₦airaland Forum

aminauiade:
Rotimi Amaechi, former governor of Rivers state, says he is hungry.


https://www.thecable.ng/amaechi-to-nigerians-if-youre-not-hungry-i-am/

arantess:
na them ooo
na them.

lumens:
Making you proud in a dead league.
Why is he avoiding the top leagues? Let him come and prove if he's a good player

Peterobiisathie:
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/nigerian-national-acquitted-in-cocaine-case-due-to-procedural-lapses-sentenced-for-illegal-entry/articleshow/121524225.cms

Dpsychologist:
I saw this tweet by Erigga and it hit deep.

“I was with him when he was drinking garri.”
But na you buy the garri? 🤨

Let’s unpack this mindset that’s becoming very common in our generation.


🧠 The “Loyalty” Women Talk About Today is Not Real

Many women love to say they were there when you had nothing.
But truth is, a lot of them were just witnesses, not builders.

They didn’t help.
They didn’t invest.
They didn’t even believe in you—they were just hoping for a return on their emotional “time.”

It’s all about positioning themselves for the future harvest without ever planting seeds.


📌 Presence ≠ Participation

There’s a clear difference between being present and being useful.

Ask yourself:

Did she contribute to your hustle?

Did she support with money, ideas, motivation?

Or did she just sit there… waiting?


Too many women want to claim royalty status for just hanging around during your broke phase.


💭 Real Loyalty is Silent

The girl who actually bought the garri isn’t the one tweeting.
She’s the one you remember when you finally blow—because she didn’t make noise, she made impact.

Loyalty is:

Showing up consistently.

Investing (not just emotionally, but tangibly).

Praying, planning, building with you.


But most of what you see now is emotional blackmail masked as support.


⚠️ Men, Stop Rewarding Passive Loyalty

Your success is not community property.
If she didn’t grind with you, she shouldn’t reap with you.

Let’s break it down clearly:

If What She Did is to make you feel Encouraged, supported, sacrificed then sje deserves Respect & loyalty
If What She Did is Invested in your dream then What She Deserves is Return on value
But if she Complained, watched, tolerated you then she deserves Nothing but silence 😐


💬 Final Thoughts

Let this sink in:

🧾 Presence without contribution is just observation.
And observers don’t get trophies.

So next time a woman says, “I was with you when you were drinking garri”, calmly ask:

“Did you buy am for me?”

Because sitting on the sideline doesn't make you a teammate.

What do y’all think?
Have you experienced this?
Drop your thoughts and share with someone who needs this reminder. 🧠🔥

Sccarrr:
Attention seeker..gay men toasting this one no get class obviously 😹

naptu2:
Muhammadu Buhari @MBuhari



https://x.com/MBuhari/status/1927729997931860259?t=tFH8iDyYPx3t3nbeTdSVGw&s=19[/quote]As hin don continue evil policies from where e stop na ... why not?

Dumeby3:
Things are too hard... im fed up already....someone should please help me... my baby has not eaten since morning. I can't buy her nutribom, I don't have the money. I'm tired. I want to give up. I am tired of this life. Please help me if you can, my account number is in my profile. I can't post it here due to this forum policy.

Angelfrost:
Oh please... Ladies far younger than their husbands do much worse than this.

Macron's wife has been nothing but supportive and loyal to him throughout his political journey.

There is nothing new here.

ogododo:
https://parallelfactsnews.com/spiritual-solution-what-we-need-cns-ogalla/

Broveens42:
How come he incites violence in an entity (biafra land) you say doesn't exist?

If you Wana crucify him for inciting violence in the "zoo" and "biafra", then you have to accept they are legal entities.

NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_bHVJHXAIs?si=E2KG21-QZF5KXdgH

Proserpina:
They would always want to "catch them young" only to label them useless, materialistic, unproductive, offers nothing but sex later.

My dear RUN

sleek214:
Nice one. Things like this should be pushed to front page to encourage others. While some people are working hard to earn a living, others are on the internet daily abusing Tinubu, Atiku and Obi instead of them to do something to better their lives...

Omihanifa:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2025/05/15/can-you-marry-her-popular-porn-star-who-has-slept-with-1000-men-gives-her-life-to-christ/

wilson2:
Misplaced priority...

.
.but we need to hear from the school b4 coming to conclusion

Vendor127001:
A lady has posted a video calling out a vendor for selling fake hair to her for one million, seven hundred thousand naira, she claims the hair does not match the type she paid for, the vendor also refused to issue refund to her as she complained bitter about it !
Video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mNNzJqJ6EP8?si=5XpidbyQrIQDrdiH





Source :TikTok

ryloy:
Govt hold your hands and legs to go to farm?

helinues:
Who is VDM in the scheme of things? Has VDM said more than Sowore or Peter Obi? Why are those not arrested?

A day without some of you blaming FG for all the life's woes is an incomplete day

So VDM'S case is no longer about GTB. So what would happen to those who emotionally closed their accounts with the GTB?

Great100000:
Source: https://punchng.com/osimhen-breaks-turkish-goal-record-as-galatasaray-ends-six-year-cup-wait/

Slytiger:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/05/tinubus-economic-reforms-making-nigeria-more-investible-uk-envoy/

Chilipepper:
UK-based Cameroonian LGBTQ activist, Bandy Kiki and her Nigerian wife, Jenny are expecting their first child.

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1QYUryJN9S/

efemena5050:
Lol na ur type Satan dey find to recruit as his agent .....wat are u waiting for? Go and apply Asp .....baba dey Yaba left dey wait for u.

hafeeanubasy:
I have done that.
Peter is a fraud!

hafeeanubasy:
And what right does someone who supports the fraud below as president has?