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BlackAfrican:
Obaseki has bitten more than he can chew and swallow...greed effect... Using state power to force people to obey you and suspend a national chairman of your party that stood beside you during your election and has avoided attacking you for refusing to work in harmony with other members of the party in your state...

Party is supreme.

Party brought you to power.

You can't just wake up and start sidelining members of the party while claiming they're asking you to share state money.

You can give members of the party contracts to work on... Your own will be to ensure they complete the contract...of course, they'll still make profit from the contract even if they don't embezzle the funds... As governor, give qualified and capable members of your party contracts and follow up with proper mechanism to ensure they do the job simple... Yours is to limit their greed and temptation to embezzle all funds without doing anything... That's what Oshiomole did that made him successfully complete many projects in the state that you haven't even matched 25% of yet you are fighting Oshiomole instead of seeking his support and advice on direction to take to curtail greed of party members.

Obaseki retrace your steps or you'll fail woefully. You won't get second term and your political career will just die like that.

Cc lalasticlala

no need for Obaseki to retrace any step,Oshiomole will never forgive him for this. He's only quiet now because when he starts dealing with him politically no body would even think of begging on his behalf.

Muhammad2468:
David Adeleke also known as Davido on November 22, at exactly 12am, released his new album ‘A Good Time’ , and barely 5hrs after it was released the Album has been breaking and setting new records.
According to reports, the DMW founder’s new album hit a staggering number of 87million streams as at 5am, Saturday morning.
The Album has also broken into the charts of 38 countries according to Apple Music.
See the records so far below:

The Highest Charting African Album Ever In The United States On @itunes (All Genres) , OBO made a monster and this is just the beginning #AGoodTime
New Peak : #9

#AGoodTime Is The #1 POP Album In The United States

#AGoodTime Charting in 38 Countries on Apple Music , Top 100 in 24 countries.
Monster hit of 87, 785, 550 streams in less than 5hours.

Congratulations are in order for this dude

beresponsible:
Customs knew about all these illegal routes all along. Point is it's easier to block southern states borders but in the North its vast expanse of desert. All of northern Sokoto, kebbi, Katsina, Borno have more than 1000 entrances into Nigeria

Nigeria is too large for one Aboki (my friend) to handle,If it was just southern part that it's a country of it's own,we wouldn't have all this excuses.So Northerners still eating foreign rice, me selecting stones here.haba

bodaola:
Sister, I will advise you to move on.... Let Ex be ex, the truth is, the relationship with your ex will not work out well again... He will still bring up the issue of fucking your present boyfriend in future and that will get things worst.... Bet it with me, in future, h

He might even get to use this as a lesson and always protect the relationship at all cost

Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks

go back to ur ex ur heart belongs there...

Try to have a good and productive discussion that doesn't required u giving her money that moment, they will be like this guy is just so annoying, too serious and is killing the vibes in this relationship.hahahahahaha

rtdCivilservant:
So are u now saying women are Zombies that they give in to whatever the men ask from them? They give sex just because the men ask? Are u saying Women are this stupid? God forbid my sweet mother can never be as foolish as u described.

Even when u start doing all these things OP has listed,they will start to see u as either too serious or being like their father or teacher...

ernieboy:
I am not a pdp sympathizer, I voted for Osho in his first and second tenure, we all queued behind him when he brought the mantra of one man one vote because we were tired of the state of godftherism under pdp, don't forget that before he came on board there was a movement called" no man is good" which was aimed at salvaging the state from the grip of a godfather. Osho cashed in on this mantra and coupled with his activism during his union days became the people's choice. If Osho is very confident of his popularity let him and inec allow a free and fair election to test his popularity.

but have you noticed that Oshiomole has never for once mention Obaseki, so that tells you he don't have any grudges against him.but Obaseki isn't coming back abeg

biofem01:
I concur with you, sir. He has lived his life as an example of who a true believer should be. A scandal-free life. For the general talk about tithes, I have realized that more often than not, those who shout Pastors are stealing money from their members via tithes don't pay their tithes. Those who do pay tithes don't complain. So I begin to wonder why a lot of us cry more than the bereaved. Why complain about what others do with their money.

You so much right on this.Do you know that if pastors says we all should stop paying tithes there are still millions of believers who will go and sow secretly.its just a personal choice jor.

MiniImportation:
Shut up Mr Pastor How much is 20 or 30 million compared to the amount you rob the masses every Sunday ,Ahmad Musa Paid 500 million to sponsor 100 Students

Remember that man of God is on salary.

lalasticlala:
Ex BBNaija Housemate, Cee-C shared these beautiful pictures as she goes braless in a bodycon dress.

braless,you for kukuma add maybe pantless join

BAAKUS1447:
Members of the Edo State caucus in the National Assembly have backed the National Chairman of the All Progressives Congress, Adams Oshiomhole, in the battle between him and Governor Godwin Obaseki.

The caucus, which addressed journalists in Abuja on Thursday, blamed the crisis on Obaseki, asking the governor to issue a fresh proclamation for the proper inauguration of the Edo State House of Assembly.

The lawmakers also accused the Deputy Governor, Mr Philip Shaibu, of displaying “shameful acts of indiscipline and political rascality.”

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The Deputy Majority Leader of the House of Representatives, Peter Akpatason, who spoke on behalf of the caucus, said, “It was at this point that we decided, as responsible parliamentarians duly elected by our constituents, to speak out and restate the following:

“That we, the APC caucus in the National Assembly, hereby, without hesitation, express our undiluted and absolute confidence in the sterling and patriotic leadership of the National Chairman of the APC, Comrade Adams Aliyu Oshiomhole, who has been doing excellently well and won two tough elections.

“We advise Governor Obaseki and his management to appreciate the damage they are doing to the state and party with their undemocratic and unorthodox political actions and to retrace their steps.

“The Governor should issue another proclamation as stipulated in the Constitution and have all the 24 elected members properly inaugurated so they can duly represent their constituents and make invaluable contributions to the growth and development of the state.

“To stop forthwith all forms of intimidation and harassment of elected officials, appointees and perceived enemies.

“Allow peace to reign in Edo State and work to enhance democratic practices by opening up political spaces.”


The National Working Committee of the APC had set up a high-powered fact-finding mission on the crisis.


https://punchng.com/apc-crisis-edo-caucus-in-nass-backs-oshiomhole-attacks-obaseki/

Everyone here on this forum taking sides with Obaseki,are all sympathizers of PDP,else I see only betrayal of trust from both phillip shaibu and Obaseki towards Oshiomole.Oshiomole forced us in Edo to like and vote for this present governor, and we did that as a way of showing our little appreciation for the little job he(Oshiomole) did in Edo state.hes our eye opener here.

Yankiss:
China has joined Nigeria o. Me is not understanding o. I thought these countries are clean. Even the USA has their fair share of cyber scammers. But if u hear the hype on Nigerians you will think cyber crime is made in Nigeria.

china has been at the frontline since frauds came into limelight

agwom:
National Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Prince Uche Secondus is under intense pressure to vacate office over alleged constitutional breaches, misappropriation of funds and failure to lead the party to victory in the 2015 and 2019 general elections. Secondus has also allegedly failed to call for major meetings of the various organs of the party including the National Executive Committee (NEC) meeting which is the second highest decision-making organ of the party.

Daily Trust reports that the pressure is coming from PDP leaders and groups within the party. A former Special Adviser on Public Affairs, to President Goodluck Jonathan and member of the defunct Presidential Campaign Council for Atiku Abubakar, Malam Nasir Zahradeen, confirmed to our correspondent last night that majority of PDP stalwarts and power brokers were demanding for Secondus’ resignation.

“Secondus must go and he must be investigated by the EFCC, ICPC and the SSS because of the alleged impropriety, alleged putting of his hands on the funds of the party which is unacceptable. “You cannot say whether the other members of the NWC are doing well or they are not doing well. But if the head is rotten, definitely, you don’t expect any action from the rest.

“Now we have lost the Kogi and Bayelsa elections. On Bayelsa, he (Secondus) connived with the governor. Apparently, the governor had his own idea of getting his kinsman to be the governor while he will get the senatorial seat,” he said. Similarly, a highly placed source from the North West, who sought not to be named, passed a vote of no confidence on Secondus, saying he cannot guarantee victory for the party any more.

“We all had confidence in Secondus when he emerged. But later we discovered there were issues that we did not envisage. The leadership of Prince Secondus has several lapses and breaches of the constitution of the PDP. “For instance, from the very time we lost the 2019 elections, I doubt if there has been any NEC or caucus meeting to discuss the issues and that is weighing us down. “If they can’t deliver us today, how can we be sure they will deliver us tomorrow? Actually, I cannot ask the other members of the NWC to resign but sincerely, Secondus should resign because I doubt if he is willing to get us to the Promised Land.

He should resign,” he said. But the Special Adviser on Media to Secondus, Mr. Ike Abonyi, dismissed the allegations in a telephone chat with our correspondent, saying the party had more serious issues to discuss on the threat to democracy. “The allegations are baseless and unsubstantiated. Let them provide evidence that Secondus is a thief; that he dipped his hands into the party’s funds. “The constitution says one NEC meeting to one quarter. And between February and now, he called NEC meetings three times. So he has not violated the PDP Constitution,” he said.

Spokesperson of the party, Kola Ologbondiyan also dispelled claims that Secondus was under pressure to vacate office. “The National Chairman is not under any pressure except the fact that we believe that democracy is gradually being killed by this government and we believe that as the main opposition party we have a responsibility to salvage democracy,” he said.

Read more: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/pressure-mounts-on-secondus-to-resign.html

this one that was brought by wike as way showing he owns pdp at that time.As his name implies, na so so second for us pdp���

SalamRushdie:
They are just trying make Nigeria see sense but they have what it takes to make Buhari receive sense ..

1 . Convince other Sensible ECOWAS states to force Nigeria out of the Free trade protocol or they all pull out .

2 . Threaten to pull Ghana out of ECOWAS is Buhari is not called to order .

3 . Get all other ECOWAS members to withdraw all the high commission service from Nigeria and request same from the Buhari govt .

4 . Give a travel advisory to citizens to avoid travel to Nigeria .

5 . Convince will ECOWAS countries to severe direct flights with Nigeria .

6 .Get ECOWAS countries except Niger to give 14 days deadline to Nigerian Banks to leave their countries ( have u ever seen any Ghanian Bank doing Business here)

7 . Unveil a timeline to Nationalise Glo Ghana

And see whether the economic Terrorist Buhari won't budge

As easy as it seems to you,all those aren't achievable even in a decade.Stop typing like govt is a remote control things

SalamRushdie:
They can , how I wish I was the Ghanian president

As Ghanaian President, the man knows much better than you or anybody else who isn't part of their govt. They know how important trading with Nigeria is to their economy

MetaPhysical:
This lady "repeatedly" returned forgotten millions.

Buhari should open the gate for her to claim her own wealth. Give her a hefty reward, make her brand ambassador for anti-corruption crusade and bring her along to every APC national rally as a face of honesty and trust.

sense isn't far from ur domain jor

Abfinest007:
is a lie .he rejected it because someone else was there if he was alone will he reject it

Think b4 typing poo

SalamRushdie:
Expel the usless man from ECOWAS if he can't honor free trade protocol ..enough of this begging ..one dull man after messing up his country wants to mess up the economy of the whole west Africa ..West Africa should call his bluff and expel him

Who do you think is controlling d so call ECOWAS? My friend keep praying Bubu might change his mind soonest,else ECOWAS can't mess with its main Engine.

Cherrybae:
The Governor of Bayelsa state, Dickson has vowed to rely on INEC Server to cruise his party and anointed Candidate Senator Diri to victory.

The Governor while speaking to newsmen at his hometown stated that information reaching him from party agents shows that results been updated on the INEC Server indicates that the PDP are winning with a wide margin.

The Gov therefore called on all PDP members are supporters to remain calm as the INEC Server is the authentic avenue for viewing results of today's election.

The Governor called on INEC to safeguard its Server to prevent it from been hacked by agents of the APC.

https://www.nairaland.com/5532892/bayelsa-decides-gov-dickson-vows#84089736

You see what Atiku has caused,every election pdp will now be shouting sever,when they know already that our electoral law forbids it for now...

swaggzo:
Women bashers, Clueless Men, and people that have never been in love, please keep off.
I'm already seeing some worthless "offpoint" statements and disregard. How difficult is it for Nigerian Adults to either be meaningfully useful, or ignore and mind their business?



To my fellow men, how did you get through this?

You fall in love with someone, and they leave you and never come back. You plead, and plead, and cry at their feet because you loved them sincerely. But they swear never to come back.

Not that you were a bad person that beat up your partner, cheated on them or treated them carelessly. You only made a few "common" mistakes like raising your voice, correcting certain flaws, or whatever it is that would go on in a relationship and normal couples will get through it. But your partner leaves you 3 times because he/she "wasn't happy" in the relationship because of these "common" mistakes/situations. You beg them and they come back, but this 4th time they leave you, you go on to try to get them back for days or weeks, with no success.

Usually they like to leave because they've found someone else. Sometimes they leave because they cannot cope with you. But you really want them for all their great qualities, and this 4th time, you've made up your mind to be good. To be better than you ever was, even though you cannot really see how those "common" relationship situations are worthy to be called faults that should lead to a breakup.

They make up their mind not to return to you. Cry, roll in mud, bang your head a hundred times but they're unimpressed. Their minds have been made up to "leave a man like you for a man that will value and cherish them". In fact seeing you, your calls, and texts make them angrier.


My friends, how did you get through this situation?
How did you comfort yourself with their absence with the fact that in your heart, you know they were too good but your small mistakes were huge to them and you let them down.

You wanted them forever. Marriage, children and happiness. Now you wonder if there are any people as good as they were. You're worried you'll never such love and kindness and commitment and passion and honestly and loyalty and dedication and pureness of heart, anywhere in the world again.

You really want them back. But they don't even want to see your name or face anywhere. They used to love you. But their fragile hearts couldn't endure your little naggings or jokes, or complaints and inconsistent love. They had their own shortcomings too. In fact, you reacted the times you did because of their actions. But they put all the blames on you. For love's sake you accept all the pains and blames and decide to fight further and keep things together. But they are now less interested. They're also worried about the tribal differences between your families.

Not that you're begging to be loved. No. They're unhappy because of you. Your "common" mistakes hurt and offend them. So you "beg" for forgiveness. But they've had enough of you.

Men that has been in these oversized shoes that are mine currently, how did you get through this?

You were not destined to be with that person for that long

iLegendd:
I'll give you 7 detachment secrets as a man to live a happier life.

1. Be emotionally detached from politics and political argument
2. Be emotionally detached from relationship drama — yes, drama is good, but don't be emotionally attached to the drama
3. Be emotionally detached from money — yes, make money, but don't be devastated if you lose it
4. Be emotionally detached from having the best grades in school
5. You can be religious, but be emotionally detached from religious argument
6. Be emotionally detached from addiction — even though you're still doing it and it's hard to quit, do it without emotion — with time, you'll finally quit
7. Be emotionally detached from verbal abuse — haters will come to bring you down with negative words, but don't let it hurt you because words can't bring you down

Bonus:

1. Be emotionally detached from competition
2. Be emotionally detached from sports — (I like Chelsea, I like Barcelona, and I like Messi, but I don't really care if they win a match or lose a match. And I don't even care if someone says Ronald is better than Messi — I'm emotional detached from who is better).

Sadly, if you gamble with BetNaija, it will be hard for you to be emotionally detached. You better stop gambling and have freedom like me.

You for just say don't take anything in life so serious...

Pettyprincess:
You leave them, only if they knew how much guys are scamming their girlfriends all the name of borrow me!!! Male gold diggers are far worst!!! Because they aren't usually sincere with you,they manipulate you nd make you believe if you love them you will do anything for them!!!
They first start my spending peanut on you after they noticed you have fallen in love then they start their manipulation like "baby please borrow me 200k i need it for business blah blah blah" after that na so dem go dey demand money from you till dey milk you dry!!!
May God not let us meet or date one!!!

And you were just told this story u penned down here like it's from ur experience

lloydpras:
Just ditched my glo mifi. Until Glo is ready to come back to its senses from the fast data exhaustion scam. No be my money dem go use renew Glo ambassadors' contracts this year-end.

sub 20k own bro ,you will be surprised that u ain't even touching it like when u sub for less

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Good evening everyone in this forum.

I have a big problem in regards to my relationship with this man I love.

I met him in 2017,two years back to be precise.

It was love at first sight as we both click immediately after an hour conversation with him.

He introduced himself to me as a banker and a senior one at that.

He has always spoil me with money and stuffs.

Though we had kisses but no sex not until now.

He has been pestering me for sex after our family introductions 3 months back.

I have made it clear to him that i will break my virginity until our wedding night but he said No that he has to know if i am fertile before taking me to the altar.

This is tearing our relationship apart and the painful thing is that he is the one sponsoring my brother in tertiary institution and also promise to get me a slot where he works with his position.

I love him but his decision to break my virginity on the basis of fertility is breaking me emotionally and i don't know if i should call it quit with him and damn the consequences or yield to his demand and destroy my personal pride.

Pls what should I do?

4 things here that I could point out that has made you stayed with that man are all for ur personal gains.
1.He spoils you with money and stuffs
2.He promised to get u a job
3.your brother's school bills is on him
4.He's rich and has a good job
With all these point I can say you don't have natural love for this poor man in the first place.Insult me sha,me have said my own.Las las you nor go be first class virgin

chrisagyei:
hahaha.Nigerians are very funny.Maybe you people don't understand our economy. Just as your economy can only be crippled by international crude oil prices because your whole economy and exports depends on it thus you going into recession in 2015,the only thing that can cripple Ghana's economy is sharp fall of gold,cocoa and oil prices on the international market. Nigerians doing businesses in Ghana are nuisance whom 2/3 are even informal and evade taxes.They only end up repatrating all their little profits out of the country to their mama's in their village. Why do you think the Ghanaian government made a law to ban foreigners from retailing in Ghana.About your 4 banks or so in Ghana,just this year,the government liquidated and forcefully closed down 15 solid Ghanaians and Nigerian banks in Ghana and nobody including the economy was affected.The workers were given package and laid off.The economy was rather made stronger.The government ended up pumping billions of dollars into the economy. Your petty banks will close and leave and the economy won't even tickle.We're looking for better investments from Asia and the Western countries not Nigeria. Your glo company is almost dead.Even you who leave in Ghana is an illegal immigrant including all these Nigerians studying in Ghana in unknown private universities without their residence permits. You guys force yourself unto Ghana cos we don't even need your failed naira here.

You are trying by all means to be patriotic with all your comment, but know this.We Nigerians knows countries to respect and Ghana isn't one of those.

People commenting and taking side with d lady amazes me.Tradional wedding is all God wants from an African man b4 he can have sex with his wife.now I begin to see why many people now looses interest on church nd its people...

[quote author=surgical post=83601073]followers because of what exactly
Tell me what buhari stands for that one can look up to as a role model
Except this bandwagon thing , like supporting a club in premiership,laliga, interlia Seria etc nothing notable for supporting buhari
You may say it you know
Because we are in his regime,we can't see his benefit except hardships,he is the only one balling,including the cabal and his family[/q from my own observation,with the few decades I have spent alive in Nigeria, there's no one new govt better than the previous govt. Nigeria story is always a better yesterday according to people who have witnessed many govt passed b4 me and me have come to attests to that too...

freeze001:
Please wake up...

hey in as much as we do make mockery of many things here online, let's be sincere sometimes.Buhari got so many followers that even Atiku can't boost of not to talk of Jona of 2015