immortalcrown: 1. Any man listening to that guy had already started running from his responsibilities or has been searching for a means of dodging his responsibility before he came across the guy. Stop blaming the guy. It is not the maker of torn clothes that is responsible for madness. Those who locate and put on torn clothes were already mad before coming across the torn clothes. Gege or whatsoever he is called does not convert men. He only encourages or coaches those who already have his mindset.
2. The second to the last paragraph in your post is totally fallacious. If women becoming men is a choice of survival, men becoming women is also a choice of survival and not a choice of weakness.
3. If you want to preach the Bible, I will agree with you that men are created to provide for women. But if you want to follow the way the world is going, men are no longer supposed to provide for women every time. A man should provide for his woman if the woman does not have. But if the woman has her own money, why should she save it so that the man will be the one spending his own or her? Women are now equally being empowered the same way men are being empowered. Women now go to school and get jobs. If it was in the past when only men were empowered, when only men were trained in school and offered jobs, I will agree that it remains the responsibility of men to be providing for women. If men should continue to provide all the financial needs of women now that women are equally empowered, what then is the essence of empowering women? If women want all their needs to be provided by men, then the women should focus on opening their legs in bedrooms and nursing children, the women should not bother about going to school and competing with men in the job market.
4. Your analysis is not balanced. In other words, it is one-sided. Men are not the only problem. Women are equally part of the problem. People like Gege and his fellows are warming up because more women are becoming more materialistic in this generation. In the past, a disciplined or decent man can use his good personality to attract a woman. But today on average, only a man with money attracts almost every woman in his environment. In today's world, a male criminal that has wealth can get any woman of his choice while it is almost impossible for a decent man that doesn't have money to get a woman of his choice. There are also Saidaboj and her followers. So, don't address the issue halfway.
A simple question with characters less than 40.
WHAT ARE THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF THE GIRLS/ WOMEN?
So it is now the responsibility of men to completely take up the financial burden and responsibilities of girls in the name of being in a relationship?
wouldn't that continue to re-enforce the negative stereotype of women being leeches and selfish beings that have no value outside of what a man provides for them?
Is this not demeaning, disrespectful and insulting to encourage the narative that women should continue to hawk toto as the only thing of value that they have?
Women are human beings too and are fully endowed with a brain and capacity to develop themselves by adding value to themselves and to society apart from being various flavours of prostitutes called HOOKUP GIRLS, OS, etc
LawWithEbele: Lawyer, can I inherit everything if my husband dies without a will?
Many women think the answer is yes. The law says no.
If he married under the Marriage Act, that is statutory marriage, his estate will be shared according to the relevant provisions of the Administration of Estate of the Deceased Law between wife and children.
The wife gets 1/3 of the estate. The children gets 2/3 of the estate. The wife has only life interest in the 1/3 she got. This simply means that she cannot sell or part with it. If she remarries, she loses everything to the husband's estate.
If he married under Customary Law the customary law will decide who gets what. His family may even claim a large part.
If he married under Islamic Law his estate is divided strictly by Qur’anic rules.
One fact is clear: a wife does not automatically inherit all.
That is why every man should make a will.It protects his wife, his children, and his legacy.
I am Ebelechukwu Aroh, the Nigerian family and property lawyer.I help you protect what you cannot afford to lose- your land, your legacy, and your family.
So that you will plan how to kill the poor man either physically, spiritually or mentally, abi?
The man's life is in danger already.
This evil thinking by some women is disturbing.
how is it Okay for someone you are marrying and planning to spend your life to start planning and scheming what they will benefit if you die.
Do women live forever? why do they always plan their lives for the benefits they will gain when the poor man that marries them dies? Is it not a motive for a premeditated crime already?
Once a woman says this nonsense to me, they are automatically out of my life. Let her go and plan to wait for her father to die!
And women ensure that their husband is never in position to inherit their own belongings in the event of their death. They will everything to their paternal families.
nlfpmod: Danboskid has been evicted from the Big Brother Naija season 10 house.
So this stupidity is still going on?
In which world do adults sit around doing nothing and fornicating like animals and then become successful and rich? They are even role models to some young people! Absolute thrash designed to distract the youth from purposeful living.
Peterobiisathie: The drugs were tied to the internal steel rods of the umbrella—something only a trained eye could spot,” said PSI Rahul Fad, who led the operation. “It’s a new low in concealment tactics and shows the increasing desperation and ingenuity of traffickers
Reno, stick to politics and leave olosho work for the professionals. which one is bride price and virginity again? If totocurrency face you, they will destroy your fraudulent career!
emkz: Ojulari already committed several blunders within four months.
1. He approved that management retreat to Kigali that used 5 private jets to ferry senior and mid-management staff. That was poor management decision.
2. His deals with Atiku's son inlaw shows he doesn't understand the high-stakes involved in public sector management. Mele Kyari avoided the dude, but Ojulari carried him on his head.
3. We applauded his appointment. But instead of coming up with sensible ideas to ramp up production, he is accused of hobnobbing with a money launderer.
Let him resign if he did shady deals.
nothing happens to Bayo Ojulari and he goes nowhere!
This is the quintessential female mindset. No surprises at all!
99% of men will say the exact opposite!
A woman (most) will actually sacrifice her family for her own happiness; but most men will sacrifice and do sacrifice their happiness for their family!
highchief1: biased opinions.pa Edwin Clark died at 97,the other yoruba man afenifere leader or so died at 97 too.some men still outlive their wife’s.okowas father died at 86 while Okowas mom died when she was about 40yrs old or so.
they probably took good care of themselves. All humans will die but don't speed up the process with unnecessary burdens and stress! That is the whole point of his message.
Gerrard59: Thanks for your comment. Any idea how much professors at Covenant, Babcock, ABUAD etc., earn per month?
I am not really sure now, as I have been out of academics for 10years now. But I know the salary range is between 400k - 700k ish. The difference is in the additional employee value proposition like overseas and local conferences sponsorship, prestige, accomodation, and good work environment in the case of universities like AUN, etc.
But academics na very good field to work for work-life balance and you can use the extra time for side hustle which can fetch you far more than the monthly salary!!!
after she has helped almajiri feminists to learn bad character wey go keep them forever single and frustrated, she has now colonised one gbola wey dey give her joy!!
Brazino: When you meet an intelligent person, you know. That's if you're also intelligent. When you meet someone who's rich, you also know. When you meet a civilized and enlightened person, you can also tell.
So, how do you know if someone is from a poor background?
Attitude is key here. There are some persons who come from a rich background but may appear poor especially in how they look. While some from poor background may appear Rich physically.
- They are super entitled to other people's money - they are obsessed with money - they call people broke for not giving them what they can't afford
Kavod: You de delusional sha..... What Satanyanwu and Trump did was fast track their Nuclear arsenal. Russia and China has given Iran nukes war heads, NoW Trump and Isreal don change mouth....
OGA THEY HAVE NUCLEAR WAR HEADS NOW, EVERYWHERE THE WEST AND ISREAL ENTER THEY MUST CAUSE CATASTROPHIC SCENERIOS. SADAM AND GHADAFFI MADE THE GREATEST MISTAKE BY GIVING OUT THEIR WEAPONS OF MASS DESTRUCTION AND CHEMICAL WEAPONS AND GOT EVADED AND KILLED.
YOU DONT BELIEVE... MAKE ISREAL DROP ONE BOMB AGAIN. EVEN TRUMP HAD TO SAY ISREALI PLANES WOULD DO A WAVE. 🤣 🤣
I don't know how people with sense can be so deluded. Israel was beaten badly, and this is the first time they have seen real shege in a war and they were running to call their mumu daddy, USA. But Yes, Isreal was beaten up and exposed for their delussion of invincibility.
Chilipepper: After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.
Geh Geh has warned you but you pour spit for his face now you dey regret your life.... had i known, the last comment of a fool
shibyc: Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures.
I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.
Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument.
Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts eh, like I’m begging her.
She forgets one thing: The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine and everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.
Now I’m realizing that, if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.
So now I’m asking you all:
Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially ?
I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking, but now I dey reason am twice.
What do you all think?
Geh Geh has already warned you but you pour am spit for face... had I known, the last cry of a fool!!