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crackhaus:Matthew 7 11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!kindly note the bolded words. Here's more: Matthew 18: 10 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones 21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant |
Vibesking: |
am I your mama? ![]() |
Which sun are you seeing on the internet? ![]() |
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Why don't you remove All Time from your thread title? |
Barely changed at all, I think I remember that colour. Too bad there were no camera phones back in the day. |
Doesn't that coincide with the nigerian election? |
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Neplusultra:Nazi things. |
ZionJay:More like your low IQ is on display. |
tonychristopher:Bro, upgrade your mindset, its too local |
when I talk, people wonder what's the reason. |
are you looking for who will do back and forth with you? keep looking sweetie, just don't look my way. your loneliness and bitterness have nothing to do with me, you have been misinformed and na you sabi. Enjoy your day! and your defender of evil handle! |
Should kids be held responsible for their parents' interactions with you ie other adults? imo, it is not wise to blow off your bitterness and anger towards a kid's parents, on the kids. Even if the kids are being coached by their parents or guardians to fight you, you should still judge them on their own merit, rather than their parents' misdeeds. It may be hard, but it is a sign of cowardice to fight a child as if you are fighting a grown up. What can you do, you say, in situations where parents are making their underage kids fight their battles? If the kid is attacking you directly, report them to their sponsors. If the kid is attacking your own kid, involve other adults. However, remember kids often interact with themselves differently, so do not assume just because parents don't see eye to eye, therefore any discontent between the kids is as a result of that. Not necessarily, it depends. |
crackhaus:that's s.tupid. you can leave the door of your own house wide open for armed robbers to enter, that has nothing to do with the thread. What the bible says is when someone is practicing evil, you are to correct (judge ) them in a spirit of love. There is nothing good about covering or making excuses for evil. When you wink at sin, it will swallow you. |
lofty900:hear their reasons you say? You must be sympathizing with boko haram when they bomb then. |
enygmababe:he's in religion section judging women who wear trousers and Christians who listen to music not approved by him. this is a case of straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel. wearing trouser/listening to music versus being a regular customer at brothels, I wonder which is more irreligious. Not to mention its not even like he was caught or disgraced or anything, he proudly opened a thread to boast of it, yet he still wants to be called a Christian. I guess he thought he could safely post his exploits in sexuality section as no Christian visits there. |
coogar:that is fine. I think its better he does. |
shinejackie:To me, $100 million would be an asset. However, $1000 was an asset to the guy who brought it up. what type of wealth and assets are you referring to? |
some nairaland "men" do not necessarily represent real men. In case that's your reason for opening the thread @ op. |
shinejackie:how much asset and wealth exactly are you referring to? is it the $1000 someone mentioned? ![]() |
The issue of Competition In Nigeria, kids compete with themselves through playing, in school, etc. Competition is not always viewed negatively if its in a fun context. Once again, the ADULTS are the ones who influence kids on how they do or don't view competition. A mature adult will help the child develop and focus on strengths, and also help them understand everybody has areas of weakness. What is considered STRANGE is when an adult starts competing with a child. That is a sign of a more serious problem. |
Self esteem is an adult problem, not commonly found in kids Kids are still building their self esteem, that's why they are kids. The ADULTS in the kids life are the ones who either help the kid build self esteem, or prevent them from developing it. That's why safeguards exist to observe what is going on in a kid's life, in developed countries. In undeveloped countries, the kid's parents or primary guardians take up this responsibility. |
** sigh** seem I have this duty of educating nairaland about so many basic things which they somehow do not know even though they are adults. |
there are different time zones all over the world, if i do not know you personally, do not wish me good morning, thanks. I could be typing at 11:58 midnight, that is not your concern and neither is it your business. as per your stalking any relatives of mine so you can crow with glee whenever you catch them or entice them to do whatever evil you have planned, na you sabi ke? ![]() i am not the world police- if you commit a crime, you will definitely do the time one way or another, God is not mocked. simple, nothing more to it. |
coogar:i wonder what type of man goes to court 82 times and spends £100,000 in this manner. For 12 years too. he doesnt have good advisers? ![]() possibly the likes of you, prickaboo and the other densoids were advising him. |
kaboninc:thanks for answering the question, YOU have whatever type of morning you wish me. I do not know you, so do not tell me good morning as if i know you from jack. Shows you are stalking people's relatives, na your own wahala be that o, you no get relative ni? ![]() as per the rest of your post, feel free to ask me that question again whenever i open a thread to attack children. Have a great day. and do not ask me the same, again until you see me open said thread. |
I want to assume all the males on this thread, who are in support of the lady here and elsewhere, are Nigerian? |
LostMermaid:Jesus |
anyway, check these threads: I am posting info there for you and maybe others who are in the same situation: https://www.nairaland.com/2132477/those-dont-know-tips-relating https://www.nairaland.com/2132547/when-it-ok-judge-people the essence of judging, sometimes, is so you can correct what people see as glaring errors, its not to make you feel bad, but rather to build you. Not all judging is bad, some judging is constructive, especially in a case like yours where you have feelings of anger, bitterness and hatred towards a little girl. If you are doing something wrong, being defensive about it is not what will help you. You may not know what you are doing wrong, that is why people are informing you there are better ways to do things, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships. |
lostmermaid just so you know, your thread is one of the most disturbing I have seen since I joined this site. If you feel you need help with your thoughts and whatnot, its better you get the help you need, nobody is saying you shouldn't. Nairaland should not be your sole determinant or moral guide of what you should or shouldn't do, or what you should or shouldn't feel. if you have nobody in your life to guide you on questions such as these, then its better you seek professional help. The golden rule is: treat others the way you want others to treat you, if you put yourself in your boyfriend's daughter's shoes, as a four year old, how should you be treated? The girl is very young, she can even still bond with you at this time, she has no bad thoughts towards you but you have them towards her. if you feel the mother will give her negative feedback about you and try to come between your relationship, well, when you agreed to date someone with a kid and baby mama, why would you expect smooth sailing throughout? The man did not force you to date him, did he? ![]() I seriously doubt this even has anything to do with the girl's mother- you just don't want to share your boyfriend's attention ( and maybe property), that is all. seriously, I found your thread chilling. you refused to answer the question of where you are from , this would have given people a better perspective on how to advise you. |

