₦airaland Forum

Blue3k:
Lets see if Sanusi will give accept his fate or vacates the throne. Gandolla played the game well. These traditional institutions derive their power from the state government. That means the state has the power to alter, create or destroy them.

Not in case of the Oba's down south

DonBenny77:
E get one rare joy billionaires dey get wen they recieve awoof. I know the feeling because I'm one
That feeling is priceless....

Hahahahahahhaha...you na kabaka wey dey announce billions in account?

DonBenny77:
Ororo is in tears now
See what he's missing

Na wa for u o, Ororo wey fit buy all if he wish to,though na waste of funds...

chinachukwu:
I will try to brief the issue here for help.

It has been sweet since i started dating my (4years) girlfriend. We faced so many challenges on the line which i forgave her and still moved on.
Recently for over (4) months, it has not been going smoothly between us, she exchanges words with me, her EGO increased so much that it was unbearable for me, she hardly to talk me on WhatsApp, when i try to explain her faults she will tackle me and say that i always find fault in her and so much more. I had to summon her to my school to settle things though she said she doesn't have money for Tfare i had to send her some money to come because it was too much to endure. She came in October and we settled our differences, she left for her school while i was in my own school.
Two weeks after she left my school, she started acting strange again and worst than the previous problem. This time she only calls ones (1min), She will log out on me on WhatsApp without telling me that she's about to leave, and a lot of things she did that made me so uncomfortable. This is the girl that always calls me 3-4 times a day and i do call her, the sudden drop on how much we call each other got me worried that I had to endure/neglect her but due to the love i had for her, I will still call her attention and explain things to her and tell her how relationship runs, also that lack of communication kills a relationship and all my advice/warnings to her never stopped anything. (She's 21).
I concluded that i won't tell her to visit me in school that whatever she wanna do let her do it, someday she said to me that she would like to visit me which i obliged because i needed to know what was wrong all those time she was in school. My mind was to monitor her phone calls and chat to know if i would see anything fishy, mind you, I don't go through her phones but her actions, when she was in her school, made me to..
So i took her phone and told her to unlock the phone that i wanted to take some movies so she unlocked it (fingerprint) and i insisted that she should tell me the code so i shouldn't worry her to unlock the phone when locked again and she told me the code, I quickly went to her text messages and saw messages she sent to a guy she saved her name with “Frances boo” I opened the message and saw some sensitive words like “I am so worried about you” why didn't you pick my calls” “I love you” etc I got angry and quickly rushed to her WhatsApp to see her chat with the guy, I opened the WhatsApp and it was locked and can only be unlocked with fingerprint, I thought of what to do and i wouldn't want to call her attention to use her fingerprint so a thought came to my mind to add my own fingerprint since i know the password. I did that and accessed the WhatsApp and searched for the “Frances boo”, I saw there chat and a lot of sensitive message, “that she didn't sleep well because he didn't call” “that she can't wait to go out with him after their exam" “she misses him, that he was looking so handsome” “that they look like couple on the picture they snapped" a lot of sensitive messages and i checked the call log she always call this guy (outgoing calls) most times before calling me.

Meanwhile when all these were happening she had a problem with her roommate in school which I said to her that i won't get myself involved again because the last time i did she later blamed me and said what got me angry but i later listened to her concerning the problem with her roommate, So as i was checking her chat with the guy “Frances boo” i saw that she equally told him the same issues and the guy gave him his own advice. After finding all these things i called her and started asking her questions about the guy which she said that the guy is just her( best friend) in school that he's their 001 in dept.
I said to her that i don't believe her that she should pack her clothes and leave my house that moment that myself is also leaving, she pleaded me not to leave which i relaxed not to leave because i don't like to travel with bitter mind... So throughout that day, I didn't talk to her and didn't buy her own meals from that moment until i left school. She begged throughout that night that she is sorry, that nothing happened between them, that it was just a chat, Meanwhile when all those chats were going on she was chatting roughly with me.
She has been begging and sending text messages for me to forgive her.
I can't trust this girl anymore and had it been i never found out it would lead to sex and she will never tell me. I equally find out that she borrowed the guy “france boo” her shoe to wear during their final paper.
She has sworn to me that nothing sexual happened between them, that the guy never touched her boobs/ ass that she's ready to swear to any ORACLE to prove it or to take an OATH, those words weakened me and i was thinking of forgiving her but it's difficult because she always wants me to believe that there is nothing like that, that she's not like other lose girl, she has said so many things to me to believe/ trust her that she didn't keep! Like i warned her about going on a date with other guys or seeking a free lift from guys she doesn't know when it's not late to where she is going, all this she violated it and i still forgave her and a lot more And so scared that if eventually, i forgive her she will UP her game next time. And this girl is the one i wish to marry.

Please what do i do in this situation, I am baffled and sorry for the blunders �

Lol...21 of age abi then ready for more and more heartbreak, girls of that age are usually very careless and dumb in handling relationships. My own then always make best friends with her toaster las las one chop apples leave leaf for Adam come say na Adam join eve chop am

Beverlyjean:
A friend of mine is in desperate need of advice... She had unprotected sex with a married man... Her fear now is that she feels it might affect her in the future because she knew he was married before she did it...

She regrets her actions... She said she never planned it, although the man had always been disturbing her, but she felt she could control the situation when she visited him, but one thing led to another after a couple of drinks and they ended up having unprotected sex.

The man in question is old enough to be her father according to her but she still doesn't know why she did what she did because at that time she was having relationship issues. She has ended all ties with the man but her fear is that if what she did will affect her in the future because she doesn't want her future husband to ever cheat on her.

She is so broken now and confused... Again she doesn't know how her next boyfriend will think she's that type of person that sleeps with married men if he finds out what she did, because her boyfriend ended the relationship when she told him, although it happened before they met. She doesn't want her next boyfriend to treat her with disrespect if he finds out or make her loose her value.

I can't advice your friend na,she's a total stranger. So just admit it's you then I can advice you proper.Just commenting for a friend though

izombie:
maybe you also would've confidently say drogba was using iphone 11 abi?

Drogba that was then Samsung ambassador is seen using iPhone. Abeg make we nor dey kee ourselves for baseless arguments.

Ebullience:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/12/oshiomhole-not-under-house-arrest-john-mayaki/

The way you guys carry and believe fake news really scares me, as I share same country with people who are just bitter for hate and nothing more.If tomorrow Obaseki mend things with osho,you people will start hating on.how on earth would ever thought osho will be under house arrest in Edo state.

[quote author=Mrop post=84875432]Suspected Internet fraudster, Ismaila Mustapha popularly known Mompha, Make his first post on his page recently after he was released from EFCC detention.


https://www.instagram.com/p/B6Ac2nwFiz5/?igshid=666bw31i5pes[/quote

Bros nor green buy or use wristwatch again o,buy Jersey snap like u broke man

989900:
And it's probably on mortgage; not paid in cash.

Africa, oh my Africa . . .

Bro even if na cash, if Obama was ever corrupt by taking Americans 1 dollar, we would have seen it uncovered since he got out of the ova office.we think its efcc that only works for present govt and not for the constitution....

CaptainMeks:
More

If not for say our money nor get value, me for nor travel leave this country at all. Naija sweet o

SirAce:
Nigerians Una be hypocrite sha, If it was Goodluck or OBJ that did this, Una go scream Corruption Country wey people hate themselves especially here on nairaland

calm down,he earned his money... he even sold his old house $15m to buy $11m worth of house.you see how they do things in a formal nd clean ways.

Butterscotch92:
I know I'm going to receive a lot of bashing here but I don't mind as I'm looking for solution. I've been following other related threads on the topic and it seems most men don't forgive women that cheated on them.

I cheated on my man. This happened over a year ago when the relationship was going through a rough patch. Actually I didn't set out to cheat and never planned it.

In fact the person it happened with was a person I was confiding in when I was trying to get solutions to my relationship issues.

This person was my married colleague that I joined to work in his car. I thought I could get mature advice by telling him. I was weak and emotionally down and on one of such days of crying to him it happened in his car.

It happened like 3 more times because I go to work with him and come back with him. But I was overcome with guilt (because he was married and for cheating) that I had to stop. But my mistake was that I didn't cut him off completely.

I remained cordial friends with him since he is a colleague and I stopped joining his car. He also moved to another branch. He called occasionally to try his luck but I never gave in. Somehow my man became suspicious by his calls and one thing led to the other and I had to confess.

My man said he has forgiven but can't get back together again. I have been following other threads with similar topics and I saw that men find it very hard to forgive a woman that once cheated.

In this case I'm truly sorry, I have learnt my lessons and I can never make that kind of mistake again. I don't love the man in question, I never wanted anything from him apart from advice from the onset, I stopped on my own, I only remained friends because he was my colleague. I love my man and will do anything to keep him and win his trust back. I'm not a cheat by nature.

I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt and regret. I can't talk to anyone in my circle for fear of condemnation because I'm wrong in every area.

Please is there any hope for me? How do I go about winning him back? How do I convince him that I truly regret my actions? How do I help him heal?

Sorry o,in my honest opinion once a woman cheat,forget it she's gone forever in that act.

JERRY1925:
Sometimes when a man genuinely love you.. He wants you just to himself. Your body becomes his pride.. Because in most cases that's the only thing a man values in a woman.. It's priceless knowing you have a girl or a wife no other man can touch.
It's priceless knowing u have a girl u can leave for weeks and she's intact.
But for women it's different, u don't really value our body that much.. U value our possessions, our future.. Our strength and if we fall short, u change course.

Well, to my answer.. If u truly love your man.. Stay away from your friend...stay so far away.
Give your man some month..prove to him you've stayed far. Prove to him it won't happen again..you can do this, by giving yourself time to heal and also giving him some space to miss u. He will come around. But give him time to think. And don't give him room for second thought.

Bro within months that man has gotten another sweet babe o

lackren:
Nigerian Vice President, Professor Yemi Osinbajo, has condemned the the Department of State Security (DSS) invasion of a court and re-arrest of Omoyele Sowore, by declining to receive an anti-corruption award days after the incident.

Mr Osinbajo, a law professor and Senior Advocate of Nigeria, has been criticised by many Nigerians for not commenting publicly on the Friday invasion of an Abuja Federal High Court by operatives of the State Security Service.

In what can be considered his first public statement on the matter, Mr Osinbajo told the Wole Soyinka Centre for Investigative Journalism (WSCIJ) that he could not receive an award he had been given, few days after the court fiasco. READ FULL STORY HERE

The truth is VP power get k leg,else DSS for don tell us watin enter their head dat fateful day

ebusmus:
my brother all the institutions that we think we have are lame,we need a reform,let's build institutions that are more powerful than politicians.if the police and dss is answerable to the supreme court and not the presidency,do you honestly think this kind of anarchy will befall us?

But what I think about the laws that governs all security agencies around the globe is the country's constitution which Nigeria owns is well written down.so we have all the institutions but we lack capable and men of integrity to down them.

royalamour:
Source: http://saharareporters.com/2019/12/06/breaking-hired-thugs-invade-court-sowores-trial-resumes

Our concience in this part of the world is sold already to the devil.during slave trade I guess...

designking:
Until we fight the government to create institutions that works irrespective of the power of president, we will keep producing dictators as leaders.

Our institutions are oppressive tools in the hand of the president. Without public outcry and protest against human right abuses and mal-administration of the government of the day, evil and violence will keep growing until it consumes the entire nation.

The time to leave this nation is now.

Bro we have all the institutions, but people heading them don't care to build a name and live a legacy just as their counterparts in advance countries...

fergie001:
https://www.thecable.ng/our-state-overtaken-by-bandits-senators-behind-social-media-hate-speech-bills-cry-out

That's hate speech na, why would you call dem bandits...please try use a more suitable name for ur follow country men.nonsense nd senators

Knox123:


One scratch card can be used by drivers in a week or more after purchase. Nigerians has a way of bypassing things. What they (drivers) simply do is that they would refused to give the card to revenue collectors for validation.

The next day, they flash that same card to collectors while driving fast telling them "I done buy ticket oo"

Not in Benin sha,because they have points each to hold every vehicle plying their root for verification...

seborrhic:
The bitter truth but it looks like something that he wore during the campaigns.
But anyone that is comparing Atiku to Buhari is like comparing Sir Alex Ferguson(Atiku) to Ole Gunnar Sokhchaer Man Utd.
Sokhchaer is a pure scam:everyone knew Sokhjaer had a disastrous coaching record(Led Cardiff to relegation then coached a glorified league 2 team in Molde of Norway).Just like Buhari was a disaster as a military ruler,with his first term as civilian president reinvigorating his incompetence.
Sokhjaer then won a few games in his first few matches,like the propaganda that Buhari had integrity and ousted Maitatsine.
But soon as Sokhjaer was given the full time job,he has set all sorts of bad records for MUtd and has effectively turned them to a mid table team at best.
Buhari is almost taking Nigeria to comparative relegation when all sectors are considered.

Anybody born between 1900 and 1980 can't save Nigeria from its present mess,that's what I have come to believe, with what has been happening over the years in our govt.

jesusjnr:
If this man is a true man of God, what happened to his gates of hell prophecy against this president while he was still merely a presidential candidate?

The gates of hell didn't prevail, as the presidential candidate he spoke against became president, while the corrupt sitting-president he supported, who oversaw the brutal rape and plundering of the nation's economy finances, lost his re-election attempt.

The gates of hell didn't still prevail against this his enemy after his enemy fell sick and was at the point of death, for his enemy came back from the shadows of death, and fully recovered from his sickness, and to the glory of God has been stronger ever since for over a year now.

The gates of hell didn't still prevail against his enemy, after this so-called man of God threw his weight behind another embezzler of the nation's resources during the last election, for his enemy yet defeated the person he supported and won re-election.

If this man was really a man of God, why does it appear as though God not backing him up so far, that all he wished and pronounced against his enemy has failed woefully, that it even seems as though his enemy was the one with God's backing and not him?

It's obvious that God cannot back the words of a hater of the poor, who fights for corruption and the corrupt, and against those who fight for the poor and against corruption.

This is not a man of God but a man of mammon, so he shouldn't expect God to back him up, but mammon who he serves.

God bless.

Only a witch can tell of another mr mammon

sarrki:
President Buhari declares Open Chief of Army Staff's Annual Conference 2019 and commissions 44 Nigerian Army Reference Hospital in Kaduna State on 3rd Dec 2019

Army Conference 4: President Buhari with Kaduna State Governor Mallam Nasir El-Rufai and Chief of Army Staff Lt. Gen. TY Buratai as he receives a presentation shortly after declaring Open Chief of Army Staff's Annual Conference 2019 in Kaduna State on 3rd Dec 2019

Army Conference 1,10: President Buhari with Kaduna State Governor Mallam Nasir El-Rufai, Chief of Army Staff Lt. Gen. TY Buratai, Former Head of State Gen. Yakubu Gowon, Minister of Defence Maj. Gen. Bashir Magashi (Rtd) and other dignitaries during the commissioning of 44 Nigerian Army Reference Hospital in Kaduna State on 3rd Dec 2019

Funny thing is most of the people there in highest of positions are sponsors to the alleged terrorist and we keep paying them to sponsors their boys...hate speech abi,but una never pass am so I fit talk b4 then na.las las all Nigerians go enter finish.

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

You're just like every other Nigerian girl, the difference btw u the some is you bold enough to outlines all out.
Now you want all perfect man but you seems to forget that no man on earth has dat, not even our fathers.no disrespect to them.
Why not settle for someone who's gonna easy for u to share ur dreams with nd see if he won't join you in making some of it come thru.
Remember, majority of successful people now,where sometimes in their life rejected and seen as no future ambitions person.you might have been looking at some less less.
But just try and drop ur guard a little.

ijustdey:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/dad-left-only-n7000-in-his-account-as-former-head-of-state-murtala-muhammeds-son.html

Na account you talk na,how about the ones you people changed to dollars and stock them like clothes in luggage...yeye dey smell

BleedingPen:
http://igberetvnews.com/1175359/police-van-officers-set-ablaze-anambra-community-graphic-photos/

You can't win ur govt win it comes to war,get ready ipob...

sarrki:
President Buhari performs Ground Breaking Ceremony of the University of Transportation in Daura and commissions road by Katsina State Government on 2nd Dec 2019

UTDaura 2: President Buhari with L-R: Kano State Governor Abdullahi Umar Ganduje, Katsina State Governor Aminu Bello Masari, Minister of Transportation Rotimi Amaechi, Ambassador of China to Nigeria Dr Zhou Pingjian and MD CCECC Nig. Ltd. Mr Jiang Yigao shortly after performing Ground Breaking Ceremony of the University of Transportation in Daura on 2nd Dec 2019

Katsina Road 2: President Buhari with Katsina State Governor Aminu Bello Masari, Katsina State Deputy Governor Alh. Manir Yakubu and other dignitaries at the commissioning of Randa Doguru-Gallu Kwanar-Gwanti-Shargalle road built by Katsina State Government on 2nd Dec 2019

See the way they are clapping hands with ease and free mind,if na church wey poor people filled now,pastor go be like you can do better than that if that word was ur urs.lol

gidgiddy:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/soldiers-police-attack-my-lawyers-house-kill-three-nnamdi-kanu/amp/

This na strictly ipob post o,if u want die young don't sympathise with the dead ipob and start hating on Nigeria govt.

MisterGrace:
Kogi State Government relieves appointees of posts.

Kogi State Governor, Alhaji Yahaya Bello has sacked all political appointees in its cabinet and directed all of them to hand over government properties in their possession to the most senior officers in their various Ministries, Agencies and parastatals.

A statement signed by the Secretary to the State Government, Dr Ayoade Folashade said the Governor has also directed that appointees of the governor, those in the office of the deputy governor, the first lady and the wife of the deputy governor are exempted from the directive.

Also exempted are Commissioners, the Auditor General, the Accountant General and appointees in their offices.


http://www.editorialtimes.com/breaking-gov-bello-sacks-all-political-appointees/

After d Reggae na blues na

Nor be advanced fee fraud be yahoo yahoo dat year,so na yahoo dem take curse Nigeria

EBMedia:
IgbereTV reports that Dino Melaye has said that the newly elected senator representing Kogi West, Smart Adeyemi is still his ‘Political wife’.

Melaye said this while lamenting the outcome of Saturday’s Rerun Senatorial election in Kogi State.

Melaye vowed to reclaim his seat at the Senate, adding that he started politics before Adeyemi, hence he will still remain his political wife no matter what happened.

Speaking on Channels Tv, he said: “There was no election, there was only an attempt to kill me.

“I want to assure you that Smart Adeyemi would remain my political wife. I started politics before him.

“I will reclaim my mandate because I was voted. I won the election, but through the instrumentality of violence and national conspiracy, these have been tampered with. I want to assure Nigerians that it is temporal.”



http://igberetvnews.com/1175048/dino-melaye-smart-adeyemi-still-political-wife/

We know u won't shut up without a fight so u won't seems like a coward.

[quote author=istina post=84544771]So what happens to millions of unemployed youths who currently have accounts

Does it means they will be unable to receive their monthly stipend from family and friends who give them a token just to keep them from suicide before they are gainfully employed? [/quote
This is actually my thought and me fall under the category o

Hello mumu, when did Quran turns into a contraband commodity that u can't find ursef...attention seeking bitch.