Lugard’s Amalgamation Of Northern And Southern Nigeria Expires In 3 Months by tpiah99: 6:29pm On Feb 06, 2015
Doesn't that coincide with the nigerian election?
FamilyRe: Specific Nigerian Marriages Are Blessed By God by tpiah99: 6:28pm On Feb 06, 2015
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CultureRe: Top 10 Misconceptions About The Yoruba Tribe by tpiah99: 6:22pm On Feb 06, 2015
Neplusultra:
Typical of Igbo/yoruba thread :DD way pple are emphasising on dis dirtiness tin sef, I don laff tire! grin grin
Nazi things.
CultureRe: Top 10 Misconceptions About The Yoruba Tribe by tpiah99: 6:20pm On Feb 06, 2015
ZionJay:
Your low IQ wont let you understand wink
More like your low IQ is on display.
CultureRe: Top 10 Misconceptions About The Yoruba Tribe by tpiah99: 6:14pm On Feb 06, 2015
tonychristopher:
All join provided that the vulva is attractive
Bro, upgrade your mindset, its too local
FamilyRe: Should People Be Judged By The Deeds Or Misdeeds Of Their Family Members? by tpiah99(op): 6:05pm On Feb 06, 2015
when I talk, people wonder what's the reason.
FamilyRe: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by tpiah99: 6:02pm On Feb 06, 2015
are you looking for who will do back and forth with you?

keep looking sweetie, just don't look my way.

your loneliness and bitterness have nothing to do with me, you have been misinformed and na you sabi.

Enjoy your day!

and your defender of evil handle!
FamilyRe: Education 101: Lets Learn About Kids by tpiah99(op): 5:50pm On Feb 06, 2015
Should kids be held responsible for their parents' interactions with you ie other adults?


imo, it is not wise to blow off your bitterness and anger towards a kid's parents, on the kids. Even if the kids are being coached by their parents or guardians to fight you, you should still judge them on their own merit, rather than their parents' misdeeds.

It may be hard, but it is a sign of cowardice to fight a child as if you are fighting a grown up.

What can you do, you say, in situations where parents are making their underage kids fight their battles?

If the kid is attacking you directly, report them to their sponsors. If the kid is attacking your own kid, involve other adults. However, remember kids often interact with themselves differently, so do not assume just because parents don't see eye to eye, therefore any discontent between the kids is as a result of that. Not necessarily, it depends.
FamilyRe: When Is It Ok To Judge People? Your Views by tpiah99(op): 5:45pm On Feb 06, 2015
crackhaus:
All I know is that;
For anyone who sits on the seat of judgement, he/she must leave the door to his/her own house wide open so that others can judge them as well.
that's s.tupid.

you can leave the door of your own house wide open for armed robbers to enter, that has nothing to do with the thread.

What the bible says is when someone is practicing evil, you are to correct (judge ) them in a spirit of love. There is nothing good about covering or making excuses for evil. When you wink at sin, it will swallow you.
FamilyRe: When Is It Ok To Judge People? Your Views by tpiah99(op): 5:42pm On Feb 06, 2015
lofty900:
I agree with undercat. never blame or judge even the worst criminal until u hear their reasons for such atrocities
hear their reasons you say?


You must be sympathizing with boko haram when they bomb then.
FamilyRe: Baby Girl For Adoption by tpiah99: 5:40pm On Feb 06, 2015
enygmababe:
Lol, I wanted to be gentle, so it isn't as if I came solely to embarrass him. The truth is...if you are a christian, there are certain things you just will not do or say. Even the way you express yourself will prove where you stand, whether you are a church goer, a bench warmer etc. By their fruits we shall know them indeed.

By the way, Op has refused to show face again so it might be safe to say this was a scam post?
he's in religion section judging women who wear trousers and Christians who listen to music not approved by him.

this is a case of straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel.

wearing trouser/listening to music versus being a regular customer at brothels, I wonder which is more irreligious.

Not to mention its not even like he was caught or disgraced or anything, he proudly opened a thread to boast of it, yet he still wants to be called a Christian.


I guess he thought he could safely post his exploits in sexuality section as no Christian visits there.
FamilyRe: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah99: 5:35pm On Feb 06, 2015
coogar:
so it means sirshymexx would be marrying a caucasian? grin
that is fine.

I think its better he does.
FamilyRe: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah99: 5:34pm On Feb 06, 2015
shinejackie:
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is $1000 an asset to you huh
To me, $100 million would be an asset.

However, $1000 was an asset to the guy who brought it up.

what type of wealth and assets are you referring to?
FamilyRe: ////////////////////////////////// by tpiah99: 5:34pm On Feb 06, 2015
some nairaland "men" do not necessarily represent real men.

In case that's your reason for opening the thread @ op.
FamilyRe: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah99: 5:32pm On Feb 06, 2015
shinejackie:
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your asset and wealth
how much asset and wealth exactly are you referring to?

is it the $1000 someone mentioned? huh
FamilyRe: Education 101: Lets Learn About Kids by tpiah99(op): 5:30pm On Feb 06, 2015
The issue of Competition

In Nigeria, kids compete with themselves through playing, in school, etc. Competition is not always viewed negatively if its in a fun context. Once again, the ADULTS are the ones who influence kids on how they do or don't view competition. A mature adult will help the child develop and focus on strengths, and also help them understand everybody has areas of weakness.

What is considered STRANGE is when an adult starts competing with a child. That is a sign of a more serious problem.
FamilyRe: Education 101: Lets Learn About Kids by tpiah99(op): 5:27pm On Feb 06, 2015
Self esteem is an adult problem, not commonly found in kids

Kids are still building their self esteem, that's why they are kids. The ADULTS in the kids life are the ones who either help the kid build self esteem, or prevent them from developing it. That's why safeguards exist to observe what is going on in a kid's life, in developed countries.
In undeveloped countries, the kid's parents or primary guardians take up this responsibility.
FamilyEducation 101: Lets Learn About Kids by tpiah99(op): 5:24pm On Feb 06, 2015
** sigh**

seem I have this duty of educating nairaland about so many basic things which they somehow do not know even though they are adults.
FamilyNairalanders, Stop Wishing Me Good Morning If I Do Not Know You. by tpiah99(op): 5:18pm On Feb 06, 2015
there are different time zones all over the world, if i do not know you personally, do not wish me good morning, thanks. I could be typing at 11:58 midnight, that is not your concern and neither is it your business.

as per your stalking any relatives of mine so you can crow with glee whenever you catch them or entice them to do whatever evil you have planned, na you sabi ke? huh

i am not the world police- if you commit a crime, you will definitely do the time one way or another, God is not mocked.


simple, nothing more to it.
FamilyRe: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah99: 5:12pm On Feb 06, 2015
coogar:
and people are surprised i am being shot, why won't they? how many men would sit back and watch their lives pïss away without doing something about it?

i came across a story - husband & wife separated when the baby was only 21 months old. since then, wifey refused to let the hubby visit the child. there have been 82 different court orders asking the wife to let the dad see his child & she has defied all of them.

can the court do anything? no. are there any enforceable laws to punish selfish mothers who use children as pawns? no. if a man defies a court order twice, he would go to jail. this man has been going in & out of family courts for 12 years & yet he has not succeeded in seeing his own child.

he's spent £100,000 on this case - the money that should have been invested in the child's life. he's missed the entire childhood of his daughter - which he can never get back and the law has done nothing. if this man buys a rifle tomorrow and shoots me then he won't be fully justified?
i wonder what type of man goes to court 82 times and spends £100,000 in this manner. For 12 years too.


he doesnt have good advisers? huh

possibly the likes of you, prickaboo and the other densoids were advising him.
FamilyRe: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by tpiah99: 4:56pm On Feb 06, 2015
kaboninc:
As for your question, YES I do live in Nigeria and a Nigerian. Please see my siggy, its for people like you.

Good morning!
thanks for answering the question, YOU have whatever type of morning you wish me.

I do not know you, so do not tell me good morning as if i know you from jack.

Shows you are stalking people's relatives, na your own wahala be that o, you no get relative ni? huh

as per the rest of your post, feel free to ask me that question again whenever i open a thread to attack children. Have a great day.

and do not ask me the same, again until you see me open said thread.
FamilyRe: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by tpiah99: 12:52am On Feb 06, 2015
I want to assume all the males on this thread, who are in support of the lady here and elsewhere, are Nigerian?
FamilyRe: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by tpiah99: 12:48am On Feb 06, 2015
LostMermaid:
since I'm the woman he's in love with; then if he makes a child with me, he should love that child more. More than the one he made with a slutty ex by accident



sometimes I find myself resentful that he loves the child of such a slut so much


2. I also think, his child with his ex ( 4 now) might influence the children I will have with him in a bad way, if she came living with us. Sometimes I think it might be nice... but sometimes I think she will be an outsider, kind of like a secret agent; not exactly from the family; representing her mother, and maybe sometimes reminding her, or defending her. Kind of like a dark cloud above the happiness of the family. Keeping us from behaving comfortably, or keeping us from just being the family; like for example preventing me from telling my children how I met the love of my life, their father, my future husband, because she might get jealous or something. Lots of things like that.... What do you think about this? huh
Jesus
FamilyRe: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by tpiah99: 12:37am On Feb 06, 2015
anyway, check these threads:

I am posting info there for you and maybe others who are in the same situation:

https://www.nairaland.com/2132477/those-dont-know-tips-relating


https://www.nairaland.com/2132547/when-it-ok-judge-people


the essence of judging, sometimes, is so you can correct what people see as glaring errors, its not to make you feel bad, but rather to build you. Not all judging is bad, some judging is constructive, especially in a case like yours where you have feelings of anger, bitterness and hatred towards a little girl.

If you are doing something wrong, being defensive about it is not what will help you. You may not know what you are doing wrong, that is why people are informing you there are better ways to do things, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships.
FamilyRe: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by tpiah99: 12:30am On Feb 06, 2015
lostmermaid

just so you know, your thread is one of the most disturbing I have seen since I joined this site.

If you feel you need help with your thoughts and whatnot, its better you get the help you need, nobody is saying you shouldn't. Nairaland should not be your sole determinant or moral guide of what you should or shouldn't do, or what you should or shouldn't feel.

if you have nobody in your life to guide you on questions such as these, then its better you seek professional help.

The golden rule is: treat others the way you want others to treat you, if you put yourself in your boyfriend's daughter's shoes, as a four year old, how should you be treated?

The girl is very young, she can even still bond with you at this time, she has no bad thoughts towards you but you have them towards her.
if you feel the mother will give her negative feedback about you and try to come between your relationship, well, when you agreed to date someone with a kid and baby mama, why would you expect smooth sailing throughout? The man did not force you to date him, did he? huh

I seriously doubt this even has anything to do with the girl's mother- you just don't want to share your boyfriend's attention ( and maybe property), that is all.

seriously, I found your thread chilling.

you refused to answer the question of where you are from , this would have given people a better perspective on how to advise you.

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