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manmustwac:
Nigerians like strong thing. If u don't show them action dem no go pay you. Actions speak louder than words.

ask her for it on her wedding day?
that is very harsh and uncivilized

tope2000:
u r wrong 4 dat
nl is really changing u into a bad guy. . . .told ya

St.Funmi:
Be careful.

firstkiss:
"It looks as if you don't even want to end it. There's a name for women like you."

Yes, attractive, smart and able to take care of myself unlike a lot of women who rely on a man to take care of them because their lazy! Sit back and get fat and live a boring life when there's so much fun out there!

Yes women like me are who their men want! Ha!

firstkiss:
Because  I just figured  it out thanks to you guys, Remember I have my degree  in Psychology and know sometimes you need to hear others advice to figure out what you need too.

You were all right, I am going to do what I want regardless, I am enjoying the ride and I think a lot of you may do the same thing. Life is too short and not always laid out the way we think, but I'm going to grab on to all that makes me happy and even if for just the moment.  We may fall deeper into this trap of a bad outcome, but life has chances and risk.There's no guarantee with anything.

Statistics report 75% of  married people cheat. Only 3 mammals are programmed to be monogamous and humans ARE NOT one of them!

Thanks for all your help !! You guys have been great, oxoxoxo

stillwater:
This is where your morals have to come in, if you have any.
It looks as if you don't even want to end it. There's a name for women like you.

firstkiss:
Afraid of commitment been burned too many times and grew up w/  parents who's marriage was horrible! I been in a 9 year relationship w/ my daughters father and wouldn't marry him because I fear commitment. I can cook, clean, and am very attractive and educated it lies no where in that area.

firstkiss:
very independent, and[b]  it's not to late trust me[/b],  THIS JUST HAPPENED!!

firstkiss:
I said I was single, not unable to get a man, this  wasn't  intentional.

tope2000:
LOL. . .

@op
i dont know wat to say but dont break up an happy home

tope2000:
u wont tempt me tonite cuz im sure u are already @ work
n i have to wake up early in the morning while u r sleeping

firstkiss:
Please don't judge me I am aware what I am doing is wrong. I also have my degree in Psychology, so I know some other underlining cause, but I'd like some in put I can use.

Ok, I  ran into the first guy I ever kissed at the age of 12  on a web site that was anymous, we stated talking because we thought it was funny, after all what are the chances of running into the first person you ever kissed via the web?

He is married and there was no secret about it, We started talking and texting more and more, we had a great time laughing and just connected without even seeing each other after 20 years,  we are both  38 now, I am  single and he's obviously married.  I know who his wife is and we have a lot of mutual friends.

I was clear that I was not going to meet him for anything other than lunch and have it go farther than we have just by talking on the phone,  for hours and hours while he was on business trips, while he's at work on his way home from work. It was insane and I was getting nervous.

I kept making excuses to meet up with him for lunch. Finally I caved, I thought, it's only lunch no harm I have lunch with several  male friends and their wives know we been friends for years, Yes I knew I was fooling myself with justification for what I knew was going to happen.

So, I was really busy that week and he suggested he pick up carry    out and come by, yes, again I know what was going to come out of that situation.

He came over with lunch and wow, the chemistry was out of control and it wad the most amazing time I have ever had. We have every component that two people should have.  He ended up  staying the whole day, when he left I was  on cloud nine almost as I forgot what the relationship really consisted of HE"S MARRIED!!!

The next day he called and we talked and he was so into me and  me him it was out of control!!
Today I saw him again and it was the same way, we did talk about the real situation  and the implications if anyone ever found out, he stated he really  likes me and it scares him and he knows it cannot go  any farther and it bothers him, because he is falling for me and he thinks about  me all the time. 
I feel the same way, accept I am  bothered about   my moral choice  and know that hes never going to leave his wife and even if he did,  i wouldn't ever trust him. But I am having a great time and it feels nice to be adored and liked so much, and hes someone who's known me over 25 years, The chemistry   in  every component is there and more.

What am  I going to do? Please don't tell me what a bad person I am, I know what a bad person I am by having an affair with a  married man,  I just would like someone to talk sense into me or react to how they would handle  this situation.

tope2000:
lol. . . u r lucky im feeling sleepy
if not. . . . . chei chei
u 4 see wetin i go use ur eyes see

tope2000:
who be chicken
dont let us turn dis into tope n treetop's thread o

tope2000:
shatap jor
who dey teach u yoruba sef

you are cursing me out?
oh how the chickens have grown wings

tope2000:
maybe he used his brother's passport then

tope2000:
true or maybe the husband cant travel to naija

~Sauron~:
Or Ini Edo.
I saw some people venting their spleens over what happened last night.
Naija peops and their uncanny ability to be moronic. . . . .Any criticism is bad belle.
Buncha hypocritical runts.

davidylan:
why carry all her family and his thousands of miles away for a wedding? I suspect the husband is a yahoo yahoo boy.

tope2000:
Yes. . . . . . . .na
Look at this one, she is gathering information on how to lure him into her hands

tope2000:
Why wont i??
Some1 might be planning to snatch my e-husband away from me

tope2000:
Ahn ahn . . . .what do u mean??
U are HOT commodity na
and men are creepier jare

tope2000:
why not??

MrCrackles:
Can you do with a girl in Sudan or Afghanistan?

tope2000:
can u do long distance relationship?